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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:37 PM Original message |
Poll question: Were you sexually abused? |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:42 PM Response to Original message |
1. so far... WOW. |
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CrushTheDLC (448 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. I stopped being shocked by the numbers years ago... |
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johnaries (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:00 AM Response to Reply #5 |
8. Same here. Almost every woman I've been close to told |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:25 AM Response to Reply #5 |
15. ditto on the shock |
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bananas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:28 AM Response to Reply #5 |
16. The numbers used to be 1 of 4 women, 1 of 6 men |
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Bassic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:25 AM Response to Reply #5 |
33. That or just a plain old rapist! |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:53 PM Response to Reply #5 |
164. Recovered memories are a problem in the statistics. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 09:37 PM Response to Reply #164 |
175. Research shows repressed memories do happen... |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:05 PM Response to Reply #175 |
177. Actually, research does not. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:08 AM Response to Reply #177 |
189. So... |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:46 PM Response to Reply #177 |
242. do you even look at links that people give you? nt |
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babylonsister (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:49 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. I answered 'no', except for the guys on their made-up golf course |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:44 AM Response to Reply #6 |
55. I actually think that's a "yes," even if you weren't affected |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:12 PM Response to Reply #6 |
180. Obviously this is a screen memory |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
2. That's sad... |
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muriel_volestrangler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:36 AM Response to Reply #2 |
37. Percentages in a self-selecting poll don't mean anything |
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Contrary1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:44 PM Response to Original message |
3. You probably need a "not sure" category. n/t |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. done |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 05:59 AM Response to Reply #4 |
202. dupe- |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:00 AM Response to Reply #4 |
203. Is the "not sure" option in reference to the abuse or the gender? |
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hyphenate (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-17-06 11:57 PM Response to Original message |
7. Well...... |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
9. This doesn't surprise me. |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:15 PM Response to Reply #9 |
86. How often do people who haven't been abused call CPS |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
10. I voted no although there were uncomfortable incidents with |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:27 AM Response to Reply #10 |
28. I think that seems to be the case with little girls all too |
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Bassic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:29 AM Response to Reply #28 |
34. Rest assured, a lot of people, starting with me |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:26 AM Response to Reply #34 |
43. Good. I hope you become less and less the exception to the rule. |
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Bassic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:37 AM Response to Reply #43 |
46. In my neck of the woods I'm not really an exception. |
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malmapus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:42 PM Response to Reply #34 |
94. You're not the only one. |
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Bassic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:12 PM Response to Reply #94 |
160. As a father as well, |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:25 PM Response to Reply #28 |
77. I must say any reasonable reading of current events suggests |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:00 AM Response to Reply #77 |
204. What's her name? |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:21 PM Response to Reply #204 |
228. Only after the she was given probation and violated |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:00 PM Response to Reply #77 |
218. There needs to be more clarification |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:43 PM Response to Reply #218 |
220. Woah....no no no... |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 02:09 PM Response to Reply #220 |
254. Life is what you focus on and you focus on child molestation |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:06 PM Response to Reply #254 |
273. Wow... |
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madmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 03:04 PM Response to Reply #220 |
259. A study |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 10:39 PM Response to Reply #259 |
269. I agree that we can't totally discount this study... |
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beam me up scottie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:23 PM Response to Reply #218 |
229. Your post is one of the most ignorant I've ever read on DU. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:53 PM Response to Reply #229 |
244. you know, the more I read it, |
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beam me up scottie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 08:02 PM Response to Reply #244 |
245. Having come across the poster before, |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 08:52 PM Response to Reply #244 |
247. Par for the course for this poster, Meljones |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:27 PM Response to Reply #247 |
278. Ridiculous! |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 02:33 PM Response to Reply #229 |
255. Like I said "Life is what you focus on. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 02:52 PM Response to Reply #255 |
257. So, I'm going to hell if I say |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:12 PM Response to Reply #257 |
275. Isn't it amazing? |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:31 PM Response to Reply #275 |
279. So tell me what it means |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:45 PM Response to Reply #279 |
281. I like this interpretation... |
