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This is my testimony, so to speak. I just felt like I had to get some things off my chest.
I'm fortunate enough to go to a supportive, helpful, and cool church. The people there are (for the most part) non-fundie Christians and the primary emphasis of their teachings is having a more fulfilling life and helping the less fortunate, which I feel is what Christianity should be. I feel that if it helps me meet people and helps me become a better person, that alone makes my attendance worth it. That being said... I am completely 50/50 on the fence between Christianity and atheism/agnosticism. This is due to influences from friends who are Christians, friends who are atheists, personal beliefs, and the still-lingering trace of the fear of hell. If you listen to the Christians with the loudest voice in today's world, you get the idea that in order to be a Christian, you must: - be conservative - be staunchly against abortion, homosexuality, and evolution above everything else - be anal-retentive and fussy about adhering to certain rules and doctrines - use flowery religious language like "the Spirit", "the Lamb", "the Word", "the Light", etc. - be not only willing, but also eager to share your faith with others, even if it makes you look like a complete douchebag and worst of all, - believe that every human being who ever lived, from Adolf Hitler to Martin Luther King, deserves to be TORTURED FOR ETERNITY just for actions and behaviors that are impossible to completely avoid as a human being (aka "sinning") Christian or not, I think the idea of hell is disgusting and horrific, and what's worse is that a huge number of Christians defend this doctrine fiercely and insist that is necessary for justice to be enforced. In other words, God is like a cosmic version of Robot Santa from Futurama: EVERYONE is on the naughty list, and the penalty for that is fiery oblivion. I decided awhile ago that if I am going to be Christian, I would have to be universalist in order to maintain my sanity. But my exploration of universalism is another story for another time. A certain long-haired liberal socialist once said, "By their fruits ye shall know them", and I see many examples of that on this site. Based on the comments I've read here, it seems that most of the posters here and on FSTDT, another site I often visit for entertainment) are sensible, moral, funny, intelligent, and would be fun to hang out with in real life. On the other hand, a lot of Christians (not the ones at my church for the most part, but the vocal majority) seem to have their heads in the clouds and are incapable of thinking for themselves at best and intolerant, hateful, and judgmental at worst. I think I speak for everyone here when I say that I would rather spend eternity with George Carlin than Ray Comfort. I can see this same contrast on a more personal level between one of my best friends who is a hardcore atheist and another who is slowly becoming more and more fundamentalist. Jesus, I think, would be greatly saddened by the fact that so many of his followers are far less loving, compassionate, moral, and enjoyable to be around than the people who don't even believe in him. I resolved to myself that if I ever am a Christian, I will never, ever become like *those* Christians. You know what I'm talking about, the ones who get quoted on this site. I will never judge someone because of who they love or what they do with their own bodies, I will never obsess over abortion and homosexuality in the first place, I will never browbeat someone because their beliefs deviate from mine, and I will ESPECIALLY never believe that all of humanity deserves eternal torture just for existing. I am not that kind of person and I never will be. If God exists, I am sure he would understand this, having created me and all. I think that whether Jesus was the Son of God or not, he was still a great role model and the world would benefit tremendously if people actually applied his teachings of loving their enemies and giving to the poor rather than living by what most of Christianity has become today. In short, if I'm going to be a Christian, I will be a rebel.
So there's my rant/testimony/what have you. I know much of it is probably incoherent and will probably offend at least one person. But oh well. Just some thoughts I had that needed to be put into writing.
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