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of hearing right-wingers screech about some "homosexual agenda." GLBT people are just asking for the same civil rights as other citizens. They are not trying to force anybody else to change their sexual orientation, unlike the homophobes, who claim to be able to "cure" homosexuality. When we are born, we are born with a sexual orientation. It is not a conscious choice, it is not a religious decision, it is not anything but what we are when we are born.
I am a going on 63 year old heterosexual woman. I will not have ANYBODY, from Bush to Pat Robertson to the Pope, telling me that homosexuality is a sin. A dear, sweet friend...he is my daughter's best friend...came to me when he and my daughter were about 15, and spilled out his guts to me. He was attracted to guys, wondered if he was going to hell, as his alcoholic mother assured him he was...he was so lost and confused and scared. I told him that from what I knew, we are all born with an attraction to the opposite sex, or our own; in some cases, it's both.
I gave him the same warnings I gave my beautiful daughter...not to let older guys take advantage of him, to wait a bit longer before having a sexual relationship, because of his age, but I also told him that it's always better to have love in your life than not. If the true, deep, love he could have was to be with another man, then as long as the man was decent, and loved him back, that would be all that counted.
Now, he is 39 years old. He has been with the same loving partner for many years, and they recently adopted a little boy, and are so into the parenthood thing, and such a beautiful, loving, wonderful family. Anybody who thinks his family is not as valid, or important, as others, is screwed up. They are beautiful, and would be an asset to any community.
The child they adopted is white, but older, so no loving heterosexual couple wanted him. He does have a few emotional scars, which will require a great deal of patience and love to overcome. How dare they, the haters, the rabid fundies, criticize things they will never understand, such as love, tolerance, and complete acceptance of others? They make me sick.
To all of you who love, do so proudly, with no apologies. You are the spirits who make the light shine. Love is stronger than hate, and it is nobody else's business who you love, or how. Keep on striving for equal rights, which should be your right, after all, and not a privilege, and know that hundreds of thousands of us heteros join you in your fight. Love is better than hate. Never, ever forget that.
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