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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:26 PM
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I am a man... but I am so upset at all the Hillary haters! how many feminists want Hillary to win?
Please check in.

I am a gay male and it seems like all the people on this board want to attack me for supporting her.


can I get a little support?
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TheWraith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:27 PM
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1. Disagreeing with someone doesn't mean you irrationally hate them.
Nice Bush logic, though.
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:29 PM
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3. Please
you can't read this board today for 5 minutes and conclude there's something OTHER than blind hatred going on. It's pathological.
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Alexander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:58 PM
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38. So if I disagree that Hillary's the better candidate, I'm guilty of "blind hatred".
Gotcha. Let me know when you get your next memo of talking points. :eyes:
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PoliticalAmazon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:16 PM
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60. This is an attempt to undercut legitimate criticism by casting it as an unflattering emotion
A very old campaign trick, but one the Hillarybots use quite a bit.

A person who has to use this trick does not have a legitimate point to make...otherwise they wouldn't have to use the trick.
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Recursion Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:28 AM
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107. *shrug* my dislike for her is hardly "blind"
To the contrary, it's based very clearly on what I've seen and heard of her.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:39 PM
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72. not from me. don't tell me about the female experience. the only
thing I will support you on is the evil that is directed at gays. that is evil and must stop. But the other? Nah. I don't presume to tell you what your life as a gay man is and what you have to be pissed off about because of it. I'm not a gay man. I'm not black, hispanic or disabled. I can't speak to the black experience. Don't get in my face about being female. I am old fucking enough to remember when colleges didn't admit women (Yale) where you had no rights and couldn't get credit if you were single, when all the jobs open were 'mommy, teacher, nurse or secretary'. I bear my scars just fine and BECAUSE OF THEM, I chose who I support based on facts and positions, not ovaries or balls. She says nothing to me but entitlement, anger, attainment at any cost and she is willing to sacrifice EVERYTHING including her family reputation to achieve that. i remember racism when it was everywhere and as casual in life as breathing. I remember all of it and because of it I CHOSE who I support based on WHAT THEY BELIEVE. Fuck using sexism as an excuse. Fuck it for using it as a weapon. As a man, you will NEVER understand.

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Hugabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:29 PM
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2. Where does Hillary stand on gay marriage?
After all, her husband signed the Defense of Marriage Act.

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Adelante Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:29 PM
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4. I am a feminist for Obama
Therefore, I don't want Hillary to win. It doesn't mean I hate her. It means I do not think she is the better candidate.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:33 PM
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9. Thank you.
All the hyperbole is making some people outright delusional.

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myrna minx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:37 PM
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16. I, too, am a feminist for Obama.
I don't hate Hillary either. I just prefer Senator Obama for President
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Vinca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:30 PM
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5. I'm a feminist and I
DON'T WANT HER TO WIN! Although I'm sure it will make a good story some day.
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StevieM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 11:33 PM
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98. Dupe, delete (eom)
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 12:11 AM by StevieM
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StevieM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 12:08 AM
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100. dupe, delete (eom)
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 12:12 AM by StevieM
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Mz Pip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:31 PM
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6. I don't hate her.
Never did. I just like Obama more. I'm pretty disappointed in Hillary, but I will vote for her if she manages to become the nominee.

Mz Pip
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adoraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:32 PM
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7. there are plenty of reasons to hate her
Edited on Tue Mar-25-08 04:33 PM by adoraz
Just because she is a woman does not give her a free pass.

I wouldn't say I hate her, but I do strongly dislike her. I am glad she will never be President.
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countingbluecars Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:32 PM
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8. Feminist for Obama here.
I don't hate Hillary, but I am very disappointed in how she is running her campaign.
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Shae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:33 PM
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10. I don't hate Hillary
I am finding her harder and harder to like, though.
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:33 PM
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11. I want the hatred against Hillary to end on this forum.
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GarbagemanLB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:35 PM
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13. It will, once she drops out.
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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:39 PM
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19. Will it be too late for the haters?
They should not have hated in the first place.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:45 PM
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73. then check a mirror. amusing.
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:11 PM
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42. Hillary hate is unacceptable regardless of the status of this race.
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Catherina Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:28 PM
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49. Is Hillary some sort of a Saint or something?
People can hate whoever they damn well choose and that includes Saint Hillary.
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PoliticalAmazon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:18 PM
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61. Says who? She has earned the hate directed at her. Let her enjoy what she earned.
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dkf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:23 AM
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106. Well then I guess I hate Hillary's very very awful behavior
which I find simply beyond the pale.

