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CLANG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 12:43 PM
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Poll question: Men - What is your opinion on male circumcision?
Married Women - if you know how your husband would answer, please feel free to vote too!
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RaleighNCDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 12:56 PM
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1. Other:
I was circumcised and I had baby girls - the question never came up.

i don't go around comparing equipment with other guys, and I've always been like this - I just don't know what I don't know.
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CLANG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 01:18 PM
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5. Well, I wasn't really interested in Other
but thanks for responding anyway. Who's comparing equipment? This is a health question.
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RaleighNCDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 02:09 PM
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9. As post #2 said, below.
As for 'comparing equipment' I meant I have never asked any other guy if he's had any issues with being/not being cut, so I only know what I know, and I've had no issues with it.

If my babies had been boys I might have discussed it with my wife. They weren't, so I didn't.
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CLANG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 02:21 PM
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10. I understand, but I wasn't asking that - I was asking for YOUR opinion
If you had sons or are planning on having a child which may be a son. If the answer is no, then you wouldn't need to vote in the poll.
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unpossibles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 01:01 PM
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2. I am circumcised and I am not sure which way I'd go
Assuming I ever have a male child.

Honestly, it doesn't bother me that I am circumcised in the least. I understand the arguments for and against, and am not sure it's a big deal either way.
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subterranean Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 01:08 PM
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3. Other...
I'm circumcised and I had my boy circumcised too, but if I had known then what I know now, my decision would have been different. Why do you ask?
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CLANG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 01:15 PM
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4. Because I'm curious about how others think about this.
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sdfernando Donating Member (421 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 01:29 PM
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6. Would you care to elaborate on this?
"but if I had known then what I know now"

I'm curious as to what changed your mind.
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subterranean Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 07:28 PM
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14. Learning the facts changed my mind
The fact that...

- there is no legitimate medical or hygienic reason for circumcising infants (no medical association in the world recommends it)

- it reduces sensitivity

- it causes unnecessary pain and stress for the baby

- caring for the wound is an extra burden for the parents

- there is a significant risk of complications

- most of the world outside the U.S. does not circumcise boys for non-religious reasons


Unfortunately, many doctors and parents in the U.S. have been impervious to these facts. It's another example of Americans' resistance to change.
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damntexdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 01:43 PM
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7. It's not something to be snippy about.
;-)

I'm circumcised and we did have our baby boy circumcised lo these many years ago.

Hygiene.
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seabeckind Donating Member (406 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 01:58 PM
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8. No category for me...
Un, did the sons... big mistake.

Leftover religious bullsh!t from when men didn't wash. Well, duh! If you don't clean the equipment, pretty soon it quits working.

As usual, US is still stuck in the dark ages -- get our medical advice from a 2000 year old book.
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bemildred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 03:07 PM
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11. I think such questions should be left for the child to deal with when they grow up.
Any adult male that wants to become circumsized can do so. No need for parents to take the choice away from them at birth.
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CLANG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 07:04 PM
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13. My feelings exactly!
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Eg-ptiangirl Donating Member (120 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Apr-01-10 11:37 PM
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15. exactly
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Chemisse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-02-10 07:53 PM
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16. My nephew had to be circumcized when he was about 10 or 12
For some medical reason. It was potentially pretty traumatic, but I don't know how he fared emotionally.
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HuckleB Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-02-10 09:03 PM
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17. That's the stand we have taken with our boy.
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bemildred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Apr-02-10 10:10 PM
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18. I'm glad we can agree.
I'm circumsized, so is one of my sons, the other two are not. I don't really think it is a big deal except to people that get emotional and worried about it. When I matured and thought about it, it was clear to me I would rather have been able to make up my own mind about it, and there was nothing much at stake until you became sexually active, so I didn't allow it to be done after that.
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Crunchy Frog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-03-10 12:07 AM
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19. Not that I've been asked, being female and all, but
that's the tack that I've taken with the froglets. They can get whatever body modification they choose when they're old enough to consent to it on their own behalf. In the meantime they get to keep whatever parts they were born with.
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Orrex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-03-10 07:45 AM
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20. Yeah--just like vaccination!
Let the newborn decide when he's fifteen or sixteen, because parents have no business making decisions on their child's behalf.
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Crunchy Frog Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-03-10 10:52 AM
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21. Or like ear piercing, which I would have left for a daughter to choose for herself
Edited on Sat Apr-03-10 10:58 AM by Crunchy Frog
when she was older, if I had had one. Or like getting them tattooed. :shrug:

I had them vaccinated for serious illnesses that they were at real risk of getting during infancy, that could have put them in the hospital or worse. I delayed the Hep B vaccine indefinitely because my babies aren't out having sex or sharing needles.
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nickinSTL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-10 06:03 PM
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12. don't have any kids, and don't expect to
my dad had VERY strong feelings about it after seeing a guy in the army in the 60s have to be circumcised due to problems of some sort - said it was pretty horrible.

However, I don't necessarily buy all of the pro-circumcision hype and think that I wouldn't have it done. Inflicting pain, however minor and transitory, for what seems primarily a religious tradition that has outlived its usefulness seems like something I don't want to perpetuate.

I expect my wife would have to be consulted, though :evilgrin:
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