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Homer Wells Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:21 PM
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What the F*&% does being an alcoholic
have to do with Foley's e-mails and IM's to these boys.

I have enjoyed the pleasure of drinking (not to the alcoholic stage,thank god) for a lot of years, and I do not recall ever having any irresistible compulsion to hit on children for sexual gratification.

Seems to me, in Foley's case, this argument makes No sense.

A pedophile is a pedophile, or in his case, a drunk pedophile.

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lvx35 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:23 PM
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1. This is a common justification.
I have worked in mental health and been trained on sex offenders. Blaming it on some other factor, usually alchohol, (or even the child) is a telltale sign of a predator. The people who got messed up and fess up to how sick they are usually are treatable.
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Mz Pip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:26 PM
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9. The Devil Scotch made me do it
An excuse. Not a good one. I know a number of alcoholics and they don't do this pedophile IM stalking stuff. They are just people who can't handle alcohol. It doesn't make them do anything they don't already have the proclivity for doing.

This is the Foley is a victim defense.

F*ck, he could have checked himself into rehab years ago if this were the case.

Mz Pip
:dem:
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NOLADEM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:24 PM
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2. I think such quotes are revealing
MANY Repuke types I have known over the years have a couple of drinks and become insane. They act out all the shit they jam inside the rest of their week, trying to be impossibly square and dead to the world.

They are trying anything, and their options are few. All they have is pathetic excuses.
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mrcheerful Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:25 PM
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3. Because republicans can forgive a recovering alkie no matter what his
crime was while drinking. Of course this only applies if you are republican. GW is a good man because he gave up the bottle and replaced it with the bible, so all of his drunken transgressions are forgiven as youthful nonsense.
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bridgit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:25 PM
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4. nothing, it's a ruse, a ploy...that's all it is...
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Nailzberg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:25 PM
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5. Nothing. Absolutely nothing.
I imagine a pedophile might be more likely to act on such urges if he were drunk. But this action seems like a pathetic attempt at damage control. Check into rehab just to have something to blame it on.
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zonkers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:25 PM
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6. It's SOP. Mel Gibson did it when he dissed Jews. Charlie Sheen does
rehab whenever he screws up.
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mcscajun Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:25 PM
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7. It's "Deviance Disavowal"
Edited on Mon Oct-02-06 09:27 PM by mcscajun
Deviance Disavowal: "I'm not a deviant, the alcohol made me do it." It's a smokescreen, an avoidance of personal responsibility for the unacceptable behavior. He may even have deliberately gotten drunk Knowing it would "allow" him to pursue urges he was struggling with. (That's a massive "benefit of the doubt" I'm giving him there.)

Yet I still say he's no pedophile: he's a sexual predator and a sexual offender, but he didn't hit on prepubescent or peripubescent individuals.
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savemefromdumbya Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:25 PM
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8. Nice try Foley! It doesn't take alcohol to write an email
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achtung_circus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:26 PM
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10. 2 things.
It gives him a scapegoat, and by entering a treatment program he can be kept out of the public view "on his doctor's reccomendation". A costly (as I'm sure this one is) treatment centre has security.
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AspenRose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:42 PM
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18. It also garners him sympathy with his supporters and his base
Rachel Maddow talked about this tonight....and brought up Bob Ney and Mel Gibson....
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leftofthedial Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:26 PM
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11. it's the bush precedent
confess to having been a drinker, then pretend to have quit

all your past sins are washed clean AND you get the benefit of the doubt for anything going forward.


IF

you are a repuke.
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Shakespeare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:27 PM
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12. Nada. It just gets hime out of the reach of the press for a month. n/t
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:27 PM
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13. I'm as recovering Alcoholic....
And I found out this...

If you were an ass hole when your were drinking...

Chances are you are going to be an ass hole when you quit...

So if you enjoy predatory sex while you are drinking....

Chance are you will still yearn for predatory sex after you stop....
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LostInAnomie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:40 PM
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14. You would be surprised how far the alcohol excuse goes with...
... some fundies.

I used to work with a group of fundies at my old job. None of them had ever had a drink in their life and never wanted too. They swore up and down that whenever anyone has any amount of alcohol they automatically lose control and immediately become a sociopath. Not being a stranger to the drink I tried to inform them that they were misinformed in their conceptions about the effects of alcohol because I had drank many times and I never became a raving lunatic. Their response was that I didn't remember the deviant things I must have done because the liquor had made me black out and blocked my memory.

People like these would believe that a person like Foley could be led astray by alcohol. If it reinforces their worldview they would be capable of believing anything.
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valerief Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:40 PM
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15. It's a reason to spirit him away from the glare of the klieg lights. nt
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barb162 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:41 PM
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16. they just said on the news that he was in rehab for mental
problems and alcohol
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Swamp Rat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:42 PM
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17. He's trying to hide from the press
It will not work for very long. :eyes:

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BuyingThyme Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:43 PM
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19. In 2003, Foley introduced legislation which would have
allowed accused drunk drivers to use drunkenness as a defense.
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Spazito Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:46 PM
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20. Nothing, it has ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with him being a sexual
predator, a pedophile. I don't even believe he has a drinking problem but if he does or doesn't is not the issue. The issue is his criminal activities, period.
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Imagevision Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Oct-02-06 09:46 PM
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21. Rehab, it's the proper/wise thing to do, ask Mel Gibson - Pelosi will
get this predator who claims pedophiles are "sicko's, to testify under oath along with Hastert and reynolds, and especially John "Boner"
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