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jefferson_dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 07:29 AM
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What I Saw at the Beer Summit, by Elizabeth Gates ("Skip" Gates's daughter)
What I Saw at the Beer Summit
by Elizabeth Gates

The Daily Beast’s Elizabeth Gates joined her father, Skip, Sgt. Crowley, and the president to raise a beer and bury the hatchet. An inside report from the peace talks.

In a world in which the conversation on race has traditionally taken a back seat to both logic and reason, it’s no wonder that yesterday’s so-called “Beer Summit” at the White House seemed to make little sense at all. It wasn’t because the President was wrong in offering up a few cold ones to my father, Henry Louis Gates, and the now infamous Sergeant James Crowley in an attempt to tame the media blitz around my father’s arrest—it was because like most issues that make their way to TMZ, the reference point had shifted. The debate over Red Stripe and Blue Moon had somehow overshadowed the fact that this story began with a black Harvard professor and a white cop from Natick, Mass—and as CNN’s countdown clock to the event taunted viewers like a time bomb, it was clear that this day wasn’t going to be the beginning of a serious discussion on human relations but rather a circus-like ending of a misunderstanding between a couple of very decent men.

I can’t say that I was shocked.

My father cut right through the thick tension of hurried salutations and offered the Sgt. his hand and joked, “You looked bigger the last time I saw you.”
As our family rounded the corner to the White House library and I first caught sight of Sergeant Crowley’s lovely 14-year old daughter—who was wearing an appropriately heavy and charmingly untrained amount of green eyeliner on her lower lashes—we were instantly transported from the post-racial myth of America in 2008 to the reality of 2009. There they stood, a pleasant family of five, listening patiently to the overzealous tour guide boast about the fully functioning fireplace to the left of the doorframe.

As soon as my father’s foot crossed the threshold of the room, the storm of mediators immediately rushed to introduce us, but true to form, my father cut right through the thick tension of hurried salutations and offered the Sgt. his hand and joked, “You looked bigger the last time I saw you.” Crowley’s cheeks flushed red as a smile dashed across his lips, and his young son, whose cheeks had long since flushed the same muted crimson, looked up at his father and smiled. This wasn’t a family raised on hate. At that moment, right there in the library, they were just like us: a young family groomed to perfection, waiting to learn how to get those damn cameramen off their lawn and to put this sensationalized hell behind them.

Moments later, the Sergeant and my father were escorted to the Rose Garden where the press sat waiting “at least 40 feet away” while the rest of our us continued on with our tour. As we walked by a set of French doors that gave a clear view of this highly anticipated talk, and I saw Mr. Obama’s lean body coolly draped over a lawn chair I wondered what these four men—President Obama, Vice President Biden, Sgt. Crowley and my father—could possibly say to heal this situation and what the press was actually waiting for. Would my father and Sgt. Crowley be reduced to who they were on that fateful day in my father’s house on Ware Street and give us all a glimpse of what really happened? Or could it be that this small collection of men were actually devising some master plan to rid the world of all racist tendencies right there in the Presidential Rose Garden over a few brewskis? No. That would have been impossible to achieve—even on Obama’s best day and even if my father had actually finished his Sam Adams.

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http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-07-31/what-i-saw-at-the-beer-summit/
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NYC_SKP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 09:13 AM
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1. kicking this. nt
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tavalon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 09:26 AM
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2. So, I must ask
How do we get the real conversation going? This is long overdue and yet, where to begin?
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Fire1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 07:25 PM
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22. We begin with 'honesty.' n/t
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 09:50 AM
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3. Interesting read....
After reading Ms. Gates' perspective on the 'beer summit' I continued on to read the comments. The debate certainly seems to be continuing.

Recommended.
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ensho Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 10:49 AM
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4. kick
nt
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sam kane Donating Member (326 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 11:06 AM
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5. why comment on the "untrained eyeliner" of a 14 year old?
honestly, not necessary, and I have been a long time Gates fan.
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Cha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 12:29 PM
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6. Because it was there and why
should anyone care that it was part of her narrative?

I thought nothing of it but a smile.
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polmaven Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 12:44 PM
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8. OK, I see from where you are coming,
but why the use of the word "appropriately"? Is there a new fashion or style of which this old lady is unaware?
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quiller4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 01:18 PM
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10. Yes. Look at 17 magazine next time your are in the grocery store. n/t
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lyonn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 04:04 PM
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14. If you have had daughters and granddaughters
you get the mood of the situation. They were normal, average people/families. It's a joke when a girl is in her early teens, it's almost a given, they will have way too much makeup on and you also know they will learn to not overdo the "paint" eventually, hopefully. It made it seem real to me. Mom and Dad probably would have had a fight on their hands if they had told her to tone it down, or at least hurt her feelings.