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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 11:25 PM
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97. Hillary has created much of that hatred herself.
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Hugabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 06:53 AM
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114. But it's quite okay for the hatred against Obama to continue
Can't help but notice you only want the hatred against YOUR candidate to stop.
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elizm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:34 PM
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12. Feminist here....supporting Obama. nt
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kerry-is-my-prez Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:36 PM
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14. Feminst for Hillary.... It looks like there's a generation gap. Many younger women are for Obama.
Edited on Tue Mar-25-08 04:41 PM by kerry-is-my-prez
Many of the middle-aged and older are for Hillary. A lot of the Hillary supporters have left this site becasue of all the hate towards supporters, Hillary and women. This board has had a lot of sexist stuff on here. There is a Hillary Clinton forum on DU and it may be best to go there.

In general, it almost seems that the only men who are for Hillary are the gay ones.

Women in the younger age range don't really know what it means to be a feminist IMO.
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ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:41 PM
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22. Don't stereotype or they'll accuse you of being Obama (tongue-in-cheek)
I know many other middle aged women such as myself (49 y.o.) who will vote for Obama. Many of us have SEPARATE careers from our husbands. We have our own identities. There's something very disturbing about a woman who wears her husband's rank to some of us PROUD older broads. ;) :blush:
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:44 PM
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26. I beg to differ.
I consider myself a pretty gung-ho feminist when it's called for.

Supporting a candidate just because she is a woman doesn't make any sense to me though.

I think it's about identity-politics feminism versus post-identity-politics feminism.

And what's more, I'm not going to trash someone else's feminist credentials because they don't agree with me.

Got it?
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beachmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:03 PM
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40. Your comment has rubbed me the wrong way.
I think it is a huge mistake to support someone simply because they're a woman. You have to choose someone because they are the BEST CANDIDATE. And acting like younger women don't know what feminism is, when some of us have actually taken the time to read The Feminine Mystique and learn the history of the Suffrage Movement is condescending. Some of us don't vote based on identity politics. Some of us think voting for someone JUST BECAUSE they are a woman is the opposite of what women were trying to achieve over the last century. Equal rights means equal rights. Not handing someone the presidency just because they are of a certain gender.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:48 PM
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75. no one should base a vote on gender identity. vote for the best
person in your experience and thinking.
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:13 PM
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45. Not at all true. n/t
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:49 PM
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76. so, lumberjack_jeff, what are you saying? And, I am finding it
amusing that so many men are so keen on telling women how they should think, vote, view life. Nothing changes. Thank about it.
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Adelante Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:12 PM
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58. Well, I'm 60 years old
So are many other feminists for Obama on DU in the older age range. You seem to be drawing a scenario to suit yourself, not based in reality.
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PoliticalAmazon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:20 PM
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64. This "older women for Hillary" thing has me confused.
I'm 54 years old. I used to be a strong HRC supporter, until she ran for Senate and her true colors started to come out. It has worsened with time, and gone exponential since she started running for the presidency.

I see her for what she is, and I don't want any part of it.

But I also hear pundits saying that Hillary has the "older women."

They won't quantify what age is "older."

I know 8 women older than I am who I know well enough to talk politics. All won't vote for Hillary.

So who are these older women? And what is "older"?
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:46 PM
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74. I know a lot of younger feminist women
(teacher) and none of them are for hillary. they haven't coalesced -some of them on Obama- but no one I know is for hillary.
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LisaM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:37 PM
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15. I am a feminist and I want Hillary
I also believe that her opponent (or his campaign) have completely managed to deflect the campaign away from the feminist platform and feminist achievement. Can Hillary, at this point, get up and make a speech about women's rights, or her own struggles in that regard?

