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joeybee12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 12:49 PM
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Police: Pa. pastor shoots son during fight
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/34599611/ns/us_news-crime_and_courts/

DARBY, Pa. - A pastor fatally shot one of his eight children on Christmas Day during a dispute at the family home, where more than a dozen relatives had gathered to celebrate the holiday, police said.

Kirk Caldwell killed 21-year-old Jordan Caldwell after intervening in a violent confrontation between the son and a woman at around 2 p.m. at their home in suburban Philadelphia, Darby Borough police said Friday.

Kirk Caldwell fired a single shot, striking his son in the chest, police Chief Robert Smythe said. Jordan Caldwell died at a hospital shortly afterward, police said.

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pissedoff01 Donating Member (163 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 12:54 PM
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1. Spare the firearm and spoil the child
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snagglepuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 12:56 PM
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2. Raised by the sword, died by the sword. nt
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onehandle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 12:59 PM
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3. Guns kill family members.
Edited on Sun Dec-27-09 01:01 PM by onehandle
That seems to be their main purpose within households.
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Pavulon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 08:31 PM
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36. did he drop it, faulty gear?
sounds like a person killed another person. Pretty common thing, even before they had guns.
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CANDO Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 11:27 PM
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42. But guns mixed with bad situations make it so much easier!
Piss me off....no problem....boom...your dead. I own guns. I don't carry them. I will not knowingly be around people paranoid enough to think they need to carry. That includes family. My wing-nut family members are all nutso about carrying guns since Obama's Presidency. I don't see those particular family members much.
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eqfan592 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 02:00 AM
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46. I love posts like this.
So shockingly ignorant and dripping with arrogance it's not even funny. Seriously, CANDO, don't tell others you're a progressive, as I'd rather not be associated with the likes of you.
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SteveM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 10:53 AM
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51. Have you noticed the tag-team at the top of the posting list?
Where da funny masks and cock-strut 'round the ring?
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PavePusher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 01:57 AM
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44. Then you are blind... n/t
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GreenStormCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 10:13 AM
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49. Main purpose is killing family members? Back to math class for you.
Edited on Mon Dec-28-09 10:17 AM by GreenStormCloud
Including suicides, there are about 30,000 gun fatalities annually in the country. There are about 50,000,000 households with guns. That means that means that 99.94% of households with guns annually used their guns for something else. Therefore the primary purpose of guns in households is for some other purpose than killing family members.

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Fumesucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:00 PM
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4. The use of a gun leaves plenty of time for sober reflection..
After you have pulled the trigger.

Many lives there that will never be the same again.

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JonQ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:06 PM
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5. Says it was to intervene in a "violent confrontation"
between his son and a woman. Depending on the degree of violence I would say this could very well be justified. If it was a choice between doing nothing and seeing this woman in the hospital or intervening I think he did the right thing.

But we need more details than are currently available.
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dysfunctional press Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:08 PM
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6. shooting him in the leg or arm probably would have stopped the 'confrontation' as well...
Edited on Sun Dec-27-09 01:08 PM by dysfunctional press
and maybe without killing anyone.
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walldude Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:12 PM
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8. Hell firing the gun in the dirt would have done the same thing
When you are not in a firing range situation or out hunting or whatever the sound of a gunshot usually stops everything.
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eilen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:25 PM
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12. Unless the son was not afraid that his father would actually shoot him
He might have thought he was bluffing.
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JonQ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:04 PM
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13. Difficult to shoot a moving person in the leg
without risking missing and hitting a bystander, or missing and having him attack you.
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:10 PM
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15. You may be right, but you may be wrong.
We will never know.
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proteus_lives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 04:18 PM
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25. Unless you're a trained marksman, that only works in the movies.
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 04:30 PM
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27. Thanks for saying what I was thinking.
The poster might just as well made a comment about "shooting the gun out of his hand."
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Katya Mullethov Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 08:44 AM
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48. The femoral artery
Is -IN- your leg .
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tburnsten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 10:59 AM
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52. And I've never heard of limb-specific marksmanship training
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winyanstaz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:12 PM
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18. You are correct.
Far too many will rush to judgement without knowing all the facts.
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asjr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:11 PM
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7. He could have gotten their attention
by just shooting the gun up into the air.
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PavePusher Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 01:59 AM
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45. That is a stupid, ignorant and unsafe suggestion. n/t
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:13 PM
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9. Yes, Reverend, shooting someone in their chest certainly "intervenes".
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Wilms Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:20 PM
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10. End Times Harvest Mission for Christ in Philadelphia
:eyes:
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RC Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 01:21 PM
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11. Somehow "Man of God" (save) and "Gun" (kill) doesn't go together very well
Edited on Sun Dec-27-09 01:22 PM by RC
No pun intended. Kind of defeats the purpose of the message of religion.
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:11 PM
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16. What is the "message of religion"?
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timtom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:34 PM
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21. Depends on the religion, I suppose.
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:37 PM
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22. uh, yeah, thats why I was asking RC, the one who said it.
Edited on Sun Dec-27-09 03:37 PM by rd_kent
But thanks, I guess.
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timtom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 05:57 PM
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31. I'm sorry.
I knee-jerk reacted to the question, completely out of context. I looked to the OP to find the phrase, "message of religion" and didn't find it.

