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Fri Jan-15-10 01:47 PM
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My grandma just passed the other night |
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She was 95. Sure, there's a body still breathing on life support in the hospital. But some time in the night she had a stroke, and is now braindead. The doctors are just waiting for everything to shut down.
First my Aunt and now Grandma.
I am sick of all this death...
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Fri Jan-15-10 02:19 PM
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1. Safe passage to your grandma. |
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May she be free from suffering. Peace and comfort to you and yours, Taverner.
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Fri Jan-15-10 03:03 PM
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She had to bury her own Daughter (my Aunt) - thats something no one should ever have to do...
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Fri Jan-15-10 02:53 PM
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Fri Jan-15-10 03:00 PM
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It's never easy saying goodbye.
Peaceful passage for your Grandma and comfort for you. :hug:
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Fri Jan-15-10 03:01 PM
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5. To you and your entire family |
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Fri Jan-15-10 03:05 PM
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11. I'm sorry you're having to deal with so much, man. |
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We're here for you. :grouphug:
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Last year was like that for our family, Grandma then Mama. It's very hard not to think about death almost obsessively when it hits so hard in a short period of time. I still have a bit of trouble not thinking of it. I mean not just thinking about lost loved one's but also thinking about death itself. I just try not to keep second guessing what could have gone differently or blame and try to realize it just is. Just know that you were lucky to have had her and try to celebrate her life. I hope you can cope okay while you wait for time to do it's healing work because all told life is much more pleasant to think about. Sending you a hug :hug:
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Fri Jan-15-10 04:58 PM
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21. Thanks - its weird - in the back of my mind I thought she'd always be there |
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Uberhealthy, even in death - both my mom and I think the shock of seeing her daughter and first born die sent her over the edge...
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Fri Jan-15-10 03:44 PM
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17. My condolences Taverner |
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Fri Jan-15-10 03:49 PM
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18. I am very sorry for your loss. |
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Safe passage to grandma. :hug:
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Fri Jan-15-10 04:34 PM
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19. You and your family are in my thoughts |
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Can't say it wasn't expected, but still a shock when it hits..
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Fri Jan-15-10 04:36 PM
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20. Oh, oh... I am so sorryTav. |
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Blessings to you and your family.
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Fri Jan-15-10 06:02 PM
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:hug:
How are things with you?
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Fri Jan-15-10 06:46 PM
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It's been really cold down here, we just warmed up this week!!
I am glad you are back! :)
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Fri Jan-15-10 06:50 PM
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28. It is never easy,Taverner. |
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I wish peace on you and yours,and may your grama rest peacefully also.
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Fri Jan-15-10 06:51 PM
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29. Sorry for your loss Taverner...n/t |
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Fri Jan-15-10 06:54 PM
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30. Very sorry to hear this... |
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31. Very sorry to hear this... |
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Fri Jan-15-10 09:02 PM
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32. So much sadness, I'm sorry. |
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Fri Jan-15-10 09:18 PM
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My grandfather passed away one year ago this coming Tuesday(the 19th). He was in very poor health and it was expected but it is still very hard to deal with. You are in my thoughts. :hug:
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Fri Jan-15-10 11:53 PM
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37. I'm very sorry Taverner . |
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Safe passage to your Grandmother. :hug:
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