No, she can't. She would immediately suffer a hailstorm of - "but - but - but ---- racism is WORSE than sexism!"

She is an inspiration to a lot of people, and I see one of her most important accomplishments - being a viable woman candidate for US president - as being something that she cannot run on, or use to her advantage in this race.




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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:43 PM
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25. Thank you for your post!
AS a gay man, I understand what you are saying.

I WILL SUPPORT HILLARY TILL THE BITTER END.

And then I will vote for the Dem nominee. No matter who she/he is.

I don't trust Obama... but I trust him more than ANY Republican.


If he wins the nomination (which I think he will) I WILL BE SUPPORTING HIS ASS 100%.

At this point, I support my lady Hillary.
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LisaM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:47 PM
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27. Well, if he wins
I'll support him about 75%, though since I will have -250% support for McCain, I guess it all evens out.

I can't explain it, but there is something about him that rubs me the wrong way.
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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:50 PM
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31. Me Too. LisaM, but I still want a Dem
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:50 PM
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78. which is what you should do, Jesus/o/s.
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Adelante Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:14 PM
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59. I wish she would give a speech about women's rights
There is nothing to stop her.
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cyndensco Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:37 PM
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91. During their first one-on-one debate
Hillary was applauded when she proclaimed she would be the first female president - what a change that would be. Unfortunately, Obama did not have the same luxury.

And, for the record, as a middle-aged AA woman, I have felt worlds more discrimination based on my race than on my gender.

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ShortnFiery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:37 PM
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17. What? Hillary haters? I'm a dyed in the wool FEMINIST but I do NOT want HRC.
Two of her character traits, in particular, e.g., dishonesty and self-righteousness, make HRC a "No Go" for The Presidency of The United States of America.

I wouldn't hesitate to vote for Barbara Boxer but not HRC. Not ever.

That's not being dishonest to the hard working women who came before me. If anything, it's my profound respect for the "honorable" feminists of our past that I will not vote for HRC.

Not THIS woman. Not ever.
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TheDoorbellRang Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:38 PM
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18. I'm a feminist
which means I vote for the PERSON based on their qualifications, regardless of their genitalia.

I do not hate Hillary. I simply despise her ways.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:40 PM
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20. I'm a feminist
and that's why I'm supporting Obama. :patriot:
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City Lights Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:41 PM
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21. Feminist for Obama, but I'm not one who will "attack" you for supporting
Clinton.
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Hamlette Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:41 PM
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23. this feminist is voting Obama
Hillary is not a feminist, she's an egotist.

Obama seems the better feminist in this race.
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SammyWinstonJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:53 PM
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35. They're both egotists.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:42 PM
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24. Why would a feminist want Hillary to win?
Feminism is about empowering people, not about empowering one woman.
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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:48 PM
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28. So am I wrong? As a man? I'm sad to see that so many feminists are supporting Obama.
That IS a consideration for me as a gay male.


Obviously not the only consideration, but it is important.

The more women I see that disown Hillary, the more it makes me think.




I'm really interested in hearing the opinions of women who support Obama over Clinton.

Thank you for your input.
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:12 PM
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44. I dont support Obama or Clinton, and I am woman AND transsexual.
I do think Hillary being a woman IS a consideration. We need a Women Leader, those that say her gender is totally irrelevant, I don't agree with. I think we should give Hillary MORE consideration because of her gender.
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kwenu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:35 PM
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54. Why? Should she be elected on the basis of vagina ownership?
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:00 PM
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80. You are wrong. You are wrong to assume that women will fall in
behind a woman because she's female. Do you understand what you are saying, hon? You are saying that ideas, personality, positions on issues, feelings and ideas about the future and what we want are secondary to supporting a woman candidate because she is a woman. Are you aware that many of us ARE feminists who view her actions and words as a betrayal of what we believe feminism to be? I personally find her scorched earth approach counterproductive. She isn't for anything so much, anymore, as she is against things. She wants the white house so badly that she will lie for it. I don't care if you don't believe VIDEO TAPE and EYEWITNESSES or not, she lied. We need someone who will level with us. Tell us the truth no matter where the chips fall. She can't. She doesn't put the country first. Millions of Hillary supporters will jump on me but so what. This is what I and it appears many more see.

