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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 06:59 PM
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How can you be pro choice but have a problem with the death penalty?
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:09 PM by LibraLiz1973
I’m a bit shocked that so many at D.U. are against the hanging of Saddam, as well as being against the death penalty in general.

Are we not the party that advocates a woman’s right to choose? While I agree that it is an important right to have, and I have argued for it vociferously with people who are against it, I do think that abortion means killing a living being. Abortion terminates the life of something living and INNOCENT. We fight to allow women in our country to have the right to choose to terminate pregnancy for reasons which only she need know, but we are against the death penalty for people who are GUILTY of heinous crimes.

Wow. Explain how that isn’t a big old' conundrum.

An example of a case where the death penalty should have been used is Charles Manson.
Explain to me how his continuing to draw breath is a real and true punishment? To this very day he finds ways to torture the families of his victims. He is not repentant, he has certainly not learned a lesson. What is his continued purpose on this planet?

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again. I’m alright with the death penalty. There are people who deserve to die for the crimes they have committed.

I understand the other view that an “eye for an eye” leaves everyone eyeless.
But is that really true? The US isn’t doling out ANY punishment for Osama Bin Laden.
If he’s ever found (ahem, found ALIVE) are you against him dying? I don’t really think that it IS an eye for an eye when someone is put to death. I think when the death penalty is used, it takes a terrible evil out of the world.

I choose to support a women’s right to choose, but I can’t be bothered to fight for the rights of a murdering monster who had no care for anyone elses rights. You reap what you sow.

These are my opinions, and it isn't meant to piss people off and start WWIII. It's how I think and I am interested in hearing what other people are thinking. I respect the opinions of others (here anyway) even when we disagree, so I am hoping this doesn't start a name calling all out brawl.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:01 PM
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1. ...because there's no choice in the death penalty?
Because the government is claiming that murdering another person is justice?

Because abortion isn't murder and the two can't be compared as equal actions? :shrug:
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:03 PM
Response to Reply #1
7. Abortion isn't murder but it is death. And I don't think execution
can be equated to murder either.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:04 PM
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14. But the state is taking another life for "justice"
What right does the state have to take a fully-developed human's life?

Abortion is only potential life that is taken--execution is taking a fully-devloped, sentinel life. There's a world of difference in both biological and ethical sense.
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:11 PM
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29. And execution is not an individual's choice.
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:21 PM by philosophie_en_rose
Pro-choice is about an individual's choices over their own bodies, not about the state making those choices.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:13 PM
Response to Reply #29
32. Actually, yes it is. One can choose to commit a crime or not commit...
a crime which carries the death penalty. Or am I not understanding something here?
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:14 PM
Response to Reply #32
39. No, your exactly right
Murderers CHOOSE to murder and CHOOSE to torture.
They make the CHOICE to do something that can result in the
death penalty. It's not like the DP is a secret!
They chose and they chose wrong- but choose they did.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:17 PM
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what about those who are innocent and are killed by the state?
Did that individual "choose" that as well?

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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:19 PM
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54. Very true, and this is a reason to be against the death penalty in most cases...
but aren't there some cases in which there is no reasonable doubt?

(I don't mean criminal cases either.)
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:22 PM
Response to Reply #54
61. To be honest, I don't really know
I'm not a law person, but from what I've seen, the justice system in this country is corrupt, racist, and is defined by how much money you have to spend on a lawyer. Justice literally can be bought--and for that, I doubt that anything can truly be beyond a reasonable doubt.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:26 PM
Response to Reply #61
69. Good points all of them, and it's the reason I don't support the death penalty...
in a criminal trial setting.

There are some other settings where I can imagine certain people are guilty beyond a reasonable doubt, and where it would be fair.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:30 PM
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84. I think we'd all like to have something done to people who hurt us that gives us closure
The DP, admittedly, is tempting because it does seem like it gives that closure.

I used to support the DP. But the more I learned about how it's applied in this country, the more I hated it. And from an ethical and philosophical standpoint, I just cannot see how a state can have the power to take the life of its own citizens in the name of justice.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:35 PM
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89. I think we can debate that, because I myself still think about it.
I often wonder if the whole methodology of our justice system is really correct.

Are we punishing or correcting? Or are we separating permanently damaged people from the rest of society, to protect ourselves?
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Judi Lynn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:45 PM
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108. Right wing clowns swerve and try to prohibit assisted suicide in cases of terminal
illness, but they are determined to execute everyone possible who can be swept in and involved in even the semblance of a murder trial, even if the state-appointed attorney actually sleeps during the defendant's trial, while ALWAYS making special exception for right-wing murder which separates people they DON'T like from their lives.

Their view of "life" apparently covers everything up to the fertilization of the egg, as something to be worshipped, terminating with the beginning of consciousness immediately after birth.

They've even rewritten their "modern language" bibles to exonerate killing they approve, claiming it's NOT murder. Their 10 Commandments, rather than saying "Thou shalt not kill," merely says "Thou shall not commit murder." Oh, jesus H. christ.

Rabid, mad, terminally self-focused, mentally paralyzed, shallow wingdings. It's an education watching them clumsily attempting to construct their shabby arguments, like observing a blind man building a house.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:16 PM
Response to Reply #32
44. ah, but since justice is not carried out equally, then the individual's actions may not be equal
It's well established that death sentences are handed out disproportionately to minority suspects.

That, and there mistakes in the system-- someone may be innocent, but still condemned to death. That is hardly the fault of the individual, no?

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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:39 PM
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96. the fact that committing a crime is a choice does not mean execution is a choice
there's no logical connection there at all. The issue of abortion is a matter of personal choice because a woman chooses what happens to her body. There is no individual choice in execution--the individual has no choice ove what happens to their body (they forfeit that choice at the point of conviction).
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:44 PM
Response to Reply #96
106. Yes, but if a fetus has different DNA than the mother, how can it possibly be as...
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:45 PM by originalpckelly
simple as having control over her own body? (In other words, how can a person's body part have different DNA, aside from cases of organ transplantation.) Doesn't she have control over the body of the fetus as well?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:10 PM
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135. How is it not as simple as having control over her body?
If anyone else exerts any control over what is inside her body, she loses the right to control of her own body. Pro life folks would argue that restricting her control over her body is worth it in this case (in order to defend what they consider a human being on par with you or me), but I fail to see how they could argue that it doesn't usurp a woman's control over her own body.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:13 PM
Response to Reply #135
139. The problem is that the woman is not solely controlling her body...
but the body of a dependent.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:39 PM
Response to Reply #139
152. that's not really a problem for everyone
even if it were entirely accurate and universally accepted.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:49 PM
Response to Reply #152
156. Isn't the fetus dependent on the mother?
Am I missing something?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:00 PM
Response to Reply #156
165. I'm sure none would challenge the dependent part, but *body* on the other hand
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 09:01 PM by fishwax
Yes, certainly the fetus is dependent upon the mother. At one point (and in what sense) the cells developing from the fertilized egg becomes a body, on the other hand, would probably draw heated debate. :yoiks:

That aside, though, the fact that, in controlling her body the woman exerts control over another entity wholly dependent upon her is not necessarily a problem for those who are pro-choice.

Even for those who are pro-life, it still doesn't change the centrality of a woman's ability to control what happens to her body. It just means that they value the rights of that entity more than they value the right of a woman to control what happens to her own body.

:)
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:02 PM
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169. It's very difficult if you value both the mother's and the child's rights.
Very difficult. Hence the reason I am even debating this.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:14 PM
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175. I think that's the crux of the issue
which is why I said back at the beginning of this subthread that abortion is an issue which concerns individual choice ... I think that's true whichever side of the issue one is on.

Those who are pro life generally (though I suppose not always) believe that what is inside the woman's body is a human being, and that therefore it is worth sacrificing the woman's right to control what happens to her own body in order to protect the rights of the unborn entity. That may not be their ideal way of putting it, but unless there is some way to protect the rights of that being without usurping the ability of the woman to control what happens to her own body, that is an accurate description of what's at stake.

Those who are pro choice may differ widely on how they view what's inside the woman's body, but are generally united in their belief that the right of a woman to control what happens to her own body supercedes any "rights" that might be claimed on behalf of that entity inside the woman's body.

So, either way, it comes down to what value one places on the right of a woman to determine what happens to her body. And abortion, in that way, is about personal choice in a way which the death penalty simply is not.

I agree that it's difficult (perhaps impossible) to value both, and I suppose that very fact is what makes it such a difficult issue for many. :)
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:07 AM
Response to Reply #165
367. Thank you, Fishwax for this post.
It was looking like this discussion was veering off the rails. I think that is one central issue on the debate on abortion: when does a group of cells in a womb become viable?

I am definately pro-choice. I am ambivalent about capital punishment, though for reasons some of you have mentioned in your posts. If it were used only in obvious cases, maybe. Though it's pretty gruesome to hang someone in this day and age.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:14 PM
Response to Reply #29
38. That as well
The fact that the state is taking a life, not an individual, and the fact that the death penalty is inherently racist should make this comparison completely null.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:18 PM
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How is it inherently racist?
As applied in America, I know the statistics, but it is possible to have the death penalty for someone who is white. Timothy McVeigh is an example of this.

It was no inherently racist enough to keep him from being executed, right?
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:24 PM
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64. if you look at cases where the death penalty is used...
...it is handed down disproportionately down to minority individuals who often cannot afford the better lawyers that white and usually more affluent defendants can--there was a very well known case where a black man was sentenced to death and his public defendant was sleeping throughout the trial.

So there is a very stark difference in justice depending on the color of your skin.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:42 PM
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154. another factor is that it places a greater value on white victims than on black
a defendant is much more likely to be executed for taking a white life than for taking a black life.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:42 PM
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101. that isn't a logical argument at all
It was no inherently racist enough to keep him from being executed, right?
inherently racist doesn't mean that no white people ever get executed, so the fact that a white person gets executed does not in any way counter the argument that the dp is inherently racist.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:48 PM
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110. Well, the problem here is that it is possible to give someone the death penalty...
without racist connotations. If one simply based the decision to be against the death penalty on skin color, then there are still cases where race doesn't apply. In the case of Tim McVeigh, he was not given the death penalty because he was black.

So if one's opposition to the death penalty solely comes from racism, then it is also possible to be for the death penalty in cases where race played no part in one's receiving the death penalty.

I am trying to get at the actual deeper reason to be against the death penalty.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:03 PM
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127. you asked how it was inherently racist, and then offered a
white guy who got the death penalty as evidence that it wasn't. That isn't a valid argument.

If I understand what you're saying now, you're implying that someone who opposes the DP on the grounds that the system is inherently racist has no reason to oppose the execution of someone like McVeigh, that doesn't really make sense either, since opposition is to the entire system of the death penalty and not a single execution.

Besides, if the DP were only allowed in those cases where the victim was white, there would be a certain racial bias to the death penalty, wouldn't there?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:09 PM
Response to Reply #127
134. I understand opposition to the system as implemented in the US...
I have great disgust of our system because of it's inherent inequality.

When someone says they are "opposed to the death penalty," it's not quite accurate, as we have discovered, because it is possible to create a system in a nation where people are racially homogeneous.

It is possible to decide on the death penalty for a convict, yet not do it with a factor of race.

What are reasons to be against the death penalty in that case? Are there any?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:34 PM
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151. there are a number of reasons to oppose the death penalty in that case
one of which is that one might simply oppose the death penalty (period) because the system which enforces it is unfair. Just because an individual case does not exemplify the inequities of the system, it's perfectly valid to oppose the death penalty in all cases because the system that enforces it is inherently unfair. The inequities of the system lead many people to oppose the death penalty, period.

Now, if Timothy McVeigh had been tried, convicted, and executed in some mythical alternate reality where such biases were not an inherent corrupting force in the system which puts people to death, then those who oppose the death penalty merely on the grounds that it's racially biased might well support his execution. But since he wasn't tried, convicted, and executed as part of that mythical fair system, but rather our own, than those who oppose the death penalty need no reason to oppose McVeigh's execution other than that the system which propagated it is inherently corrupt.

Of course, I don't think most death penalty opponents base their arguments on that one reason alone. There are a number of other reasons as well, such as the class bias of the system or the notion that the state shouldn't be involved in the taking of a non-threatening human life (and that, once imprisoned, McVeigh didn't pose a threat).

When someone says they are "opposed to the death penalty," it's not quite accurate, as we have discovered

We've discovered no such thing. I see no inaccuracy in saying that I oppose the death penalty.

because it is possible to create a system in a nation where people are racially homogeneous.

Um, where did we see that, again?

It is possible to decide on the death penalty for a convict, yet not do it with a factor of race.


Not to complicate the issue, but it should further be noted that the color of the skin of the defendant is not the only way in which the system surrounding the death penalty is inherently racist, and that's another reason why even the case of Timothy McVeigh does not present a conviction outside the realm of a biased system. One is far more likely to receive the death penalty for killing a white person than for killing a black person.

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marmar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:04 PM
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211. Even the Repug governor of Illinois found it inherently racist....
Killers of whites are far more likely to be put to death than killers of non-whites. It's been proven time and time again.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:26 PM
Response to Reply #7
68. Fatal Cancer isn't murder but it is death
and I'm against cancer...

:eyes:

RL
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:27 PM
Response to Reply #68
74. I think you're joking around with a serious matter.
Kind of inappropriate.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:39 PM
Response to Reply #74
94. I think comparing Pro-Choice with a sham trial
and a snuff-filmed execution is kind of innappropriate, not to mention stupid.

enjoy your grave dance.

RL
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:40 PM
Response to Reply #94
98. Actually I am comparing it to the death penalty in general
& peoples views about it.
Just to clarify
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Gregory_Wonderwheel Donating Member (25 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:16 PM
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668. I support the murderer's right to choose life or death.
Pro-choice means pro-choice in both situations.

I support the convicted murderer's right to choose between the death penalty and life in prison without parole.

I support the pregnant mother's right to choose between giving birth or terminating her pregnancy.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:03 PM
Response to Reply #668
675. Now that is in interesting proposition.
I am very much against the death penalty, but agree with voluntary suicide for those in process of actively dying, have to think more about people sentenced to death/life imprisonment. Thanks for the thought.
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:18 PM
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50. Right, abortion kills a possibility of a life
which may or may not come to fruition if abortion is not chosen, while the DP is the premeditated murder of an actual human being by the state.

And too many men will never get that an early abortion does NOT kill a 3 month old baby, just as they will never get that for many women pre Roe, the solution was suicide or death at the hands of an amateur illegal abortionist, or that pregnancy and childbirth are both dangerous conditions even though they're common ones necessary to the continuation of the species.

Abortion is a lifesaving procedure while the DP is revenge by proxy.


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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:30 PM
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81. Abortion ends a human life, but there are a number of situations...
in which a woman should have an abortion. It is too difficult to figure out whether a woman should/shouldn't have an abortion, so women must be free to choose.

