As a transsexual and a 10-year member of the Unitarian church, I totally agree!
Go - RUN...do not walk...go to
http://www.uua.org and find a local congregation near you. You'll be glad you did.
Just to give you a taste of what Unitarianism is all about...we have no central creed, you are not required to believe anything specific...and are allowed to believe whatever you wish. However, we do have Six Living Traditions, and Seven Principles, which serve as a guide to our spiritual journeys.
And here they are...if this sounds like what you believe in...we Unitarian Universalists welcome you!!
The Seven Princliples
* The inherent worth and dignity of every person;
* Justice, equity and compassion in human relations;
* Acceptance of one another and encouragement to spiritual growth in our congregations;
* A free and responsible search for truth and meaning;
* The right of conscience and the use of the democratic process within our congregations and in society at large;
* The goal of world community with peace, liberty, and justice for all;
* Respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part.
The Six Living Traditions which we share draws from many sources:
* Direct experience of that transcending mystery and wonder, affirmed in all cultures, which moves us to a renewal of the spirit and an openness to the forces which create and uphold life;
* Words and deeds of prophetic women and men which challenge us to confront powers and structures of evil with justice, compassion, and the transforming power of love;
* Wisdom from the world's religions which inspires us in our ethical and spiritual life;
* Jewish and Christian teachings which call us to respond to God's love by loving our neighbors as ourselves;
* Humanist teachings which counsel us to heed the guidance of reason and the results of science, and warn us against idolatries of the mind and spirit.
* Spiritual teachings of earth-centered traditions which celebrate the sacred circle of life and instruct us to live in harmony with the rhythms of nature.