I lost a relationship with my brothers defending the Clintons. I did it because I believed they cared for the country and party first. Now I regret it more than you can imagine because it was for nothing. I don't pretend to understand the gay experience but it seems to me that Don't ask, don't tell is a terrible compromise face saver for Clinton to have imposed on decent, heroic, patriotic military people who just HAPPENED to be gay. Harry Truman integrated the military at HUGE cost because it was RIGHT. He did the hardest thing possible because it was right and just. Clinton had the same moment and he tossed it away. Because of that, people have suffered. Clinton folded like a deck of cards. He risked nothing to do the right thing and he didn't help anyone in the military from a huge injustice. You can die for your country but you can't be who you truly are. It was cowardice. I thought so at the time and I still do.

I don't want anymore of the Clintons. They are way too damned expensive for me to tolerate anymore. My nephew was in Bosnia getting shot at when Hillary pretended to duck sniper fire. She used the military to lie about her 'experience', which is unforgivable.

That is what I see and what I feel. Thank you for having my say.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:27 PM
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90. Because a true feminist won't make a choice based soley on gender
And Clinton has shown herself to us to be the lesser of the candidates. More likely to support the status quo, less honest, less willing to take stands when they're politically inexpedient.

I think Obama is smart, eloquent, and eager to build bridges. I think we desperately need that now. I don't see anything but more of the same old from the Clinton campaign now - nasty campaign tactics, questionable honesty, win at any cost strategies... I want to move away from that.

Their positions on many, if not most, issues are quite similar, to my eyes. What differs, and differs more and more the longer this campaign runs, are questions of character, motivation and intentions.

I want a better world, where we don't spend our time fighting one another, but have a chance to work toward common goals. And don't get me wrong; it's well past time we had a woman in the WH. But Clinton doesn't get extra feminist creds from me simply because she's a woman.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 11:20 PM
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96. Isn't it sexist to assume all feminists must support a woman
regardless of who she is?
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susankh4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:49 PM
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29. Go Hillary!
I am totally in it with ya!
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WDIM Donating Member (267 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:50 PM
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32. Support the liar
maybe she'll get some sleep and realize she can't win.
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azmouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:51 PM
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34. Another feminist for Obama.
I want to see a woman in the WH but I don't think Hillary is the right one.
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ElsewheresDaughter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:55 PM
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36. Obama folks continuously & viciously attacked & have driven off most of Hillary'ssupporters
not all the Obama folks are nasty....it does seem to be a larger contingency of them though.
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beachmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:08 PM
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41. Well, coming from an Obama supporter, there is something called the Ignore function.
Which is what I have the most offensive Hillary supporters on. The fact is the blogs overwhelmingly back Obama. And DU reflects that in the numbers. Sexist remarks aren't cool, but Hillary supporters are constantly the "Supporters who cry Sexism" whenever things aren't going their way. But the truth is that the Obama campaign has never ever ever played into any anti-woman feelings the way the Hillary people like to play on racial tensions and fears.
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kwenu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:30 PM
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51. I'm glad you haven't engaged in any of the nasty talk.
:sarcasm:
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beachmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 04:56 PM
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37. It is not feminist to root for someone simply because they are a woman.
One should vote for someone because they are the best candidate period. That is why I support Barack Obama.
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polichick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:01 PM
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39. I'm a feminist who supports Obama, and I don't want to attack you.
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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:25 PM
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47. thank you, polichick.... posts like yours will make me feel better in Nov
I would have voted for the Dem nominee no matter what.

But trust me, your post makes me feel better about it.


