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bluhoodie Donating Member (169 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Sep-27-09 11:38 PM
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Synchronicity
An amazing coincidence happened to me today. I have a friend who broke her wrist in several places last Thurs. night. She has a huge thick cast on her arm from fingers to elbow. She complained that she wasn’t able to get any shirts or jackets on over her wrist, and was afraid she was going to have to “cut off arms” of clothes she owns to be able to wear anything. Since she’s in her late 50s and lives alone and is unable to drive, I leaped to the rescue.

When my elderly mother was convalescing in a nursing home last year, she needed clothes that she could get in and out of easily and needed a change of clothes for each day, so she asked me to go to Walmart or the like and get her some inexpensive simple clothes, especially pants with elastic waists, easy to pull on. So I decided to do the same for my friend. Without her knowing it, I went to Walmart (they have a great selection/variety of basic clothes, especially knits) and bought her long-sleeve t-shirts, sweatshirt and pants, a zip hooded jacket, a velour zip jacket, a v-neck sweater – and a cardigan sweater that I was just amazed to find. Almost an A-line profile, it was SO nice and seemed to be of extraordinary quality for a Big Box store: the quality and weight of the knit was particularly pleasing, the style modern and handsome with a wide band at the neck, large buttons down the front, wide-banded cuffs. They had it in white, but didn’t have the right size; I found a suitable size in the only other color, black, and decided to buy it for her. Even if she reimbursed me for all the clothes, I was going to make this one a gift for her – it was that special.

OK, so I show up at her house with a new wardrobe for her while she convalesces. She was exceedingly pleased with the cheerful colors I had selected and the variety of basics she would need – and at such affordable prices (except for the cardigan no item cost more than $13, I paid $77.50 for 9 items). But when I showed her the black sweater, she said “Wow, that looks so much like the sweater I just bought at Talbots, and paid a LOT more for.” Since I showed her all of these items while we were outdoors at my car, she said “When we get indoors, I’ll show you.”

Indoors later I was cutting the sleeves of all the (unfortunate) shirts and jackets so she could get them on over her encased and immobile arm, when she brought out the cardigan from Talbots. OMG, it was almost IDENTICAL. I mean, the similarity between the texture and weight of the fabric, the large buttons, even the detail on the sleeves and the wide band at the neck was shocking – everything was identical, except that the Walmart version had an extra button in the front placket and a button on each cuff. (Can you believe it? MORE detail on the Walmart version than the Talbots.) She showed me the price tag. She had paid $118 at Talbots. The tag on the Walmart match was $16.     :wow:

But friends, what were the chances?! 99% identical sweaters, bought unbeknownst to the other, in the same color, both bought because they were very attractive, interesting for their unusual style, fabric, and high-quality. And this timing – all by chance! Amazing. It gave me goosebumps. I still can’t get over it. :yoiks:
:applause:
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Why Syzygy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-28-09 01:11 AM
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1. Hi, bluhoodie
Welcome to ASAH :hi:

That's an awesome story. If I were her, I'd be making a return at Talbots!

Great intuition on your part; and a very kind gesture.
I love synchronicity. Astonishment feels good :D
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rumpel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-28-09 01:21 AM
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2. What a wonderful friend you are...
your minds must be in synch

:hi:
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I Have A Dream Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-28-09 07:01 AM
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3. Oooo... I love it when things like this happen!
Things like this are gifts from the Universe -- proof that we're all connected.

Thank you so much for sharing this with us, bluhoodie, and thank you for caring about your friend enough to take action.

Welcome to the group. :hug:

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winyanstaz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-28-09 03:29 PM
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4. The more you awaken and start paying closer attention to your thoughts...
the more things will materialize and the faster they come into your life. Real magic always happens logically. :)
You will grow used to it after a while as things like this will happen a lot more and things will materialize faster and in ways you never dreamed of...but you will be aware it started with you and your thoughts and your life will never be the same. :)
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bluhoodie Donating Member (169 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Sep-28-09 04:19 PM
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5. Not new to me
Oh believe me, this isn't new to me. I've been aware for a long time of "odd coincidences" and synchronicities and patterns that occur. (I'm wide awake.) I do have some favorites among those that have happened. And certain ones tend to occur in clusters. But I thought this latest one was funny and interesting -- and tells us something about retail clothing distribution to boot!

I do like your statement that "real magic always happens logically."

Thanks for all the welcomes, everyone!   :hi:
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