She then asserted that allowing a gay couple to adopt constituted "state-sanctioned child abuse because you've purposely taken away either a momma or a daddy, and mom and dad are both necessary in a child's life."
You can get the same result (taking away either a momma or a daddy) by:
- Allowing divorces
- Sending a parent off to Iraq, particularly if they get killed
- Placing a parent in jail
And as far as divorces go, if the household has a physically abusive parent, and divorces are not allowed (because they would "take away" a momma or a daddy), and the parents are forced to live together, then by not allowing a parent to escape the situation, the state is sanctioning child abuse.
If the alternative is to force them to stay married, then the spouse would have to send the abusive parent to jail (or maybe both parents are abusers). Either way, that deprives the child of a parent, so that's state-sponsored child abuse.
If you allow them to divorce, and one parent hopefully is good for the child and gets custody, then you've deprived the child of a momma or daddy, so that's state sponsored child abuse.
Seems to me it's state sponsored child abuse no matter which way you look at it. And if the child was up for adoption, but because gay adoption was disallowed, through the fortunes of fate, that child never got adopted... would that not be state-sponsored child abuse?
What if you send a teenager off to die in Iraq without sufficient body armor? Now THAT strikes me a state-sponsored child abuse.