*hugs*
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polichick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:38 PM
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71. I'm gonna be voting for the Dem nominee too...
Hey, we're not crazy!! :toast:
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lumberjack_jeff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:12 PM
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43. Everyone has a different reason for choosing their preferred candidate.
Edited on Tue Mar-25-08 05:15 PM by lumberjack_jeff
I am not a feminist. My priorities are health care, labor, children and GLBT issues (although I'm straight, I have close family for whom this is important)

FWIW, I don't think that Obama eats babies. He's nice enough.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:04 PM
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81. you and I share priorities, lumberjack_jeff
We don't have to agree on all things, however. :)
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:14 PM
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46. As a feminist, it;s legitimate to consider her gender a bonus and should be accounted for
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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:28 PM
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50. AS A WHITE FUCKING MALE, I AM SO PROUD OF MY PARTY!
FOR NOMINATING:

1) a woman

2) a black man




I think that one of the 2 WILL be the next President.

I WILL BE DANCING IN THE STREET WHEN EITHER OF THEM WIN!


*I want it to be Clinton though, hehe. I'll be just as proud if obama wins!*
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ourbluenation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:38 PM
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55. As a feminist, its about having the freedom to vote for who I deem the best candidate, regardless
of gender - that is true equality.


I'm going with the dude from Illinois.
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:40 AM
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111. exactly and as a feminist, that means I can consider HIllary bieng a woman is something that should
be accounted for.
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ourbluenation Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 07:56 PM
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116. you bet. ita n/t
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:05 PM
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82. maybe to your point of view but having a vagina is just like having
balls. standard equipment. What should be accounted for is what lies between the ears and in the heart.
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:39 AM
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110. having a vagina and living as a woman is not like just about having a vagina
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BalancedGoat Donating Member (255 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:07 PM
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83. Not trying to be rude.
Would you see it as a bad thing if a male were to feel that the gender of a male politician was some how a bonus? If so, what's the distinction that seperates the two in your mind?
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AGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:38 AM
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109. isn't that kind of obvious why I think being a woman is a bonus and being a man is not when it comes
to presidential politics?
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kwenu Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:27 PM
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48. No. The post is silly. If you feel that way what difference does it make that you are a man?
Or even gay for that matter.
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jesus_of_suburbia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:30 PM
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52. you don't understand. I'm with ya babe
Edited on Tue Mar-25-08 05:33 PM by jesus_of_suburbia
I'm on your side. but I assume you aren't a gay male Hillary fan.

Correct?


We're all on the same side in the end. The Dem nominee (which I FIRMLY believe will be Obama).
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peaches2003 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 05:34 PM
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53. A real feminist...
doesn't want a woman being elected to be any different than a man. They want EQUALITY, not special treatment, for women. I am a feminist and will vote for a woman when I think she is a better candidate than the man running for the same office.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 10:59 PM
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94. We don't have equality. Don't kid yourself. We can't have passed beyond
a goal that we have never attained.
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LaurenG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:03 PM
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56. This is sad, it's not you
you have every right to support your candidate she just rubs some of us the wrong way. I'm a straight female but I just can't get behind her. Hang in there, this has got to be over with soon, (we can only hope).
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WolverineDG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:06 PM
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57. I'm a lifelong feminist
Granddaughter of a woman who was a suffragette & marched for the right to vote. Daughter of her daughter who took me to the polls every single time she went to vote to remind me of this & arranged for a woman to register me to vote on the day I turned 18.

I support Barack Obama.

dg
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EmilyAnne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:19 PM
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62. Lesbian feminist here for Obama.
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Chalco Donating Member (817 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:20 PM
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63. I am a lifelong feminist.
I've also studied psychology and archeology. In my opinion what is going on is very deep. The undercurrents of sexism are so apparent. It confirms what I know which is that women are inherently stronger than men in terms of their psyche, problem solving ability and brain development that it makes men absolutely furious. It also makes some women furious because it upsets the established order. It threatens everything we know for a woman to be in charge of the most powerful nation. (I know this is temporary because China is taking over. But for right now that is still true.)

But, we need a woman to be in charge. Women are better problem solvers. Women incorporate feelings into their decision making process so that they can see plus feel what the results of any decision are. It is time for a woman to take care of the world.

