Heart transplant man dies like suicide donorA heart transplant recipient who married the former wife of the heart donor, has committed suicide in the same way as the donor did.
Twelve years ago, Sonny Graham's heart was failing and he was on the verge of death, until he received a call from doctors, saying a donor heart had just become available.
That heart belonged to Terry Cottle, 33, who had committed suicide by shooting himself in the head.
The operation was a success and soon after, Mr Graham, 69, contacted the organ donor agency, saying he wanted to thank Mr Cottle's family.
He began writing to Mr Cottle's widow, Cheryl, 39, and they soon fell in love and were married in 2004, moving to the US state of Georgia.http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2008/04/07/wheart107.xmlSo this man not only inherited the donor's love for his wife, but also his suicidal tendences. I find this fascinating, and not the first story I've heard about this. I remember reading about a woman who received an organ transplant (heart, I believe) from a male donor and suddenly started craving pork rinds and beer, which were the donor's favorites.
So often we talk about the Self, the Soul, as separate from the body. But it seems, from these stories, that our Souls imprint on the physical manifestation of our selves.
My former elder said that if we wanted to be an organ donor, we could, but she'd have to clear our physical bodies (a different sort of "last rites") before the organs were harvested. I can see why.