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I saw a young Asian woman on tv explaining that immigration laws have some people waiting 20 years to bring their children to the US. I have a hard time understanding how any parent could pick up and leave children behind, no matter how hard their lives were in their home country.
If it's a violent situation, I would never be able to leave my kids behind and worry that my choice to leave kept ME safe, and them NOT. I know that lots of people leave their kids with Grandma, but what happens if Grandma gets sick and cannot care for them?
If it's not a violent situation, but is financial, is it any different than the way affluent people already here buy things for their kids, when all they really want is parental attention? Will that child, separated from Mom and/or dad for years, even feel a bond with them when they arrive years later as a teenager or adolescent...in a land they don't understand, with a language they don't speak..with parents who work so much at low paid jobs, that they have no time for them. Are we surprised that so many gangs are attractive to these kids?
I am no immigration expert, but I would prefer families coming together, no matter what their country of origin was. The old Ellis Island pictures usually show entire families, not just men and women, alone. Families can and DO face many hardships, and emerge intact. Lonely wanderers who leave their families must be very sad most of the time.
This wrinkle is different because I don't think it's so much for the children. It's not an anguished vietnamese woman, desperately pushing her baby into a busload of strangers, in hopes someone will take her child to America (That is selfless regard for the child)
This is economic....greedy corporatists, eager to exploit poor people and yes..poor people eager to BE exploited, in hopes that they too can grab the brass ring, here in America.. The sad thing is that some parents, in trying to give their kids a better life, lose touch with those same children.
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