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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 07:08 PM
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Well, she's taking him back.
Guy with a few restraining orders from previous relationships.

Guy who wants her to co-sign for him (she's known/lived with him a few months)

Has a full time job yet she paid the rent/food/bills for her, her daughter, and him and his two kids (on weekends).

Texted her 46 times in one night after she booted him out and changed the locks.

Told her her 15 year old daughter OWED him an explanation as to why she didn't like him living with them.

Daughter told her it's her or him.

When he gave her a teeny little engagement ring, told her he "owned" her.

Showed up at her workplace after she saw the police.

Is otherwise possessive and creepy.



Now she (my friend) is "working things out". :eyes:
And people wonder why I'm "picky".



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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 07:26 PM
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1. Crap. That will not end well.
I hope it ends with her still alive. :scared:
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 08:07 PM
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4. Or broke......
she's going to get a settlement from her divorce and he's going to get it.
With her permission.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 07:28 PM
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2. Why do people DO this?
Sounds like a textbook case of abused partner, codependent, destructive, neurotic behavior. I don't get it.

There is no way this will have a happy ending.
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Darth_Kitten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-11-10 08:06 PM
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3. She's making herself a victim.......
She has options, she doesn't need this creep.

I feel so sorry for her daughter.
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