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dsc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:24 PM Response to Reply #218 |
230. You can't be serious |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:11 PM Response to Reply #230 |
274. It would bother me more |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:34 PM Response to Reply #274 |
280. But different gender is okay? |
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leanin_green (823 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:52 PM Response to Reply #218 |
234. I was nine when it happened to me as a little boy. . . |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #234 |
270. That is Apples and Oranges |
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leanin_green (823 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:15 PM Response to Reply #270 |
276. After reading your post again, I missed the context in which. . . |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 03:21 AM Response to Reply #218 |
251. That's sick, dude. n/t |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:46 PM Response to Reply #28 |
124. Really? |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:39 PM Response to Reply #124 |
132. I think that when the abuser is female, |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 12:30 AM Response to Reply #132 |
185. Wow, that's a good point |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:13 AM Response to Reply #185 |
190. Yup... |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:05 AM Response to Reply #132 |
205. Odd you should bring that up. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:55 PM Response to Reply #205 |
222. You are missing something really important here... |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 05:57 AM Response to Reply #124 |
201. Maybe I should have been clearer. |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 10:57 PM Response to Reply #124 |
272. I am sorry that happened to you |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:37 PM Response to Reply #28 |
131. And... |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:11 AM Response to Reply #131 |
206. Yes. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:42 PM Response to Reply #206 |
241. for more info... |
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OnionPatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:35 PM Response to Reply #10 |
120. I voted no as well but |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:00 PM Response to Reply #120 |
126. My mom didn't even notice or she would have blasted them |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:11 AM Response to Original message |
11. Every day Rep Marilyn Musgrave (R-Co) tries to ban gay marriage. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:22 AM Response to Reply #11 |
13. Great. What does your post have to do with child abuse? n/t |
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Bassic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:31 AM Response to Reply #13 |
35. He's pointing out the fact that those people are more obsessed |
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Touchdown (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
163. Well, I'd say living in a country where people like her are in charge |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
12. Horrible. |
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Lilith Velkor (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:36 AM Response to Reply #12 |
39. Nothing to do with being pedophiles themselves, right? |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:55 PM Response to Reply #39 |
125. *shrug* depends |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:47 AM Response to Reply #39 |
194. Sorry. I'm not understanding your point. |
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newspeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 03:42 PM Response to Reply #194 |
224. well, logically one can say that not "all" who are sexually abused |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 02:24 AM Response to Reply #224 |
250. Yes, I do agree with you. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
14. Yeah, verbally by a psychatrist when I was 16. |
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Joe Bacon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:43 AM Response to Reply #14 |
18. I know the feeling |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:49 AM Response to Reply #18 |
19. This guy insisted that I describe my fantasies to him |
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Joe Bacon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:28 PM Response to Reply #19 |
176. Mine was worse |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:07 AM Response to Reply #176 |
188. That's seriously fucked up. |
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Joe Bacon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 11:28 AM Response to Reply #188 |
213. I wish I had a voucher in 1968 |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 03:03 PM Response to Reply #213 |
258. A Private School would be Worse |
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Joe Bacon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 05:25 PM Response to Reply #258 |
263. Where was the oversight when it came to me? |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 09:21 PM Response to Reply #263 |
266. I think you are pushing private schools and union hate |
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Joe Bacon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 10:44 PM Response to Reply #266 |
271. No I am not |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-21-06 01:22 AM Response to Reply #258 |
282. I am overall a supporter of teachers' unions, |
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Bassic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:34 AM Response to Reply #14 |
36. Psychiatrists can be fucking wierd people. |
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nedbal (675 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 09:11 PM Response to Reply #36 |
171. ALL the High School-er's I know that became shrinks were weird ,, |
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Poll_Blind (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:32 AM Response to Original message |
17. I appreciate everyone who has taken the time to answer this poll. n/t |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:55 AM Response to Reply #17 |
24. Delete. Posted to wrong place. See #25 |
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Viva_La_Revolution (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:55 AM Response to Original message |
20. By a friends step-father... |
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Stardust (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:51 AM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Seems like every stepdaughter I ever knew was sexually abused by her |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 02:43 PM Response to Reply #22 |
256. Here's one who wasn't. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:29 AM Response to Original message |