The arguments about it being the only alternative to back alleys, is quite absurd.
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:18 PM
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142. It's not a human life YET, chum
and that is rather the point. It's a potential life, nothing more.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:20 PM
Response to Reply #142
145. It has human DNA, the cells are human cells...
what about that makes it not a human?
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:44 PM
Response to Reply #145
155. It's still not a baby, chum, and it's still not a LIFE
The right of the woman supersedes that of an undeveloped fetus with no feelings or thoughts.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:51 PM
Response to Reply #155
157. At what point does it become wrong to kill the fetus?
Isn't the fetus alive?
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:52 PM
Response to Reply #157
159. whenever it's out of the body
No offense, your questions are beginning to sound mighty facetious.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:57 PM
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162. So if the mother chooses to kill the unborn 1 day before it is born...
that's not wrong?

Is it solely wrong because it's outside of the mother's body?

(I'm being very precise, because I want to use logic to arrive at a decision.)
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:00 PM
Response to Reply #162
164. It's not my body so I don't have an opinion
Personally, unless it was for a medical procedure, I would consider that to be moral irresponsible.

But it's not my body, therefore I have no opinion.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:04 PM
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171. But if that's murder, don't you have the same imperitive for the murder of an adult?
We certainly wouldn't let someone be murdered without investigating the murder, unless the killer killed his/herself.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:05 PM
Response to Reply #171
172. I said *I* would consider it murder if not done for medical reasons--but that doesn't mean..
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 09:06 PM by WindRavenX
...it is definitively murder.
I think we're done discussing this manner.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:37 AM
Response to Reply #162
384. Pretzel logic, more like n/t
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:56 AM
Response to Reply #162
578. Do you honestly think this happens?
You think women are running around pregnant for 8 months and getting abortions because they "look fat"?

The bottom line is, this decision needs to be between a WOMAN and HER DOCTOR. The debate over so-called "partial birth abortion" and the stories as to why (and under what circumstances, like pregnancies gone horribly wrong) it actually happens as opposed to what takes place in Rush Limbaugh fantasyland, make that clear.

The logical answer is that it has to be between the woman whose body it is and a doctor, not between George Bush, Bill Frist and Pat Robertson.. Period. That is who needs to be trusted to make the call.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:35 AM
Response to Reply #159
383. I agree. n/t
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:41 PM
Response to Reply #157
185. I believe that a fetus is a life from the moment of conception.
Therefore, I wouldn't have an abortion. My choice not to.

Pro-choice, to me, is all about choices. Actually, during the last Presidential election, I discovered that most of my daughter's friend's moms had had abortions while in college. I was the only one who hadn't and I am the only one who is pro-choice.

I've never been unmarried and pregnant, so for me to say abortion is wrong for everyone is pretty high and mighty. I don't have the faintest idea what I would have done had I become pregnant during college or right after for that matter.

Pro-choice = the choice that is right for the mom at that time/place.
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Warpy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:32 PM
Response to Reply #157
246. What makes you sure there's a set time?
Late abortions should be up to the woman and her doctor. If the woman's health is threatened, it's called a premature birth. If the fetus is badly deformed to the point of nil to low survival potential, it's called abortion.

Whatever it is, it's none of your business.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:15 AM
Response to Reply #157
414. "alive" does not = being a human being.
the mole on my chin is alive, but I would sure like to get it cut off. Being alive does not = being a human being. Does not = being a person with a soul.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:57 AM
Response to Reply #157
580. The unfertilized egg and sperms are alive, too.
They get "killed" all the time.
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Qutzupalotl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:24 PM
Response to Reply #580
659. Exactly. And thank you.
Nothing can truly be said to be "killed" before it's born. Prevented from becoming alive, sure. But if cellular life is the standard, we all have the deaths of thousands of skin cells on our hands.

There is a vast difference between strangling a newborn baby and preventing a fetus from being born. There is separate, independently viable, individual human life in the one case but not the other.

For the religious folk here, there is even a difference between the biblical penalties for murder and causing a miscarriage; so even the Bible acknowledges that abortion is not murder.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 09:08 AM
Response to Reply #157
639. In many countries with totally legal early abortion, there is a time limit to abortion on demand
generally reflecting the fetus' level of development, and potential for survival outside the womb. In the UK, it's 24 weeks.

But most abortions are much earlier, and many of us cannot see an undeveloped and unviable fetus as more than *potential* life.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:27 AM
Response to Reply #142
379. Exactly!!! n/t
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:24 AM
Response to Reply #81
375. Walk a mile in someone else's shoes
Talk to people who have been confronted with that decision.

I don't think that the back alley argument is absurd at all, as history shows.
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midnight Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:04 PM
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208. Very well put.
Now I personally don't want to choose for another women to have a baby that may be unwanted, so I won't. I want that decision to be between her and her doctor. That said, America has some of the worst family support. I was told by my daughter today that the foreign exchange student from Germany spends a long lunch with her family, after school lets out sometime after 1:00. The family eats a large meal after the mother comes home from work around the same time to reconnect with the children. I love that idea. I don't know about the other family's on DU, but I would love to have more time with family, and less time 9-5 job cycle. Sorry-I know that I diverged from the topic.
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Taxloss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:01 PM
Response to Original message
2. Abortion AND the death penalty in one thread?
:nuke:

:popcorn:
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:01 PM
Response to Reply #2
3. LOL
:popcorn: :popcorn:

This is gonna be real good :evilgrin:
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itsmesgd Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:02 PM
Response to Reply #2
4. and what about smoking?
that's the DU divisive- tri-fecta.
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Taxloss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:04 PM
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13. Was Steve Irwin circumcised? n/t
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:11 PM
Response to Reply #4
27. Add breastfeeding and cornflake fried chicken
and you've hit the jackpot.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:16 PM
Response to Reply #27
42. and don't forget those shopping carts and kids running amuck
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:17 PM
Response to Reply #42
47. I have two words for you:
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:17 PM by xmas74
Fat Actress.

I win!
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BlueEyedSon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:24 PM
Response to Reply #27
63. Oh god, I love CF fried Chicken
Breastfeeding's not to bad either.....
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:36 PM
Response to Reply #63
92. I don't eat fried chicken.
(I once worked for Kentucky Fried Chicken. I think that explains everything). But I didn't have a dog in that fight. Instead, I offered a recipe for kudzu fried chicken.

As for breastfeeding-I'm all for it. I nursed my daughter so I was all over those arguments.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:03 PM
Response to Reply #27
170. What was the cornflake fried chicken about?
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 08:54 AM
Response to Reply #170
636. You must have missed that one.
It's a classic Lounge flamewar.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:30 AM
Response to Reply #27
381. got a recipe for that? n/t
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 08:56 AM
Response to Reply #381
637. Nope.
I don't eat fried chicken but you are than welcome to stop by the Lounge and start a thread. I'm sure someone will give you a recipe. (Along w/ many other things.)
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TheCowsCameHome Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:14 PM
Response to Reply #2
34. Ya forgot smokers rights. I love a trifecta.
Pass the popcorn, extra butter please.
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:02 PM
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5. some dont see an embryo or fetus as human life. n/t
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Squatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:02 PM
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6. Holy crap...
Hang on a second....


:popcorn: :popcorn: :popcorn:

OK, Go!
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Solo_in_MD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:03 PM
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9. you didn't leave enough for the rest of us...
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:04 PM
Original message
Your taking it the wrong way..... I really don't think a big old brawl is
necessary in any way.
Is no one capable of having a real conversation without killing eachother?
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:05 PM
Response to Original message
15. LOL. *You're* the one who called those of us against the DP hypocrites.
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:11 PM by Midlodemocrat
How is that not flamebait?
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Lautremont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:07 PM
Original message
I was about to say the same thing.
That, and that the OP doesn't make any sense.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:57 PM
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120. It totally is n/t
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:09 PM
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24. me.... wink. n/t
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TheCowsCameHome Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:17 PM
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45. Bad choice of words..........
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:12 PM
Response to Reply #6
31. May I have some of that popcorn
and a few sips of the beer?
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Beaverhausen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:03 PM
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126. Are there any good seats left?
:popcorn:
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Nutmegger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:03 PM
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8. Starting more flamebait?
Another thread to hide. :puke:
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Squatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:04 PM
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12. Although a potentially VERY flamey topic,
the questions posed are introspective and valid.
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Rosemary2205 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:04 PM
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10. People getting executed don't get a choice.
Pro-choice is all about a woman choosing what to do with her own body. Whether she is forced to be an incubator, or forced to carry a severely disabled child to term, or forced to continue to carry a dead child or whatever. Most people I know that are pro-choice are because it is compassionate and humane.

Many are also anti-executions for the same reasons, compassion and human rights.
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:21 PM
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56. People getting executed had a choice to do whatever got them into that situation
(Assuming they really were guilty of the crime of which they were convicted, of course.)

People who commit the kind of crimes that result in the death penalty actually DO have a choice in the matter. They can choose to not commit murder.

(Some opponents of abortion might say that women choose to engage in the behavior that results in unwanted pregnancy. However, those of us in the real world know that women don't always have a choice, that they may be in an abusive or controlling relationship or may be raped, or there may be a simple failure of birth control. So I think maybe that's one way it's possible for someone to be pro-choice and pro-death penalty--that and the idea that the state shouldn't dictate what goes on inside a woman's own body.)
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:53 PM
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116. execution is not a matter of individual choice. abortion is.
a murderer forfeits the choice of what to do with their body (be it execution, in some states, or incarceration) at the point of conviction. Execution is a choice made by someone else. Abortion is an individual choice about what said individual does with their body.

Personally, I think it's perfectly reasonable to be both pro-choice and anti-death penalty. I see no conflict whatsoever. Pro-choice is a position based on the ethic that a woman ought to have control over what happens to her body, while opposition to the death penalty can be based on any number of factors--the belief that the state shouldn't be involved in taking a non-threatening human life, the belief that the justice system is inherently unfair, the belief that the risk of executing an innocent person outweighs the benefit of executing the guilty, or any of a number of other reasons, none of which pose any conflict with the notion that a woman ought to have final say over what happens to her body.
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Rosemary2205 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:07 PM
Response to Reply #56
129. Unfortunately
we find out all too often the condemned turns out to be innocent. What choice did they make? They already chose "not to commit murder". Lot of fat good it did them.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:12 PM
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137. I think that's a very good point, but it is not a generalized point...
it applies to situations where there is reasonable doubt or racism, or some other factor that might cause an innocent person to be executed.

Say for example, someone is murdered in front of you. You immediately arrest the person who has committed the murder. Throughout the trial, you stay with that person in every place they are. At no point are they out of your sight.

There is no doubt the person committed the murder.

Is there any reason that the death penalty would be unjust?
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peacebaby3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:38 PM
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183. You need to seriously look into the vast majority of people who are on death
row in the US and get back to me on "choice." What really defines "choice?"

A great deal of them are mentally retarded (or borderline) and Atkins was just ruled on in the last 5 years and is not retroactive and many states have not been forced to rule on what they consider a definition of mental retardation.

Many, many people are mentally ill, but that doesn't bar them from receiving the death penalty because they only have to be considered competent and if you are able to breathe, you are basically considered competent by the courts. Less than 1% of murder cases end in an NGI (not guilty by reason of insanity) verdict because most jurors realize that our mental health treatment is so poor in this country that defendants won't get the correct treatment and may be out on the streets again because our mental health facilities are too full, under-funded, and under-staffed.

99.999% of people on DR are poor and come from backgrounds that most of us on here will never be able to comprehend. I could tell you some stories that would probably make you feel sick. One of my clients survived off the feces (out of a bucket because they didn't have a bathroom) of his older siblings as a child because there wasn't enough food to go around. There was even some evidence of organic brain damage that may have come from eating feces as a young child.

Most people that commit crimes that qualify for the DP aren't thinking about the fact that they may get the DP. It just doesn't work that way. Most do not think that logically and they aren't able to think of consequences the way that you or I would.

The death penalty is a completely broken part of our justice system (I'd even argue the whole system is broken). Let me give you an example:

Scenario 1: A high-middle class, white woman gets in an argument with a white woman who lives on the poorer side of town in a trailer park because the woman cuts her off on the interstate. She decides to follow the woman off of the interstate at the exit to get into a "discussion" with her. They are stopped at a red light on the off ramp. The woman that followed the other woman is blowing her horn and acting like she is going to ram the back of the woman's car in front of her. The woman in front gets out of the car and starts walking back toward the other woman that followed her off the interstate. The other woman reaches under her seat, pulls out her pistol and shoots the other woman walking back toward her dead. She tells the police she was scared for her life, but the other woman doesn't even own a gun and the woman that shot her had her window rolled down. If you are terrified of someone coming toward you, why would you roll down your window? According to the statutes on my state's books, shooting into or out of a vehicle qualifies for being charged with capital murder.

Scenario 2: A young, poor, black man goes out with two friends one night. They are broke and decide to take some beer from a store. The clerk behind the counter pulls a gun on them so one of the other guys he's with pulls out a gun and fires, killing the clerk. All of them run out and take off. The young guy is terrified and knows what will happen if he goes to the police. They all get arrested and under the statutes, murder during a robbery qualifies for being charged with capital murder.

Both of these scenarios really happened. What do you think happened to each one of these people?

Scenario 1: She was arrested and the DA never even charged her with capital murder because it is his or her discretion what they choose to charge someone with. She wound up being charged with manslaughter, convicted, but got a sentence of two years and was out in less than a year.

Scenario 2: He was convicted of capital murder because he was considered complicit in the crime. He was executed in 2002.

I've sat beside many people charged with capital murder and the one thing I can tell you is that to this day, I've never met anyone who was not redeemable. I keep thinking that one day it will happen, but it never does. If I hear of a case and think, "Oh my God, hope I don't work on that case", it's almost a guarantee that I will and I'm glad because those are the cases that let me know what I'm truly made of and that even those we consider to be the worst of the worst in our society are human beings that have a story and an explanation of how they got to this place. I'm always surprised when I realize that if it weren't for some fortunate circumstances or some small and at the time insignificant, yet correct choices I made, I might have been there. I can't imagine I would take a human life, but I haven't lived what these people have and I wasn't brought up without hope and compassion.

As far as my thoughts about the death penalty v. abortion. I debate with myself over this issue all of the time because I think we exist beyond our bodies and our life here on this earth, but just because our souls do not go into a certain mass of cells doesn't mean we never exist in some way. I also think about when does that mass of cells equate to a living, breathing person here on this earth and as of right now that mass of cells couldn't survive on its own outside of the mother until a certain time. What it all boils down to for me is where does my compassion lie, with the woman or with the potential life she carries and that is a very hard decision. I personally could never have an abortion (as far as I am able to comprehend), but I'm not sure I could dictate to another woman that she has to be forced to carry something inside of her. We also live in a society where many people scream and yell about "not killing babies" before they are born, but don't give a shit about what happens to them after they are born. In fact, they would jump up and down, screaming about those "welfare mothers" who chose to have their children, but are now trying to raise them off of a minimum wage job. Where the hell are these same people when it comes to these children that are born?!?!?

