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Bicoastal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-16-09 10:33 PM
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To all the Ladies of the World...A question.
What did I ever to do you? Honestly...:(
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-16-09 10:39 PM
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1. My dear Bicoastal...
Why, what on earth?

You have never done anything evil to me...

What's going on?

:hug:
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Bicoastal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-16-09 10:58 PM
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2. A date cancelled yesterday.
This had been in the works for almost a week, and at the time she seemed really excited and flattered to be asked. Yesterday morning, she was contrite and apologetic and all that and even asked how she could make it up to me...

So I wrote back and said, well, let's do something this weekend. That was Tuesday morning. It's Wednesday night now, so I'm about ready to give up on the whole thing.
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hedgehog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-16-09 11:03 PM
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3. I have no idea what's going though her mind, but I know I'm pretty
much booked solid until after New year's visiting family and all. Maybe she had somebody putting pressure on her to be some place (well, if a date is more mprtatn thatn you than great uncle john's last Christmas, then go on your date, I'm sure he'll understand...")?
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-16-09 11:04 PM
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4. Ah, I wouldn't give up just yet...
Can you call her?

I'd give her till tomorrow...

Maybe call...

Were her excuses valid, or sound valid?

I'm sorry, sweetie...

:hug:
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Lydia Leftcoast Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-16-09 11:06 PM
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5. Sometimes there are circumstances
Without going into detail, sometimes family pressures can derail a relationship.

There is one time in particular, when I was very young and easily intimidated, when I wish I had told my mother to forget about my presence at a certain relatively unimportant family event, because the young man took my cancellation of our date as a rejection and never spoke to me again.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-17-09 12:11 AM
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6. I WILL KICK BICOASTAL ASS AND CLUE HIM IN
YES INDEED
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-17-09 12:17 AM
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7. Women are as dumb as men are
One time, back in the day, Mr. Hottie Famous Poet asked my mom out.

She was SO FLUSTERED she said "I have to take care of my sister."

Like, :wtf: My mom's sister was a year younger than she was, and perfectly capable of taking care of herself.

He never asked her out again. :(
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kimi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-17-09 12:41 AM
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8. It's been a long time since I've been in the dating pool
but, if she asked how she could make it up to you, I'd consider that a positive sign.

JMHO.
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