It will be ok.
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:08 PM
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85. I don't mind women in charge as long as they aren't desperate to
be there anyway they can. I want the best candidate and in this cycle, for me, that is obama. I came late to his table. I wanted Edwards because his issues were mine. Obama speaks to those issues better than her. Just because she is female doesn't sway me. I want issues, not gender bullshit.

Support your candidate, DU. Do what your heart says. Then you will be fine.
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loveangelc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:25 PM
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65. not me
:D
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:27 PM
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66. I am an African American Woman
Edited on Tue Mar-25-08 06:28 PM by goclark
and I am sure they are not including me in the feminist count.

The nerve of them to believe that they are the only women who have been treated unfairly.

My ggg grandmother was a slave and worked all day in the fields for no money.Even after slavery, she was paid pennies.

So if any women in this country should say "not fair" it should be African American women.

And you don't hear a peep.

We are bundled with the title African American - that includes men and women.

So what is really meant is " White women are real women, African American women need not apply."

Obama understands the divides in this country and wants to erase them and it is my dream that ALL PEOPLE will be judged for the content of their character.
:mad:

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Adelante Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:55 PM
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79. That's true in other ways
Look how the working class vote is somehow always discussed as the white working class vote, as if blacks don't work, or something. :crazy:
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:22 PM
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89. You are right and I never thought about it that way...
I was always so busy working that I didn't think about that aspect of polling.

I am reminded of Rodney King's famous words.\, "Can't we all get along?"

Wouldn't it be a beautiful day when our voting patterns would not be segregated but truly EQUAL!
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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:09 PM
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86. that is all we can hope for, goclark.
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:19 PM
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87. Thank you for caring
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crankychatter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 04:36 AM
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113. Debate: Gloria Steinem VS Melissa Harris-Lacewell - Race/Gender in Presidential Politics
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 04:42 AM by crankychatter
The Feminist movement has a shameful history unto the modern day of excluding African American women from the dialogue. They have little to be proud of in that way.

Video is for YOU, Goclark

http://www.democracynow.org/2008/1/14/race_and_gender_in_presidential_politics

in_presidential_politics

sorry the link won't fully post

thanks for posting... I'm afraid on here, you're the "voice of one crying in the wilderness"

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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:28 PM
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67. How about you tell us WHY you want Hillary to win?
What's the attraction?
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tbyg52 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:30 PM
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68. Feminist for Obama checking in
I don't care what sex, race, creed, or color Hillary is, I'm sick of her tactics.
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goclark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 08:36 PM
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92. Me too ~ Obama could be Black, I'm Black
but if he started running a slime campaign, like she has, I would not vote for him.

I won't vote for him because he's AAmerican and I won't vote for her because she is a woman.

In fact,Eleanor Roosevelt was my ideal woman. Sojourner Truth was my kind of woman. Hillary Clark is not my kind of woman.

My idea of a woman President would be Barbara Boxer.I can't even imagine her running this kind of campaign.

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ChimpersMcSmirkers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:33 PM
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69. First off, I like your name :)
There are extremist on both sides, as there always are. I'm not gay, and cannot pretend to speak for you all on either side. With that said, I think with this issue, the Obama folks are a bit frustrated since the "McClurkin" incident seems to trump DOMA and DADT when it comes to who most supports gays.

Having McClurkin campaign for Obama was a mistake, but to me, the policy and political choices made by the Clintons around DOMA in particular, were a greater mistake and more damaging.
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better tomorrow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:34 PM
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70. I'm a feminist, I respect gay males, and I am not voting for Hillary
does that make you feel better?
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Diane R Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 06:50 PM
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77. Lifelong feminist, very much voting for Obama. I've come to despise Hillary.
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NastyRiffraff Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:08 PM
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84. Feminist here, Hillary supporter, anti-hate
Edited on Tue Mar-25-08 07:09 PM by NastyRiffraff
The hatred for Hillary is now off the charts on these boards. It's irrational, and sometimes vicious.