Abortion and the death penalty are apples and oranges to me because you leave out the fact that you must force another human being to do something with regard to abortion. Killing a person for killing another person doesn't bring the other person back. In fact, it doesn't really accomplish anything besides continuing the cycle of violence.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:15 AM
Response to Reply #183
452. Excellent post, hope everyone reads it n/t
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peacebaby3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 07:00 PM
Response to Reply #452
682. Thanks, boilerbabe!!! n/t
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:20 AM
Response to Reply #183
457. thank you very much for that excellent post--lots of stuff I hadn't considered
Your experience with people in the criminal justice system makes me feel silly for just sitting around opining from the comfort of my armchair about the morality of the death penalty rather than about the way it's used in actual practice (are you a lawyer, or a civil rights advocate, or...?). I didn't even think of including caveats like mental illness, and if I had, I would have hoped--in vain, I guess--that people who aren't mentally competent were automatically disqualified for the death penalty. Certainly they should be, and Atkins (which I'm guessing allows for that?) definitely should be retroactive.

Both of the scenarios you describe are jaw-droppingly wrong. And the example you gave of your client who had to eat feces... I can't even begin to imagine what that upbringing must have done to him. In the abstract, it's easy to say "well, that wasn't his victim's fault," but it wasn't his fault either.

I guess I was just addressing a clean and tidy moral situation, like when somebody who is completely compos mentis makes a conscious decision to commit a violent crime and thereby chooses the consequences. And then they have a good lawyer and a fair trial and.... yeah, right.

So I apologize for having drawn such a simple-minded conclusion. Real life is much messier than my naive imaginings were. I'm still ambivalent about the death penalty rather than being absolutely opposed to it, but you've presented a lot to think about. Thank you.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:26 AM
Response to Reply #457
463. that was a nice post, renate
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:05 AM
Response to Reply #457
512. You just restored my faith in DU, Renate.
I'm not kidding.

I get into threads like these, bang my head against the wall and wonder if any good can possibly come of it.

And why we all do it day after day.

And then I read a post like that.

You are every much the liberal John Kennedy was talking about in his famous speech.

:)
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:48 AM
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628. thank you for the nice post here.
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peacebaby3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 06:47 PM
Response to Reply #457
681. Renate, thank you so much for taking the time to read all of it. Most
people don't know all of the details of the DP and how it works in this country so you are certainly not in the minority when it comes to that. If I hadn't been working so closely with it for quite a few years now, I wouldn't understand either. AND you will find some differences depending on which state you live in too.

Your post really made my day. I work with this stuff all of the time and just like "beam me up scottie" said below, I sometimes feel like I'm beating my head against the wall when I discuss these things with people. I know that some people just support the DP and while I may vehemently disagree, I can accept their opinion if they know all the facts. Many people don't and when they learn new things, it gives them some "food for thought."

I could probably write a book about what I do, but I don't want to bore you so I'll just try to keep it as simple as possible.

My actual title is Mitigation Specialist/Investigator. I'm the person that comes in on a DP case and does all of the work that will be presented to the court and the jury for what is called the penalty or mitigation phase of a capital trial. In other words, what my work pertains to is if the person is convicted of capital murder, there are only two possible sentences in most states, the death penalty or life without parole. I will research, gather through records and interviews, and work with experts if needed to present the evidence in court to show why my client should be given life without parole instead of the death penalty. If they have family, I have to deal with all of what they are going through as well. AND in some cases, depending on the circumstances, I may speak with the victim's family as well - if they agree to speak to me. That is very, very difficult. There is really nothing about my job that isn't extremely emotional and I have probably sworn I was going to quit at least once a week, but so few people do this work and not many people want to find the human in a (potential)killer. I work directly with the defense lawyers that are (about 99% of the time) appointed by the courts because the clients are indigent and my state has no public defender system!

I also do all of this same kind of work on cases that are in the appeals process/post-conviction for men or women that are already on death row. You are not guaranteed a lawyer after your first direct appeal and sometimes if the person on death row is lucky, a large law firm will agree to represent them pro-bono and they may hire me to go back and review the investigation and mitigation work that was done at the trial level and often do it because it wasn't done properly or at all at the trial level.

I should have explained Atkins better. It was a SCOTUS decision just a few years ago (2001, I believe)that basically said you cannot execute the mentally retarded. Mental Retardation and mental illness are two completely different things in the medical and legal community. You can still be mentally ill and declared competent and be given the death penalty. Most defense teams will rarely try to go with the NGI defense though because it's almost impossible to win due to the restrictions by the courts (legal definitions, etc.) When John Lennon's assassin was found NGI, there was such an outrage that the courts went almost the opposite direction and made it unbelievably difficult to win. SO...many people that are sentenced to death do have mental illness. You can always present that evidence to the jury and the court, but it doesn't take the DP off the table.

There is certainly no need for you to apologize! I'm thrilled that you would take the time to read my post and think about it. THANK YOU!!!
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-01-07 12:08 AM
Response to Reply #681
685. wow... in so many ways, wow...
I didn't even know a job like yours existed. I'm glad it does.

I most definitely didn't know that people aren't guaranteed a lawyer after their first appeal. :wow:

I also didn't realize that mental illness wasn't an automatic disqualifier for the DP. Another :wow: . And I am disgusted not only that Atkins wasn't already in place before 2001 (I'd have expected it to be an obvious inclusion of the Bill of Rights) but that it's not retroactive. I don't understand the logic of that at all, especially with such high stakes.

There really is a difference between philosophical debates and real life, isn't there?

(P.S. You probably should write a book about what you do. Seriously.)
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peacebaby3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-01-07 02:41 PM
Response to Reply #685
686. Yes, there is a lot to learn about how the system works and while I
Edited on Mon Jan-01-07 02:43 PM by peacebaby3
know the laws and system in my state, it could vary some in other states as far as the right of counsel for the defendant. i.e. most states have public defenders and mine doesn't.

The DP is just so arbitrary. In 12 states it doesn't exist. One region, the South, is responsible for over 80% of executions, yet they also have the highest murder rate of any region so that definitely ends the argument of deterrence. Where you're born and under what conditions, etc. etc. which are probably out of your control would factor in to what happens to you in the criminal justice system.

I noticed you were from Portland and one of the best experts I have ever worked with re: PTSD and Asian culture is at the Oregon Health & Science University which I believe is in Portland.

I just wanted to say thanks again for reading everything and looking at things objectively.

If you ever want to study the subject more, don't hesitate to PM me and I'll try to find some sources for you to check out and I will try to find you some things that are for and against. Some of the most interesting info to read out there right now is surrounding the issue of whether or not lethal injection is "cruel and unusual." My state had the electric chair as its sole means of execution until a few years ago, so I wasn't as knowledgeable about lethal injection until it came to my state...trust me, you wouldn't want to hear some of the things about the electric chair...but there is some info about the death "cocktail" of drugs used in lethal injection that you might find interesting from many experts in the field of anesthesiology, etc. I was even surprised by what I learned.

Maybe I'll write that book one day...

Thanks again!

Edit: sorry - typo
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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:04 PM
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11. +Some don't believe that life occurs at conception.
The death penalty is always wrong. It always takes the life of someone who someone else *says* is guilty.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:06 PM
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18. That's the crux of the arguement right there
potential life VS actual life.

There should never be comparison between abortion and the death penalty because they are comparing two entirely different things.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:14 PM
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36. If a DNA test is done on a fetus, is the DNA not human DNA or something?
What right do you have to kill a child without it's consent?

***Forcing you to think, because I am actually pro-choice. :-)
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:18 PM
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49. Everytime I scratch myself, I commit genocide. n/t
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:30 PM
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83. "Every sperm is sacred".
Envision Eric Idle in Meaning of Life. Wonderful movie, sort of. Seems they all hated each other at the time and tossed that movie out due to contractual obligations.

"DAD:
There are Jews in the world.
There are Buddhists.
There are Hindus and Mormons, and then
There are those that follow Mohammed, but
I've never been one of them.

I'm a Roman Catholic,
And have been since before I was born,
And the one thing they say about Catholics is:
They'll take you as soon as you're warm.

You don't have to be a six-footer.
You don't have to have a great brain.
You don't have to have any clothes on. You're
A Catholic the moment Dad came,

Because

Every sperm is sacred.
Every sperm is great.
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate.

CHILDREN:
Every sperm is sacred.
Every sperm is great.
If a sperm is wasted,
God gets quite irate."

http://www.lyricsdepot.com/monty-python/every-sperm-is-sacred.html
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:36 PM
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91. I refer you both to reply #88.
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:36 PM by originalpckelly
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ecstatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:19 PM
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52. DNA from hair and nails is also human
:shrug:
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:33 PM
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86. True, but those cells cannot aside from cloning techniques, produce life.
And even in the case of cloning, an egg must be used.

The fact is that the DNA of a fetus is distinct from that of it's mother and diploid, unlike unfertilized eggs or sperm, which are haploid, and contain the DNA of the respective egg/sperm producer.

If a fetus is merely an extension of a woman's body, it would have to have the same DNA as the rest of her body.
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:50 PM
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112. What about Parthenogenesis?
AKA Virgin Birth. While it hasn't been observed in HUMANS per se, except for one disputed account, it has been observed in animals as high on the evolutionary ladder as Komodo dragons, and, in the lab, mice. So, while wasting sperm, or scratching yourself, isn't killing anything, menstruation POTENTIALLY could. Let's not forget miscarriages.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 07:20 AM
Response to Reply #86
632. But the sperm and egg can produce life, too.
By preventing the sperm and egg from meeting you're "murdering" the same potential life that is destroyed as a fertilized egg.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:49 PM
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111. because it's not a child
I have a right to terminate my pregnancy before the fetus is born because it is still 1)dependent on me 2)not an independent organism.

That changes the instant the fetus is born, which is why I think there is a almost no comparison between abortion and the DP...
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:58 PM
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121. Exactly
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:04 PM
Response to Reply #111
128. Isn't a baby dependent on it's parents?
If you don't feed a baby, the baby will die.

Isn't that true?
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:07 PM
Response to Reply #128
130. but not in a biological sense
NT
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:16 PM
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140. True, a baby can be adopted. Other people can technically feed the baby...
but the baby must be fed. Whoever is charged with taking care of the baby (and that could simply mean a stranger who sees a starving baby) must feed the baby or it will die. The baby is dependent, in a biological sense, but in this case it can be dependent upon anyone willing to feed it and in general take care of it.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:18 PM
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141. no, what I meant is that ...
...the fetus is absolutely dependent on the mother in a strict biological sense-- no one else can "adopt" the fetus at that point. Hence, the fetus is an extension of the mother's body and therefore has control over it.

Outside the body is another issue, which is what I was not refering to.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:26 PM
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146. Dependence does not mean one has absolute control over the dependent...
to the extent of being able to rightly or wrong choose to kill the dependent.

Thought experiment:
If a woman is alone on a desert island, which has all of the consumables she or the child will ever need, isn't she technically the only person who can take care of the child. If she chooses to take care of the child, it will live. If she doesn't, it will die.

Just because the child is dependent solely upon that woman, it doesn't mean she should or can choose to kill it or not, does it?
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:30 PM
Response to Reply #146
149. before birth, it absolutely does
You are comparing situations that are completely different.
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:39 PM
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153. That's not what is meant by dependent...
a Fetus shares the SAME circulatory system, blood, and oxygen as the mother, in a case like that, it is literally a parasite, a temporary one, true, and one that is necessary for the propagation of the species, but a parasite nonetheless.

A child outside the body isn't strictly dependent on its mother in the same sense. In a case like that, the mother alone isn't absolutely NECESSARY for the child's survival, they child can be taken care of by any variety of individual people, or even animals, in rare cases. Even in the isolated Island scenario, though unlikely, the child, by the time the child is about 5 or 6 years old, it can learn to forage, and if no obvious predators are around, can survive on its own, though not necessarily thrive.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:52 PM
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158. You make the assumption that the child will live to five or six, if not fed as a baby...
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 08:53 PM by originalpckelly
I think most of us agree that the child would die if not fed or given something to drink.

Is the moral point solely based upon whether or not a circulatory system is shared, or is it based upon dependence to survive?
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:02 PM
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167. Actually, higher brain function should count...
Fetuses usually don't develop this until into the 4 or 5th month I believe. Somewhere around 80-90% of all abortions occur well before this, and those that do occur afterwards are usually done due to adverse medical conditions that either endangers the woman's health or life, or makes the fetus inviable.

Healthy newborn infants have a fully functioning brain, even if its, for lack of a better word, blank, I would say this counts for something.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:30 PM
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180. The problem is that we aren't thinking about the possibility...
when an embryo implants, and a fetus grows, aside from birth defects or an odd circumstance, the fetus will grow until it is ready to be born, then it will be born. It will be raised until it is an 18 year old adult, at that time it will be a conscious human being with full legal rights. (Aside from alcohol consumption.)

The morality of this shouldn't and can't be determined solely by the current state of affairs. Look at Terri Schiavo. She was a fully grown adult, but she had no real consciousness. We now know, it was totally impossible she would ever regain that, because her brain so extremely damaged. Even before she was terminated, it was widely know that she was incapable of recovering consciousness.

It's not solely about current state, because any person who's under anesthesia is not capable of thinking or knowing that they will die. (Well as far as we can tell.) If the morality of their life was solely about their current state, they could be killed intentionally.

It is in fact about the future, and the fact that a child can and will in most cases grow to become a sentient adult.
---------------------------
I should differentiate between an implanted and an un-implanted embryo. The possibility for an un-implanted embryo is not that of on that is implanted. It's not going to become a child.
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:06 PM
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212. Bad analogy, you can measure brain activity in an unconscious human being....
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 10:07 PM by Solon
whether they were drugged or not. That's what EKGs are for. Terry Schaivo didn't even HAVE a brain, she had a brain STEM, that's it, she didn't even have the proper receptors to register pain or discomfort, just enough to keep breathing and the heart beating, that's about it.

Besides, you can't base either legal or moral question purely on what MAY happen in the future, at least on the individual level. The morality is about the current state, and the current state only, because any number of things can happen in the future, but none of them should have ANY bearing on the here and now.

Also, a note, while most of the time, fertilized eggs never attach to the uterus, and are flushed out of the system, many times they DO attach, then, for some reason or another, detach again, and are flushed out of the system. These are miscarriages, and the time periods involved can vary quite a bit, a woman may be late in her period by a week, and then have a heavy period, most likely a miscarriage, but she may not think anything of it. Most fertilizations are unsuccessful anyways, as we know from in-vitro how hard it actually is to have a fertilized egg that sticks around. There is a difference between POTENTIAL HUMAN LIFE, and ACTUAL HUMAN LIFE, I'm more concerned, frankly, with those that can at least breathe on their own and produce Alpha waves.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:29 AM
Response to Reply #212
468. Another voice of reason joins the discussion--thanks! n/t
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:57 PM
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119. but it isn't a child
:shrug:
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:00 PM
Response to Reply #119
123. What's a child?
:shrug:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:17 PM
Response to Reply #123
177. a person between birth and full growth
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silverweb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:14 PM
Response to Reply #18
37. Bingo.
:thumbsup:
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mzteris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:05 PM
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16. well you've made up your mind about abortion
so it's hard to have a conversation about the rest of it, but -

I don't see abortion as "terminates the life of something living and INNOCENT". I see it as getting rid of cells in the woman's body. It's NOT a "person".


