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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:09 PM Original message |
How do you deal with people who are habitually late? |
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la_chupa (357 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
1. nothing useful to add here |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
2. My advice? Stay out of it. |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:48 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Your explanation is really helpful in understanding. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:34 PM Response to Reply #5 |
15. That's certainly the way I look at it. |
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suzbaby (906 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 11:45 PM Response to Reply #15 |
37. My thinking on it.... |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 03:34 AM Response to Reply #37 |
43. Yep, exactly. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 03:16 AM Response to Reply #15 |
42. I was raised by someone who can't be on time for anything; I'm on time or early |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
3. It does sound like a hint of OCD plus ADHD |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:55 PM Response to Reply #3 |
8. Behavioral therapy? |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 04:46 PM Response to Reply #8 |
26. I don't know, but at a minimum, it might help you to understand the problem |
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miscsoc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 07:12 PM Response to Reply #26 |
32. I have OCD and think it sounds like she might have had it |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
4. I agree with staying out of it.. |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:52 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. They have talked about this often |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:51 PM Response to Original message |
6. There is little worse on this planet than the |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 01:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Easier said than done sometimes.... |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:33 PM Response to Reply #9 |
14. All too true |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
10. Tell them to quit meth. Worked for me. (n/t) |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:07 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. Seems you're still suffering from the aftereffects, poor guy. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:20 PM Response to Reply #11 |
13. delete |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
12. Yeah, it's a touch of OCD. Do NOT under any circumstances get involved. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:44 PM Response to Reply #12 |
17. +99 |
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RainDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:39 PM Response to Original message |
16. I'm habitually late - but my kids were NEVER LATE for school |
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skygazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:47 PM Response to Original message |
18. You don't approach the problem |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 02:51 PM Response to Original message |
19. as a person who cares about your children... |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 01:48 PM Response to Reply #19 |
45. That is what I suggested to my son... |
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hobbit709 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
20. My wife's best friend was like that |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
21. With a little luck your granddaughter can be picked up by another mom for school |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
22. It sounds like you are describing a dear friend of mine. I decided years ago |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 04:09 PM Response to Original message |
23. One of my brothers is always late, or else shows up unexpectedly - |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
24. simple |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 04:42 PM Response to Original message |
25. well for one thing...don't delay events |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 05:01 PM Response to Original message |
27. Sorry to just now be arriving to this thread..... |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 05:20 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. ... |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 11:12 PM Response to Reply #27 |
34. LOL! |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
29. I agree with jobycom |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 11:52 PM Response to Reply #29 |
38. My parents were extremely punctual |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
30. While I think you shouldn't get involved in |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 07:06 PM Response to Original message |
31. i don't go anywhere with them where it's important to be on time |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 08:06 PM Response to Original message |
33. All the one size fits all advise is probably wrong |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 11:45 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. I think it's because I had such a bad experience with my own MIL |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 02:08 AM Response to Reply #36 |
40. so it sounds like the subject is already on the table |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 01:41 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. She knows all about my own MIL experience. |
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tango-tee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 11:25 PM Response to Original message |
35. Thank all of you so much for responding. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Apr-27-10 11:59 PM Response to Original message |
39. I lie to mom about when things start. |
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abq e streeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 03:06 AM Response to Original message |
41. I tell em things start earlier than they're really scheduled for |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
46. Usually beat them in the knees with a 2x4 |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 08:19 PM Response to Original message |
47. Your last paragraph sounds like it's describing OCD |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Apr-28-10 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
48. Sounds like passive-aggressive or controlling behavior. n/t |
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