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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:33 PM
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My thick skin is growing by the minute.One guy told me that he is not voting this year.
Edited on Sat Jun-07-08 10:42 PM by CarolinaPeridot
He does'nt like McCain and does'nt want to vote Obama because of his Muslim past.A Muslim past that does not exist.The only Muslim past that Obama has is from living in Indonesia,a predominantly Muslim country.And while there he attended a Catholic school although the family was registered Muslim. He said he "heard" that Obama's father was a Muslim and that could have had something to do with his upbringing.Then the middle name thing. I told him that my name is both Arabic and Hebrew in orgin but I am not Muslim nor Jewish - a name is a name.He brought the experience factor. Boom I knocked him down starting with Obama's community work and the fact that Obama was actually in the Illinois State Senate.The guy I was debating had no idea that Obama was in the Illinois state senate.I hope the Obama campaign forces this fact down the throats of everyone that want to throw the experience factor into play.

And on the subject of Obama's former church - he says that the subject of racial inequality does not belong in the Christian church.I hit back that the Civil rights movement of the 50s and 60s started in the church. He said "yeah yeah but the Jim Crow days are over and you don't see seperate water fountains anymore" and he just shrug his shoulders.I educated him a bit about Obama's childhood,directed him to each candidate's websites and I told him that I too did'nt know much about him until I RESEARCHED Obama and all the candidates.He asked me why I was getting so defensive.Before I walked away I told him "People who speak more than 10 words of ignorance really piss me off.I can persuade you to vote,you already seem to close minded to understand the election process." Mind you this guy was 39 years old and not 19 years old.

I know that not everyone is going to vote for Obama.But at least let it be a valid reason for not doing so.

Edited to add:And I asked him "What is wrong with being Muslim?" - He couldn't answer.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:40 PM
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1. Our new mission is to educate, and you did just that! Thank you! Rec'd! nt
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:43 PM
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3. I even thought about making my own flyers to educate people.
Just give it to them and walk away and pray that they can read.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:48 PM
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5. Ah, I remember this well in fighting against the dim one. You could
put flyers in the library, leave some in shopping carts, there are ways to get out the word. Hell, freeway bloggers! :)
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AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:56 PM
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6. I've used some handouts from Obama's site and left them on cars.
The link I was using is no longer valid now that we've moved beyond the primaries so I bet there will be new ones coming soon. However, I did find this:
http://my.barackobama.com/page/content/actioncenter/resourcelibrary/
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niceypoo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:43 PM
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20. Well, the means used to 'educate' Hillary supporters...
..drove them away in disgust. I believe the term is, 'negative reinforcement.'

Not advisable in the general.
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Joe Bacon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 10:16 AM
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43. Al Smith has the same lies thrown against him in 1928!
Dad told me all the lies that were spread about Al Smith in 1928. All those lies saying Al Smith would let the Pope call the shots and he would force everyone to convert to the Catholic church. And the Republic Party sure let stooges like Billy Sunday bullshit the masses about how godless New York City was. All those evil bootleggers financed by the Pope. Of course they never mentioned Chicago because one Al Capone was a good Republic Party member. Just imagine, if Al Smith had gotten into the White House, he would have taken action against the Depression right from the start and he could have minimized its impact instead of Hoover's do nothing attitude. Think of all the lives ruined by the stupidity that the Republic Party encouraged, and the same stooges are spreading the same bullshit!
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:40 PM
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2. as for the experience argument - I thought it was the GOP pushing term limits not so long ago...
I thought they hated career politicians? :shrug:
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opihimoimoi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:19 PM
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13. What experience does McSame really offer? What are his ideas to advance the Nation? Nada
Old Band Aids is what the GOP Offers.....nothing exciting, Promising, and New.....The whole GOP Party is stuck on SLOW
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Muttocracy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:36 PM
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18. they shouldn't even want him in the Senate! nt
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opihimoimoi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 01:51 AM
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27. no shit...dump the dude....POS he is....
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whistler162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 04:06 PM
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45. Well from the 1980's you could site his....
experience in banking.:sarcasm:
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Emit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:48 PM
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4. Sounds like you did a good job, CarolinaPeridot
It is hard not getting defensive and/or frustrated with the ill- or misinformed -- I went door to door in '04 and '06, doing surveys and persuading voters. It's not easy.

Good job, Keep up the good work. We have a lot more educating by word of mouth, one vote at a time. And, don't get discouraged. It does get easier.
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AZBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 10:58 PM
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7. You did everything you could - thank you!
And you never know...

