If you have some furniture

[Why Syzygy]

that has come to hold a big karmic weight, but something has changed now to make it even more karmic (in a good way - energies switched) .. what do you think one should do? I really don't want to keep it long term. Expecting something of my own choice.

This sounds vague, and I could give more details. Have thought about asking the furniture. There are many ways I could dispose of it, I know. I kind of like the idea of it becoming Dillo Dirt, if they take these kinds of things. It was something of an heirloom at one time. But it coming into my full posession has built upon my power and I know I can do anything with it. I had originally thought of returning it to its original owner, but feel that would diminish my power and .. it's hard to explain. Just any ideas?

[lildreamer316]

1. Ask it.

Thanks for saying that,btw. Just the other day I realized that my childhood ideas that furniture and stuffed animals had "feelings" was not so far-fetched as I thought it was.

Other than that, I can't tell you unless you want to elaborate. I'm sure you'll get a solid answer either way.

[Why Syzygy]

2. cool

Right now it is perfectly content to be here serving me. This came about because several months ago, the ex left two hutches that he owned for about 30 years. He said I could keep them for the rest of my life, but if I should ever not want them, he wanted them back. He has made it clear for three months that I am not his friend any more. His words. We discuss recently the possibility of them being returned to him. I asked why it was okay for me to keep them but not pass them along to someone else. He said he left them here out of his generosity (SPEW) and to share his abundance and as a humanitarian act (MORE SPEW). During the course of a very brief conversation, I also asked if changing a high light bulb and replacing a screen was something I could ask the landlord. He said, yes, that I am a victim and people like helping victims. He also said something else I don't remember to make sure I knew that I'm the poor me and he is so much better. This is the guy who ran out on me while I was in the hospital, leaving me with a two person lease and a pile of bills, and who for several weeks ate at my place or allowed me to take him to dinner and give him gas money. He tried to destroy me, but I have survived quite nicely, THANK YOU.

He ain't getting them back. Screw him. That would mean I have to contact the asshole at some point. I was looking for a resolution to make me feel okay about myself, and that is not it. I'll keep them for now and when the time comes, will find just the perfect place for them.

btw . having a burned out light bulb does not make one a victim. I am so glad it is over with this vampire.

[lildreamer316]

3. Sheesh woman!

Yuck! As a fellow Leo, I can certainly understand how that made you feel!
Wow! How insecure is he? Obviously sensed your strength and was intimidated (no, really). Idjut.
ANYway, yep..I'd avoid the drama and just let him believe that you are keeping them forever out of the gratefulness of his generosity :eyes: Then, if you don't need them later,I am sure you will find someone deserving.

Get that man outta your sphere as soon as possible. Energy leech from hell there.