Do you have an unspoken/telepathic connection with your mate/spouse/SO??

[Tripper11]

Mrs. Tripper and I have had this going on since we got married, even earlier. I think something and she says it. She is thinking something and I say it. We laugh about it, joke to "stop saying what I am thinking, get out of my head!", but it's almost weird how much in tune we are with each others thoughts.
Just now I was about to pop into the bedroom as she was still sleeping and then the door opened and she walked out. I laughed and she asked what I was laughing at, and I told her that I was about to go in and check on her when the door opened.

So, do you have a connection with someone?

[GhengisKhan]

1. absolutely..I could tell you a million similar stories

about my wife and I.

we end up living with that person because we have a telepathic link..no doubt about it.

Guess that's why so many start to look alike as well.:pals:

[lindashaw]

2. Yup...after 45 years, it really gets weird!!

[gpandas]

3. telepathy

google james randi

[Tripper11]

4. For the Mrs. and I the other thing is....

we met on the internet 7 years ago. Me in Vancouver BC, her in Tallahassee....to be able to make a connection like that is pretty good too.

I like this kind of weird though, it's fun.

[leftofthedial]

5. not any more

:-(

[no_hypocrisy]

6. Yes. And there's more. Once my SO was experiencing a racing heart

far away from me and at the same time my own heart was pounding at approximately 100 beats per minute while I was sitting still. I checked with him later and also discovered we both were sweating and light-headed.

From that incident hence, I have warned him to be careful as now I'm not certain that I won't drop dead as soon as he does.

[C_eh_N_eh_D_eh]

7. Sounds creepy to me.

I want a loving relationship as much as the next person, but my individuality and autonomy are very important to me.

[proud patriot]

8. Oh Yes deffinately

I met him when I was 13 and he was 14 ,
We are both 35 now (I'll be 35 in may).

[Parrcrow]

9. I don't believe so....

but I just read her mind and she thinks, yes we do!

[never cry wolf]

10. I believe so

Unfortunately while I believe in my heart she is my soulmate we are apart. We both made mistakes decades ago as youngsters after we broke up and married badly to others and now there are kids to consider. We were HS flames and dated off and on over an 8 year period. We lost touch for 22 years but I found her online 2 1/2 years ago. So, all we really have is a daily IM session (which can last hours) and some email and maybe an innocent 5 or 10 minute meeting every few months.

We are both just amazed, however, how tightly connected we really are even just through IM, finishing each others sentences, saying the same thing at the same time, etc. I have never experienced anything like it with anyone else. Sighhhhh...our day will come...

[SarahB]

11. No

Which is perhaps the nail on the head on some things between us. I'm an incredibly intuitive person, not telepathic or anything, but I need an inherent understanding on a spiritual level with someone, an unspoken, unexplainable whatever which is sadly all too hard to find and sadly missing in my life for many years. There have been many good things and much we have in common (and many common goals), good on paper anyway, but I've never felt like we "get" the other on a core level. No fault of either of us really, just the way things were. Sigh...I wish trying for a long time and good communication could make it so, but too often it has felt like a mutual pulling of teeth. :(

[camero]

12. With one ex-gf I did

It was weird at first but we got used to it. I would finish her sentences and she would finish mine. I think if two people spend enough time together you do see what makes the other tick and adjust.

Heck I even got used to being naked alot.

[southerngirlwriter]

13. I do with my brother.

We did not grow up together (long, boring story) and only really became friends when we were 19 and 20.

Once he needed to talk to me, but his phone had been turned off. I was supposed to see him the next day, but he sat down and thought about me very intensely and asked me to come see him. I was 25 miles away in the middle of something when I felt a sudden urge to go see him. I showed up at his house about 40 minutes after he sent the "message."

There are at least ten billion other stories I could tell you about my bro and me -- everything from finishing each other's sentences, to buying mutual friends the exact same gift for various occasions, to the time I was in the ER at 3 in the morning and the nurse walked in, dazed. "Your brother's on the phone..."

No one knew I was there. No one had called him. He was visiting his girlfriend 3,000 miles away when he woke up and just KNEW.

It's not creepy at all, nor do I think it impinges on our autonomy. When you are connected to someone on a spiritual level, you also know when they need to be left alone and what subjects are off-limits.

I am glad that I have this soul-connection with my brother. He's permanent. Boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives, etc., are replaceable -- they come and go. He'll never be my ex-brother, and I'm glad. I love him very much.

Bro, if you're reading this, you damn lurker, you, take that -----> :hug:

[Hemprus]

14. My significant other..

left over six months ago. We lived together but never had any real connection. With all the ones that I've ever felt that real connection with, there has always been something or some circumstance that makes it impossible. Now that I'm single again, it hard to start over with the whole searching for and meeting other people. I know it will happen, I am not an unattractive person or uninteresting as some may think (the old relationship mention beforehand). I feel that hopefully my next relationship will have more of that unspoken connection. It is hard sometimes that you can be with someone and not really know who they are. If I had more psychic abilities or if I would have listen to my psychic abilities in my last relationship I will have felt how she really felt about me. Maybe next time when someone professes love for me, I will feel if it is true or not and not just want it to be to satisfy my inner urges. I think that gas been my problem in alot of aspects of my life is that I always seem to put those inner feeling down, to satisfy an present emotional need.:think:

[southerngirlwriter]

15. Trust your intuition on these things.

Julia Cameron's books really helped me learn to trust myself.

[Hemprus]

18. Thanks

[dae]

16. My wife and I are defintely connected. It can still occassionally

surprise us just how freaky it gets after 32 years. By freaky I mean only telepathically.:)

[fudge stripe cookays]

17. reprehensor and I do this frequently....

One of us will say something the other was thinking and vice versa.

We'll be considering dinner options, and if I crave Italian, he'll say, "How about Italian?"

The other day we drove past the "First Baptist Church" and joking, I said, "Why are there no Second Baptist Churches?" Turned out he'd been about to say the same thing.

I've never had this with anyone else. We've only been married four years, but I felt a strong connection with him just through the internet before we ever met for the first time.