Two of my granddaughters are 14 & 15. I can't wait to see what they "really" look like in a couple of years when they quit trying to look 16-18!
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Thickasabrick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 04:18 PM
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15. It struck me the same way - it's like "what does that have to do with
the price of eggs in china".
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Honeycombe8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 06:46 PM
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19. She was remarking about how average, everyday the family was.
Edited on Fri Jul-31-09 06:46 PM by Honeycombe8
The young girl who is experimenting with her makeup. She meant, "Overdoing it, with her inexperience.....just like all of us do when we're that age." How alike they were, when seeing the family in person.
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Honeycombe8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 06:44 PM
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18. I don't have kids. But I was once a young teen girl. I think what she meant was...
the trademark overuse of cosmetics in an inartful way that is so often the case with young teen girls who are just beginning to use makeup.

I remember my "trademark" overuse of heavy eyeliner when I was about 13. Carefully put on in the school's bathroom, since my parents would've never let me leave the house looking like that.

I think that's what she was referring to. It's a cute reference to an everyday thing about young girls...and that her parents let her "do herself up" without restricting her....even though they were going to the White House.

I got the comment. It was meant in a cute, friendly way. I smiled as I remembered my eyeliner.
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rhett o rick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 10:36 PM
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25. It's actually endearing. Shows that she is normal. No botox. nm
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masuki bance Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 11:59 PM
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30. Meow.
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JI7 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-01-09 12:13 AM
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31. an example of them being like any other family , and any other 14 year old
Edited on Sat Aug-01-09 12:14 AM by JI7
it probably reminded her of herself when she was 14 and putting on makeup.

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Cha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 12:34 PM
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7. Wow, she's good!
Thanks for this, Jefferson.

I'm hoping something good does come out of this eventually.

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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 01:10 PM
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9. WOW! she's a keen observer, and a gifted writer- Thank
you for posting this excellent first person account.

She helped me see Crowley in a much less ...one dimensional way.

:grouphug:
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mzmolly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-01-09 12:15 AM
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32. Yes she is.
:hi:
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Phx_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 03:38 PM
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11. Wonderful and insightful read! kick.
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lame54 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 03:49 PM
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12. Gates gave Crowley the greatest compliment a man can give another...
"He's not Joe the plumber"
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Cha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 10:31 PM
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24. That's got to be
a classic! Especially in the whole context thing.
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zonkers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 03:54 PM
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13. Gates and his daughter have a nice relationship. Touching conversation at the end.
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Major Hogwash Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 06:37 PM
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16. Fuck mainstream media, they'd like nothing better than to cover a race riot.
Most of the time, okay, let's be honest here - all of the time - the only thing the mainstream media wants to do is focus on conflict, not on resolution.

How many papers would the New York Times sell if there were no conflicts written about in tomorrow's paper?
What if their editor said, "we're only going to print 'good news' from now on, stories about how we get along in America"?

How many copies would that type of paper sell?

Gates and Crowley's incident could lead to a bigger discussion on race relations, but the mainstream media won't let that happen.


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HopeOverFear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 10:49 PM
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27. ^^^^^^^TRUTH
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Honeycombe8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 06:41 PM
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17. Nice article. nt
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boppers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 06:56 PM
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20. K&R
:kick:
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Lilyeye Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 07:11 PM
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21. Good piece.
After reading the comments from the article on that site, its obvious that this incident really hasn't taught many people anything.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 10:27 PM
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23. k & R
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ClearPresentDanger Donating Member (139 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 10:42 PM
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26. k&r
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BunkerHill24 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 11:40 PM
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28. K&R
:thumbsup: :thumbsup:
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proteus_lives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Jul-31-09 11:50 PM
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29. Great article.
I liked her style of writing. She showed that her father and Crowley were human being. It's refreshingly different from the MSM.

k/r.
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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-01-09 08:15 AM
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33. Nice piece
I myself would not have criticized a 14 year old's make up skills, but that is me. The children of those in the political hot seat or spotlight should not be made party to what their parents are doing. The kid's eye make up should not be mentioned, just as we should not be making Willow Palin jokes and we do not like any comments about the Obama children, because they are children.
If that 14 year old is open to personalized and public commentary, then the same is true for Malia and Sasha. I myself think the kids are always out of the game. Not to be used in any way, shape or form. What they wear, how they look, none of that has anything to do with the parents, or the writer in question. Children are not to be co-opted and used as messaging devices for their parents or other political commenters. Ever. By anyone. For any reason.
My rules about kids in political reporting do not vary from moment to moment. Sorry, but while her over all point is good, that part is naff. Kids are off limits. We do not use them to make our points for us. No matter what.
I guess I'm just old fashioned, and what I should be doing is coming up with lots of cracks about Malia and her clothing and her face and her person, to make points that are political, and have nothing to do with Malia and her clothing and her face and her person. Just use Malia to drive my point home, because that is what all children are for, right, Ms Gates? Or not?
I say do not use children for political reasons, ever.
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