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bluestateguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:27 PM
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Do you find it easier for private schools to get rid of misbehaving students?
Edited on Sat Mar-06-10 06:30 PM by bluestateguy
I went to private school from K-3. I always remember that the kids (usually boys) who chronically or violently misbehaved did not last very long at the school. They just disappeared. You would come to school one day and they were just not there anymore. The teachers would never speak of them again, and any traces of the removed students would be removed from the classroom (artwork on the wall, for ex.) almost as if they didn't exist anymore.

Mind you, this was a real New Agey, granola munching liberal Montessori school too.

When I went to public schools, it seemed like the misbehavors never seemed to go away unless they committed repeated or especially violent acts, but even then, only after several rounds of suspensions, detentions, or hearings in front of the school board.
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demosincebirth Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:32 PM
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1. In public schools, in Ca., the last resort for trouble makers is continuation school.
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Taitertots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:35 PM
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2. It is the two tiered education system
One elite private schools that only the wealthy can afford. They cherry pick the best students and dump off the losers.

One public school were they HAVE to accept the worst students until their behavior becomes so egregiously criminal they have no choice but to expel them.
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napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:39 PM
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4. HEY! I went through 12 years of a Catholic School and we were
FAR from rich! I admit that was a long time ago, but not all private schools are only for the elite & rich.
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Taitertots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:51 PM
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6. Things have changed in the long time since you were in school
How much does 12 years of catholic school cost?
How much does it cost now?


The cost is so great that large portions of the population can't afford it.
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paulsby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 08:52 PM
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10. not really
i knew a LOT of catholic school kids and few if any were wealthy.

are you actually claiming that catholic schools, which are a subset of private schools of course, cater only to the wealthy?

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Taitertots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 09:01 PM
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12. How much do they cost every year?
How many people do you know with several thousand extra dollars every year?
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paulsby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 09:05 PM
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13. many
and we aren't part of the wealthy elite

for pete's sake, you are actually arguing that catholic schhol kids are ther wealthy elite?

seriously?

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Taitertots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 09:21 PM
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14. Two tiered system punishes the poor to benefit the wealthy
Good for you that your friends are wealthy enough to benefit. Everyone else gets screwed over.


I don't know what you consider wealthy. But 12 years of private school would cost more than my previous HOUSE.
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bluestateguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 10:13 PM
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17. That confuses me
How are the poor screwed over by someone spending their own money (not vouchers, mind you) on private schools?
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paulsby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 10:32 PM
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18. he just can't admit he's wrong
private schools were for the "wealthy elite".

when it was pointed out that lots of catholic school kids as one example are FAR from wealthy, it's "dodge city"

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Taitertots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 10:54 PM
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20. Why is "wealthy elite" in quotation marks?
Edited on Sat Mar-06-10 11:12 PM by Taitertots
I never said they were for the "wealthy elite" so stop hallucinating or lying (which ever it is).

I said the schools were elite and for the wealthy, not for the "wealthy elite".

Your uncorroborated anecdote for 20+ years ago is irrelevant. I guess I think people with thousands and thousand of extra dollars every year are wealthy. I guess I think expensive schools that drop anyone they don't like are elitist.



"Send your children to private school" is the "let them eat cake" of this century.
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Taitertots Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 10:42 PM
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19. You don't see how a two tiered education system screws over the bottom tier?
The individual act is not the problem, the systemic results are. The results are that vast numbers of children will receive an unacceptably inferior education.

Take all the well behaved rich children off to private school, take the children who need the most help and send them to public school. But that doesn't screw them over :sarcasm:

Lets remove any motivation for anyone with money to support public schools or stay in districts where taxes support schools.

Lets have a system that allows only the wealthy access to a descent education.
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Thothmes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-09-10 11:54 PM
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22. Actually it is a 3 tiered system
tier one is the the schools that the Kennedys and the Obamas send their children to.
tier two is the the private schools that us non elite scrimped and saved to send our kids to.
tier three is the public schools.
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napi21 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:37 PM
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3. Public schools aren't allowed to toss kids out for misbehavior.
Private schools can, for almost any reason, including misbehavior. There were several postings on DU in the last day or 2 about a kidasssedd out of a Catholic school because his parents were both lesbians and that's against the church teachings.
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 08:58 PM
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11. Even if they do manage to expel them, we still have to provide an education for them!
Students who are expelled still get homebound teachers or tuition paid to attend another district or cyberschool.

Our tax dollars at work.
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customerserviceguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:51 PM
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5. Once upon a time
we had something called "reform school" in this country. The bad kids were taken there, and the rest of the kids had a chance to safely get an education, paid for by their parents' taxes. Today, if parents want a safe, effective alternative for their kids, they either have to pay for private education, move to a school district that has few problems and a solid tax base, or hope like hell for a charter school.
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virgogal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 06:53 PM
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7. Of course it's easier.
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SlingBlade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 07:18 PM
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8. Depends. Daddy got money to burn then the kid stays
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OneTenthofOnePercent Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 08:20 PM
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9. Yes, Arguably, that's one of the factors why people pay for kid's private schooling.
A private school can more control the learning environment.
Parents know this... it's one reason I plan on sending my kid(s) to a private school.
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FBaggins Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 09:34 PM
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15. In most case? Of course it is.
That's why you should always take comparative test scores (etc) with several grains of salt.
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proud2BlibKansan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-06-10 10:11 PM
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16. Yes
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jody Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Mar-09-10 04:56 PM
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21. Depends on the private school. The best in my area immediately expel any student for violating
school rules where expulsion is listed including behavior off campus.
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