I don't agree with murdering another against their will. If Saddam WANTED to die - ok. I think suicide should be allowed (under certain conditions.) I think also euthanasia should be legalized.

I think the DP should be outlawed. I think we're horrendous barbarians for killing people.

Yes, I'm against OBL - being MURDERED. (It would just make him a martyr anyway, imho.)

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hlthe2b Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:05 PM
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17. Easy.. Pro Choice does NOT equal Pro Abortion....
It really IS that simple.... (and I'm damned tired of people trying to equate the two), especially supposed "progressives"
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:08 PM
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22. this is the best of the points. i am consistant. i dont agree with abortion
(i agree with choice) and i dont like the death penalty. i wont be doing either.
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xmas74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:14 PM
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35. Bingo!
ProChoice means what it says: You have choices, you have options. It doesn't mean pro abortion.

I correct people all the time.
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silverweb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:22 PM
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60. Yup.
Rabid anti-choicers are against birth control, too, not just abortion.

Real pro-choicers want to make abortion a very rare last resort by providing comprehensive sex education and effective, freely available birth control -- yet keep abortion safe and legal, to be decided between the woman and her doctor.

This has nothing whatsoever to do with state-sanctioned revenge murder (aka the death penalty).
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:43 PM
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102. I think the argument against pro-choice is usually based around...
this question:
"If abortion is killing a human being, do I not have the moral imperative to stop that abortion?"

No one would allow a murder to take place, if in no way they would benefit from keeping it secret. No one believes one person should have the right to choose whether or not to kill another.

It's the idea of a social contract, in which I do something good for someone else in order for them to do good for me.

In the case of abortion however, it is always abstract for anyone debating it, because the time wherein we can be aborted has passed. However, if abortion is murder or plain old killing, then it is an act of the same spectrum as something which could happen to oneself. So it would be in our own self interest to stop it.
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sandnsea Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:06 PM
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19. Don't support state sanctioned abortion either
Key words - state sanctioned. Think about it.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:37 AM
Response to Reply #19
478. What do you mean by state-sanctioned?
Would that be something done involuntarily to persons considered "undesirable" additions to the population? Is there such a thing?
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:07 PM
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20. No contradiction here, and here's the key...
I do think that abortion means killing a living being.

I don't think that at all. No way is a month-old mass of cells with no brain the same thing as a human being. Potentiality is NOT actuality.
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:11 PM
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28. I should clarify- I mean when you abort a 3 month + old fetus
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:18 PM
Response to Reply #28
48. So at 12 weeks 6 days: no problem?
Now I am really confused.
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peacebird Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:26 PM
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70. as long as the fetus is not developed enough to survive outside the mothers body
then to my mind it is not yet a person.

If it is able to survive outside the mothers body (ie: breathe on its own, be able to process noursihment it is given orally) then I view it as a viable person - I do NOT believe a fetus has the same rights as an already born person. I am pro-choice and I do not believe in the death penalty. Thsi does not strike me as a contradiction in any way.

Perhaps you could go to Free Republic and as the fundies how they reconcile their death penalty support, their support of the war even with the slaughter of innocents, and the commandment "Thou Shalt Not Kill"...
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:31 PM
Response to Reply #70
85. I think the same thing about FR... How can they be against
abortion but want to kill everyone who disagrees with them? I'm not even talking about the death penalty here... some of them literally want to kill everyone.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:35 PM
Response to Reply #28
90. See peacebird's response below...
I pretty much agree with that completely.


Elective abortions after about the middle of the second trimester are pretty rare--most are done for medical reasons. And no, I don't have a problem with that either. I rank the health (mental as well as physical) of the mother as the greatest priority since she's ALREADY a person, and I don't think it's much of a grey area until we get to the point where the fetus could actually feasibly survive outside the womb (and there we run into issues of who is responsible for its care, etc.)
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:19 PM
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51. I don't think that when a woman miscarries she's upset because
she lost some CELLS. She is mourning the loss of the life inside her.
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peacebird Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:29 PM
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79. Have you had a miscarriage?
Just curious....

I have. It did not change my belief in CHOICE, or my aversion to the death penalty. Life is not all black and white - regardless of your attempts to paint it as such.
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Withywindle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:29 PM
Response to Reply #51
80. She's mourning the loss of a potential child that she WANTED.
But someone who chooses to have an abortion at the same time period might not be mourning at all. She may not feel there's anything to mourn.

I don't find anything strange about this - how else would it work?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:08 PM
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132. no, we mourn the life that will not be.
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Solon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:09 PM
Response to Reply #51
220. Most fertilizations do not result in a successful pregnancy...
Every woman has experienced a "miscarriage" at some point in her life, most of the time, its not even noticed.
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boilerbabe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:48 AM
Response to Reply #51
497. That would possibly depend on the individual who miscarried
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 03:49 AM by boilerbabe
Every situation is different. If you were to miscarry in the first trimester, you might not be passing much more than CELLS, as you put it.
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Lars39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:08 PM
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21. I see that disenguity is being taken to new heights.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:00 PM
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122. Into the damned stratosphere n/t
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cali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:08 PM
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23. You certainly have a right to your opinions, but
calling everyone who disagrees with you a hypocrite, isn't exactly a great start to a conversation on two very contentious topics.

I do support abortion rights, and I don't support the death penalty. First of all, there are many cases in this country alone of innocent people being sentenced to deathe. As far as I'm concerned, one is too many. As regards abortion, I don't think a fetus in the first 3 months is a human being. And that's when the vast majority of abortions are performed. Yes, it's a potential human being, but that's not the same thing, and, thus, concepts like innocence shouldn't be applied. I do not support aborting a healthy fetus after viability, but states can and do place restrictions on abortion.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:09 PM
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25. I think one can be consistent if one's opposition to the death penalty
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:10 PM by dsc
is as applied and not in all cases. There are several reasons to fault our DP system even if one thinks a perfect DP system is OK. I think it is hard to justify a blanket objection to the DP and a full pro choice position as being consistent. Just like I think it is fair to call those who have a blanket or near blanket pro life position on abortion and are in favor of the DP hypocritical.
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philosophie_en_rose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:10 PM
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26. Translation: Don't Blame Me for Posting Flamebait
Pro-choice is about choice over your own body and the related medical choices. It is not about choosing for others.

I'm not entirely against the death penalty, but there is no comparison between the death penalty and being pro-choice.

In addition, you forget that there is a legal system in this country for a reason. Under your analysis, "we" would just proactively choose to kill people willy nilly. just because you want it. Perhaps you should do some research into why Charles Manson isn't dead. It has nothing to do with abortion or anything remotely related to it.

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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:11 PM
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30. prochoice = killing babies?
yeah, and every sperm is sacred.

Would keeping him locked up in jail forever be punishment enough for you? Or keep him out of greater society? No? Why? And you do realize this whole thing to to make money for those involved in making money? Right? Off the war machine and oil. You do get this, right? That's why Osama is irrelevant and 911 was only an excuse and they don't want to stop making money so have to manipulate all of us. You got that, right?
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Jackpine Radical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:13 PM
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33. Why don't we have funerals for miscarriages?
Aren't they living human beings?

Why don't we imprison women who smoke, drink or expose themselves to other harmful chemicals during their pregnancies? Isn't it a crime to wilfully subject a living being to the risk of great bodily harm?

If we do anything to prevent a sperm from keeping its date with a waiting ovum, aren't we pre-emptively terminating a potential life?

The fact seems to be that we as a society disagree among ourselves about when life begins, and when it ends. Terri Schiavo, anyone? That disagreement is a matter of philosophical dispute and not a scientific issue subject to experimental test. As long as those philosophical differences remain among us, I believe that the issue of abortion is a moot one, best left to the individual conscience.

On the other hand, nobody disputes that Saddam was a living human being. And anyway, for me the issue isn't really about Saddam. It's about a culture so enamored of death that it sees a need to kill other people. Saddam was one person who used sovereign powers to kill many. The execution is many people using sovereign powers to kill one. The principle is pretty much the same. I sense a big hole in a logic that prescribes the killing of a person as a means to teach that killing is wrong.
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dsc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:15 PM
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40. Some people do have funerals or memorial services for miscarriages
especially if the fetus is several months along. Also we have imprisioned women for taking drugs while pregnant in some cases (both SC and OH have had cases directly on point).
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BlueEyedSon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:27 PM
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73. Every menstrual period is a potentially lost baby
let's imprison women for that too
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:56 PM
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118. I think you would admit there is a physiological difference between...
a fetus and an unfertilized egg.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:09 PM
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133. physiological difference between a 10 wk embryo & a grown man too
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me b zola Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:19 PM
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143. It is common for fertalized eggs to not implant in the uterine wall...
...and be expelled in the menstrual cycle.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:28 PM
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147. Yes, I'm terribly sorry to you both, I was being extremely vague and sloppy in my use of language.
It would be more appropriate to use the comparison of a fetus, not simply an un-implanted fertilized egg.
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xchrom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:27 PM
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71. well said!
it's also important to note that until a woman has complete control over body re: any medical decision said woman remains a second class citizen.

we don't what the world will bring re: women and being treated as full and complete beings in their own rights -- but the ability to choose one's reproductive time table is an important stepping stone.

i'm one who cannot at all equate the killing of a person to teach a lesson of justice -- and a fetus.

first killing as a means to teach has simply failed the test over time -- it does not work.

a fetus -- even at 8 or 9 months is not a person -- that ''life'' is simply not here.

it's a maybe -- a possibility -- but so is star dust -- and thinking and dreaming.

if we are to evolve -- women must be granted full rights to their bodies.
they are here -- their potential is more than an idea -- or star dust.

raise up the lives that are here.
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phylny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:52 PM
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191. Going along with the funeral theory,
I want to know why I can't take out a life insurance policy on a fetus when I'm pregnant.

If I'd have been able to do that, then would the insurance companies pay me benefits if I miscarried?

No? WHY? Oh, I know. You can't get an insurance policy on a fetus, but you can as soon as a baby is born.
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:15 PM
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41. Obviously we like to kill babies and we loved Saddam.
Thanks for sharing.
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Judi Lynn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:01 PM
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124. Don't forget the elder Bush's dirty hoax concerning the ugly lie Saddam's soldiers
threw premature babies out of their incubators onto the floor!
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ecstatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:16 PM
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43. Abortions performed prior to viable stage are not murder
First, if a fetus cannot survive outside the mother's womb then it's not murder.

Second, heavily intertwined in our stance on such issues are our religious views. Whether we believe in Hell or Heaven: If you don't believe in hell, then it makes sense that a person should not get the "easy" way out and just be executed. That person should have to suffer for his crimes and make amends--unless, of course, the person is unrehabilitatable. Also, whether one ascribes to an eye for an eye philosophy. Regarding abortion, when does one's soul enter in? I say after birth, although I do not support abortions performed after a fetus is fully viable.

Third, when it comes to DP vs. abortion, a person getting executed has an actual life history--family, friends, connections, ideas that might be worth preserving; in the case of abortion, people are envisioning an imaginary future life full of potential. That potential life is fiction, and sadly, nobody will miss an aborted fetus (not even the fetus itself).

Fourth, life is an energy force that can neither be created nor destroyed.
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:17 PM
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46. Yes, its a conundrum- but its a kind of death we can easily avoid
I think that taking absolute positions, even on 'life', is impossible to do without creating even more difficulty.

I am pro-choice, but I think that men and women and governments should make it rare that an abortion needs to be chosen. It is the nature of human sexuality that it will sometimes result in extremely inconvenient and unwanted pregnancy.

I am a pacifist, but I believe that countries and individuals should be ready to defend themselves and their loved ones if they are attacked.

I believe that society should hold criminals accountable, by removing them from society and punishing them, and I also believe that justice can be served without taking more life. I can understand how the majority can wish death for certain individuals, but it is unnecessary death. There is no urgency which compels us to take the life of a prisoner, even if he be Saddam Hussein or Charles Manson.
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The Straight Story Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:19 PM
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53. "It's only living if you can see it, and look it in the eyes"
I asked my fundie sister this one time, the same question in the OP - sort of. How can you be pro-war and death penalty and against abortion. Her reply was that you can only kill the guilty, and the guilty are living and committing sin, you can look them in the eyes and know you are doing the right thing - babies aren't 'living' since they are inside their mother and are innocent, not able to commit a crime worthy of the DP or of - as she calls it - a war on babies.

To me, I don't have to make a choice on whether or not to have an abortion, so I am not one to say whether or not it should be legal or not. People have the right and freedom to control their own body, and until the baby is born - it is not their body, it is the womans.

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ecstatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:21 PM
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59. wow. Sort of like "God's hands" murders? nt
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Hippo_Tron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:19 PM
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55. Because I think that it's a bad idea to try and justify killing unless absolutely necessary
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:21 PM by Hippo_Tron
If Saddam were still at large I'd have no problem taking him out so that he couldn't hurt others anymore. That would be an instance where it is necessary to try and justify killing someone because it could save innocent peoples' lives.

A justification for killing someone based on bringing comfort to his victims isn't a good enough reason for me. And whether he deserves to die isn't the question I am asking myself because the answer is certainly yes. The question for me is whether we have a good reason to kill him and considering that he's in captivity and can't harm anyone anymore, I see no reason why we should.

Domestically, I can't stand the death penalty because it's more expensive than life in prison and prosecutors use it as a show to launch their political careers.
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LWolf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:21 PM
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57. I am pro-choice because
I have lived the reality of illegal abortion. I know that trying to control women by limiting reproductive choices is wrong. That doesn't mean I think abortion is ok. I am pro-choice because I don't want people valuing, and legislating that value, the unborn over the born. Both are "life."

Killing a human being for revenge or "punishment" is not the same thing as ending pregnancy. I am against the death penalty because I am against the taking of life without need.
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mogster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:21 PM
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58. If you were to abort a 50+ year old fetus ... n/t
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TheCowsCameHome Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:24 PM
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65. How about 60 years old and named Bush?
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mogster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:30 PM
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82. If he's still a fetus after 60 years, I'd say no
I'd say no in any case. As Saddam, Bush should be tried and imprisoned, then the questioning should begin.
We could have learnt a lot about the Reagan administration from Hussein, if he'd been allowed to live.
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liberal N proud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:23 PM
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62. Not a problem, banning abortion destroys two lives
Both the mother and baby are negatively by an unwanted pregnancy.
As far as the death sentence, what does it prove? As far as Saddam goes; what makes him worse than those in the White House who have murdered more than Saddam in a much shorter time.
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:27 PM
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72. The last sentence is a very valid point. EOM
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progressivebydesign Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:25 PM
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66. Umm. embryo vs. actual person. big diff. n/t
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BlueEyedSon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:26 PM
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67. Someone's got to balance out the pro-life, pro-death-penalty nutjobs!
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:27 PM
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75. Why? It is a completely liberal way to be. I cannot imagine why it would
surprise you.
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Name removed Donating Member (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:28 PM
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76. Deleted sub-thread
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:28 PM
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77. Saddam wasn't a fetus
But nice flame bait try...

