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In order to kill someone, sexually abuse someone or harm someone--you must have no empathy or compassion for that person--no feelings whatsoever.
Many serial killers, child molesters and serial sex abusers have no feelings about anything because they were traumatized as children. This isn't true for all violent criminals, but it's true for the majority of them. When children are brutalized, they lack the ability to physically escape or deal with their overwhelming emotions. So they shut down, in order to stave off the pain and to survive. After years of being terrorized, they shut off so many times, that it's now disadvantageous to feel anything. Hence--a sociopath or a psychopath is born.
This is how many people are able to sexually abuse their own children, kill people and commit other violent crimes. Their humanity is gone and they are unable to recognize it in others.
It is a fact that one in four girls, and one in seven boys, will be sexually abused before the age of 18. The majority of these molestations are perpetrated by someone in the home or a very close relative. I've met hundreds of sexual-abuse victims, and not one was molested by a stranger or a victim of stranger abduction. Ninety percent were sexually abused, for years--by their fathers or stepfathers. These perps were accountants, lawyers, doctors, professors, restaurant owners, police officers, pastors and insurance salespeople.
So folks...we need to deal with the fact that there are millions of "average citizens" who are sexually abusing their own children--and creating a crop of traumatized people who end up being violent criminals.
I'm not excusing the behavior of violent criminals. Not at all. However, we must take this epidemic of sexual abuse--and it's effect on people--extremely seriously. Otherwise, these crimes will affect every person and every family on the planet.
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