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Then you have your answer.
I say this because I tend to think of morality not as based in individual actions but in the pattern of intended actions. The alcoholic can be moral in that he does his best to stay sober, but still falls off the wagon. Is he immoral because he can't hold to the morality he wants to, his ideals, or is he simply weak?
Same for the guy who's married and firmly believes that faithfulness in marriage is sine qua non and tells everybody this, but really wants to sleep with another woman. Then, one night, he winds up having too much to drink, she has too much to drink, and he wakes up at 2 a.m. in her bed. Is he immoral? Weak? Is he a hypocrite? Does it matter what he does afterwards?
Some will say he's a hypocrite for not living up to his ideals, even if he really regrets what happened and tries to make amends at the cost of great personal pain. Others will say that he's still moral, he just lapsed.
The bigger the lapse, the more frequent the lapses, the less public the repentance, the more likely "immoral" will be attached to his name. Even if you kill in self-defense, if you gloat about it "moral" won't be the word that comes to mind.
Then there's sort of the 'expanded morality' clause in some varieties of Xianity. In which it's not just actions, but thoughts and intents. So you can be utterly chaste and still be immoral because you really want to hump the object of your intentions. Then actions don't matter at all, but it's all a question of mental states.
I also don't much care, in principle, if somebody wishes me ill. However, I wish it weren't so--not for matters of pride, but because I figure people do have lapses. The more ill somebody wishes, the more opportunities they have to do ill, the greater the likelihood that they'll have a bad day, lose control, and actually do something I'd rather they didn't.
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