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Edited on Tue Jan-12-10 07:40 PM by DeschutesRiver
So I also think the declining credit trend is a good thing. Because we didn't go uber crazy over credit, right now we don't owe anyone anything and aren't as freaked out about the economy personally as some people are. We did have a brief foray into credit when we first started out, but at some point, I decided I didn't like not sleeping very well at night knowing that some of the things I "owned" and considered my property actually still belonged to strangers (creditors). If it wasn't for me, dh would have been far more comfortable using credit more freely over the years. But I prevailed.
One point he makes whenever he and I debate it, is the example of his older brother (by 15 years). That man massively leveraged even back when leverage wasn't so "in". But just like currently happening, he got to the point where his giant ponzi scheme of credit was collapsing because he couldn't make all the payments that he had obligated himself to make (he made very good money; he just used far more of other people's money than his income could have ever paid back in a timely fashion).
However, he died at age 58 and escaped paying back much of it. DH says, well, in his case (if you don't consider how the people he stiffed had to suffer the losses), he was able to live a very lavish lifestyle due to his credit habits, including a small plane, boats, vacations, the best meals and clothes, etc, and since he was destined to have a shortened life, never had to pay a price for having used credit this heavily. Had he not done that, he would not have lived long enough to buy those things on more of a cash basis, and then had enough life left to enjoy the fruits of his labor.
I call bullshit because his brother was an unhappy man quite a bit of the time due to leverage issues, and it was a sucky miserable "trying to keep up with and beyond the Jones" kind of existence while he was living. Besides that, there is no way to know which side of the death curve you will end up on. I don't think the trade off is worth it. There is nothing wrong with the whole idea of credit; but what I'm seeing now are the results of credit abuse and misuse, and that bites.
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