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I don’t believe that the human mind has evolved to be able to withstand the constant media onslaught. The media wants to create an adrenaline rush from one story to the next; outrage is their bread and butter. I don’t feel like there was any way for the human psyche to advance as fast as would be necessary to digest sanely all that the technological media gives us. It is a blessing when a person can step back and simply take what they need from various media, and discern whether the story is hyped for effect or even necessary to broadcast to begin with. When I am on my game and can do that, I can and have utilized modern media to great benefit. The problem, at least for me, arises when the media becomes the morning’s shot of whisky or hit of cocaine. When the outrage becomes addictive and coming back down after participating HURTS. I have experienced that as well and always say I’m not doing that again, and then dig right back in. Only in recent months have I been able to start getting more significant stretches of distance from participation in this maddness, and it has helped me greatly.
I am finally doing better, for now, at looking at our society in a detached manner (no guarantees about tomorrow on that score). And I really don’t think we, as a society, have taken a breath during the rise of the 24/7 news cycle, we just gobble it up and look for more, living on the bad drug of the next rage. If it isn’t political we can out some celeb’s messed up private life and go after that a while, feeling at least a little superior to some rich athlete or movie star. Then its back to how we’ve been betrayed as (fill in the blank political/religious/other persuasion), doesn’t matter who or what, the formula is EXACTLY the same for media induced outrage. I get as pissed over the right for saying there is a “war on Christmas” as the right gets at being told there is a “war on Christmas”. Change a few key words from Fox to MSNBC and get everybody foaming at the mouth.
I don’t think our minds are built to withstand this, frankly. I can only look at myself but I know that I am happiest when I am not obsessing on everything that is wrong. Not that anyone shouldn’t be involved, and I will always speak out for what I believe in, but when I am not being pounded by the outrage for hours on end, when I am concentrating on things in my own real hands-on life; I am miraculously happy. I am much more well equipped to go to work, come home, fuss around in the kitchen, re-do a few rows of bad knitting, talk to friends about their life, chat with my husband (with whom I have so much in common as long as “media” is turned off), basic life stuff the human mind has evolved to do. This is contentment.
I think the media overdose that I have known internally was happening for so long (even though I have often been powerless in not getting wrapped up in it) has taken a huge toll on our minds. No matter what one believes in any argument discussion is always better than screaming. Debate is superior to rage. But we haven’t been able to turn it off for years and it keeps getting worse. I told someone early in the Clinton years that I thought the news media had its own agenda and was really hurting the country and they looked at me like I was mad. Then 911 happened and the news media went from being the equivalent of whisky to METH. I am more convinced than ever right now that all media has its own agenda and it only corresponds with any established political agenda on the surface level. Whether the media represent the PTB, who knows, probably a damn good chance they do and that many of the members of the media are simply pawns and are as wrapped up in the emotion as their audience. Some I believe are in on the game (more conservative talkers I think are “in on it” than liberal, but the liberal talkers are playing their part without taking a breath).
This is really just my spew, and right now I am working hard on trying to keep my head out of the bad media place I can’t control as much as I can, I will not always be successful, I throw out that disclaimer for when you see me go ape-shit-wild on someone on GD, LOL, I know I am human. I am praying and hoping spiritual practice will help pull me through and keep doing less of that. I feel now that I was given a very mundane but spiritual gift in advance of this most recent onslaught and didn’t realize the significance at the time, I am hoping this small gift from spirit helps pull me through without my reigniting my own outrage addiction.
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