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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 07:43 PM
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Do you ever discuss dinner plans with your Significant Other before noon?
And if so, does it annoy your Significant Other?

I can not think about dinner before 4:00. On the other hand, we can still be drinking morning coffee when Stinky says, "So what were you thinking about for supper tonight?" (As IF!)
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Tesha Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 08:00 PM
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1. I always ask...
"Do you want anything special tonight?"

just in case he might have been thinking of something he'd like.

Normally he says "Whatever you like, it's always good."
Makes us both happy, he gets to compliment me, and I get to pretend he makes the decision.
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bicentennial_baby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 08:00 PM
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2. Sniffa will ask me at 8am on the phone what I want for dinner that night
And I say "I don't know, ask me later this afternoon"

Every. Damn. Time.

:)
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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 08:02 PM
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3. I used to but
it annoyed me when he'd say "I don't know!" I stopped asking. I just fix stuff and run it by him just before I do it.
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NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 08:03 PM
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4. yup, that's our house too
:toast:
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NMDemDist2 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 08:05 PM
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5. it's obvious he's the cook
you have to plan this stuff you know, the parts and pieces don't just magically appear in the fridge yanno

I finally got wise, figured out what I had to cook on hand and give the Mr. K 2-3 options and ask if he has a preference
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Lucinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 09:14 PM
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6. We've already decided what we're having tomorrow.
So I'm gonna answer yes, we discuss it early. :rofl:

But it's not the same day to day.
We both like to cook, and some things we make take a little advanced planning.
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 09:31 PM
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7. Yes and yes.
Sorry, but I'm in Stinky's camp on this one. Maybe you and my SO can commiserate.
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cbayer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Feb-11-09 09:42 PM
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8. I am usually thinking about dinner before I get out of bed in the morning.
Running through what's in the fridge, what I can make out of what I have and what I might need to make it what I want. My husband could care less. He always says, "That sounds great", even though I don't think he is actually listening!

:rofl:
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Phentex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-12-09 08:07 AM
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9. Not any more. Since I am the cook and planner...
the only thing I might do is announce what we're having so he can choose lunch accordingly. My family is very easy to please but they have this weird thing about two in a row meals. Like if I made a roast chicken the night before, they don't want any kind of chicken the next day. Beef one day, better have pork or pasta the next. No two "saucy" items in a row.

Oh, they'll eat whatever is put in front of them and they rave about it...but I have learned not to offer up too much beforehand, lol.
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Phoebe Loosinhouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-12-09 09:23 AM
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11. I don't think the two in row rule is all that weird
I kind of superimpose it on myself. The only exception is when there are leftovers and even then, I usually try to make it so that there's some kind of choice.
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Vinca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-12-09 08:10 AM
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10. Every day. I like to know what we're having so I can double check
on ingredients. 9 times out of 10 I get an "I don't care," which is fine, although I sometimes get sick of thinking up meals.
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sazemisery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Feb-12-09 03:58 PM
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12. I'm with you Sparkly
We call it the "Million Dollar Question". I have broken Mr.sazemisery from asking me "Million Dollar Question" before Noon. If he forgets and does ask before Noon, then I tell him it is his problem and and ask what time will it be ready.
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