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Mon Aug-09-10 10:08 PM
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My Mother who is in hospice will be passing tonight or by morning. |
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I spent the weekend at the home where the hospice is located.
It is something to see the living start to pass over.
I have great respect for the people who work in nursing homes and hospice centers.
My mother who I really never knew, had a interesting life.
I am having strange feelings now, when my Aunt who raised me died that was hard.
This isn't the same feelings, but this woman did carry me for nine months and I owe her my time.
My mother is a Navy vet, traveled the world during WWII.
Her ashes will be spread on the old farm she grew up on, this was her wish.
I will be receiving her flag, I will proud to accept it.
Sail on Mother to the next big journey, may it be a good one.
Thanks for the letting me know you for the last few months of your life.
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Mon Aug-09-10 10:10 PM
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1. I am sorry you didn't really get to know your mom. |
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I wish her safe passage and peace to you.
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Mon Aug-09-10 10:11 PM
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2. Safe passage to your mother, texanwitch... |
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And my condolences to you. :hug:
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Mon Aug-09-10 10:18 PM
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3. Even a short time getting to know your Mom is precious |
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It says a lot about you in how much you value it.
Safe passage to your mom and condolences to you and your family. I'm glad you got an opportunity to spend some time with her!
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Mon Aug-09-10 10:21 PM
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for her, for you, for the family. I admire people who "see it through."
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Mon Aug-09-10 10:21 PM
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5. I'm so sorry texanwitch |
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Mon Aug-09-10 10:58 PM
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7. I'm sorry, texanwitch. |
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Mon Aug-09-10 10:59 PM
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This will be your last chance is there a way that you can go and say good by :hug:
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:06 PM
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10. I will be going back in a few hours. |
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Just needed to come home and get cleaned up.
My Mother is sleeping, has been sleeping for most of the weeknend.
She has alzheimers, very advanced along with her heart problem.
She has a journal she kept during WWII, I haven't read it yet.
I will take it with me to read, I will read it aloud to her.
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:31 PM
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Please, stay as long as you can and you will always be at peace with yourself because you won't have to think about the "what ifs". They didn't tell us that our dad had died 15 minutes prior to us going into his room. We talked to him for about 1/2 hour before noticing that something was terribly wrong with him. We are left with the "What if" we had gotten their earlier. :hug:
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:06 PM
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What a beautiful tribute to your mom...
I'm glad you had time to get to know her a little these last few months. I know it was good for her too...
Safe passage to her.
I hope her journey is a good one, too.
:hug:
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:07 PM
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11. I'm sorry for your loss *hugs* |
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:08 PM
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Tell your Mom to say hi to my Dad. :-)
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:24 PM
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13. My heart goes out to you.... |
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:26 PM
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14. I'm very sorry. Let's hope whatever comes next is exciting. |
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:27 PM
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15. I'm sorry for your loss... |
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. . . . . . . . ...and glad that you got to know your mom, at least for a little while. . . . I'm thinking that was good for both of you. . . . When my older brother died completely unexpectedly at 33, it was very very traumatic for me (and everyone who knew him). . . . MiddleFingerMomMom died in her sleep in hospice with advanced stage Alzheimer's. A good full life and a belief system that she would be going to a very cool place and see all her friends and relatives who passed before her. . She was ready... even eager. . . . It was about as good a passing as one could wish for. . . . She is still with me -- I can "hear" her from time-to-time... what she might have to say about different things currently. . . . Your mom will probably always be with you, too. . . . Her journey on this plane is over. I hope yours is filled with love and joy -- as well as an appreciation for the experiences you had with your mom. . . .
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Mon Aug-09-10 11:35 PM
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17. Wishing a peaceful passage to your mom, and serenity and acceptance to you |
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Which it sounds like you've attained....I'm glad the last few months were positive and productive in your relationship with her.
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Tue Aug-10-10 12:04 AM
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18. I'm sorry, texanwitch. |
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It is really nice you were able to have some time with her. Alzheimer's is awful. Peaceful passage to your mom.
And reading through her journal when you can will be fascinating.
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Tue Aug-10-10 12:10 AM
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20. Peace to you and yours. |
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I am glad you were able to connect with your mom.
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Tue Aug-10-10 07:10 AM
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21. Fair winds and following seas, sailor. |
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Rest in peace :patriot:
Condolences texanwitch
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Tue Aug-10-10 10:50 AM
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22. Safe passage to your mother. |
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May she be free from suffering. Peace and comfort to you and yours, texanwitch. :hug:
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Tue Aug-10-10 10:54 AM
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Safe passage to her :hug:
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Tue Aug-10-10 11:05 AM
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24. Thoughts and prayers for you and your mother |
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Tue Aug-10-10 11:06 AM
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25. Thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. nt |
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Tue Aug-10-10 11:06 AM
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26. Very sorry to hear this...good thoughts and vibes coming your way... |
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Tue Aug-10-10 11:18 AM
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27. Safe passage - may your memories be good ones. |
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Tue Aug-10-10 12:07 PM
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peace and comfort to you and your mother
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Tue Aug-10-10 12:11 PM
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Edited on Tue Aug-10-10 12:11 PM by Taverner
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Tue Aug-10-10 12:21 PM
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30. How are YOU, texanwitch? |
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I wish safe and painless passing for your mother, and comfort to YOU. :hug:
PS: Be checkin' your mail...somethin'll be there by the 17th or so. :loveya:
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Tue Aug-10-10 12:24 PM
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31. Safe passage to your mother... |
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peace and comfort to you and yours. :hug:
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Tue Aug-10-10 12:28 PM
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32. Will keep you in my thoughts today |
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It's always hard losing a loved one, no matter how close or distant the relationship. Hugs to you. :hug:
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Tue Aug-10-10 03:27 PM
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Please remember to take care of yourself as you go through this.
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Tue Aug-10-10 07:25 PM
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34. I thank her for her service to our country. |
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May her passing be peaceful.
Keep the good memories, and cherish them.
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Tue Aug-10-10 07:26 PM
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35. So sorry to hear this... |
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