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Saphire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 09:59 AM Original message |
21 yo woman I work with asks me this morning if a husband can rape his |
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derby378 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
1. Call the cops |
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Che_Nuevara (517 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:02 AM Response to Reply #1 |
3. Yes, but there has to be some evidence when you call |
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Che_Nuevara (517 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:01 AM Response to Original message |
2. My recommendation would be |
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rodeodance (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:04 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. yes, there are excellant groups that can help her. |
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xultar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:04 AM Response to Reply #2 |
5. Agreed. |
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TygrBright (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:05 AM Response to Reply #2 |
6. Good advice, Che... |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 02:06 PM Response to Reply #2 |
29. Excellent advice |
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stop the bleeding (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
7. some sort of support group would be a good start, |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:06 AM Response to Original message |
8. print this out and leave it at her desk with a phone number of a local |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
9. Legally? Depends on state law. |
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Fierce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:18 AM Response to Reply #9 |
16. Wrong. |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:20 AM Response to Reply #16 |
18. I'm so behind. |
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Fierce (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:21 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. It started in the '70s. |
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Fridays Child (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
10. A husband can rape his wife. And it's not young love keeping her there. |
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Saphire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:23 AM Response to Reply #10 |
22. yeah, I know...I can see the low self-esteem and fear (threats to |
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aquart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:24 AM Response to Reply #10 |
24. Let her know she has somewhere to run. |
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Warpy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
11. Lay it on the line |
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charlie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
12. Tell her it's only going to get worse |
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Avalux (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:10 AM Response to Original message |
13. As others here have said, she needs assistance. |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
14. Try not to send her to resources you haven't vetted. |
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OzarkDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:22 AM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Thanks for the "heads up" |
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Saphire (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:24 AM Response to Reply #21 |
23. great idea's, I did find a few web sites with some "gentle" info on abuse. |
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gkhouston (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
15. tell her |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:19 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. "Go somewhere else and love him from a distance" Exactly. |
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mntleo2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:20 AM Response to Original message |
19. Comfort Is Important... |
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oneighty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 10:47 AM Response to Original message |
25. Caution |
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fed-up (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
26. Suggest that love is defined by ACTIONS, not WORDS and no matter what |
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mandyky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
27. Make sure she has the number of your local |
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riderinthestorm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 01:50 PM Response to Original message |
28. Beyond all the other excellent advice already provided |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 02:10 PM Response to Original message |
30. Try to acquire incriminating evidence on the husband. |
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Neil Lisst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
31. You have to treat it as an outcry. This is her plea for help. |
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toopers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-27-06 02:17 PM Response to Original message |
32. I believe there was a court case about 20 years ago . . . |
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