21. kick. nt |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:53 AM Response to Original message |
23. Those are some sad poll numbers. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:08 AM Response to Original message |
25. a woman who was never abused: |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:27 AM Response to Reply #25 |
64. Same age, similar experiences. |
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Divameow77 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:27 PM Response to Reply #25 |
129. I know what you are saying |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:40 AM Response to Reply #25 |
193. Parents of pretty teenage girls, take note. |
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Hissyspit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:15 AM Response to Original message |
26. No, but came close. This guy tried to lure me under a bridge |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:18 AM Response to Original message |
27. I've been under the impression for awhile... |
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cool user name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:32 AM Response to Original message |
29. The world's most ridiculous poll |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:21 AM Response to Reply #29 |
32. If it gets people to respond, it must be good... |
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cool user name (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 09:50 AM Response to Reply #32 |
48. I was a bit faschnikered ... |
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zanne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:32 AM Response to Reply #29 |
44. I think it's very helpful. |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:30 AM Response to Reply #44 |
53. a quote by Audre |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:18 AM Response to Reply #29 |
52. no lambasting- but silence, secrecy, denial and shame |
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justice1 (483 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:00 AM Response to Reply #52 |
59. Great Responses on 52 and 53. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:12 AM Response to Reply #59 |
63. And, it's a crime where teh victim is often blamed |
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Finder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:30 AM Response to Reply #59 |
65. I agree 100%... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:57 AM Response to Reply #65 |
70. And, many (or most) of them do... |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:03 PM Response to Reply #52 |
134. thank you. nt |
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blonndee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:01 AM Response to Reply #29 |
60. Excuse me, but one doesn't have to respond in order to vote. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:42 PM Response to Reply #29 |
93. Sexual abuse is a social problem. |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:23 PM Response to Reply #29 |
114. It's a private matter. That's actually the attitude that feeds the problem |
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Kerrytravelers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:44 PM Response to Reply #29 |
123. One can vote without leaving a mesage. No one knows who voted. |
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me b zola (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 12:50 AM Response to Reply #29 |
186. I don't know why you are so angry either |
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OneBlueSky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:46 AM Response to Original message |
30. depends on how you define "abused" . . . |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:20 AM Response to Original message |
31. Assaulted by one, molested by two others, a very nasty prank by another. |
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im10ashus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 06:36 AM Response to Original message |
38. Yes. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:09 AM Response to Original message |
40. Do doctors with wandering hands |
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gorbal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:19 AM Response to Original message |
41. Peoples are always saying how dangerous cities are.... |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:48 AM Response to Reply #41 |
56. Soooooo true |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:03 AM Response to Reply #41 |
61. And date rape, I suspect, is as common in small towns as cities. nt |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:08 AM Response to Reply #41 |
62. out in the middle of nowhere on farms...a lot of unspeakable stuff |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:34 PM Response to Reply #62 |
78. I've been in ministry for 20 years |
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bleedingheart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:01 PM Response to Reply #78 |
81. My family didn't go consulting a priest...they were too ashamed |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:05 PM Response to Reply #81 |
82. I don't doubt that it happens |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:15 PM Response to Reply #82 |
139. I don't think it's worse...but I would dare say it's less |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:26 PM Response to Reply #139 |
147. Yep, we're all marrying our cousins out here |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:35 PM Response to Reply #147 |
151. Not even close to what I said. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:42 PM Response to Reply #151 |
154. Again, I don't see why it's an urban/rural issue |
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gorbal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:17 PM Response to Reply #154 |
161. We ARE the hicks |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:30 PM Response to Reply #161 |
162. lol...for real. |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 08:41 PM Response to Reply #154 |
168. Nobody has come to you with any stories, therefore it never happens! |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 12:03 PM Response to Reply #168 |
215. Not what I said |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 12:13 PM Response to Reply #215 |
216. I'll tell you why it can be worse in a small town... |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 12:17 PM Response to Reply #216 |
217. The small towns where I lived where closer to being |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-21-06 12:26 PM Response to Reply #217 |
283. Ordained? very cool... |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:20 PM Response to Reply #154 |
219. Clinton could have blamed any male in AR for the Monica dna |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 10:10 AM Response to Reply #147 |
210. are you intentionally misreading her posts? |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:49 AM Response to Reply #41 |