These barriers often aren't broken down in one day. You probably set that process in motion and he may just wind up voting for Obama in November after all! :D
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Yael Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:08 PM
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8. How people can criticize his 20 year CHURCH in one breath and then claim they aren't
voting for a MUSLIM just short circuits my brain.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:15 PM
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9. Its because they are looking for excuses NOT to vote for him.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:48 PM
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21. don't forget
for a lot of people, these silly excuses are a lot more acceptable than saying I WON'T VOTE FOR A BLACK, PERIOD. As someone who has never been a fan of Obama I know this is not true of all naysayers but it certainly is true of SOME of them.
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Nay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 09:19 AM
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34. Short-circuits my brain, too -- and makes me realize yet again how
goddam stupid most ppl are.
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laugle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:16 PM
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10. It sounds to me
Edited on Sat Jun-07-08 11:17 PM by laugle
like you were rude, intimidating, condescending and lost your cool. I don't think you made a convert.

Best to read the book by Dale Carnegie, "How to win friends and influence people." It's a short read, it's sold a zillion copies, it's on e-bay............guaranteed it will change your life!



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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:18 PM
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11. I would rather be rude with the right facts ...
Edited on Sat Jun-07-08 11:20 PM by CarolinaPeridot
than to walk around ignorant.

Your opinion is your opinion.

And I wasn't trying to make a convert.I was just trying to let him know that Obama was never a Muslim.Its ok to call me rude ahhh who cares.Enjoy your night.
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laugle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:28 PM
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16. Sorry, I'm not saying you
are rude, I don't know you. But your argument sounded rude, etc.

People will draw there own conclusions, and perceive things in their own way. I agree with you about pointing out facts, but assuming a person is ignorant and taking a superior attitude gets you nowhere.

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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:37 PM
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19. I apologize.I do admit that I am hotheaded.
And there is room for me to learn.Thanks for pointing that out :hi:
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laugle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:29 AM
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25. You are a sweetie....
I've had a long career in sales/finance so I've read my share of closing the deal books. I hope you check that out.

After all, politicians are just sales people. If you like their product you buy it!

Influencing people to your point of view, is about presentation and product.

We all have things to learn from each other, no one is superior, of course some are wealthier, or have higher positions, but in the end a happy life comes from within us not from the outside. But creature comforts are nice too. Best to you....thanks for being receptive.............
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The Night Owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:19 PM
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12. In the 1950s, churches took the lead in the Civil Rights Movement, but the movement...
Edited on Sat Jun-07-08 11:20 PM by The Night Owl
...originated with the Communist Party USA, which fought valiantly against white supremacy and for the rights of black labor.
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ananda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:24 PM
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14. Who cares if O had a Muslim past or not?
I wouldn't even care if he were a Muslim
or even, heaven forfend, nothing at all.

Sheesh
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:26 PM
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15. Some people do apparently.
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-07-08 11:33 PM
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17. There is NOTHING wrong with being a Muslim. Denying the TRUTH.......
is the REAL PROBLEM. Enough said.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:25 AM
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23. What truth are you talking about? I'm seriously curious. WTF
are you talking about? Are you listening too much to Hannity or Rush? :think: And just for you, here's a clock:

http://www.timeanddate.com/counters/fullscreen.html?mode=m&year=2008&month=6&day=11&hour=12&min=0&sec=0&p0=179
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ScottS Donating Member (87 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 02:15 AM
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28. I think he just meant the guy the OP was talking about was denying the truths told to him by the OP.
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 07:25 AM
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31. I don't listen to the RW or the LW shills or pundits; BOTH have a lot in common.
Denial got US bush; don't make the SAME mistake twice. And the clock is for what, as if I didn't know?
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The Night Owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:43 AM
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26. A candidate's religion is not something which would dissuade me from voting for that candidate...
Edited on Sun Jun-08-08 12:59 AM by The Night Owl
...but I can think of at least a few things wrong with following Islam......or Christianity... or Judaism... or Buddhism... or Hinduism... or Paganism... or any religion.
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 07:19 AM
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30. Religion of ANY TYPE has NO PLACE in politics or government..
bush exemplifies my opinion.
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The Night Owl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 09:37 AM
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35. That religion has no place in government goes without saying as far as I'm concerned...
...but my point was that I can think of a least a few reasons to criticize someone for being Muslim... or for being a follower of any religion.

