I came home from work and he was gone...

[Divameow77]

only a note to tell me has to leave, He must have taken my heart with him because I can't feel it anymore.

After 5 years together he doesn't want to be a part of my and my boys life anymore. I don't know how I'm gonna do it without him :cry:

[Angry Dragon]

1. ...........

:hug:

[kwassa]

2. He is a coward.

He didn't sit down and deal, but ran away.

I am sorry for you and your boys.

[bigwillq]

3. You're going to do it because you have to do it.

:hug: I am so sorry this has happened. :hug: Surround yourself with a good support group. They'll likely be tough days, but you're stronger than you think.

[Sky Masterson]

4. This is only a moment

And it will pass and you will survive it(As sad as it is). :hug:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JbdX94df3OM
That said. I'm sorry you and your sons are sad. :(

[Phentex]

5. Wow, I am so sorry!...

I can't believe he left that way.

:hug:

[Divameow77]

6. I am just devastated

I don't think I have ever hurt this bad. It's so hard to imagine getting up everyday without him in bed next to me

[CaliforniaPeggy]

7. I am so sorry, my dear Divameow77...

That is such a cowardly thing to do to you and your boys...

Please take care of yourself.


:hug:

[GCP]

8. So sorry

:hug:

[rurallib]

9. It will get better - it will get better.

time does heal even the worst of wounds.

[Curmudgeoness]

10. Oh god, what a chicken shit way to do this! I am so sorry

that you are now alone, and that he did it this way. Good god.

You will get through this. And you will be better for it after this initial shock.

Hold your head up. :hug:

[MiddleFingerMom]

11. I'm so sorry this has happened to you and your boys.

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At first, if for nothing else, you HAVE to get through this for your boys. You can thank them
for that later... because as time goes by you'll find more and more ways and reasons to get
through it for yourself, too.
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I hope you have friends and/or family upon whom to lean and rely and to whom you can turn.
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Whether you do or do not... there will ALWAYS be people here, friends or even strangers :hi:
who care about you and will listen and try to help if they can.
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You are much stronger than you probably think right now. Truth is... we ALL are much stronger
than we usually think we are.
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It WILL get better. Reach down to your core -- where your true strength is right now almost
certainly gearing up to give you what you need -- and you will feel it... however faintly.
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Strength and healing vibes and love to you and your boys.
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[nolabear]

12. I hope you have lots of love and support. I'm so sorry.

[snacker]

13. I am so sorry.

Heartbreak is a devastating thing to go through. It was cowardly of him to leave you with only a note...you deserve better than that.

[Bunny]

14. Wow, what a chickenshit way to leave.

I'm sorry you're going through this. :hug:

[Tikki]

15. I am so sad for what you are feeling, now...

I know there is pain...I know it will get better. The boys know you
love them and will always be there for them.

Hugs
Tikki:hug:

[Brigid]

16. What a weakling he is.

Stupid, too, considering what he is throwing away. But you and your boys have each other. :hug:

[david13]

17. You got along without him before you met hm, and you can get along

without him now.
If you don't know how at the moment, give it some thought, over time. If you still don't know how, give it a little more time, and much more likely than not, the way will appear to you.
dc

[mia]

18. I'm sorry, Divameow77.

I know this is hard for you right now. Be strong and happy that you have your boys. So many live alone with no one to console them. Being happy for what you have helps the healing go faster.

[applegrove]

19. vibes to you.

[seabeyond]

20. just a hug and, i am sorry.

be in the numb feel of it for now. plenty of time to deal with it later.

take care of you and your boys.

[Chellee]

21. You'll be fine without him.

If he can behave this way, he isn't worthy of you anyway. You deserve better. I am sorry you're feeling so torn apart, it will get better.

[mzteris]

22. I had a neighbor

who put her husband through grad school.

The Monday after graduation, she came home from work to a nearly empty apartment and a note saying "c'ya". He walked out on her and his 4 yr old daughter.

Unfortunately, she became so desperate for a man in her life after she took up with a meth addict. Last time I saw her (about 22 years ago) her and her daughter looked like hell - dirty and unkempt.

Be GRATEFUL THE ASSHOLE IS GONE! Yes, it hurts, but he's done you a favor by leaving now instead of ten years from now, right? Focus on you and your kids. Do not get involved with anyone else for at least a year!

I'm sorry for your pain. I don't mean to preach, but don't let it throw you into a tailspin.

[BlueIris]

23. Uh-oh. Partner Abandonment Syndrome.

The number of partners leaving their relationships peaks in August and mid-winter. Although, I guess, in this case it's early Spring.

I'm terribly sorry you are going through this, but I want to advise you--watch out. After a partner abandons another, the abandoner often makes her out to be the enemy in his life. This could be dangerous, depending on the abandoner's mental state.

Best of luck in your recovery from this.

[Ghost in the Machine]

24. Wow, what a bummer...

Sorry you and your boys are going thru this. Be strong for them. Live well, and be good to yourself. :pals:

[Call Me Wesley]

25. Peace and comfort to you and your boys.

:hug:

[hippywife]

26. I'm so sorry, sweetie.

I've felt that pain you are experiencing right now, but please believe that you will get through this and you have some very precious reasons, yourself included, to believe that.

You will be okay. :hug:

[fizzgig]

27. i wish i had words

:hug:

please be good to yourself and hug those boys of yours tight