68. Even this becomes an urban/rural debate |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 08:45 PM Response to Reply #68 |
169. I'm sure the things you described do happen at SOME farms. |
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Jeroen (608 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:22 AM Response to Original message |
42. Unbelievable, I am speechless |
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bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:36 AM Response to Original message |
45. Seems like our definition of Sexual Abuse might not |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:59 AM Response to Reply #45 |
58. I find them very accurate |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:17 PM Response to Reply #45 |
140. Seems about right to me...nt |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 03:10 AM Response to Reply #45 |
200. Deleted message |
newspeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 03:31 PM Response to Reply #45 |
223. I don't know if there is some kind of magnetic pull |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 10:16 PM Response to Reply #223 |
268. There are "Little Red Ridinghood" Mothers |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 11:21 PM Response to Reply #268 |
277. Disagree on a point here... |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 09:25 AM Response to Original message |
47. not long term or by family members |
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InkAddict (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:04 AM Response to Original message |
49. That depends... |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:58 AM Response to Reply #49 |
57. Are you comparing not getting some to sexual abuse/assualt? |
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InkAddict (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:11 AM Response to Reply #57 |
195. Yes, indeed it's abuse |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 08:57 PM Response to Reply #195 |
248. I think that is abusive behavior, as I had that in one relationship |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:35 AM Response to Reply #49 |
198. I 'm not understanding it either. |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:08 AM Response to Original message |
50. ....yes, not proud, but no longer ashamed |
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bluedog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:11 AM Response to Original message |
51. you know small kids didn't know who |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
54. How about an "almost" category |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:20 PM Response to Reply #54 |
128. The "1 in 4" statistic regarding women and rape includes attempts |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:31 AM Response to Original message |
66. Yes, a couple of times by family members but I am no victim |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:41 AM Response to Original message |
67. I Find These Numbers A Bit Hard To Swallow. |
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Critters2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:55 AM Response to Reply #67 |
69. I agree |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:05 PM Response to Reply #67 |
71. You should talk to more women you know about it... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:14 PM Response to Reply #71 |
75. I Know More Than Enough. With That Knowledge, I Still Find The |
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VelmaD (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:35 PM Response to Reply #75 |
79. I'm sure there is some self-selection bias... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:48 PM Response to Reply #79 |
80. Or, Maybe Some Respondents Aren't Being Fully Honest With |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:08 PM Response to Reply #80 |
83. definitions may vary |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:12 PM Response to Reply #83 |
85. Actually The Definitions Are Fairly Clear, As I Posted Below. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:17 PM Response to Reply #85 |
87. So women are incapable of honestly reporting abuse in an informal poll? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:27 PM Response to Reply #87 |
89. I Hope You Don't Strike Any Matches Near Your Strawmen. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:28 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. Just recapping what you said, hon. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:44 PM Response to Reply #90 |
95. No You Weren't. You Were Offering A Ludicrous Strawman Designed To Smear. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:50 PM Response to Reply #95 |
100. What I find amusing is that you think *your* tactics aren't noticeable. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:59 PM Response to Reply #100 |
105. I Just Answer Honestly And Sincerely, And Then Back It Up With Reasoning. |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:48 PM Response to Reply #85 |
99. OMC.....what....? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:57 PM Response to Reply #99 |
104. Well, |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:15 PM Response to Reply #104 |
111. I'm honestly |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:26 PM Response to Reply #111 |
116. I'd Have To Say Good Intentions And Psychological Guilt. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:25 PM Response to Reply #116 |
146. Oh that is the biggest load of crap I've read on here yet. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:33 PM Response to Reply #146 |
150. No, An Empty Response With No Substance Is. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:45 PM Response to Reply #150 |
155. I apologize for the tone of my message... |
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fishwax (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 10:29 AM Response to Reply #116 |
211. so does that mean you believe more than half of the "yes" folk are lying? |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:24 PM Response to Reply #104 |
144. Ok...then try this on for size... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:36 PM Response to Reply #144 |
152. That Makes No Difference. And As Far As Research Is Concerned, I've Done |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:10 PM Response to Reply #99 |
109. In Addition, |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:31 PM Response to Reply #109 |
118. thank you |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:41 PM Response to Reply #118 |
122. For The Record, |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:25 AM Response to Reply #75 |
197. right...so....you understand this isn't a scientific poll. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:21 PM Response to Reply #71 |
76. You took the words right out of my mouth |
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noonwitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:07 PM Response to Reply #67 |
72. It depends on what one considers to be sexual abuse |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:13 PM Response to Reply #72 |