As Dorothy (in the Wizard of Oz) explained, "I learned that you need look no further than the post just above the one you responded to..."
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 07:44 PM
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33. No worries.
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:08 PM
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14. Spare the lead, spoil the child?
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Matariki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:12 PM
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17. Ugh - his church was called End Times Harvest Mission
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Initech Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 08:52 PM
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38. Is that the nutty apocalypse-worshipping side of Christianity?
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:43 PM
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56. Only ONE side of christianity is "nutty"?
Its all nutty. All religions are nutty! Believing in something that has never produced a single oiece of evidence to support the existence of a god is nutty.
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OnyxCollie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:12 PM
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19. If the son was armed, he might be alive today.
Everybody must have guns!!1!:crazy:
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 03:32 PM
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20. If you were intellectually armed, you might not make ignorant statements like that.
Edited on Sun Dec-27-09 03:32 PM by rd_kent
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OnyxCollie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 04:16 PM
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23. Do you have a point?
Edited on Sun Dec-27-09 04:18 PM by OnyxCollie
Or do you just like to see your random thoughts in print?

Edit: typo
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 04:25 PM
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26. I think the better question is "Do YOU have a point?"
Your post was hyperbole and nonsense, so for you to lecture me on random thoughts is quite hypocritical.
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OnyxCollie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 05:42 PM
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28. It was sarcasm.
Edited on Sun Dec-27-09 05:44 PM by OnyxCollie
I thought the "1" among the exclamation points would have given it away, and I even added the crazy smilie to be sure, but that was lost on you.

You remind me of a poster I have on ignore who responds to similar threads. Do you mind if I ask you a few questions?

Do you defer to people in power?

Do you believe those who question people in power should receive excessive punishment to "get back in line?"

Do you believe believe that once those who question power are punished, everything will be fine?

Have you, to the best of your knowledge, ever been treated for a cognitive disability?
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rd_kent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 07:43 PM
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32. no, no, no and no.
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Javaman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:38 PM
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54. You missed one.
:rofl:
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:14 AM
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43. Never try sarcasm on the gunnies. They aren't equipped for it.
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Katya Mullethov Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 08:40 AM
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47. Mordacity is appreciated
When properly applied (not in desperation) .
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SteveM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 11:03 AM
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53. What gun-controllers consider sarcasm is self-revealing...
Always looking for confrontation; you know, sort-of, like man! can't you take a joke? What's wrong with you?

I don't blame 'em. They have always used derision (especially back 20-30 years ago when it worked), but now they just sprinkle some old all-spice on stale bread and call it sarcasm. To present an argument is a little too much. Haven't we been through all of them by now?

Things have changed, jgraz.
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Javaman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 12:40 PM
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55. Good use of sarcasm.
:rofl:
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SteveM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Dec-30-09 10:01 AM
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59. I thought it was prosaic explanation. Sheesh, can't get away from that stuff.
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CatWoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 04:17 PM
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24. Marvin Gaye redux
:(
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daleo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 05:52 PM
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29. Fathers killing sons
Is a recurring Christian motif.
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aikoaiko Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 05:56 PM
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30. Its difficult to determine if this shooting was justified or not.

Perhaps he saved the woman's life. Perhaps he saved his own? Perhaps he acted out of anger and malice?

No matter what it is a tragedy we don't know the whole story yet to know just how tragic it was.
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michreject Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 08:27 PM
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34. The article states no charges filed yet
That leaves to believe that is was justified.
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aikoaiko Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 09:35 PM
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40. I'm thinking that is true myself.

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edbermac Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 08:30 PM
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35. "Praise the Lord and pass the ammunition."
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donco6 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 08:36 PM
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37. That'll make for a great Christmas memory.
Year after year after year . . .

Sad.
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hunter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 09:08 PM
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39. Fortunately my family always restricted themselves to the cutlery.
The guns were always locked up for the Christmas Holidays because everyone knew there would be domestic disputes.
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-27-09 10:29 PM
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41. Never miss an opportunity to turn a family tragedy into your little political soapbox.
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GreenStormCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 10:36 AM
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50. UPDATES
http://www.philly.com/philly/news/80127182.html?cmpid=15585797

The younger Caldwell was engaged in a physically violent domestic situation with a woman, possibly his girlfriend, Darby Police Chief Robert Smythe said.

"From what we're getting, it was extremely violent," Smythe said. "The father somehow became involved in this domestic thing, and at some point the father had a gun registered to him and fired one shot, striking the boy in the chest."

Kirk Caldwell stayed at the scene until police arrived and cooperated with detectives during questioning, Smythe said.

IOW, the younger guy was beating the crap out of a woman, and wouldn't stop.

A this point, there are no internet new articles that show he has been charged with a crime, although that may happen.


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tburnsten Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 01:53 PM
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58. This is an awful situation through and through
And very sad for the pastor. I think, not knowing many details, that he took the right path by trying to protect the woman from his son (a man, not a "boy" as the police officer called him) and it is pretty terrible that he seems to have been forced to kill his own child.

I think the amount of people posting here making disparaging comments and basically saying that he got what he deserved (a dead child) by owning a gun at all is disgraceful. It makes me ashamed to think that these are people who think of themselves as progressives, when I always counted compassion and reasonable behavior among two of the things that mark a progressive person.

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GreenStormCloud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Dec-28-09 01:11 PM
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57. He has been arrested and taken into custody.
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