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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:22 PM
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There are times when I love DU to pieces, where else can I go
to watch people chime in on so many issues, from polar opposites of just a few weeks or days ago?

"This/that person must be chastised!"

"Your candidate sucks more than mine!"

"It isn't/is about being black."

"It isn't/is about being female."

"My candidate has more money!"

I think everyone has the right to an opinion, and that opinion should be heard...but not necessarily agreed with to the point where people absolutely insist that nothing else matters, (at least at that time in the scheme of things).

Point is, most people won't move one millimeter to even try to meet in the middle. There will be no quarter given, few; if any reasoned discussions have been posted over the past few weeks, and because of that, we've been driven into 3 camps.

Camp 1: Those who support a certain candidate.

Camp 2: Those who the other candidate.

Camp 3: Those who are still undecided, but are being driven further from the process by Camps 1 & 2.

I am in Camp 3. I have yet to see either candidate do/say anything I can truly support at his time. It has all about posturing and little substance has come from any of it. Neither candidate can get my support that way. So I'll keep waiting until something comes of this, might be right up to the nomination, but I want something I can sink my teeth into, not just spurious platitudes designed to gain my attention, but are little more than empty calories.

We are now getting to that absurd point where we actually have some people "hating" others because of the candidate they support...and the complaining will go on. But most of what I see are complaints. I see remarkably little that can be seen as positive from either Camp 1 or 2. What has happened, is that animosity is ruling the day, and regardless of the candidate, is that really the way we should be choosing one?

There is faux "outrage" at what others have said or done, but where was the rage when the RW spit all over us? Day in and day out, we are not pressing home the truths that counter the RW hatefest. We're too busy in our own slug-it-out to even see that there are trolls and RWnuts taking stuff off our Boards and using it to show the world what a bunch of loons we can look like.

We call Ann Coulter what she is, a whore; but God forbid someone else says something about "whores."

We call O'Reilly and Limbaugh what they are, moronic gasbags that can't even put a sentence together w/o lying through their teeth; but we call Olberman a "traitor", because he said something someone didn't like, even if it's the truth.

We are FAR better than this, and yet we are being dragged down to the level of the RW..."Fall into step, or a pox be upon you." Everyone has the right to make a post, (within the rules). But no one, ever, has gotten someone to see their point of view by abusing them.

Time after time, people have asked for honest discourse and debate...time after time, some have to come in and overturn the place because they "have all of the answers". I wish I had all of the answers, I'd be happy having MOST of the answers...but the minute I start calling someone else a fool, a 'scumbag', a 'douche-bag', I'll never be able to have a decent conversation w/that person again; and they are most certainly NOT going to agree w/me.

Put down your torches and your pitchforks...talk, and you'd be surprised at how many will hear, and how many may listen.







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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:32 PM
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1. How can you have a discussion
with people who think "cunt" is an appropriate characterization of Clinton, or think that "I fucking HATE her" is a starting point?
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:34 PM
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2. You can't, did you miss that point? n/t
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MonkeyFunk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:51 PM
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9. I understand what you're saying
but it's not just the occasional troll engaging in this behavior - it's a huge portion of the members here. The "I fucking HATE her" thread has hundreds of responses and a hundred recs. That just poisons the whole forum, and frankly, I still don't understand how that thread is considered "constructive criticism" of a candidate.

But on the plus side, thanks for TS'ing CitizenRob - it was well-deserved.
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PeaceNikki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:34 PM
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3. And the 100+ people who recommend "I fucking HATE her" to kick it to the
"Greatest" page?

:wtf:
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:37 PM
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5. Torches and pitchforks need to be taken out of the equation...
It isa not that difficult to do. People who espouse hatred should essentially be ignored by the populace of DU. No one gives them ammunition except those who do so willingly.
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:05 PM
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12. I disagree. People that espouse that level of hatred towards a democrat
need to be banned. It's disgusting. It cheapens this site.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:33 PM
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17. We know how the process works...
but all processes on DU start with the members. If members just leave these people to their own devices, they lose interest. We supply them with the ammunition they use against others.

If people just back out of the areas of contention, the thread would sink like a tone, we are the very elements of our own discord.
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FlyingSquirrel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:33 PM
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18. Thank you for locking the "Hate" thread with all the recs
:thumbsup:
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:34 PM
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20. You are welcome...
:hi:
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FlyingSquirrel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:24 PM
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15. You can just as easily ignore a thread with 100 recs as 0
I certainly did.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:34 PM
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19. You to have found the keys to wisdom in GD-P
just don't feed the fire.
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griffi94 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:37 PM
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4. i used to think we were better than this
but unfortunately this primary season has proven that to be incorrect.
this is the first time since shrub managed to get sworn in that i'm having a really hard time caring one way or another. this place reminds me of the neo-con sites a few years ago.

in 2004 i wasn't a big fan of kerry, but he won the nomination and i voted for him in the general election.
i'm not thrilled with either candidate that's left as i was an edwards supporter, and right at the moment i don't think either can win in november. there's been too much slashing and burning, and i don't see enough of that being repaired to get over the top. had the gop ran one of their nuttier seeming candidates i believe the democrats win no matter what, but mccain is going to be tougher to beat than a lot of people here want to admit. with the party divided even a little bit, it's going to be a hard road to walk. obama has brought new blood to the party, however many older traditional democrats are feeling squeezed out, and i believe it's delusional to think that the day after we have a nominee that the factions are going to kiss and make up.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:42 PM
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7. McCain is easily beatable, by either D in the field...
The second rule of war and politics is divide and conquer, (the first is "know your enemy").

