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lightningandsnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 08:08 AM
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Do you think some people really enjoy feeling personally offended?
Edited on Mon Dec-28-09 08:09 AM by lightningandsnow
Crazy ex posted this on her facebook today: According to sandy (caucasia), too much privelege leads to bad manners. i heart this statement becos it validates the horrible experiences i have had with some white people. wince.

I really want to comment about how crazy ex seems to enjoy her own outrage and how I have non-verbal learning disorder so I can't always say/do the right thing socially, but I'm sure she'd just say it was my white privilege.

Actually, I'm about to comment with this: "Yelling at a depressed person for being depressed is also bad manners. Even if they are white." Bad idea?
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 08:37 AM
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1. ignore her. she is doing this for attention. most indians go to western docs when they are
sick, are they all racist agaisnt their own herbalists? fucking idiotic
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Mopar151 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 10:30 AM
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2. It's a lifestyle choice...
That a lot fewer people should elect.
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la_chupa Donating Member (357 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 10:54 AM
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3. stay away from crazy ex and you'll be happier
true story
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 11:10 AM
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4. Bad idea? Yes. Cathartic? Maybe.
I can't really ever argue against catharsis though...it'll make you feel better in the short-term, it might just create more problems in the longer term than it was worth.

Me? I'd say nothing and rest comfortably-smug that her own status makes her look like a racist. There is a difference between identifying white privilege so that one can mitigate or overcome it and using it as a scapegoat for every problem in your mundane life. The second demeans the suffering of people actually being oppressed.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:12 PM
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7. well said,
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JustABozoOnThisBus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:06 PM
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5. Why are you checking out the ex's facebook info?
Not as "ex" as you thought?

:hi:
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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:09 PM
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6. It's an attention magnet.
"Oh I'm sooooo offended!" almost always draws a crowd.
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kedrys Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:17 PM
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8. A Bloom County oldie but goldie on the subject
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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:19 PM
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9. Pretty much sums it.
:rofl: Thanks for posting that -- one of my favorites.
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yellowcanine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:19 PM
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10. Yes Virginia there is such a thing as an Offense Whore.
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bookworm65t Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 02:19 PM
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11. Didn't know you met some of my sisters?
Who thunk it? :)
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Tailormyst Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 02:42 PM
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12. I would suggest just blocking her from facebook and moving on with your life.
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