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PageOneQ (260 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 10:01 AM Original message |
Audio: Obama campaign's 'gay lifestyle' gaffe |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
1. It is a shame that the anti-gay RWers have coopted "gay lifestyle" |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 11:18 AM Response to Reply #1 |
2. no.. i really dont think we do.. because lifestyle detracts what is our LIFE |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 11:24 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. "lifestyle" directly implies a choice about being gay. |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 11:29 AM Response to Reply #3 |
4. sorry, apparently i misunderstood |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 12:24 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Hmm. You have some odd gay and lesbian friends then. |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 12:29 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. I suppose they are a little odd, but I try not to hold it against them |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 12:34 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. To this gay man, "lifestyle" is a loaded word. |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 12:45 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. It is a loaded word |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 12:54 PM Response to Reply #9 |
10. WE DO NOT CHOOSE to be gay. That's the entire issue. We are not choosing to live this way |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:00 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. but it is a choice to live a closeted life or not |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:04 PM Response to Reply #12 |
15. It's still not a "lifestyle" to BE gay. It's a choice to live in the closet or not, but that has |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:09 PM Response to Reply #15 |
17. sorry, you and I have very different perceptions of that word nt |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:11 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. You really don't understand how the word reduces us? |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:14 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. edited to advise myself that reading is fundamental |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:16 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. I really hope you're not talking about me. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:17 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. gentle humor |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:18 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Well, no. I know you're gay. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:23 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. ... |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:32 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. I like that idea. |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:20 PM Response to Reply #19 |
26. I understand how the way the neo-cons use it reduces homosexuality |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:27 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. But we can't just make a word not mean what it does. "Style" cannot be changed to mean something |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:44 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. definition |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:53 PM Response to Reply #30 |
31. Attitudes and values are all very different among gay people. So you just proved my point. |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 04:39 PM Response to Reply #30 |
41. Then is there a "Cubs Fan lifestyle"? They all seem proud of "who they are." |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 11:20 AM Response to Reply #41 |
53. As an avid sports fan, yes |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 04:11 PM Response to Reply #53 |
63. It's cool. There's a learning curve to everything and all allies are welcome. |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 05:09 PM Response to Reply #30 |
42. Must... Not.... Flame... Straighty! |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 11:14 AM Response to Reply #42 |
52. okay, point noted |
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ruggerson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 09:35 PM Response to Reply #30 |
45. Let's take back "Negro" while we're at it |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 11:09 AM Response to Reply #45 |
50. I thought rappers had already tried to do that. nt |
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Creideiki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 11:56 PM Response to Reply #30 |
46. So what do you do with LGBT people that tend to live |
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mitchtv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 03:22 PM Response to Reply #26 |
36. Sorry, It's not our word |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 11:13 AM Response to Reply #36 |
51. i want a lifestyle :( |
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terrya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:11 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. Sexual orientation. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. but be careful that doesn't have a neg connotation |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:05 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. I don't think I understand your response. |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:13 PM Response to Reply #16 |
20. well you just minimized honoring people's choice then |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:15 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Ok, then I get the point. Some people do choose. I've known several gay people |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:56 PM Response to Reply #13 |
32. excellent post! nt |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 04:29 PM Response to Reply #9 |
38. A lifestyle is a market segment. Beyond that there is no gay lifestyle. |
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Laughing Mirror (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 02:16 PM Response to Reply #4 |
33. Do they refer to being heterosexual as a "straight lifestyle"? |
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keepCAblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 04:07 PM Response to Reply #33 |
37. And how 'bout "black lifestyle"? |
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sui generis (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 12:55 PM Response to Reply #3 |
11. well choice should be honored too, but I agree, it's our Life |
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hendo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 01:03 PM Response to Reply #11 |
14. apparently we are at odds on what the term "lifestyle" means. nt |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 04:32 PM Response to Reply #14 |
39. Lifestyle is an invention of 20th century capitalism to sell goods and services. Period. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 12:26 PM Response to Original message |
6. i find this in line with how i see obama. |
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Laughing Mirror (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 02:34 PM Response to Reply #6 |
34. "We messed on the vetting of Donnie McClurkin" |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 07:02 PM Response to Reply #34 |
44. you don't think donnie mcklurkin, mary mary and the others |
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kdpeters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 09:49 AM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Dude, it's over. Your comments are out of line. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 11:02 AM Response to Reply #48 |
49. Wait a minute. Did I miss a public explanation from Obama about all this? |
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kdpeters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 01:34 PM Response to Reply #49 |
56. If your criticism and questioning requires flimsy broad-brushed accusations of bigotry |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 01:40 PM Response to Reply #56 |
58. All those words, and you didn't answer the question. This is about Obama and not Clinton. |
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kdpeters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 02:40 PM Response to Reply #58 |
60. Your questions were irrelevant to my point & challenging me to defend positions I don't hold |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 02:45 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. You've been pleasant? Really? |
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kdpeters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 03:40 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. There were comments made by another poster that I felt crossed a line. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 12:50 PM Response to Reply #48 |
54. if you're so upset over what is factual history -- take it to the mods. nt |
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kdpeters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 01:40 PM Response to Reply #54 |
57. I'm WAY ahead of you, my friend. |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 06:55 PM Response to Reply #57 |
64. k buddy -- |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 05:13 PM Response to Reply #6 |
43. Bingo. |
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keepCAblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 02:35 PM Response to Original message |
35. Vegetarianism, living in the suburbs, joining a nudist colony .... |
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readmoreoften (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-12-08 04:33 PM Response to Reply #35 |
40. Do Iraqis live "the Iraqi Lifestyle"? |
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kdpeters (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
47. That audio is HILLARIOUS!!! This is a joke, right? |
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xchrom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 12:56 PM Response to Reply #47 |
55. does a fanatical devotion won't serve obama |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 01:43 PM Response to Reply #55 |
59. Deleted sub-thread |
insleeforprez (321 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 07:38 PM Response to Original message |
65. This is "gotcha" politics if I've ever seen it |
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trickyguy (461 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-13-08 10:09 PM Response to Original message |
66. "I am what I am.... sometimes the ace....sometimes the deuces." |
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