RL
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:39 PM
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97. LOL GREAT mental image
Saddam-- the singing, talking fetus! :rofl:
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:41 PM
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99. Gotta love the logical hoops some people jump thru
in their blood lust...

RL
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:43 PM
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103. I swear, sometimes I think I'm taking crazy pills
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:02 PM
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286. Sometimes I agree, I think I'm taking crazy pills...
... and sometimes I think that someone needs attention.
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LynnTheDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:28 PM
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78. If someone found guilty of a capital crime CHOOSES to be executed
rather than jailed...
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:34 PM
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87. I don't see the conundrum at all
:shrug:

People who oppose the death penalty don't do so on the grounds that one should never take the life of an innocent and living thing--otherwise they would starve.

What is the conflict exactly, between supporting a woman's right to control what happens to her body and opposing the death penalty? :shug:
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Bluerthanblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:34 PM
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88. until the time a baby can exist outside the womb- it is
dependent upon the body of another human being to exist.
While i personally would not choose to stop the growth of a baby that was growing within me, I do believe other should be free to make that difficult, and very sobering choice for themselves, without government intervention.

People who are killed by 'the government'- and have this murder excused by the barbaric notion that somehow "justice" is done- are victims of pre-meditated murder.

I can't call what we do, beastly, or monsterous, because, even animals don't go for revenge killings- at least not any 'animals' other than humans. And we've done a pretty fine job of screwing up nature- as opposed to the 'natural world' which balances itself out pretty well, when we are taken out of the equation.

these are my opinions, and observations.

I support a persons right to choose to terminate a pregnancy, or their own life.
I also feel a responsibility to make the choice to live, one which is not based upon fortune, (wealth) or lack of the essentials necessiary for living.

imagine

dream

act
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:37 PM
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93. I've seen this argument before. "How can you be pro-choice and anti-war?"
Of course, this was on the signs carried by people from Protest Warrior.


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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:42 PM
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100. Then I fail there. Because I am pro choice and anti war
But your right, it's something for me to think about
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depakid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:39 PM
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95. Every other civilized nation has come to terms with the "conundrum"
Which, if you think about it- says a LOT about the USA.

As in "UNcivilized." For example, take Australia. When they had a mass shooting in Hobart about 10 years ago, there wasn't any outcry for the death penalty. Instead, they cleverly enacted tougher gun laws and put together a buyback program that's dramatically decreased the number of violent crimes involving guns. Now, to a reasonable person- that one's a no brainer.

But try selling that to most Americans.... The same holds true for capital punishment- or universal health care- or any number of responsible public policies.
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LibraLiz1973 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:44 PM
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105. this is a very interesting point
We don't do enough to stop crimes from happening because we are all so angry
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depakid Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:34 AM
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622. I don't know if it's anger
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 05:34 AM by depakid
yet it does seem to be emotional as opposed to rational.

Just saying that in other nations, policy seems to be made and accepted differently. I mean, the USA is #1 in terms of raw numbers of people who are incarcerated. Not per capita.. Raw numbers. Number #1 for people in prisons.

We beat out Russia, China and India. And yet despite our relative affluence, we still have high crime rates. Why is that?

Could it be for the same sorts of reasons that states with the highest execution rates also tend to have the highest murder rates? I dunno- but it might be something to think about.
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Commie Pinko Dirtbag Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 09:08 AM
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638. Punishment gives the psychos the woody they want; prevention doesn't.
Maybe that's why they also don't want any kind of socioeconomical safety net -- it might prevent a criminal from becoming a criminal and denying them the execution dance parties they're entitled to.
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peacetalksforall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:44 PM
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104. There are some distinctions that make it easier to follow if
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:48 PM by higher class
considered all together.

We don't know when the soul enters the body - some say hours, days, weeks before birth - some say at the second of conception. Because we don't know we have to fall back on the decision of the impregnated. Just because some U.S. Christians claim that it's at the time of conception, doesn't mean everyone has to live by that and or to be given mad made national laws that require punishment by man. There are and have been many Christians in other countries and other times who had or have had no ethical problems with abortions - it is/was something to get or to have forced. (Being forced into abortion is an execution and those who force get away with it all the time.)

We know that Hussein passed through the fetus stage and had a soul as do others who were executed by the hand of man.

A fetus does not have a crime on their hands to make up for.
A criminal does have a crime on their hands to make up for.

A criminal should be given the chance to make their peace with the entity they believe in before they die. Dying by the hand of man before the crime is 'processed' (for lack of a better name) says more about the people who are eager for and pant over executions.

In my way of viewing it, killing a criminal is meddling with the soul. It is arrogance of man, and a God-uppance. Men and women who are resonsible for executions place themselves above higher entities when it comes to another's soul.

There is no human concensus. There is no organized church consensus. There is no cultural consensus. There are no generational consenses. So, people who think they know it all (our before, during, and after lives) make up rules and demand that others live by it. There are hundreds of rule variations and trillions of arguments.

An aside - I went to the 'internets' to check the date that Noriega was placed in jail by Bush, Sr. (Jan 1990, by the way). There is a website that comes up near the top (using Google) that talks about Noriega's baptism and conversion that took place a couple of years into his jail sentence. All Christians who pant for Capital Punishment should tell that story.
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Hepburn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:44 PM
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107. I do not see the two related in any manner.
Pro-choice is about a woman having control over her own body. This is personal and it is her choice and not subject to being controlled by another person. What a woman does is individual and private and not forced upon her if she would have disagreements with having this done.

The death penalty is offensive to me because it is state carried out and sanctioned murder. If murder is wrong, then putting someone to death as a punishment for murder is equally as wrong. I have no choice when the state does this and as a citizen of the state, this is being done in MY name and not just the name of the state. Besides: Heaven forbid ~~ there is a mistake.
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tnlefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:47 PM
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109. Sorry, the POTENTIAL for life is pregnancy, not a living, innocent
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 07:49 PM by tnlefty
being. I've been pregnant 5 times during the course of my marriage, and I have three living children. My pregnancies were never easy and I have experienced the pre-term birth of one son who made it and another who was pronounced dead within minutes of his birth. I've miscarried early, and one of my sons was in severe distress and I thought he had died while I was in labor with him (although at 38 weeks and a few days we had no reason to believe that anything really bad could happen because we were more concerned with early losses.)

I know women who went into labor and delivery without complicated pregnancies and who left the hospital without a baby because the fetus died during the birthing process.

How you can compare this to opposing the death penalty, or a death penalty for what the rightwingers consider a short-term political gain is beyond me.

edit to change a word
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:51 PM
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113. People have sovereignty over their own bodies.
The state does not have the right to co-opt people's bodies for public use. Not even if it's to save another person's life (giving birth, mandatory blood donations, mandatory medical experimentation, etc.).

This is consistent with opposing the state's right to kill people against their will. (I support assisted suicide at the patient's/prisoner's request, which is a pro-choice position.)

What I find INconsistent is those who believe a woman should have to donate the use of her body against her will for 9 months to save a fetus's life for the good of society, but do not support MANDATORY blood and organ donation, to include kidney and marrow donation, by all eligible citizens, which takes considerably less than 9 months, in order to save the lives of people that we all agree are actual living human beings and have expressed verbally a desire to live. More on that: http://ideamouth.blogspot.com/2006/06/what-if-abortion-opponents-werent.html
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bliss_eternal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:10 PM
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136. Hi lwfern.
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 08:36 PM by bliss_eternal
:hi:

I'm guessing the mods are away for the holiday weekend. Seems idle minds and hands ARE the devil's playground or however that saying goes. :eyes:

Ah well, guess everyone's got to have a hobby.

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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:16 PM
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234. Hi!
I noticed last night that you were back.

Not much has changed, eh? :)
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:51 PM
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114. "I understand the other view that an “eye for an eye” leaves everyone eyeless."
No it seems you do not understand this view.

"But is that really true? The US isn’t doling out ANY punishment for Osama Bin Laden."

How that relates to the preceding statement that you understand the paraphrased Gandhi quote escapes me.

"I don’t really think that it IS an eye for an eye when someone is put to death." Well of course it is.

"I think when the death penalty is used, it takes a terrible evil out of the world." Or not. There are certainly a wealth of examples in our country where even the guilt of the condemned is questionable, let alone that they somehow contained a 'terrible evil'. Someone recently posted a thread here about the hanging of two Iranian kids for being homosexual a few years ago. Horrible story, terrible pictures. Did they contain a terrible evil that was righteously expunged by their execution? The Iranian authorities most certainly thought so.

Yes of course those committing violence quite frequently do so thinking that they are entirely justified. It is righteous violence of course, it is typically just what you expressed above, the righteous are taking a great evil out of the world so they should be exempt from the constraints of normal behavior. Bin Laden, whom you appear to hold in hitleresque bogeyman status, most assuredly acted out of just such a sense of righteousness, and most assuredly felt that the sacrificce of people on 9-11 was entirely justified. Which is where Gandhi comes in, and where I truly believe you do not get what he was saying at all.
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johnnie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:53 PM
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115. I have a problem with both..but..
I am not excited about the death penalty or abortions, but I will support a woman's right to choose over it all.

I know what you are trying to say, but to me these are two different issues. I have yet to see a person here at DU cheer someone on for having an abortion. I honestly don't see it to be a conflict if people have a problem with the death penalty and be pro choice.
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intaglio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 07:54 PM
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117. NOT an easy question
First Capital Punishment
I do not support this because it is morally indefensible. The taking of a life, except in defense of your own or others lives, cannot be right. I have said on other threads that every life is unique and therefore priceless. Because the death being refered to is that of the War Criminal Saddam Hussein I'll confine my remarks to the assumption that crimes requiring death are fully proven and beyond all doubt.

Imagine, for example, a vengeful deity who will commit the soul of the murderer to everlasting torment; can it be right for us to end the life of a person so rapidly and thus end their chance to contemplate and fear their fate? Would not a vengeful god castigate us for being so unforgiving? Equally a forgiving deity will not thank us for prematurely ending the life of a sinner who may yet come to redemption. Even the absence of a Higher Power leads us to require the capital criminal alive for death will merely end their suffering.

Second Abortion - Not termination, it is abortion
Personally I am against late term aborions; anything past 20 weeks as far as I am concerned is too close to killing a human; as such (see above) only if the life of the mother be in dire peril should a late abortion be contemplated.

Prior to 20 weeks (and the earlier the better) the proceedure can be carried out because the potential life is not viable, even with massive medical intervention. It is also likely that the potential human will not have developed the ability to feel pain or the awareness that it is about to die.

There is to my mind another way of justifying abortion and that is that natural processes probably result in more losses of potential lives than all the abortion clinics in the world. The rate of re-absorbtion and miscarriage is a lot higher than most people think (IIRC)
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Changenow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:02 PM
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125. Because it is not homicide
to have an abortion. duh.

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Lone_Star_Dem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:08 PM
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131. I don't see them as even close to the same
One is a potential life beginning to take shape in a woman's womb. The other is a already fully formed living and breathing person. One cannot survive without its host, the other one can.

For me that is the difference.

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Hamlette Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:13 PM
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138. DP is about revenge, an emotion we should not be promoting
no one is pro abortion. And is no more murder than male masturbation is since it is a potential life.

The right is consistent in the sense that their stand on both issues is about personal responsibility and revenge (against the woman who sleeps around.)

I'm against the DP because innocent people can, have been and will be put to death, it is racist as administered in this country and the only reason for it is revenge. We shouldn't allow ourselves to give into revenge.

I'm pro choice until the fetus becomes viable because the mother should not be punished by having no control over her body or her life during the pregnancy and often, after.
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patricia92243 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:20 PM
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144. The person is not making the choice to die. One is a metter of choice, the other isn't.
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BlackVelvet04 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:29 PM
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148. One of the problems with your argument is that we do not know for
a fact when life begins. Does it begin at conception? I personally don't think so. Even Biblically speaking the idea of life at conception is not supported.

I find it equally baffling that those against abortion are for the death penalty. We at least know if the person is alive enough to stand trial they ARE ALIVE.

We don't have actual statistics for how many innocent people have been executed but because of the number of those who have been exonerated after receiving the death penalty we have to assume that innocent people have in fact died at the hand of the state. I will never support the state killing in an act of vengeance and that is what it is....vengeance.





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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:57 PM
Response to Reply #148
161. I agree -- there is disagreement among people about that
whereas there's no disagreement that an adult is an independent human life.

(Also, they aren't in a woman's womb; and, I think life in prison is punishment, perhaps even more so than death.)
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:30 PM
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150. I am not pro choice...I'm against government intervention!!!
Pro choice, Pro life....its still government intervention in my life...not directly since I can't have babies, but my argument is that the next thing they may decide they don't like is beards...and then I'm screwed!!!

The Bible says "Thou shalt not kill". Reason enough right there to be against the death penalty.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:55 PM
Response to Reply #150
160. If abortion is murder, or negligence resulting in death...
doesn't the state have a right to intervene based upon the same right it might have to intervene in cases of murder or negligence for an adult?
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Sparkly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 08:58 PM
Response to Reply #160
163. "IF abortion is murder"...
That remains a matter of personal belief.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:01 PM
Response to Reply #163
166. But if it is, then the same legal basis for laws against murder apply.
Like you said, it is quite debatable.
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:08 PM
Response to Reply #160
173. You missed the point entirely
I'm not calling abortion murder, lets call it what it is: A MORAL decision.
MORALS can NOT be legislated!!!
Having said that, it is to be realized that the neo-cons are attempting to do that. You then have what is commonly known as a "theocracy".

I'm talking about the Big Brother telling me what I can or cannot do in MY life, when John Q Public is not involved.

I believe in TRUE anarchy: No laws, EVERYONE is responsible for their actions, no exceptions.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:33 PM
Response to Reply #173
182. Then why do we prosecute people for committing murder?
I'm not talking about illogical fundie morals, I'm talking about morals based upon reality and the concept of liberty.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:41 PM
Response to Reply #182
186. Because murder violates the rights of another. NT
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:49 PM
Response to Reply #186
188. What about the rights of a fetus to grow up and be an adult...
and live and make choices and exercise their freedoms?
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:50 PM
Response to Reply #188
190. Where do you find that right?
Thank you.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:57 PM
Response to Reply #190
198. What right do I have to live?
Where did you find that?

You can't find it, you have to reason with it. Letting someone else tell you what you should think without evaluating what they are telling you to think is no better than what fundies do.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:59 PM
Response to Reply #198
202. Your right to your body and property is codified in law.
I don't believe such a right has been identified for fetuses.

Furthermore, there is no right to use someone else's body to maintain your life.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:00 PM
Response to Reply #198
203. You're surviving outside of your mother's womb, right?
I just love hearing why we should be incubators for the state.

Tell me more.
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:44 PM
Response to Reply #182
187. Morals, and rights are two entirely different things
It is a violation of a person's right to life to murder them. The murderer should be prosecuted for violating those rights.

Morals are the rules that I decide are right for my life, my lifestyle and that I can live with. My morals are not your morals, nor are they anyone elses.

However, interfering with my RIGHTS is not a good choice for ANYONE! I have a tendency to get very upset when that happens.