I don't hate Obama. I don't LIKE hime. I don't TRUST him. I will hold my nose and vote for him, very reluctantly, if he wins the nomination. And I will then hold his feet to the fire. I've already saved his website in case certain things are scrubbed later (like I said, I don't trust him at all).
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StevieM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 12:13 AM
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102. I don't trust him either. He reminds me of George Bush (eom)
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 07:21 PM
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88. I'm not attacking you for supporting her. But as someone NOT
supporting Clinton, I'd appreciate it if we also could quit with the assumption that a feminist must support the female candidate, regardless.
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Amerigo Vespucci Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 08:41 PM
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93. OK, here is my fatwa on this subject.
I DO NOT CARE if Hillary is a woman.

I DO NOT CARE if Obama is African-American.

I WANT the man OR woman...

BLACK man

BLACK woman

WHITE man

WHITE woman

PURPLE man

PURPLE woman

...who can restore this country to its dignity after 8 years of George W. Bush.

Peace, OUT.

A.V.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 11:12 PM
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95. No you cannot, at least from me.
Most of the Hillary hate was generated from Hillary herself. The way she's behaved during this campaign is reprehensible. So no sympathy from me. I'm also a gay man and was bullied for my support of Obama.
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otohara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-25-08 11:36 PM
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99. Feminist for Obama Here
sorry dude!
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StevieM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 12:10 AM
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101. I'm a man, I don't consider myself a feminist and I LOVE Hillary Clinton
Edited on Wed Mar-26-08 12:11 AM by StevieM
The hatred for her on this board is despicable. I truly feel sorry for people who have so much anger in their hearts.

Hillary is a wonderful person who has run an honorable campaign in the face of a relentless smear campaign by her opponent. She has my everlasting respect.

Steve
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murielm99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 01:58 AM
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103. I am a feminist and I want Clinton to win.
Many Clinton supporters have been driven away from DU by the hate. I am sorry to see a place I enjoyed turning into such a sewer of hate.

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Swamp Rat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:14 AM
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104. I'm a rabid, male shovenist rat, and I want to bite Hillary and give her rabies and LOCKJAW!
:evilgrin:



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Raine Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:19 AM
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105. I'm a 57yr old feminist for Obama
but I won't attack you for your support of Hillary, that's totally your choice.
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dkf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:32 AM
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108. I'm an anti-label female for Obama!
All I know is that I have a hard time assigning credibility to Hillary's words, and I am very often disgusted by her actions.

That doesn't leave me much room to support her, even if she is a woman.

I want a woman President I can be proud of. Hillary simply does not fit the bill.

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TheDonkey Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 02:40 AM
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112. Gay male here. GO OBAMA!!!
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 06:55 AM
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115. support the candidate of your choice dude.
My choice is Obama. He is my third choice so far. If by some miracle Clinton manages to pull out of her self-destructing campaign tailspin and capture the nomination, she will be my fourth choice.
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Honeycombe8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 08:28 PM
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117. Feminist woman. And Obamamama. nt
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indie_voter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-26-08 08:29 PM
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118. 44 yr old woman for Obama n/t
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LeFleur1 Donating Member (973 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Mar-27-08 12:24 AM
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119. Feminist For Hillary Here
Hillary is an honorable person. It is so great to finally have a woman running for leader of this country. It wasn't too many years ago that a woman couldn't have run for the highest office in the land. We've come a long way, baby. We still have a long way to go before things are equal, but our determiniation will win out. It's wonderful to see women taking part in so many business and political endeavors successfully. There was a time when I didn't believe it would ever be allowed to happen. It was worth the fight.

I'm constantly amazed at how much power the right wing demonizers have on ordinary people.
The constant insults toward her on this board are sickening (not to mention stupid) because as long as people keep saying it those too lazy to find out for themselves believe it and spread the hate. It's a contageous thing.

I don't find Obama a uniter. I find him to be a wishy washy wisher who embellishes his record, which, sadly, most people do when they run for office.

Hillary has done nothing bad. She has served her constituency well. NY and ARkansas where she is well known voted overwhelmingly for her. She is smart, experienced, and she is a problem solver. She understands our government and she knows how to get things done. She is the best candidate for the job.
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