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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:06 PM Original message |
How to help a 10th-grader kicked out by parents???? |
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hedgehog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:09 PM Response to Original message |
1. I have no advice, but blessings on you for giving him shelter! |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:15 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. How could anyone do otherwise? Guess I'll wait a couple of days... |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:11 PM Original message |
Call the authorities and report the parents for child abandonment. |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
7. Oh, LM, I'm okay with him staying and would even do foster care.... |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:25 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Wow. |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. you might well investigate any runaway/homeless kid |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:44 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. Terrific suggestions and I had no idea something like that is available. |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:37 PM Response to Reply #11 |
26. That's a great suggestion. Worth a call tonight, IMO. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 11:26 PM Response to Reply #7 |
30. Indeed there are - and it is not rocket science to adequately meet that need. /nt |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 12:56 PM Response to Reply #7 |
37. My little sister took in a 10th grader who was kicked out |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
31. If the parents are okay with him staying there, calling LE is unhelpful... |
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1Hippiechick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
2. Call social services. n/t |
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virgogal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
3. How old is he? Makes a big difference in how to handle it. |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:28 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. S just turned 16 and is in 10th grade. He says Social Services |
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virgogal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. I'd try to contact someone in his family just to cover myself. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:13 PM Response to Original message |
4. You will need to let his parents know where he is |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:53 PM Response to Reply #4 |
15. It's okay, dsc, we're in the same school district and he can ride bus |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:56 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. You are doing a great thing here |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:08 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. But I wanted to retire and live in Paris! Instead, I'll be raising kids |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:00 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. You'll need to double check on the bus thing. |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. I agree with that |
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rwheeler31 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
6. Check state and age laws , if you know a lawyer call . |
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nosmokes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
8. Kudos to you and a pox upon his parents. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 09:41 PM Response to Original message |
13. thank you for helping him |
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beyurslf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:06 PM Response to Original message |
19. Call his school or social services. I would not call the police tonight. They may take him to a |
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dhpgetsit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:10 PM Response to Original message |
21. Since he is only 16 you need to make sure you handle things legally. |
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Libertas1776 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
22. Bless your soul, |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 11:07 PM Response to Reply #22 |
28. I hope that's righteous in a good way? My heart just went out to him. |
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Libertas1776 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 12:26 AM Response to Reply #28 |
34. Oh yes, absolutely righteous in a good way |
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mzmolly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:25 PM Response to Original message |
23. Thank goodness for people like you txwhitedove. |
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Zenlitened (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:31 PM Response to Original message |
24. You might also contact PFLAG, 'Parents Family & Friends of Lesbians & Gays' |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:36 PM Response to Original message |
25. People Like You Almost Make Me Believe In God. |
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Tesha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 10:41 PM Response to Original message |
27. You're doing the right thing.. |
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jberryhill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 11:20 PM Response to Original message |
29. I Did This... |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 11:52 PM Response to Reply #29 |
33. Excellent pointers, which I will use tomorrow. That's why I asked my DU |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Sep-08-09 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
32. I don't have any advice. |
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BR_Parkway (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 05:01 AM Response to Original message |
35. No advice - just a heartfelt thank you from another gay man who |
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jtrockville (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 08:02 AM Response to Original message |
36. Thank you txwhitedove, for being your brother's keeper. |
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qb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
38. A very sad situation made so much better by you, txwhitedove. Thank you. |
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Prism (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
39. Thank you for what you are doing |
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Q3JR4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 04:26 PM Response to Original message |
40. I have nothing to add, |
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tbyg52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 04:37 PM Response to Original message |
41. Thank you for what you are doing. I'm sure you got good advice upthread. |
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TheWraith (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 06:22 PM Response to Original message |
42. Make contact with the parents. Preferably using a nine iron. |
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galledgoblin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 07:16 PM Response to Original message |
43. thank you |
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Maat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
44. This retired social worker likes the advice given by ... |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 09:50 PM Response to Reply #44 |
45. *UPDATE: Got S off to school this a.m. Left phone message with school |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Sep-09-09 10:19 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. I hope he ends up OK |
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txwhitedove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-10-09 08:47 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. Thursday Update: I want to cry. What damn hot potato this is!!!! |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Sep-10-09 09:36 PM Response to Reply #47 |
48. He's stretching his wings |
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