The rule that I grew up with was this: "Your rights extend to your elbow." After that, you're interfering with the rights of others.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:50 PM
Response to Reply #187
189. Isn't a mother interfering with the rights of the fetus to live?
What gives you the right to live more than a fetus?
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:52 PM
Response to Reply #189
192. The fetus has no right to use a woman's body, any more than a person who needs
a kidney transplant has the right to take one of yours.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:55 PM
Response to Reply #192
195. Yes, but aside from rape or some other forced sex act...
which would result in pregnancy, a woman has made the choice to have sex. She should be aware of the fact that pregnancy is a risk. (Of course, no one in America knows that because of the fundies.)
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:57 PM
Response to Reply #195
197. So, it's a punishment thing.
Love that whole she made her bed thing :thumbsup:
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:59 PM
Response to Reply #197
201. No, it's not punishment at all, it's accepting responsibility for procreating...
Aside from rape or some other forced sex act which results in pregnancy, a woman has made the choice to have sex.

What part of that implies punishment?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:02 PM
Response to Reply #201
204. The part that says you or anyone else has the right to force her to be an incubator.
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 10:02 PM by beam me up scottie
It's a woman's body, it's a clump of cells, it's not a nine month old blue eyed boy.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:06 PM
Response to Reply #204
213. No, she made the choice to have sex. Having sex is something which causes pregnancy...
unless a method of contraception is used.

She chose to do that. No one forced her to have sex, because I specifically made sure to say that I was not talking about those who are forced to have sex.

If she wasn't forced to have sex, she has the responsibility of taking care of a child for nine months. If the child threatens her life, then she does have the right to protect herself, just like the parent of any child would have the right to protect themselves if their children were about to kill them.

I'm not forcing her to be an incubator, she chose to be one when she had sex.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:08 PM
Response to Reply #213
215. So you're saying if she meets your conditions she can have an abortion?
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 10:08 PM by beam me up scottie
If she has unprotected sex, you get to force her to remain pregnant against her will.

Got it.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:08 AM
Response to Reply #215
592. Amazing how quickly it gets to "She could have CHOSEN to keep her legs crossed".
For some reason, it's always seems to get down to bitterness over other people's unauthorized fucking :eyes:
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:11 AM
Response to Reply #592
598. Oh, wait until you get to the rapist/car analogy.
He has real issues with women.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:08 PM
Response to Reply #213
217. And smoking causes cancer. Sex can cause AIDS too. Would you deny someone
medical treatment for those conditions?

Or would you force them to be responsible?

PS: She never chose to be an incubator, because she knew abortion was an option.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:03 PM
Response to Reply #201
206. Why isn't abortion a way to accept that responsibility? Would you deny AIDS meds to
someone who contracted AIDS as the result of risky sex?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:08 PM
Response to Reply #206
216. No, because treating someone's HIV infection wouldn't take anyone's life...
it would save someone's life. It's not just that someone took a risk, it's that the method of treating that risk interferes with the rights of another person.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:09 PM
Response to Reply #216
221. You can't make up your mind. Is the reason to not abort that it kills a life, or that the
woman took the risk?

You keep changing your mind.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:09 PM
Response to Reply #216
222. But risking a woman's life by forcing her to have a child is okay with you?
This is fascinating.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:57 PM
Response to Reply #195
199. Irrelevant. She may know there's a risk, and then address the outcome by abortion.
Were you of the opinion that we are not empowered to do such things?

Are people who smoke entitled to get treatment for cancer? Or are they supposed to live with the outcome because they took a risk?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:03 PM
Response to Reply #199
205. I'm not talking about forced acts, whether a forced act of sex...
or a forced act of death.

I'm talking about completely consensual choices which are made of ones own free will.

In the case of cancer, treating someone's cancer is not going to kill another person, so I'd have to say it's a rather different situation because of that.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:04 PM
Response to Reply #205
209. But what about the tumor?
It's a clump of cells, it has a right to live, right?

Why would you let someone kill it?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:09 PM
Response to Reply #209
223. A tumor doesn't have intelligence, will never develop intelligence,
and it is mutated in such a way that it will kill it's host.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:12 PM
Response to Reply #223
228. Neither does a clump of cells attached to a uterine wall.
So it's okay to risk the woman's life by forcing her to carry a child to term?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:14 PM
Response to Reply #228
230. Did I say she should have to carry the child if it threatens her life?
No, I didn't.

The clump of cells will develop into a full human being with intelligence, if it doesn't have birth defects and isn't somehow killed before it is born.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:16 PM
Response to Reply #230
236. All fetuses have the potential to kill the mother. Who makes that choice?
You?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:19 AM
Response to Reply #230
417. childbirth kills women.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:38 AM
Response to Reply #417
428. True, but so does abortion...
it also kills men as well.

And with childbirth, it's a 1/10000 risk, with abortion it's an absolute certainty.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:40 AM
Response to Reply #428
430. Statistics mean nothing without a decent source quoted.Now we get to the crux
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 02:43 AM by uppityperson
abortion "kills men as well"

My reply was to your saying an abortion should only be done if the pregnancy threatens the mother's life, and ALL pregnancies threaten the mother's life and you have that threat after the baby is born. So, can YOU look into the future and tell me whether or not my life will be terminated if I carry this through? No? Well, my life is in danger with every pregnancy and no one can tell the outcome until it happens.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:45 AM
Response to Reply #428
433. abortion kills men?
huh?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:47 AM
Response to Reply #433
436. embryonic men, see? Pre-men perhaps.
I think that is what this poster means? Maybe? Pre-men?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:54 AM
Response to Reply #436
439. Pre-men = Se-men?
Waiting to see him try to maneuver out of this one.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:01 AM
Response to Reply #439
442. True, guess my ma was only
a slut once since we other kids was durn planned. One was an accidental pregnancy, so that makes her a slut, right? Hey ma! Hear what he done sayin' 'bout ya!
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:56 AM
Response to Reply #436
440. ah yes, must be the embryonic men
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 02:56 AM by fishwax
for a moment I thought I might be in some sort of danger ...
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:06 AM
Response to Reply #440
443. ROFLMAO!!!
No, you're safe with us!

Thank you for hanging in there. You and Mondo both, most men would run like hell when they see a woman's head about to explode.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:11 AM
Response to Reply #443
448. psst, I'm
female. And my head has been about to explode.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:14 AM
Response to Reply #448
450. Oh, LOL! I know, mine went hours ago.
Mondo gave up, I think. He's much smarter than I probably.

But fishwax has got his second wind.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:14 AM
Response to Reply #443
449. hehe
good to know :)

it's been fun hanging in here (exploding heads included) ... i know i really should be off to bed, but I can't help it, I'm glued to this thread :)
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:16 AM
Response to Reply #449
454. It's like a wreck on the highway, isn't it?
:rofl:
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:15 AM
Response to Reply #436
453. No, that's not what I meant.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:30 AM
Response to Reply #453
469. What DID you mean?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:46 AM
Response to Reply #469
495. Males in general.
Not specifically "men", which implies adult males. Which is quite absurd in it's original context.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:52 AM
Response to Reply #495
501. So killing "men" is absurd, but not blastocysts.
Explain the difference.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:53 AM
Response to Reply #495
503. so, back to your statement starting this sub-thread and ask what you mean
"True, but so does abortion...it also kills men as well." Let's then substitute "Males in general" which you just gave to clarify and we get...
"True, but so does abortion...it also kills males in general as well." What do you mean, abortion kills males in general as well?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:01 AM
Response to Reply #503
509. If a fetus has a y chromosome, it is a male. If the fetus is aborted...
a male human is killed.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:11 AM
Response to Reply #509
518. No, you are wrong. An embryo with only a Y chromosome will probably die on its own
This is another trick. And I still disagree that a male embryo is a human, and you still haven't proven that it is.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:12 AM
Response to Reply #518
521. Ok, one y chromosome and one x chromosome.
Better now?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:22 AM
Response to Reply #521
534. so, back to your statement starting this sub-thread and ask what you mean
"True, but so does abortion...it also kills men as well." Let's then substitute "Males in general" which you just gave to clarify and we get...
"True, but so does abortion...it also kills males in general as well." What do you mean, abortion kills males in general as well?

What "males in general"? You mean that embryo with an X and a Y chormosome is "males in general"? My husband doesn't look like the pictures I posted elsewhere of implanted embryos. Maybe those were all female? And yes, better, since you have been such a stickler for correctness. You still haven't answered the questions elsewhere about those statistics you posted, giving a credible source.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:24 AM
Response to Reply #534
536. Post your source on the number of miscarriages.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:29 AM
Response to Reply #536
547. better than wiki, here you go.
http://www.allaboutlifechallenges.org/miscarriage-statistics.htm

You are here: Life Challenges >> Miscarriage Statistics

Miscarriage Statistics - A Look at the Figures and Definitions
Miscarriage statistics can be dramatic. Miscarriage reportedly occurs in 20 percent of all pregnancies. However, according to some sources, this may be an inaccurate number. Many women, before realizing a life has begun forming within them, may miscarry without knowing it-assuming their miscarriage is merely a heavier period. Therefore, the miscarriage rate may be closer to 40 or 50 percent. Of the number of women who miscarry, 20 percent will suffer recurring miscarriages.



http://www.americanpregnancy.org/pregnancycomplications/miscarriage.html
Miscarriage is the most common type of pregnancy loss, according to the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists(ACOG). Studies reveal that anywhere from 10- 25% of all clinically recognized pregnancies will end in miscarriage. Estimations of chemical pregnancies or unrecognized pregnancies that are lost can be as high as 50-75%, but many of these are unknown since they often happen before a woman has missed a period or is aware she is pregnant.
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:02 AM
Response to Reply #518
643. Some people wonder if adult males are human LOL n/t
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:15 AM
Response to Reply #433
451. Excuse me, males.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:19 AM
Response to Reply #451
455. which is not the same as a male *person*
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:21 AM
Response to Reply #455
458. It is a person.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 03:24 AM by originalpckelly
Just like you are a person. The fetus has the same right to live for the same reason you have a right to live.

Why do you believe you have a right to live?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:24 AM
Response to Reply #458
460. So when does it become a person?
How many cells ?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:25 AM
Response to Reply #460
462. When did you become a person?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:27 AM
Response to Reply #462
464. Well, technically, I was half a person in me dad, and half a person in me mum.
Thank Gawd daddy decided not to kill me.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:32 AM
Response to Reply #462
472. answer the question, when did IT become a person?
and not with another question
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:44 AM
Response to Reply #472
493. Implantation.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:50 AM
Response to Reply #493
498. so this is a Person?


And this is another one


And another


What makes each of these a "person"?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:52 AM
Response to Reply #498
500. Of course, that's not an implanted embryo.
The protein shell has not been broken in any of those photos, so it cannot be implanted.

Another little trick.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:02 AM
Response to Reply #500
510. How about these pictures, taken after implantation.
This is a chicken, since it is an implanted chicken embryo:


Here is a Person:
http://www.visembryo.com/baby/4.html

Fully implanted Person:
http://www.visembryo.com/baby/5.html

Here is more fun, which is the Person?
http://www.exploratorium.edu/exhibits/embryo/embryoflash.html

And one where you don't have to go to another fun website
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:07 AM
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Yes.
That is a person. It is a human being, it has the same human DNA it will have when it grows up to be a big boy or girl. It may not be smart, may not learn much, but of course there are a lot of people who are supposedly adults, and they can be described the same way.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:15 AM
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That is not a human being. That is a fetus.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:21 AM
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533. That's a human fetus. It has human DNA, doens't it?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:25 AM
Response to Reply #533
539. fertilized human eggs usually have human DNA but aren't "person"
My mole has human embryo but isn't a "person" either.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:28 AM
Response to Reply #539
544. Your mole?
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 04:28 AM by originalpckelly
:rofl:
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:36 AM
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553. Indeed. Same thing I guess. Poor DNA,.
Did you know that many cancers are actually cells in the body reverting to a more embryonic form? They multiply like crazy, and, unlike the embryo, never get the "switch" (for lack of the technical term) switched to quit multiplying like crazy. In an embryo, that switch switches and the cells start differentiating, becoming different bits, like nerves, skin, etc. So, killing my mole by removing it is killing some of my DNA that is trying to grow and be a person.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:45 AM
Response to Reply #553
562. There is no possibility, aside from human cloning...
of your mole ever developing into an adult human.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:48 AM
Response to Reply #562
568. Never say never, and see, there IS a possibility it could.
Since the technology exists to clone my mole, and the outcome would be a fully functioning human, some might say I would be remiss if I did NOT clone it. Some might call me bad names and look down and say I have bad morals for not letting this person live.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:52 AM
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573. I specifically excluded human cloning.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:58 AM
Response to Reply #573
581. But the technology exists so it has to be taken into consideration.
Denying that is wrong.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:00 AM
Response to Reply #581
584. So you want to clone human beings?
You can go there if you want to. I think most people will disagree with you doing that, because many cloned animals have shown that clones has shorter life spans than normal specimens. In addition, clones have a much higher risk of deformity.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:34 AM
Response to Reply #458
474. if it is a person, why is it okay to kill that person in the case of rape
Why is it okay to take the life of an innocent person in that case?

I'm sorry, but the illogical leap of consensual sex=consent to carry a pregnancy to term doesn't quite cut it for me here--if you honestly believe the embryo/fetus is a person, why is it okay to kill that innocent person? Why doesn't that person have a right to live for the same reason that you have a right to live?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:38 AM
Response to Reply #474
481. Now now, he said he had thought this out.
Don't you believe him?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:47 AM
Response to Reply #474
496. Because, against the will of the mother, that little person may take her life...
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 03:48 AM by originalpckelly
during childbirth unexpectedly, and in general there is a risk it could take the mother's life some time during gestation.

The rapist is forcing the possibility of death on the mother. If the state prevented women from having an abortion in this non-consensual context, it would also be forcing her to take this risk against her will.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:56 AM
Response to Reply #496
506. So it's ethical to murder "that little person"?
How can you justify murder?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:03 AM
Response to Reply #506
511. Where did I say murder?


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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:09 AM
Response to Reply #511
514. Your post #456: "When a woman has an abortion she is killing a person."
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 04:10 AM by beam me up scottie
Answer the question.

Why is it ethical to muder "that little person"?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:11 AM
Response to Reply #514
520. If someone runs out in front of my car, and I hit them, they die...
and it was impossible for me to stop, is that murder? No, but I still would've killed a person.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:13 AM
Response to Reply #520
523. You SAID when a woman has an abortion it's murder. Why is one murder ethical and the other not?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:20 AM
Response to Reply #523
532. Like I said, killing someone and murder are not the same.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:24 AM
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You SAID when a woman has an abortion it's murder. Why is one murder ethical and the other not?
There is no such thing as an "accidental" abortion.

When a woman has an abortion it's murder.

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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:35 AM
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552. Why is it any different?
The mother did not ultimately make the choice to become pregnant when she was raped. The level of responsibility, just like in the accidental killing of the pedestrian, is not at all near that of the killing of her own free will.

