(I apologize right off the bat for the length of this post)
As I said, I don't particularly trust either of them when it comes to gay rights. There were several other candidates I preferred initially to these two. But here's how I justify support of Barack over Hillary with regards to this issue... at least in my own twisted mind.
First, I recommend reading this interview with Obama from The Advocate:
http://advocate.com/news_detail_ektid50021.aspIf there's one thing I KNOW in my heart, it's that Barack is committed to inclusiveness and diversity and the "big tent" policy. I truly believe that this is a man who will meet people where ever they're at. And he understands discrimination in a way that perhaps no other candidate in the past has. He ain't perfect by any means, but he's a step in the right direction.
Secondly, I believe his voting record backs up his support of gays. I don't know of any vote he's cast or policy he supports that HARMS gay people. If he has, I'd love for you to provide me with that information. Compare that to the Clintons' "Don't Ask Don't Tell" policy and DOMA. Did they help gay people? Most would say it HARMED gay people.
Now with regards to Mr. McClurkin... The man sang a song. He did not give a sermon on the divinity of the Ex-gay movement. If he had been actually involved in the campaign or SPOKE about anything substantive or Barack indicated his views aligned with this joker, I'd be disturbed... but the dude just sang a song and will return to the confused tortured misguided oblivion from which he came.
Maybe it's a cynical view to take, but I just think 99.9% of people are fallible, often hypocritical, and generally damaged. Myself included. And if I happened to be a "surrogate" for anyone, I'd get raked over the coals... gay, once briefly affiliated with an ex-gay group, resulting mental trauma, super happy gay comeback, drug user, civil disobedience, consistently outrageously stupid statements, drunken college incidents, and more "indiscretions" than I will ever admit to. So I only associate surrogates with candidates so far.
Example: I believe Geraldine Ferraro's statements were outlandishly STUPID and RACIST. (I realize many disagree with this but that's not the main point...) The point is that just because that woman greatly offended me and thousands of others, I do not, in turn, believe that Hillary Clinton is a racist.
But how can we trust Hillary? We have PROOF that she lied about her positions on policies like NAFTA. I haven't seen any PROOF Obama has lied about anything. As far as trusting a candidate won't lie to me.... I wouldn't trust Hillary not to sell her own mother out if it meant it would increase her advantage in one way or another.
And then there's the UGLINESS of the whole campaign. I do believe there was some race-baiting going on by her campaign. I also believe she's playing a dirty campaign tactic to accuse Obama of the very filth that she was the actual culprit of. And I believe that she is trying to be divisive because she is counting on the sometimes prejudiced white vote in Pennsylvania and West Virginia. True or not, imagined or not, that is the message I've gotten from her campaign and I did NOT always feel this way.
Actively participating, even in a simply enabling way, in pitting the races against each other for personal gain is MORALLY REPREHENSIBLE. And if she can do that, there's no doubt in my mind she'd pit Gays against Conservatives... as long as it benefitted in some way for her.
So yeah, for me it comes down to trust too