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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:42 AM Original message |
I need advice...and as usual, I turn to the DU |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
1. Something like this: |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:52 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Excellent intro... |
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Phentex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:48 AM Response to Original message |
2. Of course you should tell her! |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:54 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Hopefully her excellent brain will come to the surface... |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
4. Tell her. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:56 AM Response to Reply #4 |
7. Yep... |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:54 AM Response to Original message |
6. You have to tell her, and I would also let her know where you got the info so |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:03 AM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Someone I know in law enforcement ran his license plate for me... |
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Arkansas Granny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:08 AM Response to Reply #9 |
11. Something sounds really fishy with this guy. Maybe he makes a habit of |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:24 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. From what we are seeing, this is a real possibility |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 02:17 PM Response to Reply #12 |
26. Is this guy a repuke, by any chance? |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:38 PM Response to Reply #26 |
32. I have no clue...but I am betting that he is. n/t |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:48 PM Response to Reply #32 |
36. Certainly sounds like it. |
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lizziegrace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:58 AM Response to Original message |
8. You've gotten excellent advice |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:04 AM Response to Reply #8 |
10. Ask the DU and get excellent advice. |
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BlancheSplanchnik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-23-10 03:05 AM Response to Reply #10 |
59. you're not hurting her... |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
13. How'd you find out about his tax liens? nt |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:19 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. I ran his name on Google... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:40 AM Response to Original message |
14. i would be so MAD if my friends denied me info. if they lied thru ommission. |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:24 PM Response to Reply #14 |
22. Yep... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:27 PM Response to Reply #22 |
23. of course you dont want to do it. and yes, it is hard |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:41 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Yep, the response on the first post... |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:45 AM Response to Original message |
15. I'm normally a big fan of minding one's own business in these types of situations. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 10:46 AM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Be prepared for a really negative reaction, though |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:23 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. Yes, we anticipate a totally negative reaction... |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:21 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. Yep, that is what my pal Rho and I have discussed... |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 03:26 PM Response to Reply #20 |
29. Just a heads-up... |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:45 PM Response to Reply #29 |
34. You know, you must be a mind reader... |
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mzteris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-23-10 12:05 PM Response to Reply #34 |
60. I'd also be worried about the fact that |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 11:06 AM Response to Original message |
17. "You KNEW?! Why didn't you tell me before he got me pregnant?!" |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:20 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. She's 71 years old and there is a playpen left, but no nursery! |
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Born_A_Truman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 01:52 PM Response to Reply #19 |
25. I would be very concerned for her if she confronts him ... |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:40 PM Response to Reply #25 |
33. I am against her confronting him, too. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:59 PM Response to Reply #33 |
40. It sounds as if there's a pretty good chance he may have |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 06:56 PM Response to Reply #40 |
43. OMG.... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 07:55 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. Scammers have been around for centuries... |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 03:03 PM Response to Reply #19 |
28. Gotcha. nt |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
27. You might bring print-outs of the dirt you found on him, too, assuming you have legal access to it |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:46 PM Response to Reply #27 |
35. I've got the tax lien stuff printed and the NV corp docs with his real name... |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 03:44 PM Response to Original message |
30. does she have any family you can bring on as allies? |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:49 PM Response to Reply #30 |
37. Rho and I talked about that... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:57 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. You may wish to re-think the daughter being involved... |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 06:57 PM Response to Reply #39 |
44. What you said... |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 07:56 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. If it was my mother, I would be extremely grateful |
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suninvited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
31. the sooner the better |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 04:51 PM Response to Reply #31 |
38. Yeah, we thought about that... |
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Redstone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
41. "Rat bastard?" I thought I was the only one who used that term. But if you |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 06:58 PM Response to Reply #41 |
45. You sum it up well... |
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lunatica (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
42. If you don't tell her then you're no friend of hers! |
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Hepburn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 06:59 PM Response to Reply #42 |
46. I don't kn ow if she is in love with him. but... |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 08:12 PM Response to Original message |
49. After reading all the posts to this point. |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 08:30 PM Response to Original message |
50. A psychopath was in my life and destroyed it. I talked to him in a bar and that |
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LiberalAndProud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:07 PM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Would you have listened? |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:19 PM Response to Reply #51 |
52. Of course I would have. And I even figured him out to be a sociopath and told |
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TorchTheWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Oct-21-10 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
53. you actually need to ask? |
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snagglepuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-22-10 06:59 PM Response to Original message |
54. Dup. Self-delete. |
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snagglepuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-22-10 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
55. Tread carefully. I'm no expert but you might get sued for slander if your |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-22-10 07:26 PM Response to Reply #55 |
56. But is it slander if they are sitting at the computer with her showing her the google returns??? |
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snagglepuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-22-10 07:52 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I think you have to proceed with caution. What if this is a case of mistaken identity? |
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GreenPartyVoter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Oct-22-10 07:54 PM Response to Reply #57 |
58. That seems like a reasonable approach. |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-23-10 12:10 PM Response to Original message |
61. You tell her what you |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Oct-23-10 06:38 PM Response to Original message |
62. Please tell your friend. Please let us know you have done so. |
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Lindsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Oct-24-10 02:49 AM Response to Reply #62 |
63. I know it's a horrible situation but you MUST tell her. n/t |
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