In one instance, just as in the accidental killing with the vehicle, circumstances beyond her control made her pregnant. However, in the other she allowed herself to become pregnant of her own free will, so the level of responsibility on her part is at it's highest.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:38 AM
Response to Reply #552
555. There are no "accidental" abortions. They are the same procedure. Now answer the question.
Why is one murder ethical and the other not?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:50 AM
Response to Reply #555
570. Do you actually believe that?
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 04:51 AM by originalpckelly
That's a big difference from what you were saying earlier.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:54 AM
Response to Reply #570
574. Dodging by switching and asking another question. Try it again.

Why is one murder ethical and the other not?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:01 AM
Response to Reply #574
585. You don't believe that.
If you don't actually believe something, you're not being intellectually honest by asking it. The sole purpose of the question is to be rude, not to really grasp a deeper truth.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:07 AM
Response to Reply #585
591. no, she's trying to get you to clarify your position
there's nothing intellectually dishonest about engaging you in your own hypotheticals.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:10 AM
Response to Reply #585
596. I am trying to get you to clarify.
If I don't believe what I think you believe I am being intellectually dishonest by asking you what you believe? pshaw. Simply answer.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:07 AM
Response to Reply #496
513. but allowing her to abort it means the state is allowing the certain death of a person
(to use your definitions) rather than simply going with the chance of an innocent person dying. It is still the certain death of an innocent versus the 1 in 10,000 chance of the death of an innocent (to use your figures)--why is that okay? Tje same risks exist in pregnancy that results from consensual sex, but there you have argued that one can't place the mere, slim chance of death against the absolute certainty of the death of the fetus-person. We see the same choices in play here, but here the absolute death of the fetusperson is okay?


If the state prevented women from having an abortion in this non-consensual context, it would also be forcing her to take this risk against her will.
And now you're talking in terms of the state preventing abortions? I thought that was totally outside the realm of possibility for you. If the state prevents any abortion, they are forcing the woman to take the risk against her will, a point that others on this thread have made repeatedly. You said before you didn't think it was okay for the state to do that.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:09 AM
Response to Reply #513
516. What's tje?


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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:11 AM
Response to Reply #516
519. A typo: the Answer the question
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:13 AM
Response to Reply #519
524. What does "the answer the question" mean?
I really think you need to sleep, you're not making any sense.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:15 AM
Response to Reply #524
526. Can you answer the question or not?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:17 AM
Response to Reply #526
527. Don't you mean "will you answer the question or not?"
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:18 AM
Response to Reply #527
529. I was wondering when you'd give up.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:22 AM
Response to Reply #529
535. Did you mean "will you answer the question or not?" Or "can you answer the question or not?"
I can answer the question.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:27 AM
Response to Reply #535
543. Well?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:32 AM
Response to Reply #535
550. Frankly, I don't believe you when you say you can answer the question
But I'd be thrilled to see you prove me wrong :)
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:31 AM
Response to Reply #524
549. BWAHAHAHA
ZING! :eyes:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:18 AM
Response to Reply #516
528. It's supposed to be "the"
Gee. I guess you got me there.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:20 AM
Response to Reply #528
531. A clever ploy.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 04:21 AM by beam me up scottie
While he frantically searches Google for the help that's never going to come...:rofl:


help meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:25 AM
Response to Reply #531
540. I'm not searching Google or any other search engine.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:27 AM
Response to Reply #540
542. Then answer the questions.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:24 AM
Response to Reply #528
537. Thanks, I didn't know if you being clever.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:41 AM
Response to Reply #537
560. How would "tje" instead of "the" be being clever?
that must be a reference I'm unfamiliar with.

By the way, your subject line appears to be missing a verb. Somehow, though, I managed to decipher what you were trying to say.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:37 AM
Response to Reply #513
554. That's true, but in one case she is responsible for the child being in her...
in the other she is not.

Ultimately, the death of the child is the same in both circumstances, but the culpability of the mother is different.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:40 AM
Response to Reply #554
558. So who is committing murder?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:47 AM
Response to Reply #558
566. The rapist. It's like throwing a person out in front of a car...
on a freeway with the intention of killing them.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:54 AM
Response to Reply #566
575. The rapist is not in the room. He doesn't know the baby exists. There are no cars in the room either
Why is it ethical to murder the baby?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:06 AM
Response to Reply #575
590. How would you like to answe this?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:14 AM
Response to Reply #590
602. Answer the question. Why is one murder ethical and the other not?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:14 AM
Response to Reply #602
603. Neither is ethical.
Is that what you want me to say?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:17 AM
Response to Reply #603
605. So abortion is always murder? And the rape pass you so graciously allowed me?
What of it?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:18 AM
Response to Reply #603
606. We want you to say what you believe. Not just ask questions in response.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:26 AM
Response to Reply #606
613. I'm just trying to do the right thing. I don't want anyone innocent...
to be killed, is that so wrong?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:29 AM
Response to Reply #613
616. I don't know. I'm awful. I don't know.
:cry: I wish had the answer. More than almost anything else. I just don't want to do anything unethical. I don't want another person to be killed, just because they weren't wanted.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:32 AM
Response to Reply #616
620. Have you adopted any children? How have you helped the "unwanted"?
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 05:34 AM by uppityperson
Those that are born unwanted, or those that are in situations really bad for them? How have you helped them?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:30 AM
Response to Reply #613
618. You don't know what the right thing is? And you condemned me to death?
Oh, that's right, I'm not innocent.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:33 AM
Response to Reply #618
621. I just want to do the right thing, what ever that may be...
I don't care one way or another, whatever is right. Whatever can be proven through logic and reason.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:36 AM
Response to Reply #621
624. What is this "I" shit I keep hearing? What does any of this have to do with you?
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 07:29 AM
Response to Reply #624
634. .
:applause:
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:37 AM
Response to Reply #621
625. I don't think I'll be able to go on. I can't really see too well now.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:41 AM
Response to Reply #621
626. How many kids have you adopted or fostered? That is something "right"
you can do.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:35 AM
Response to Reply #613
623. Define "Innocent"
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:18 AM
Response to Reply #230
607. Why should YOU say whether SHE should ***"Have To"*** carry it at all?
I like how you put that. Did I say she should have to carry the child if it... blah, blah, blah.

Want a robe and sceptre to go with your newfound status as intrauterine arbiter? Excuse me, but under what sort of divine appointment is it any of your god-damn business in the first place?

See, Jack, it is your opinion that the moment of conception transmogrifies a sperm and unfertilized egg (which should have no rights, and aren't "alive", presumably) into a micron sized "human being" which you apparently believe you have been specially charged with protecting, nevermind the fact that that potential human resides in someone else's womb.

There are two things you can do with your belief that a fertilized egg is a "human being". You can try to get your opinion written into law and imposed on millions of women who may not share it, forcing many into back alley abortions and quite probably criminalizing the birth control pill in the process. That would be the asshole tack, the authoritarian tack, the daddy state tack, the tack taken by today's Republican Party.

Or, you could accept that maybe- just maybe- other people may come to different conclusions on this matter, and say, "well, I believe a fertilized egg IS A HUMAN BEING. No ifs, ands, or buts. That's my opinion, and as such I, personally, would never get an abortion. Except- oh, wait, I'm a man! Happy day, I won't ever have to worry about it, will I?"
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:18 AM
Response to Reply #223
416. an embryo does not have intellegence either and can kill the mother.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 02:18 AM by uppityperson
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:04 PM
Response to Reply #205
210. Not different at all. If someone needed a kidney would they have the right to
take one of yours?

No fetus has the right to live in a woman's body without her consent.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:10 PM
Response to Reply #210
224. She gave her consent the moment she consented to having sex.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:16 PM
Response to Reply #224
235. And she denied consent the moment she chose abortion.
Right?
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:07 PM
Response to Reply #205
214. Besides - if abortion is killing a person, what difference does it make if the mother
was raped? If the fetus didn't commit the crime, why would she be permitted to kill it anyway?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:11 PM
Response to Reply #214
225. Consent, she did not offer her consent to let the fetus use her body...
unlike in a case where a woman has consented freely to have sex.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:14 PM
Response to Reply #225
231. Women die in childbirth, bubba, you have no right to force them to take that risk.
I don't give a fuck WHAT she did to get pregnant.

It is about the punishment, face it.

Sluts who sleep around and don't take precautions get what they deserve, right?

But what if she uses it and the method fails?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:34 PM
Response to Reply #231
247. No, I think that you need to stop being so rude. "Slut" is a nasty word...
It is not about punishment, because honestly aside from the loss of life, I don't care what someone else does with their body. I'm not a fundie, I don't think it's a sin to have sex before marriage or to have sex freely, I think it's wrong just to not accept what you consented to, and that that should result in a fetuses' death.

That's it.

People need to understand that millions of years of evolution have produced fairly potent and reliable mechanisms for reproducing, and that contraception has been around for a comparatively short time. It's quite amazing how well pregnancy can be avoided, but it's not perfect, and people don't use contraception perfectly either. People have to understand that sex, while we have evolved beyond it's original biological purposes, is still at it's core the reproductive process.

When we have sex, we have to be ready for it's consequences, as long as we are, the more sex the better :P.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:44 PM
Response to Reply #247
253. Telling a woman she's an incubator is beyond rude, actually.
Call me a slut any day, I could care less.

But if you think you have the right to decide if I qualify, according to YOUR standards, for a possibly live saving procedure, don't you dare expect me to be polite.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:53 PM
Response to Reply #253
268. I'm not telling you to keep a child if it's going to kill you...
and that it's been determined by a doctor, am I? No. Not one bit at all.

I don't have right to force my lack of religious beliefs on anyone in America. I do however, have the right and I dare say duty to protect the rights of other people, even if they aren't exactly able to do that.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:06 PM
Response to Reply #268
294. And how do you know I won't die? Is there NO chance of death?
And you ARE talking about MY right to live.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:15 PM
Response to Reply #225
232. If a woman chooses to abort, she likewise denies consent.
Problem solved.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:36 PM
Response to Reply #232
249. The only problem, is that she is taking away the rights of another person.
I wouldn't have the faintest problem with it, if she weren't doing that. I don't honestly care what people do with their own bodies, but I do care when people do something to other people's bodies, which they cannot consent and probably would not consent to.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:45 PM
Response to Reply #249
254. you certainly haven't convinced anyone that there is another person involved
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:47 PM
Response to Reply #249
258. No, the only problem is, you're taking away her right to choose whether or not to risk her life.
You are forcing her to risk her life because you think she should be forced to have the child because she was careless.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:20 AM
Response to Reply #249
418. WHAT other person's rights?
by your reckoning, every sperm and every egg is sacred since they can potentially turn into a living person.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:40 AM
Response to Reply #418
431. No, unless combined they are not capable of producing a human being...
unless they are implanted they are not capable of producing a human being.

I suggest you look at biology book. Last time I checked sperm do not spontaneously produce a human being. It requires an egg, as much as an egg requires a sperm, at least in humans.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:46 AM
Response to Reply #431
434. but every sperm is sacred since they can combine with an egg and become a person.
same as every fetus is sacred because it can become a person if all goes just right.

Once again you do not answer the question asked WHAT other person do you mean when you write "she is taking away the rights of another person."?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:07 AM
Response to Reply #434
444. This question answers it all for you:
Why is it wrong in your understanding of the world to kill another person?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:10 AM
Response to Reply #444
447. You still don't answer except to ask another question.
WHAT other person do you mean when you write "she is taking away the rights of another person."?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:19 AM
Response to Reply #447
456. When a woman has an abortion she is killing a person.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:23 AM
Response to Reply #456
459. when a woman has an abortion, she is usually under anesthetic, I believe
which would make it fairly difficult for her to kill a person.

Oh yeah, and you still haven't demonstrated that a fetus is a person.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:25 AM
Response to Reply #456
461. When a man jerks off, he's killing MILLIONS!
How many cells make a person?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:28 AM
Response to Reply #461
466. If you are taking this comment seriously:
"I really think every sperm is sacred. Wooh, you really got me that time."

DON'T! I was joking.

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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:31 AM
Response to Reply #466
471. Clever. Impressive html skills. But I'm NOT joking. It takes a sperm and an egg to make a person.
So when a man wastes or deliberately kills his sperm, he's killing babies.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:28 AM
Response to Reply #456
465. WHAT person is she killing?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:29 AM
Response to Reply #465
467. The person she created when she had sex, accepted the responsibility of carrying the child...
and then allowed to stay in her long enough to implant.

That person.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:34 AM
Response to Reply #467
475. Egad. "then allowed to stay in her long enough to implant."
So again, it's the woman's fault for "allowing" the babies, I mean sperm to stay in her.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:36 AM
Response to Reply #475
476. Prove to me that abortion is not killing a human.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 03:37 AM by originalpckelly
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:38 AM
Response to Reply #476
479. Prove to me when it becomes a human being. It takes sperm and an egg.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:39 AM
Response to Reply #479
483. When did you become a human being?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:44 AM
Response to Reply #483
491. According to you, when my dad's sperm met my mom's egg, right?
I'm so glad to be alive today.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:45 AM
Response to Reply #483
494. when does an egg and sperm become a human being?
ok, your turn to ask a question rather than answering.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:44 AM
Response to Reply #476
492. can't prove a negative, prove it is.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:50 AM
Response to Reply #492
499. Wy should you have the right to kill another person, just because you don't want to raise them?
(Or wait nine months until you can give it up for adoption?)
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:09 AM
Response to Reply #499
515. Can't prove a negative, Prove it is.
Can you answer without just asking another question? (rhetorical question, meaning not needing an answer)
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:52 AM
Response to Reply #476
502. um, okay ... proof that abortion doesn't kill a human
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 04:10 AM by fishwax
just using the definitions from dictionary.com:

A human is a person.
A person is a human being, whether a man, woman, or a child.
A child is a person between birth and full growth. Therefore a fetus is not a child.
A man is an adult male person. Therefore a fetus is not a man.
A woman is an adult female person. Therefore a fetus is not a woman.

A fetus is not a man, woman, or a child. Therefore a fetus is not a person.

Now, that's logical. You can disagree with the definitions, but you certainly haven't shown any convincing reason why we should accept your definition. Saying "it is a person" doesn't make it so.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:58 AM
Response to Reply #502
507. Okay, I'll use your definitions...
why do you have the right to kill a human fetus, which will grow into an adult human being, in most cases?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:40 AM
Response to Reply #467
484. What defines this cell, perhaps clump of cells as a "person"?
What "responsibility of carrying the child" did the woman accept when she had sex?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:55 AM
Response to Reply #484
505. when a woman consents to sex, she consents to conception and to carrying a child to term, including
unforeseen risks that occur during childbirth, but not including instances in which there is an identifiable and out of the ordinary threat to her life. (She only consents to risking her life a little, not a lot.)

It's all here in one of these subthreads :)
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:59 AM
Response to Reply #484
508. Do you really think that's up for debate?
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 03:59 AM by originalpckelly
So male-female human sex didn't evolve to procreate?

:shrug:

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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:13 AM
Response to Reply #508
522. Sex is only to procreate? Why then do we, can we, fuck when not fertile?
Why do humans have sex at times other than being fertile? Why not just have a heat like dogs do? And no, human sex evolved to be enjoyed as well as procreate, hence no "heat" like dogs or cats or chimps have.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:19 AM
Response to Reply #522
530. Yes, in humans, but in simpler species which resemble our lineage...
sex is solely for the purpose of procreation.

