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Edited on Fri Aug-11-06 12:11 PM by votesomemore
Some of you may have read a bit about a recent heartbreaking break-up in my life. I really believe this person and I 'belong' together, so it is all the more painful. I don't usually let men get to me. There are plenty of them, you know.
I'm a Leo and he an Aquarius, so there is the polar attraction. Like magnets. "The Secret" has made this concept come alive for me. I alternate from believing things will eventually work out for us and telling myself that too much has happened, it can't be repaired, and I need to make other plans. He gives me no encouragement whatsoever that he is interested in having a full time partnership again. He wants a 'friendship', but one where he is in control, as he was during all our time together. He controlled the emotions, sex, where we lived, who was allowed into our orbits, etc. Why do I want a control freak anyway ....
We were supposed to go to a Full Moon swim 8/9, but I felt like seeing him .. almost every day last week, and he stayed over on the weekend .. was making my pain more intense, repeating the initial shock and just generally making me feel worse, so I canceled and told him I don't think I will see him again.
Here's the current situation . . . my horoscope for August tells me that 8/29 could be a very romantic day. Maybe even something serious. On that day I have a private massage workshop scheduled so I can get CEUs and renew my license. I have him set up to be my model for three hours. He has always loved my touches. He loves me too, but has a stubborn streak and a run-away from feelings habit, so, that sucks. I have asked another resource for possible volunteers to replace him. I don't know many people in this area yet.
I don't know if I should just blow him off altogether and get on with other things, or give it that one last opportunity. I guess it sounds rather silly to think that three hours of a massage class might change his viewpoint. I'm in pain and just asking for a share of the wisdom you beautiful people share.
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