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pscot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 07:15 PM
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I've been tea-total sober for a year now
and I've hated every goddamned minute of it. On the positive side, my money seems to go a lot farther nowdays. And if I hadn't quit, I'd probably be dead by now, so so I've got that goin' for me.
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Bluzmann57 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 07:20 PM
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1. Congrats to you!
You said you hated every minute of it, but it did save your life, so that's a good thing. And extra coin never hurts either.
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Tobin S. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 07:41 PM
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2. Congrats! It will be a year for me on New Year's Day.
New Year's Eve is going to be tough, but I've volunteered to be a designated driver so that ought to make things easier for me.
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BOSSHOG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 07:54 PM
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3. Good for you and hang in there
I wish you the best My Friend

To thine own self be true!
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pscot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 08:13 PM
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5. I get a little twitchy now and then
but apart from the first few months it's been easier than I thought it would be. I was a hard drinker all my life, but I guess wasn't really addicted. But the booze never quits talking to you, trying to get back in.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 08:12 PM
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4. My dear pscot!
Congratulations!

Living is a whole lot better than being dead, for sure!

Hang in there...

:hug:
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pscot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 08:24 PM
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6. Thanks Peggy
Life gets more entertaining every day. I have stick around, just to see how it turns out
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Canuckistanian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 08:31 PM
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7. Good for you
It's good to know one's limits and capacity for self-control.

Mainly, it's usually about the impact on others that make the final difference.

Congratulations.

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Tikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 08:34 PM
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8. Congrats to you....I am glad you are not dead.....
When my adult children embraced their sobriety....I decided, also, to drink no more.

It does save money and I catch more of the in-depth conversations
with my attention crystal clear.

Tikki
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Demoiselle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 10:22 PM
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9. Congratulations!
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 10:25 PM
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10. Good for you. By the way, it's spelled "teetotal."
Redstone
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pscot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 11:15 PM
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11. Let's just say I'm a late blooming nephalist
Edited on Sun Dec-13-09 11:16 PM by pscot
:P
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rebel with a cause Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-14-09 01:59 AM
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15. Smarty pants..
Had to look nephalist up because I had forgotten of its existence. :eyes:
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rebel with a cause Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-14-09 01:56 AM
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14. You beat me to it..
As a life long teetotaler, I salute the ones who have had to give it up.
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 11:17 PM
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12. You hate it less as the years go by.
Hang in there.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-13-09 11:33 PM
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13. First year is the hardest
No wait, I hate to tell you...the first 5 years is the hardest. After that, it gets..less difficult.
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-14-09 05:40 AM
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16. Nice to be alive to complain about it! Congratulations....
Edited on Mon Dec-14-09 05:42 AM by old mark
I wish you many more complaining years ahead.

(I'm working on 22 years myself......)

mark

Added: Quitting cigarettes was way, way harder......
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Rhiannon12866 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-14-09 06:38 AM
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17. Congratulations!
I have seven-and-a-half months, one day at a time. I've hated it, too, much of the time, but it sure beats the alternative. I sympathize, my friend, and I also applaud you! :applause:

For you, most well-deserved: :woohoo:
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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-14-09 11:11 AM
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18. Congrats.
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