I suppose I simply don't agree that treatment of Palestinian citizens of Israel is quite as rosy as some would picture. And certainly the perception of Palestinian-Israelis seem to bare this out:
"Only 3.4% of the 500 Arab citizens of Israel polled by phone felt that the Israeli government treats them as equal citizens. Some 49% said the government treats them as second-class citizens and 24% as hostile citizens who don't deserve equal rights."
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http://www.jpost.com/servlet/Satellite?cid=1139395572629&pagename=JPost%2FJPArticle%2FShowFull"Among the Israeli-Arab respondents, 76 percent described Zionism as racist." link:
http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/objects/pages/PrintArticleEn.jhtml?itemNo=839029There are a number of reasons whey Palestinian citizens of Israel would prefer to remain in Israel. They have every reason to believe that a likely Palestinian state would be a week state with a week economy and gravely lacking in viability and genuine sovereignty and independence. Few Palestinians with Jordanian citizenship are interested in returning to a Palestinian state under such conditions.
I would not waste time claiming that the Arab states are wonderful. And I wouldn't believe it. But beyond the issues of formal democracy which are obviously lacking in all Arab states is the question of ones sense of inclusion in a society and to what extent one feels they are granted a sense of dignity by that society. Having spent about a decade in the Shiite land of Saudi Arabia. And I would certainly agree that Saudi Arabia is one of the least enlightened societies on earth, not only the Middle East. There the Shiites are most definitely discriminated against, are generally despised by the Sunni majority, suffer religious based agitation against them and are absolutely regarded with great suspicion as a potential fifth column. But relative to their society which is far, far from enlightened, democratic or liberal, I do not observe that they experience the particular kind of loathing disdain that Palestinian citizens of Israel seem to experience. And frankly I don't even believe that they experience anywhere near the level of discrimination relative to their society in matters of housing, employment and education.
Just taking a look at common Israeli-Jewish attitudes toward Palestinian citizens of Israel can look a bit disturbing:
"The poll showed that 75 percent of Jewish students believe that Arabs are uneducated people, are uncivilized and are unclean.
On the other hand 25 percent of the Arab youth believe that Jews are the uneducated ones, while 57 percent of the Arab's believe Jews are unclean." link:
http://www.ynetnews.com/Ext/Comp/ArticleLayout/CdaArticlePrintPreview/1,2506,L-3350467,00.html---
"The poll presented Wednesday showed that 68 percent of respondents said they do not wish to live next to an Arab neighbor, compared with 26 percent who said they would agree.
Responding to a question about Arab friends, 46 percent said they would not be willing to have Arab friends who would visit them at their home.
Some 63 percent of the Jewish public sees Arab civilians as a security and demographic threat.." link:
http://www.ynetnews.com/articles/0,7340,L-3231048,00.html_________
Not so much has been written about Palestinian citizens of Israel. Of the two books that I have read, perhaps the most interesting was Susan Nathan's, "The Other Side of Israel: My Journey Across the Jewish/Arab Divide". It is the personal story of an Israeli Jewish English teacher and lifelong committed Zionist who moved into and still lives in the northern Galilee small Israeli-Arab city of Tamra as the only Jew among 25,000 Palestinian-Muslim Israeli citizens. Amazon link:
http://www.amazon.com/Other-Side-Israel-Journey-Across/dp/0385514565/ref=sr_1_1/102-8701952-4352901?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1178005421&sr=1-1And " Blood and Religion: The Unmasking of the Jewish and Democratic State by Jonathan Cook". Mr. Cook is a British reporter based in Nazareth and married to a Palestinian-Christian who is an Israeli Citizen. Amazon link:
http://www.amazon.com/Blood-Religion-Unmasking-Jewish-Democratic/dp/0745325556/ref=sr_1_1/102-8701952-4352901?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1178005719&sr=1-1 .