LaurenG
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Thu Feb-02-06 05:17 PM
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I need some help with sending love and light |
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I am not usually comfortable writing about personal problems as I always feel so vulnerable. Not from you guys because I can feel the love here but from others who may lurk.
With that said, I have a grown daughter who is going through hell. Mind you she has made some really bad decisions however, I love her with all my heart and I need her to have as much love and light as she can possibly absorb.
In two weeks time she has (temporarily, I am being positive here) lost her son, home, car and boyfriend. She has hit rock bottom, on a scale of 1-10 she has hit -10. She is despondent and lives in Washington State, far from me. She has talked of suicide and I have been holding her in the light as she moves, finds a new job and fights for her son. I have not been able to get her to move here as she feels it's important to stay and fight for her little boy who is 7. Her sons father went to a judge in Thurston county and told him that my daughter was doing horrible things, the judge without evidence gave this father (who tried to get her to abort the child and beat hell out of her when they were together) temporary custody. Anyway the story is ugly and harrowing and she needs help. I am asking for help from you guys for her and my grandson. I appreciate any love or light you may have to send her way. Thanks in advance. I love and appreciate you all. Ohioblues
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Thu Feb-02-06 06:33 PM
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1. I'd be happy to do what I can, and please keep us |
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updated on this situation. It really sounds tragic. I hope some help comes your daughter's way that can give her some hope, something to hang on to.
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Thu Feb-02-06 07:41 PM
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2. Thank you as soon as I get some new info I will update |
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Thank you for your support.:hug:
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I Have A Dream
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Thu Feb-02-06 07:42 PM
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3. I'm so sorry that this is happening to your dear child, OhioBlues. |
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(No matter what, to you she's probably still the little girl that you used to be able to protect from everything that's "bad" in the world.) I ask that the Universe help your daughter to find peace and to give her guidance in reference to the steps that she should take to turn her life into the life that she wants. I ask that she stays physically safe and is able to use what she's going through to make wise decisions in the future. I also ask that you feel the loving "arms" of the Universe while you're going through this. (This or something better for the highest good of all involved.)
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Fri Feb-03-06 01:00 AM
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4. My thoughts are with her and her boy... |
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Fri Feb-03-06 01:07 AM
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5. What a horrible thing to go through and to watch as a parent |
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I wish the very best for your daughter, her son and you.
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Fri Feb-03-06 03:17 AM
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6. Woah. Sorry I didn't read this sooner, OhioBlues. Man, that's terrible. |
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Edited on Fri Feb-03-06 03:19 AM by BlueIris
I will definitely be having good thoughts for the child, her and you. Yikers.
I hope you don't need the Astro forum to reassure you that the temporary custody situation sounds like total b.s. and will likely not be allowed to stand. I've actually never heard of anything like that happening in the Pacific Northwest. Something's not right there and it doesn't sound like it's your daughter. Hope that gets straightened out ASAP.
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Fri Feb-03-06 05:31 AM
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7. Thinking positive and warm thoughts for your dear ones, OB.... |
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Hope her fortune and her decisions change for the better very soon.
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Fri Feb-03-06 08:54 AM
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8. Asking all loving spirits to surround you and your |
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family with healing energy and love.
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Fri Feb-03-06 01:16 PM
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9. I am shining Light and Love your way....... |
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May all be Safe, Protected and Well.
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LaurenG
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Fri Feb-03-06 03:05 PM
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10. Thank you Everyone-Update |
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First,I have not told my daughter that I have requested help. (Short version) This morning she called me at work to tell me that somehow this morning she is making it but has no clue how. She said "mom I feel like someone is right here with me I haven't felt like I could make it until I woke up this morning. Somehow I am going to make it and I feel as if someone turned on the light for me". There have been no new developments and no positive changes in her circumstances however she has faith that she will pull through this. As depressed as she was I can only say thank you all. I will continue to update as the situation progresses. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
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Fri Feb-03-06 05:30 PM
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11. This is wonderful news! I'm so glad that the Universe is... |
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helping her to see that there is hope even when things look really, really dark.
Here's a hug for you, OhioBlues! :hug:
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Fri Feb-03-06 07:10 PM
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Fri Feb-03-06 07:03 PM
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12. OhioBlues, I am sending all the love and light |
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I can muster. I am also the mother of grown children (and have several grand-babies), and, two of my children had serious health problems last year.
I know how awful it feels not to be able to 'fix' your child's hurts like you could do when she was a little one.
Just wanted you to know that I am with you in spirit.
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Custody disputes are so harrowing. Here is a lovely blessing for the three of you. . . It has given great solace to many.
Just keep visualizing your daughter and grandson happily together.
"BLESSING
I send you light to hold you, to hold you in love. I send you light to heal you, to heal you in love.
May you love, honor, and cherish the preciousness and uniqueness of your own being and of each other being in this world.
May you see your own goodness and beauty reflected wherever you look.
May you be contented and appreciative of all life's bountiful gifts.
May the splendor and majesty of your being guide your thoughts, words, and actions.
May your pain and fear be transformed into strength, understanding and compassion.
May the shining light of your being radiate peace and harmony wherever you are.
May you be suffused with happiness, joyfully celebrating each day you are alive.
May you be abundant in all wealth and rich in generosity, sharing your blessings freely.
May you be a soothing balm of kindness and a fragrant blossom of love to everyone you meet.
May you be well, whole and healthy.
May the great love and compassion of your heart embrace the suffering of all beings everywhere.
May the inner light of your purity and perfection dissolve the clouds of discord, despair, and conflict.
May the intelligence and wisdom of your infinite mind give you clarity in a confusing world.
May you trust that you are loved, cared for and supported by the infinite-always.
May you possess the precious magic jewel of gratitude that transforms all life into a paradise.
May you pause for a moment each day to remember this blessing upon you, and calling forth the full power and magnificence of your own being, may you pass it on to all beings everywhere.
I send you light to hold you, to hold you in love. I send you light to heal you, to heal you in love."
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