GLBTQ Brothers and Sisters-
I am thinking out loud here, and by no means speaking for you or for everyone.
Comments and insights are welcome and encouraged.
I am trying to learn and to educate myself as I go along this journey of fighting for gay rights.
I find myself stumbling to express myself being unaccustomed to the language of political struggle and unfamiliar with the detailed history of various rights movements.
One of the main tenets of our fight, at least from where I stand, is that this is a human rights argument. Our own GLBTQ human rights argument.
Marriage is certainly a part of it. So is freedom from fear, freedom from hate language, freedom from institutionalized oppression, freedom from violence against our persons psychological and physical. When people tell us: to go slow, it maybe because they subconsciously admit the pervasiveness of homophobia in the nation at large, they are saying what we know - but come they come to a different conclusion.
There have been other human rights movements before, African American civil rights, women’s rights, abortion rights, reproductive rights, to name a few.
While we share the same goal as other movements, namely, advancing the interests of our group, we are not those movements, GLBTQ is a political identity movement with our own unique history and collective experience which makes us similar in goals to other movements, and yet different in our own experience.
I believe most movements have an arc. Movements often start with discourse about acceptance, move forward towards pride, then faced with resistence often splinter into a.) separatism b.) power and finally, after a hard fought battle, if all goes well, acceptance and re-assimilation.
It’s my conclusion, for the moment at least, that gay rights has gone from talking about it for four decades, to gay pride for three decades, and now with the open assault on our human rights that indifferently took away the rights of one entire section of humanity with the press of a button I think we have done all of the outreach we possibly could do and more, if you think haters don’t know gays look at all the haters who have gay family, ask DarthCheney, ask NewtonGingr*ch. We’ve all heard the “Some of our best frineds are gay...but...on marriage...oh, that’s between a...blah blah blah.”
It is time to regroup, work within our community in terms of educating ourselves about who we are, bolstering our pride, forming efficient strategy and while outreach should continue and we should build political coalitions, and while peaceful protests serve a purpose we do not need to go begging, cajoling and debating people into understanding what their bigotry implies in terms of our humanity.
I found this of interest as it gave me an over view of “identity politics.”
Comments are welcome and if anyone has a greater depth of knowledge about this
I am really hoping to hear from you– I am learning as fast as I can how to best express the realities of where we are in the GLBTQ experience at this time in history, so I can understand where we need to be going.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Identity_politicsIdentity politics is political action to advance the interests of members of a group whose members are oppressed by virtue of a shared and marginalized identity (such as race, ethnicity, religion, gender, sexual orientation, and neurological wiring). The term has been used principally in United States politics since the 1970s.
The origin of the term itself, however, is obscure; although SNCC invented many of the fundamental practices, and various Black-Power groups extended them, they apparently found no need to apply a term. Rather, the term emerged when others outside the black freedom movements—particularly, the race- and ethnic-specific women's liberation movements, such as Black feminism— began to adopt the practice in the late 1960s.
The best-known aim of identity politics in the United States has been to empower the oppressed to articulate their oppression in terms of their own experience—a process of consciousness-raising that distinguishes identity politics from the liberal conception of politics as driven by individual self-interest. Identity politics may thus focus on diverse forms of identity: race, ethnicity, sex, religion, caste, sexual orientation, physical disability or some other assigned or perceived trait (see below for a more complete, but still non-exhaustive, list).
The practice of identity politics naturally entails some degree of separatism.
Theorists of identity politics have argued passionately that oppression shapes the consciousness of the oppressed such that oppressed people usually internalize their oppression.
Only in the atmosphere which obtains when members of the oppressor group are not present to enforce unjust definitions of equality, justice, and right, and the norms that derive from such definitions, can the oppressed begin the difficult work of consciousness-raising, the first step toward the organization of the oppressed to struggle for a liberation defined in their own terms. Others counter that the intolerant homogeneity of mainstream culture is precisely the fact that makes full acceptance impossible, and that social justice movements should aim not toward integration but rather multicultural pluralism, without recourse to the types of oppressive homogeneity now at play.
Still other critics have argued that groups based on shared identity, other than class, can divert energy and attention from more fundamental issues, such as class conflict in capitalist societies.