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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 12:53 PM Original message |
Serious question...at what point does "weird touching" become "abuse"? |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:00 PM Response to Original message |
1. without any question he has a problem |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:26 PM Response to Reply #1 |
9. The girls dad, fwiw, seems to be in the first camp. |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:01 PM Response to Original message |
2. Has anyone tried explaining to him she doesn't want him touching her in any way anymore? |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:07 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. and explaining to her to tell him to stop it |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. Yes, they've already had that conversation with her AFAIK. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:34 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. sounds like a mess |
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grasswire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 03:42 PM Response to Reply #11 |
21. a professional would be a mandated reporter... |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 03:48 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. My wife actually is a mandated reporter. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 03:57 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. report him for what? |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 02:47 PM Response to Reply #7 |
18. Totally agree with that - she did NOTHING wrong, and needs to hear that a lot |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:10 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. He's been told to knock the touchy-feely crap off more times than anyone can count. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:12 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. more info |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:16 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. We've wondered about his mental status for many years. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 04:09 PM Response to Reply #8 |
29. His mother sounds like part of the reason he has all of these problems.. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 06:04 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. You have no idea... |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 06:06 PM Response to Reply #4 |
33. Then he probably needs professional help |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:10 PM Response to Original message |
5. police? I don't think so |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
10. Kinko, Kinko, the kid-loving clown the parents wanna beat me up and run me outa town! |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:42 PM Response to Original message |
12. Psychological help. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 01:52 PM Response to Original message |
13. the adults are uncomfortable. why wouldnt the child be. she is complaining jsut as the adults |
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Brickbat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 02:22 PM Response to Original message |
14. While I'm not sure about getting police involved, that girl does need to see the adults in her life |
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eShirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 03:51 PM Response to Reply #14 |
23. This! |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 02:34 PM Response to Original message |
15. Doesn't sound to me like the police need to be involved here |
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LynneSin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
16. I know people like this - he sounds like a step-relative I know who has serious social disabilities |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
17. I don't see what good could come from getting the police involved. |
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ohiosmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
19. Seemingly innocent touching and tickling is a technique frequently used by sexual predators to |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 03:53 PM Response to Reply #19 |
24. And that point's been raised by many in the family... |
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ohiosmith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 04:10 PM Response to Reply #24 |
30. He may have learned it from someone who abused him. Ignoring his behavior will not end well. Even |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 02:54 PM Response to Original message |
20. My advice? Stay as far away from this as possible and don't take sides. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 03:55 PM Response to Reply #20 |
25. I wish I could. |
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Kaleva (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 06:48 PM Response to Reply #25 |
36. My wife's family could have its own reality tv show |
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Flaxbee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 04:04 PM Response to Original message |
27. if you involve the police, this guy is f*cked forever |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 04:06 PM Response to Original message |
28. sounds like a sick "loser" fuck who needs an ass beating |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 06:03 PM Response to Original message |
31. Certainly talk to him about touching anyone anywhere without their permission. |
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kimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
34. I feel badly for your whole family |
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nolabear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 06:40 PM Response to Original message |
35. My first action would be to keep all children away from him. |
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freshwest (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jul-11-11 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
37. Is mental incapacity keeping him from working? Some must be taught like little kids: |
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