his is Melissa Berridge's brother, James. As her sole relative in the St. Louis area, the past few days have been an utter nightmare. Waiting for my mother and oldest sister to arrive from Pennsylvania, our other sister to arrive from Texas and Missy's long-time boyfriend to fly in from California...meeting with the folks at the Quantum Leap Jump School (Mark, Larry, Jim, etc., etc.)...learning about the work Missy did for the McCaskill campaign from her fellow staffers and Claire all taught me that my sister had touched more lives than I could ever have known while she was living. Missy did all the things I never had the courage to do...from doing something substantive about her beliefs to skydiving for the pure joy of it.
I always knew Missy was incredibly meticulous and dedicated to the work she did beyond limit. I was not at all surprised tp see FIRST HAND that she filed the "disputed" report (which in fact the FEC never ACTUALLY did dispute...only asked for follow-up information on) THREE DAYS BEFORE the due date and just days before her death. In fact, my sister was so organized that other staffers were able to QUICKLY find ALL supporting documentation of the filing three days before it was due along with a copy of the report iself..in her office...three days after her death. No one could ever do that in MY office...how about you. I have copies in hand as I write this of all of her documentation.
So...now...imagine this. Today, we FINALLY were able to view Missy's body and say goodbye to her. This has been the hardest day of my life and I am not alone in that. Others are hurting far worse than I am...namely our mother. The first thing I learned after leaving the funeral home along with my mother and surviving sisters were the preliminary details of the MOGOP's baseless attack on my dead sister's impeccable work.
I am a private citizen who is not overly active politically. I would never have imagined a member of my own family would be "swift-boated" as we are very private people. To do so to someone who's remains have not yet been cremated constitute the actions of people who simply have no moral compass. These are the not actions of "spiritual" people...be they Christian, Muslim, Jewish, Agnostic, any other religion or God forbid even Atheist.
I assure you, my sister will be defended. They have chosen the wrong person and indeed the wrong family to defame!
This is LOW!!
James Berridge, Edwardsville, IL
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