I shop at a wonderful tea shop locally, she and her mother have taken NO salary except tips for nearly a year...they are determined to make it. They will ship:
http://simplici-teas.com/They are very knowledgeable about tea, recipes with tea, customs, history, and one of them is actually taking Japanese lessons and has been for ages. I have, at times, stopped in with an ailment (like a headache, or feeling blue) and simply asked them to fix me up, on the sweet side, hot or cold, and they deliver for me. We buy all our tea from them, and I am partial at lunch time to their Boba milk teas. They are partnering with another local small business to sell sandwich wraps, etc, which is GREAT when local businesses partner up to survive. They also sell sweets and confections that another local business woman bakes and sells to them.
I stop every day if I can, sometimes buying bulk tea I don't really need right now, but know I will use eventually. The internet is a great thing for buying stuff, but If I can find it local, even if it is not QUITE what I was looking for, you better believe I will buy it. I have a local coffee shop that I visit in the AM as well...even if it is for a simply cold chai.
It is sad that your family member could not survive the tightening of the belts. Very very sad. As a small business owner as well, we have seen it, not as many new sales as there are service calls (at least people, for now, are still fixing things if they break...if it gets really worse, that will cease as well and we will be in trouble too)
Economical recovery is a long, long way off. A second stimulus package WILL make it Obama's economy (I agree, reluctantly, with Ed Schultz on this one, another package and he will own it, and it will be used against him, so it better be a bit better thought out and actually work or be applied..sigh, I need to stop right now)
I also, when all else fails try to use Etsy to get homemade crafts by regular folks.
Is all this a solution? No...but every little bit helps. I wish and hope and wait for the economy to turn around, but I suspect, and feel, it will still get worse before it gets better. 12% unemployment? Yep. I think parts of Michigan have nearly 20% or more. And sad thing, people are just now starting to go really, really hungry in this country....some starting to starve.
Rant off, for now, I am sorry if I was Debbie Downer, but anyone with a skosh of empathy can feel the pain of people now, it is palpable.