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MagsDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:46 PM
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I'm gay and I have a question...
Okay, technically I'm not gay -- to be specific, I'm of the lesbian persuasion. In light of the Larry Craig news, I have one question...

Are all republican men gay, or at the very least, latently so? Sure as hell seems so. Don't they have better things to do but go into politics just cuz they hate themselves? I mean, really, do we all have to suffer for their self loathing?

You know, Larry, and all you other repug homos, you could just MOVE to a blue area of the country where you're allowed to be gay and still like yourself (hell, love yourself, even). It's NOT that complicated. Open suggestion to latent homosexual rethugs: Stop making everyone else's life miserable just because you can't deal with your sexuality. Deal with it.
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sniffa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:49 PM
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1. i had no idea Lesbians weren't gay
and no, they're not aLL LatentLy so. in fact, most aren't.

i'm sure you're wicked queer, based on your OP. :eyes:
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:54 PM
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3. wicked queer
go red sox! :)
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MagsDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:55 PM
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6. Who knows?
When I say I'm gay, straight people look at me weird because many of them think gay means homosexual male. And I am every bit a woman. So yes, I think of myself as gay because that includes lesbians in my world.

I just wanted to make it clear for the straight folks here that I am female. (Hence I don't know much about the male latent homo bathroom pick up scene). The repugs sure do though. This makes 3 just this summer. :)
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swimboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-28-07 10:27 AM
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26. Do gay people look at you weird when you say you're a homo?
I don't think I know any gay people who self-identify as 'homos'.

I'm not sure I've heard that term this frequently since 7th grade.
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:50 PM
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2. Welcome to DU
Personally, I think it has more to do with the GOP's preference for extortable candidates - they don't get uppity.
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MagsDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:57 PM
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9. LOL -- good point.
And thanks for the welcome!
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:54 PM
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4. Real homophobes are really homosexuals.
There are now studies that conclude this.

Truly homophobic men (not just culturally bigoted) ARE homosexuals.

I do not call them gay, because clearly they are not gay, but they are homosexuals.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:00 PM
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11. Oh do tell
I'd like to see some of these studies.

And are KKK members really black? :eyes:
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Kutjara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:04 PM
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14. No, but they really really want to be.
:hi:

I, too, would be interested in links to these studies. Everything I've read recently has said exactly the opposite.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:28 PM
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19. Indeed
:hi:
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0007 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 08:21 PM
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22. One is in this photo!
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-28-07 08:22 AM
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25. .
:applause:
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JackBeck Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:04 PM
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15. Are you referring to that ONE debunked study ?
I'd like to see others, when you find them.
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terrya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:24 PM
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18. So Fred Phelps is gay?
Bull and shit.
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swimboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-28-07 10:32 AM
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27. Are you gonna get back to us with links to all those studies?
You know, the ones that say there are three kinds of people:

1)happy gay people
2)straight people who really like happy gay people so are therefore really straight
3)people who don't like happy gay people so are therefore really gay

Are you having trouble finding links to the studies?
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:54 PM
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5. I know that repressed, self loathing gay men
seem to be drawn to what they think they can hide behind: the church, an authoritarian state, a horrible, sexist marriage. History is full of these guys, from Hitler's Brownshirts on through today's GOP.

After all, who's going to question the sexuality of some John Wayne clone who's pounding his fist on a podium and screaming against liberal sin?

(well, besides us.)
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durrrty libby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:56 PM
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7. I don't give a rat's ass about the sex, but why the hell do
they hang out in disgusting public bathrooms?

If I find myself in the unfortunate circumstance of having to use a public bathroom,

I get the hell out as fast as possible. These people go there to socialize? Blech !

They are truly nasty, filthy people :scared:
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ecstatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:06 PM
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16. And then goes home to his wife like nothing happened
I hope in his previous ventures he at least used a condom.
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durrrty libby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:21 PM
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17. That's true. I don't even understand the concept of anonymous sex
First, putting aside the lack of emotional connection is foreign to me.

Then, maybe because I've been in the medical field for so long, this type of behavior

is playing Russian Roulette with some nasty diseases.


I freely admit that I don't get it.
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MagsDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 09:28 PM
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23. Don't feel alone
I don't get that concept either. Not even a little bit. I try not to be judgmental, but honestly, it almost seems pathological to me. I am also a health care professional. Do you think it has something to do with that?? LOL!
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BornagainDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:30 PM
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20. It's obvious Larry doesn't give a shit about his wife.
Edited on Mon Aug-27-07 06:37 PM by BornagainDUer
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Middle finga Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:56 PM
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8. The Republican party seems to be where self haters hide out
Larry Craig and a list of other self hating gays are republicans, then you have people like Michelle Malkin self hating asian, Clarence Thomas self hating african american the list goes on.
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MagsDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 05:58 PM
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10. I think you may have found the common denominator
Makes perfect sense once you think about it. The key is their self loathing.
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BornagainDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:00 PM
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12. Gay nazis, skinheads, etc. Yea, its not hard to imagine many Repugs are gay.
Edited on Mon Aug-27-07 06:01 PM by BornagainDUer
heroes and gay nazis

it's the philadelphia international gay and lesbian film festival this week. whenever any film fest comes to town, i would ordinarily rearrange my schedule and spend much of my free time seeing obscure films. but this year, the festival falls right after our move. with all the post-move crap i gotta do around the house, it looks like i won't have much time to overdose on gay cinema this year. as a case in point, at this very moment i am sitting at home doing my new hobby, waiting for the cable guy to show up.

but anyway, i did manage to see "heroes and gay nazis", a documentary about gay members of the german skinhead movement. the film had a lot of potential. i think the problem is that they tried to do too much and as a result ended up with too little.

the film interviews a bunch of gay neo-nazis or former neo-nazis in modern germany. about midway through, it then goes back in time and explore the sexual orientation of members of the nazi party during the third reich. but that itself could be it's own documentary. and because so much of the film discussed the 1930s and 40s, it's coverage of the modern gay nazis, the one's i was more curious about, felt a little thin.


:crazy:


www.upyernoz.blogspot.com/2005/07/heroes-and-gay-nazis.html
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Kutjara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 06:02 PM
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13. I think the self-hatred runs a lot deeper than sexuality.
Repugs hate pretty much everything about themselves. They live in a cauldron of self-loathing and fear, but the only way they can continue to function with such damaged psyches is to project their revulsion onto the world. So, instead of confronting their own inadequacies, they pretend that it's the rest of humanity that is evil and depraved.

Unfortunately, the lens of self-hatred in such people is so powerful that every feeling they have is twisted and warped. To them, other people are little more perverts/scroungers/cowards who want nothing more than to destroy "America" (a proxy for "unattainable perfection" in the Repug mind). If the iron boot is removed from their necks, they'll run riot. The Repug believes this because they know that, if the iron boots of religion, social position or career were removed from their necks, they would run riot, causing untold damage. So they naturally project their own lack of maturity and psychological health onto their "enemies" (which comprise the population of those who do not come from the same social class as the Repug, and share identical beliefs).

The world is indeed a dark and violent place...if you're a Repug.
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MagsDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 08:02 PM
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21. I think you're right
Thanks for crystallizing it so nicely.
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AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Aug-27-07 10:51 PM
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24. Perhaps they gravitate to the GOP as part of their closeted life?
They feel being a Republican will help them hide better? I say to them just come on out of that closet - it's crowded in there and you're wrinkling the clothes!!

And...welcome to DU! :hi:
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