Religion is not sacred for me. I have no qualms about criticizing or even ridiculing religion and those who don't like that can fuck off.
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 09:52 AM
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36. Religion should be personal and private; NOT shoved down the throat of others.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 08:11 AM
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33. You still refuse to explain this remark? Then why did you put it here?
For the record, Obama is a Christian despite the shit you want to stir. And there is nothing wrong with Muslims, but he is not one.
YOU are part of the problem and remind me of this admin, who smeared anyone who might be Muslim because they are all "bad people" in the eyes of many who have been lied to. What's your excuse?
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 09:55 AM
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38. YOU filter what YOU want to hear and ignore the rest.
Quit twisting and ignoring my words.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 10:11 AM
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42. You haven't answered the question. What "TRUTH" is being denied?
Do tell, I'm waiting.
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 02:52 PM
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44. The TRUTH is............
Edited on Sun Jun-08-08 03:01 PM by Double T
http://www.danielpipes.org/article/5544 obama was a Muslim as a child, so what? I would be far more concerned about his recent Christian Rev. Wright associations and actions. If a candidate will lie about his past, what else would he lie about.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 04:09 PM
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47. He was never a Muslim as a child !
When he lived in Indonesia his family was registered "Muslim" because of his stepfather's belief.BUT Obama grew up as a Christian and attended a Catholic grade school where he received Christian teachings.

Why is this such a problem?
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Double T Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 10:22 PM
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50. The problem isn't that BO was once a Muslim; the problem is HE denies it.
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BelleCarolinaPeridot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 11:37 PM
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51. Who cares ?
Have a great week.

Xenophobia will get you no where.
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 04:28 PM
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48. YOU have got to be kidding. First off, Pipes is a neocon bigot who's a
liar to boot, at least that's his reputation, based on comments by reputable people.

Second, Obama is not and never has been a Muslim, not that there's anything wrong with being a Muslim. I wish you'd read his book, "Dreams From My Father". You'd know the truth.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Pipes


Views on Islam

snip//

However, in The Nation, Kristine McNeil describes Pipes as an "anti-Arab propagandist" who has built a career out of "distortions...twist{ing} words, quot{ing} people out of context and stretch{ing} the truth to suit his purpose."{14} James Zogby argues that Pipes possesses an "obsessive hatred of all things Muslim", and that "Pipes is to Muslims what David Duke is to African-Americans."{15} Christopher Hitchens, a fellow supporter of the Iraq War and critic of political Islam, has also criticized Pipes, arguing that Pipes pursues an intolerant agenda, "confuses scholarship with propaganda", and "pursues petty vendettas with scant regard for objectivity", making him a "poor if not useless ally".
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OwnedByFerrets Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:01 AM
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22. Not that idiots care.....
but when the "experience" thing is brought up.....My response is "yes, McSame has tons more experience at voting for 96% of Monkeyboys programs, including a war that spent over 4000 American soldiers lives and over 1 million Iraqi lives. If you like what Monkeyboy has done to this country, by all means vote for the "experiene" of McSame."
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davidpdx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 12:28 AM
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24. Some people are going to believe that shit
no matter how hard you try to set them straight. Most of them are probably McCain supporters anyway.
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Fly by night Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 06:35 AM
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29. Had a 2 minute conversation w/ 3 Repub friends on Friday.
One is voting for Barr and the other two aren't voting.

I encouraged them all to look at Barr. I have some Libertarian tendencies myself, but my heart belongs to Obama.

Fired up. Ready to go.
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Honeycombe8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 07:52 AM
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32. He is free to vote for who he wants. By "muslim," what he means is....because Obama's black.
Don't let the various reasons fool you. If you listen carefully to Democrats who say they won't vote for Obama, they are all too eager to seize upon any reason that they could easily discover are untrue. A friend of mine quoted a rightwing e-mail about Michelle Obama, then denied her info came from one of those e-mails when I called her on it (oh, Linda...you know better than to believe those fake rightwing e-mails that they send around). I found the substance on Snopes....it IS a rightwing e-mail being circulated.

It boils down to race, IMO. And you cannot convince someone like that to vote for Obama. Best to concentrate on those who are not like that. Like the many moderate Republicans and Independents that are considering voting for Obama.
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Liberal_Stalwart71 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 09:54 AM
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37. Muslim is code word for "militant" and "black." They use the Muslim argument
to shield against claims of racism.
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complain jane Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 09:56 AM
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39. One of my best friends votes however her Republican husband tells her to.
This year she heard Obama, Clinton and McCain speak on tv and told her husband she is voting for Obama and that if he votes for McCain he's an idiot. I was so proud.
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Duder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 10:00 AM
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40. Probably half the country won't vote
If they haven't been living under a rock the past 8 years the ones that do will vote for Obama.

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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 04:08 PM
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46. The good news is that new Dem registrations are overwhelming
election boards ALL over the country.

We'll vote, all right. :)
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Tippy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 10:05 AM
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41. He couldn't answer.
"What is wrong with being Muslim?" - But many will answere 9/11...so prepair an answer...

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otohara Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-08-08 04:32 PM
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49. Then He Can't Complain Later
or be proud.
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