The only people that will toss this election over to McCain are D's, by either not voting, or voting out of "protest" to "prove a point.

If the election were held tomorrow, I am willing to bet McCain would lose by 30+ pts. He has nothing, but we have fail to use that to our advantage because of the in-party squabbling.
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griffi94 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:52 PM
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10. my point is the in party squabbling
could in the end bring us president mccain. he'll be harder to beat than rudy would have been, because he's a westerner, and the southern gop will vote for him easier than they would ever have voted for rudy. huckabee wasn't a real threat for obvious reasons, and romney wasn't either, also for obvious reasons. thompson never got awake enough to get going and was passed up by his own pre-campaign hype.
but mccain has the reputation as a maverick, and someone who will break with his own party (i don't believe it, but that's still his reputation) he'll siphon off his share of indy votes, and believe it or not more than a few southern democrats. he looks moderate to most people who don't watch very closely, and can easily be a compromise candidate for voters turned off by the 2 front runners.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:00 PM
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11. McCain is incredibly beatable...it is merely a question of dealing
w/him, he has nothing except a "name" as a maverick, he's far from that. he has not oneiota of sense and no policy at all except more bus. Not even the R's want that.
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NC_Nurse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:38 PM
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6. You have to look for the rare and eloquent posters.
They are out there. Avoid the obvious flamebait and silliness and look for better.
I found some good ones tonight. You just have to pick and choose. If I click on
something and it turns out to be more mudslinging, I just click back out. No biggie.


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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 09:47 PM
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8. You have found the key to wisdom in GD-P...
:)
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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:17 PM
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13. I will admit I don't have even half of the answers
There are questions I'd like to ask here but I know I can't because those questions could be taken the wrong way and cause a train wreck. In the end I don't know if I'd get any honest answers. It's a mess and I have no idea how to deal with it.

I really just wanted to thank you for this thoughtful post addressing what's taking place here right now. I kind of doubt it will have any impact at this moment in time, but I appreciate the effort.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:38 PM
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21. Your already on the road, tqake the next step, and if someone
tries to steer the thread off course, don't take the bait.

There are people out there dyiing to get into a level conversation and work things out. If someone drops in and leaves a turd in the punchbowl, if it's an attack, alert, otherwise, just let them go.

One thing I've learned is that every post doesn't need to be answered.
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Tresalisa Donating Member (537 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:17 PM
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14. You forgot to include those of us here
who will support either Clinton or Obama in November and who, while sad at seeing the infighting going on here in GD-P, know that it's all part of politics and the passion each side has for their candidate.

:hi:

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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:40 PM
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22. Camp #3...to me, at this point, regardless of the candidate...
I'm voting for him/her.

There is no way I'd even contemplate voting for McCain. Third party...no way, it's my vote, and I'm not tossing it into the drink.
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FlyingSquirrel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:25 PM
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16. nevermind
Edited on Thu Apr-03-08 10:33 PM by FlyingSquirrel
was just bein' silly.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:40 PM
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23. Hey...I'd rather laugh than fight anyday!...
:D
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LittleClarkie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:45 PM
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24. I'm in Camp Obama
(oh great, now I feel like breaking into a chorus of "Hello Muddah, Hello Faddah", but I digress)

but I will vote for Hillary if she is the nominee. However, watching the antics of both her campaign and the attitudes of her supporters, I'm not entirely sure I'll be campaigning for her if she wins.

That's the difference. I try not to be that person myself, though I probably fail sometimes. I don't want to be the reason someone decides they can't vote/campaign for Obama if he is the winner.

I try to call out both sides when I see an issue, or at least alert on both sides.

Welcome to Thunderdome.

Damn, I was really hoping things would be back to normal by Super Tuesday, that we'd have a clear nominee. Was not to be.

I deal with it by not spending a ton of time here. No GBCW posts - I just disappear once in a while.

I'm more interested in DU as a whole, and maintaining some semblance of civility and order than I am in EITHER side, mostly.
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rasputin1952 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-03-08 10:50 PM
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25. I can live with anyone who wants to talk, regardless of D ...
candidate.

I might not go out and campaign for either, but I'll certainly cast my vote for the winner.

No way I'm going down to McCain, just no way.
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