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I have a cousin who's a die-hard Republican. The wife of one of my best friends is also a right-wing fanatic. I love these two very much, and, while it continues to mystify me as to how someone who claims to care about me can support ideologies that want me erased from the planet, I believe they love me. I think they're both cripplingly retarded politically, as they no doubt feel about me. However, I have ties to them, both familial and sentimental, and I would never kick them out of my life because of their politics (although I'll admit I've been tempted in the past).
I honestly consider gay people, in general, to be family, in a very real sense. Does that mean I like all of them? Do you like all YOUR family members? I come from a large family, and I have BROTHERS AND SISTERS that I don't like, let alone cousins, aunts and uncles. However, I'm still bonded to these people, and I can't deny them their place in my life, even if I seldom see or speak to them. It's the same with gay people. I don't like them all, or approve of everything they do, but I have a connection to them.
I don't think Log Cabin Republicans hurt anyone but themselves. As Tyo pointed out above, no one pays any attention to them. Gay people openly despise them, their Republican masters patronize them while not quite openly despising them, and everyone else finds them ridiculous. No one takes anything they say or do seriously. Frankly, they're the only thing that EVERYONE agrees on.
In any case, while they're position in the "GLBT movement" is questionable, we can't exactly kick them out. They'll still be gay, no matter how hard we might wish otherwise. Our only option is to treat them like the slow cousin who often says embarrassing things at family gatherings: ignore them when they say something stupid, and praise them when - if - they say something worthwhile.
"We Are Family" - Not just a great song.
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