74. Well, I Go By The Real Definition. |
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libnnc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:46 PM Response to Reply #74 |
97. does unwanted fondiling count in your book? |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:04 PM Response to Reply #97 |
107. Of Course. |
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LostinVA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:22 PM Response to Reply #97 |
113. Mine too |
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KitSileya (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:14 PM Response to Reply #97 |
127. Then I'll have to vote yes too. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:47 PM Response to Reply #74 |
98. "unwanted sexual activity" |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:30 PM Response to Reply #74 |
149. many professionals would add to that definition... |
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jsamuel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 12:07 PM Response to Reply #67 |
73. rape is a subset of sexual abuse |
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slackmaster (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:11 PM Response to Reply #67 |
84. Very simple explanation |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:18 PM Response to Reply #84 |
88. don't agree |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:52 PM Response to Reply #88 |
102. The numbers are far out of line with what one would expect from |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:07 PM Response to Reply #102 |
108. Du bias = |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:54 AM Response to Reply #108 |
199. I hear what you are saying, but, |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 08:58 AM Response to Reply #199 |
207. I jokingly implied |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 03:37 AM Response to Reply #207 |
252. Excellent point. |
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marions ghost (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 05:21 AM Response to Reply #252 |
253. Thanks for reply |
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TAPat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:34 PM Response to Reply #67 |
91. Hey, FYI... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:40 PM Response to Reply #91 |
92. Do You Mind Clarifying? |
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TAPat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:04 PM Response to Reply #92 |
106. Again from American Heritage - |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:13 PM Response to Reply #106 |
110. See That's Where You Lose Me. |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:45 PM Response to Reply #67 |
96. I find them surprising, but only because the gap between... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:51 PM Response to Reply #96 |
101. First, We Need To Make It As Comfortable And Socially Acceptable As |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 01:55 PM Response to Reply #101 |
103. In addition, we need.... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:16 PM Response to Reply #103 |
112. I Apologize For Not Being Sure What You Meant There. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:30 PM Response to Reply #103 |
130. Don't you think we already consider rapists, pedophiles, & sexual abusers |
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Pacifist Patriot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 05:37 PM Response to Reply #130 |
159. I don't know about that. |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 10:01 PM Response to Reply #159 |
267. Common Sense tells me that will never happen |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:36 PM Response to Reply #67 |
121. A couple of things |
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triguy46 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:10 PM Response to Reply #121 |
137. Consistency among anecdote... |
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triguy46 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:04 PM Response to Reply #67 |
135. This is a serious topic, it deserves better social science |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:20 PM Response to Reply #67 |
141. Not raped. Sexually abused. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:24 PM Response to Reply #141 |
145. I Have, And If You'd Bother To Read The Other Responses You Would've Seen |
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Caoimhe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:23 PM Response to Reply #67 |
143. I didn't see "rape" as part of the poll |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:29 PM Response to Reply #143 |
148. Who Cares. My Sentiment Is Still The Damn Same Anyway. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 08:10 PM Response to Reply #67 |
166. I agree. See my post above about recovered memories. |
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devilgrrl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 08:48 PM Response to Reply #67 |
170. there are several sorts of sexual abuse, rape qualifies as one type... |
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OnceUponTimeOnTheNet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:33 PM Response to Reply #67 |
182. Frankly, I'm abit surprised they are not higher..... |
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OnceUponTimeOnTheNet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:41 PM Response to Reply #67 |
183. rather long sub thread |
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newspeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 03:58 PM Response to Reply #67 |
225. I'm sorry you find it hard to believe |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:19 PM Response to Reply #225 |
240. No Need To Be Sorry, I'm 100% Comfortable Finding It Hard To Believe. |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 03:57 PM Response to Reply #67 |
260. You are so wrong. |
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robbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 04:27 PM Response to Reply #67 |
262. The poll said "sexually abused" |
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Marie26 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-21-06 12:50 PM Response to Reply #67 |
284. It's accurate, IMO |
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K8-EEE (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:23 PM Response to Original message |
115. I Had A Date Rape Situation... |
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Ariana Celeste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
117. Yes. I don't talk about it much. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 02:33 PM Response to Reply #117 |
119. Coercive sex is rape. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
133. By a nurse practitioner |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:07 PM Response to Original message |
136. I'm So Tired of Outrage ... |
