First, I have no doubt that being female is different. Agree. It is the gender superiority blast that I take issue with.
"I've been ethnic ... I know what it means to stand out. But gender bias is different - we are different, and those attributes should not be overlooked."
* We are all ethnic. However, being a minority in America is a different perspective. If you are a minority in America, then you understand. As for sexism. I think Barack Obama may very well be far more progressive on gender issues than any past presidential candidate. George Bush? Anti-choice. Bill Clinton? You mention a few comments by Obama, but with Bill, he had some well known instances where he did not treat women with respect. Bush, Sr.? Reagan? There are few, if any, presidents or presidential candidates who are more progressive on gender issues than Barack Obama.
"It's mens' weaknesses that are the real problem - and the reason it hasn't been addressed. Boys can't compete fairly against girls and they don't grow up."
* Amazingly sexist statement there, as well as hypocritical given your criticism of men. Your argument justifies gender stereotyping. I thought the goal is to appraise people as individuals, and respect the differences. Not throw out a blast against an entire gender as perpetually immature.
"But life happens to women and families depend on support systems that secular society doesn't afford. So before we dimiss half the population and most than half of the next generation that will depend on single moms (not so many dads, ya think?) and sentence them to perpetual hardship."
* Who is dismissing half the population? Personally, I like Barabra Boxer better than Hillary Clinton. Are you saying that if I don't support a woman, that I hate all women. Conversely, are you saying that if you are an employer, would you alays choose a woman over a man regardless of qualifications?
"It didn't have to be this way ... it's an opportunity we lost but I won't grieve. The real world needs us to continue as we were - but we won't pretend this is progress. When Obama says women can make it, "in high heels", I felt sick ... but just for a moment, until I remembered, he's just a man."
* Of course it didn't. Talk about throwing Hillary's accomplishments under the bus.
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n high heels" This is close to a smear. Obama never said women can make it in "high" heels. Again, I think you are stereotyping. If you are referring to the unity event, he never said anything about high heels. Also, didn't you say that "being female is different." When is it okay to note a gender difference "heels" and when is it not? Should Obama say that women and men are exactly the same? Also, why are you ignoring this quote from Obama:
"I've admired her as a leader. I've learned from her as a candidate. She rocks. She rocks. That's the point I'm trying to make...I know how much we need Bill and Hillary Clinton...in the months and years to come. They have done so much great work."
This is what surprises me. You seem to be a Hillary supporter, but rather than note the very positive things Obama has said, you draw attention to a reference to "heels," then add "high heels" to make the statement seem unprofessional.
* "He's just a man." Again, the very same sexism you rail against.
Finally, what is your thought on Hillary's relationship with Bill Clinton? I mean if you have this much anger towards Obama, how do you feel about Bill Clinton, as well as Hillary's decision to remain with him?
There are reasons enough to critique our candidate, which we don't need to make up. Also, one thing to note, John McCain gets a free pass not only from the media, but from PUMA contingent. The fact of the matter is that Barrack Obama is being held to a much higher standard than George Bush, Sr., Bill Clinton, George W. Bush, and John McCain such that the PUMA folks are willing to imperil gender equality by voting for John McCain. John seems to be getting a lot of free passes these days: the GI Bill, his shifting stands on abortion, his leaving his first wife high and dry.
Thus, while we complain about the Big Media giving John McCain a free pass, the truth is that many folks on DU are far more guilty in not holding John McCain accountable, since they ostensibly understand his policies.
Finally, lest you think I am anti-Hillary. Far from it. I think Obama should consider her as a nominee for the Supreme Court. Of course, if this got out, this would totally mobilize the RW, since the S. Ct. is for life, but I think the idea is intriguing:
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=132&topic_id=6420857&mesg_id=6420857