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in that while my husband and I have four children between us, they are all adults, and the two youngest are 38 and 39. Our youngest grandchildren are 13. We have one 2 year old, and one 4 month old great-grandchildren. Our grown children, and the two oldest grandchildren agree with us.
We are trying to teach the younger ones the importance of cooperation among people, about wasting the earth's resources, and about choosing to do good, rather than being selfish. When I was much younger, I realized that, due to marrying young and having children, I might never fulfill my dream of traveling the world.
Ten years ago, I could live with that reality, with the idea in the back of my mind that the beautiful and special places on earth would still be there when my descendants decided to travel. Now, I just pray that my family stops having children, because the dangers of war, of poverty, and hunger, and global warming are all too immediate.
All we can do now, in my family, is to spend as much time as possible together. We enjoy each other's company, we contribute to whatever causes we can afford, and we try not to pollute the earth with our debris. My grass cuttings go into a compost bin, as do anything else that is suitable. My plants are grown without benefit of chemicals, and if that means sometimes losing a plant, or the leaves of one, so be it.
It's not enough, of course, but for now it's what we can do. So, we put up jars of chow-chow with our tomatoes, and make fresh salsa, we bake bread for the taste and aroma, and we choose to entertain ourselves with get-togethers and good food, instead of patronizing amusement parks and other places that we consider devoid of soul.
We have offered places to stay temporarily for friends and family, we have lent money to each other, and given each other leads on jobs. We adopt our pets from rescue, instead of contributing to puppy mills, and the cats we can tame enough, we have spayed or neutered, since some will never adapt to being confined to a house.
There are countless others like us, I do not delude myself that we are special, or unique. What we tell our children, though, is more an exercise in warning them of how easily even great nations are led to bankruptcy and ruin. We teach them how easy it is to become distrusted and hated, because a regime can use war and threats instead of engaging in dialog, and diplomacy.
While we are Americans, and love this country, we are humans first. We all share common ancestors, and in the end, all die, and go to whatever lies waiting for us. While we have life on this earth, though, why not try to live it in peace, and in a spirit of sharing so that some are not so bloated with wealth that they lose their humanity, and others are not so mired in poverty that they do the same.
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