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anarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
138. nearly every woman I have ever been close to |
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ContraBass Black (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:17 PM Response to Reply #138 |
239. So it is in my case too. |
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redherring (214 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:22 PM Response to Original message |
142. I saw it happening right in front of my eyes |
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Caoimhe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:38 PM Response to Original message |
153. Yes, by the son of a preacher man |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 04:57 PM Response to Original message |
156. I just realized I failed to answer my own post. I am a woman who was |
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Alameda (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 05:08 PM Response to Original message |
157. remembering abuse? |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 05:15 PM Response to Reply #157 |
158. I didn't remember until I hit puberty. I tried to kill myself at 13. |
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Triana (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 07:55 PM Response to Original message |
165. between the age of 9 and 13 - my older sister's husband... |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 08:23 PM Response to Original message |
167. A poll separating repressed or dissociated memories of abuse |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 09:18 PM Response to Reply #167 |
172. Memories that aren't 100% factually accurate |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:10 PM Response to Reply #172 |
178. Please see my post above. |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:12 PM Response to Reply #178 |
179. You need to source your assertions. |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 11:26 PM Response to Reply #179 |
181. Um, no. That is not how science works. |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:38 AM Response to Reply #181 |
192. I've listed a couple links |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 09:08 AM Response to Reply #181 |
209. Then that makes your posts rather anecdotal also. |
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Marr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
173. I'd be curious to know- is there a disparity between male and female |
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MysteryToMyself (302 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 09:03 PM Response to Reply #173 |
264. We are all victims of childhood |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Aug-18-06 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
174. Purely anecdotal, but more than half of the women I've know in my life |
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jerry611 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:01 AM Response to Reply #174 |
187. Oh yeah, like only men are capable of abuse |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:52 PM Response to Reply #187 |
221. You can't possibly be serious, dude. |
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LoZoccolo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:34 PM Response to Reply #221 |
233. We're not having a contest to see which gender is not as bad as the other. |
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Greyhound (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:57 PM Response to Reply #233 |
236. Hey I just replied to the OP, it was Jerry that brought up the misleading |
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Recursion (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 12:24 AM Response to Original message |
184. As a male victim, the worst part is trying to explain it |
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melnjones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 01:18 AM Response to Reply #184 |
191. There are lots of girls |
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u4ic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 02:12 AM Response to Original message |
196. Yes |
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PaDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 09:03 AM Response to Original message |
208. I can just hear Limbaugh................ |
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newspeak (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 04:11 PM Response to Reply #208 |
226. well, if he's going to respond to that |
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Iniquitous Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 04:03 PM Response to Reply #226 |
261. And that he hangs out with in the Dominican. nt |
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Seabiscuit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
212. How can anyone be "not sure"????????? |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 11:49 AM Response to Reply #212 |
214. Because they are told time and time again |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:17 PM Response to Original message |
227. Are you referring to sexual abuse happening only to children? |
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helderheid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:34 PM Response to Reply #227 |
232. I'm referring to any sexual abuse at any age. |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:52 PM Response to Reply #232 |
235. Mentally subtract one from the 'no' column and one to the 'yes' then |
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Raksha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 06:31 PM Response to Original message |
231. I answered "not sure" because I don't know |
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conflictgirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:01 PM Response to Reply #231 |
238. I think the definition of abuse is the same |
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Raksha (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 08:51 PM Response to Reply #238 |
246. You're probably right that it's the act itself that constitutes abuse |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
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doc03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 07:51 PM Response to Original message |
243. Not sexually, but mentally |
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tinfoilinfor2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-19-06 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
249. No, but I did have an uncle who tried it when I was sixteen. |
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Allenberg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-20-06 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
265. I'd imagine by law I was. |
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astral (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-21-06 04:52 PM Response to Original message |
285. wow |
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