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Mr. Blonde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 08:24 PM
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Time Heals All Wounds
but what are you supposed to do in the meantime?

Other than self-medicate with wine?
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foxfeet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 08:25 PM
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1. Time also wounds all heels. Karma is as karma does.
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Mr. Blonde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 08:36 PM
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4. Heh
I finally talked to her (of course it is a her) today. And I told her I really wished I could be mad at her. It would make things a whole lot easier. But I can't. I barely can even think of mean things to say, and then when given the chance I can't say them at all.

I told her at the most I wish she would come to regret her decision. Although really I want her to realize this is the wrong road to go down and be with me.

I'm afraid I'm hopelessly in love.
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tango-tee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-02-10 04:05 AM
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10. I was going to post just those very same words.
Let karma bite the mofo in the ass. Sit back, relax. It's gonna happen.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 08:28 PM
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2. Self medicate with chocolate
:hug:
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Mr. Blonde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 08:32 PM
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3. Ironically for me
Edited on Sat May-01-10 08:33 PM by Mr. Blonde
I'm currently not eating much of anything.

I sit around moping all day trying to get stuff done and then my stomach starts hurting and it is like yeah I'm even in physical pain over this, before I finally realize I would probably feel better on that front if I ate. Yeah, I'm wallowing in this big time.

Chocolate is an idea though.
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kimi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 08:59 PM
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5. It sounds trite
But you can also self-medicate with physical exertion. Run, walk, work outside - the hotter, the sweatier the work, the better. Something physical, if possible. It helps time pass. Cause it will pass, the time. It's slow as molasses at first, but it will pass.

I'm sorry that it's rough. Take care.
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Mr. Blonde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 09:04 PM
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7. Thanks
Thankfully I have been taking up running in the mornings recently too. I definitely look forward to that time. Getting to spend energy on something else is an awesome feeling.
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HipChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 08:59 PM
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6. Lie...I still hate my ex...

in the meantime my mircowave has prob been more faithful...it never lets me down..
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Mr. Blonde Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-01-10 09:06 PM
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8. I don't hate her
At this point, I absolutely want nothing more than to be with her.

And it is her decision to cut off contact and I have lost my best friend when you most need your friends.
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tblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-02-10 03:24 AM
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9. Awww. I'm sorry.
:hug: Keep busy. Make yourself eat at least a little something. Talk to your next-closest friend. There's a great book called "How to survive the loss of a love." I highly recommend it. Take care, my friend.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-02-10 08:03 AM
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11. there will be a scar. But, the wine helps.
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