And quite frankly anyone who doesn't know sex can cause pregnancy, probably shouldn't be having sex in the first place.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:30 AM
Response to Reply #530
548. Gee, I thought you said male-female human sex, yup, here you go
"Do you really think that's up for debate?

Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 12:59 AM by originalpckelly
So male-female human sex didn't evolve to procreate?"

Again, no. Do you?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:38 AM
Response to Reply #548
556. So a woman who has unprotected sex, shouldn't even worry that she'll be pregnant...
You do know how crazy that sounds?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:43 AM
Response to Reply #556
561. Not the craziest thing you've writtten tonight, but you are right, it does.
What does it have to do with answering the question asked? In case you don't remember the question, here it is:

You wroteL "Do you really think that's up for debate?
So male-female human sex didn't evolve to procreate?"

Again, no, not entirely. Do you?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:49 AM
Response to Reply #561
569. It's not solely made for creation, but that's a very distinct possibility...
so much so that a woman should be aware of it before having sex.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:56 AM
Original message
Sex is not soley made for creation, but there's a distinct possibility it was...
so a woman should be aware before having sex that she might be having it only to get pregnant. OK. I'm menopausal. Why do I still have sex?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:05 AM
Response to Original message
587. Excuse me? "Made" are you implying that somehow sex was "made"
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:13 AM
Response to Reply #587
600. Your words, #569
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:22 AM
Response to Reply #600
609. If you want to kill an innocent child who did nothing to you, go ahead.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:25 AM
Response to Reply #609
612. OMG, you can't answer your own words quoted back so you sink to this?
:rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl::rofl:
Why are you still here?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:49 AM
Response to Reply #609
629. What happened to "I just want to do the right thing"
You don't even have the moral courage to say you don't know if it's right to tell a woman she has to carry a fetus to term.

Not one time did you ever back down from your "abortion is murder" declaration.

You wouldn't even for a moment CONSIDER what it would be like to be a woman who is forced to be an incubator.

Not one time.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 06:03 AM
Response to Reply #629
630. I thought I had thought about it, but I didn't.
I don't have any right to to tell another person what to think or how to feel, I'm awful person.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 06:06 AM
Response to Reply #630
631. I'm sorry I wasted your time.
I wish I could give it back.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:57 PM
Response to Reply #631
674. pshaw. Here is some advice for you to take as you wish, or not
Discussion advice: When you are discussing something that you have a strong opinion about, it is a good idea to not just give HOW you feel but why you feel that way. Asking others how they feel is a good thing, if you are trying to elicit their opinions, but it does not absolve you of the role of telling why you feel as you do. To simplify, if someone asks you a question about why you state something, answer. Don't answer only by asking them what they think, but tell why you said what you did. Then ask what they think. Repetitively answering a question with another question is NOT good discussion technique.

Next bit of advice: Do not share your computer/username with another person as it gets really difficult to be talking with someone and have it be another person. Personalities come through the keyboard and people can tell. They can be fooled for a while, but they will figure it out. I am not accusing anyone in particular of doing this, just throwing it out and letting it stick where it will.

Finally: There is a difference between discussing to reinforce your beliefs, discussing to find out others beliefs, discussing to consider opposing viewpoints and compare with your own and perhaps learn, discussing to irritate others. Each has its uses, make sure you are in the right forum for what you intend.

Questions not related to discussion manners: What have you done to help living, out of the uterus, human beings? What are YOU doing to make the world a better place? What are you doing to help babies, children, people in need? Have you adopted any, or fostered any, or been a BigBrother/Sister to any? Do you donate your time, energies or money to help those who HAVE been born and are suffering?

If you are sorry, get your butt out there and DO something. If "I'm sorry" is only words, bah to you.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:29 AM
Response to Reply #508
546. I not only think it's up for debate, I think it's patently absurd
and while you've been challenged on it for most of the night, you haven't been able to back it up.

So male-female human sex didn't evolve to procreate?

That's just more irrelevant misdirection.

Yes, male-female human sex is procreative at its root. But no, that does not mean that everytime a woman has sex she consents to conception or to carrying a child to term.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:40 AM
Response to Reply #546
559. Yes, she does. It is a known possible outcome...
and since she is aware of it when she commits to having unprotected sex, or in some cases protected sex, she is consenting to it.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:46 AM
Response to Reply #559
564. No she doesn't. At least most the women I've ever known of.
I don't, and I do like sex. Don't consent to carry any embryo to term. Nope, not unless I CHOOSE to. My choice.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:58 AM
Response to Reply #564
582. You make the choice when you have sex. You can...
drastically reduce the risk you will become pregnant by using various forms of birth control, but you can't completely rule it out. It's possible for you to become pregnant, and so long as you made the choice to have sex, you made the choice to take the risk of pregnancy.

You may be delusional, you may not actually have a problem with killing another human, but in reality that's exactly what you are doing. And that's not some religious bullshit, it's a fact.

It has human DNA. It has the possibility of becoming an adult. If some unfortunate event, including abortion, doesn't happen, it will grow to be a baby, and then an adult.

You may think otherwise, but you're not basing your conclusions upon reality, and quite frankly basing conclusions upon abstract conceptions of the world, is the same type of delusion as Christian fundie believes in.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:05 AM
Response to Reply #582
588. You've called me a slut, irrational, now delusional because I believe differently that you
Wow, aren't you the good discussion person. You keep missing the Choice part, where if I were to get pregnant I could chose to have an abortion. You keep missing the part where, contrary to you saying I am consenting to carry a baby to term by having sex, I am simply having sex to enjoy it or be close to my partner. Now I am delusional by not agreeing that having an abortion is killing another human. Wow.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:08 AM
Response to Reply #588
593. Why would you have an abortion?
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:31 AM
Response to Reply #582
619. Face it you tramps
Your only two choices are to never have sex or to be a baby incubator. If you consent to having sex you are consenting to having a baby--period. Men, of course, can f*ck to their hearts content with no consequences but women have only the choice of being celibate or consenting to pregnancy every time they spread their legs.

And if you have an abortion you're a heartless murderer. :sarcasm:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:58 AM
Response to Reply #559
583. knowing a possible outcome is not the same as giving consent to all of its ramifications
Again. When i get in a car, I know that one of the possible outcomes is that I will get in a car accident. That doesn't mean that I give my consent to other cars to hit me. It means I accept that risk as a possible outcome. How I deal with the eventualities remains up to me.

If I were to walk down a dark street by myself, I would do so knowing that being robbed might be a possibility. But that does not mean I am consenting to being robbed. It means that I engage in that behavior fully cognizant of possible consequences. How I react to those consequences remains up to me.

When I eat certain foods, I do so knowing that sometimes our food supply is not as safe as we might like it to be, and that as a result I might wind up with unhealthy organisms in my body. That doesn't mean I consent to being sick without taking recourse to whatever remedy I choose. It means I'm aware of possible outcomes, and I accept the risk of those possible outcomes. It doesn't mean I consent to anything and everything that happens as a result.

When a woman engages in consensual sex, she is likely aware that conception is a possibility. That doesn't mean she consents to carrying a fetus to term (or even to conception--as long as she rids her body of the organism before implantation, as with the morning after pill, it's okay with you, right?).
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:05 AM
Response to Reply #583
586. You assume that abortion is an ethical remedy for consensual sex...
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:09 AM
Response to Reply #586
594. You assume that abortion is an ethical remedy for non consensual sex.
Abortion is either murder or it's not.

Which is it?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:10 AM
Response to Reply #594
597. You assume it's that simple.
As I have explained before it's not.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:16 AM
Response to Reply #597
604. Abortion is either murder or it's not. Which is it?
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El Fuego Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 11:53 AM
Response to Reply #604
653. It's not. Because "murder" is legally defined.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 11:53 AM by El Fuego
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:26 AM
Response to Reply #597
615. You didn't explain. Is it murder or not?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:10 AM
Response to Reply #586
595. abortion as a remedy for sex? What do you mean by that?
I don't think I assume that. I certainly won't admit to assuming that when I don't really know what you mean by it.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:13 AM
Response to Reply #595
601. A rememdy for pregnancy. Sorry.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:23 AM
Response to Reply #601
610. I assume that a woman has a right to control what happens to her body
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:25 AM
Response to Reply #610
611. But what about the fetus. Doesn't it have the same right?
:shrug:
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:26 AM
Response to Reply #611
614. No. eom.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:30 AM
Response to Reply #611
617. it hasn't the capability, let alone the right
It never has had the capability, and without significant sacrifices by the mother, to the point that her health and even life are threatened, it never will. I don't agree that the fetus is a person with the same rights as you, me, or the mother. I don't accept that a woman cedes control of her body when she engages in consensual sex.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 07:24 AM
Response to Reply #586
633. You assume that it's your business to dictate to other people your *belief*
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 07:24 AM by impeachdubya
that a fertilized egg = "a baby".

So, do you support criminalization of the birth control pill, too? Because most of the major "pro-life" organizations consider it an abortifacent and morally equivalent to a surgical abortion. Either life begins at conception, or it doesn't- right? Black and white. Right?

How about IUDs? RU-486? Morning after pill?
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:31 AM
Response to Reply #508
651. The Shakers believed that....
and what happened to the Shakers?? They died out because they only had sex to procreate, and they didn't procreate enough.

The bonobo chimps don't use sex just to procreate. In a bonobo society, sex is used as a power tool, much as it is used in human society.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:47 AM
Response to Reply #431
435. But each sperm HAS the potential to become a baby.
If you are wasting it or killing it, you are killing the same life you claimed we were.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:31 AM
Response to Reply #435
470. If a sperm does not fertilize an egg, it cannot magically become a child.
It's fairly likely that unless a mother has an abortion and kills her fetus, that the fetus will in most cases grow to be a baby.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:36 AM
Response to Reply #470
477. But if a man masturbates or uses spermicide, he's killing potential children.
Those sperm have just as much right to take a shot at life as any other.

Why should they be murdered?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:39 AM
Response to Reply #477
482. They do not have a chance at becoming life unless combined with an egg.
Just like the egg will not magically produce a human being without a sperm. (In any process which doesn't include cloning.)
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:42 AM
Response to Reply #482
488. But they could, if they were put in the vagina of a fertile woman
or maybe stored in the freezer for later use, but I think you need better equipment than a home freezer for that
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:42 AM
Response to Reply #482
489. They do not have a chance if you kill them.
That's half a baby. How could you?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:43 AM
Response to Reply #482
490. and the implanted embryo won't magically produce a human being without
nourishment and support from the host.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:55 AM
Response to Reply #490
504. This won't produce an intelligent human being without nourishment either:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:24 AM
Response to Reply #504
538. well, that *is* a human being
unless I'm missing something. It requires nourishment (then again, so do I), but it doesn't depend absolutely on a host organism and necessarily deplete the resources of that host (thus endangering that host) in order to survive.

Since you've been critical of what you call "neat tricks" from other posters, and since you called me out for mistyping "tje" instead of "the," I suppose I may as well point out the intellectual dishonesty in the slippage you've used to connect my original point--that a fetus, like a sperm, won't develop into a human being on its own--with your subject title here, which changes the debate to "intelligent human being."
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:27 AM
Response to Reply #538
541. So when in your opinion does a human being become a human being?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:06 AM
Response to Reply #541
589. a human being is living outside of the womb
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:11 AM
Response to Reply #589
599. Ok, just a human.
The fetus is a human fetus. How can you kill a human?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:20 AM
Response to Reply #599
608. a woman has a right to control what happens to her own body.
I don't believe an embryo is a person. I don't believe a fetus is a person. Whatever value an individual may place on the being growing inside a woman's womb, I don't believe that its rights supersede the right of a woman to control her own body.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:41 AM
Response to Reply #470
486. did you know that at least 1/3 of pregnancies end in miscarriage?
fun little fact.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:15 AM
Response to Reply #486
525. Yes, very sad isn't it?
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 04:16 AM by originalpckelly
I personally know of someone who had a number of miscarriages, very shaken up by them. Like she lost a child.

Though I must correct you, it's more like 15-20%
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:33 AM
Response to Reply #525
551. Nope. I was wrong, 40-50%
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=364&topic_id=3008486&mesg_id=3011733
I personally have had at least 1, think a couple more though not medically diagnosed. Some I was glad when over, 1 I missed the potential that wouldn't be.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:22 PM
Response to Reply #225
239. how does having sex equal consent to having a fetus use your body?
That makes no sense.

Being aware that an activity involves certain risks does not imply consent. When I get in my car, I am fully aware that another driver may strike my car, but that doesn't mean I give them consent to do so.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:03 PM
Response to Reply #199
207. But the tumor has a right to live, joe.
I thought we covered this.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:12 PM
Response to Reply #207
229. A malignant tumor's nature is such that it will kill it's host, in all but the most rare...
circumstances.

It has no possibility of being an intelligent human being.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:15 PM
Response to Reply #229
233. So will a fetus.
But you think you have the right to make her risk her life because she slept around.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:24 PM
Response to Reply #233
240. It's not guaranteed that the fetus will kills its mother...
only in cases where a mother's life is at risk, where I specifically stated she had the right as would any parent whose child was about to kill would have, to protect her life.

There is always the unforeseen risk a mother might die in childbirth, but that's a risk, we know for sure that the child will die.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:27 PM
Response to Reply #240
242. It's not guaranteed it won't. And no, there is no "advance warning" every time.
So, who chooses?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:41 PM
Response to Reply #242
251. Risk: It is guaranteed that the fetus will die...
while it is a possibility that the mother will die during childbirth.

I can guarantee you that the fetus's rights will be taken away if it is aborted, it is no where near a guarantee that a mother will die during childbirth. And statistically speaking, it is incredibly rare in a developed country like the USA.

A 1 in 10,000 risk compared to a known death, which one is more likely to infringe on someone's rights?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:45 PM
Response to Reply #251
255. Risk: An adult woman's life is on the line and you want to discuss percentages?
Who gets to choose to risk her life?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:49 PM
Response to Reply #255
260. She chose to risk her life.
Unfortunately, if you do not use contraception the right way, or if it fails, and then you are impregnated, and then you die in childbirth, the woman made that choice.

It sucks that that is reality, but it is. The result of sex, where contraception fails, and a woman is capable of being impregnated, is pregnancy in most cases. That's just science.

There are ways to get around that, but one must deal with the effects of not being fertile. And in some extremely odd cases, it's possible those may fail as well.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:52 PM
Response to Reply #260
265. My contraception failed. You don't believe me. So I die. That about cover it?
You really should reconsider what you're asking me to do.

I could die.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:59 PM
Response to Reply #265
276. 1 in 10,000 risk?
In 1999, 396 women out of 3,959,417 died during childbirth. That's a 1/10000 risk. You can almost totally and completely, aside from the incompetence of a doctor or a freaky re-healing, eliminate the risk of pregnancy, without having to worry about killing another person.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:01 PM
Response to Reply #276
282. I developed toxemia. They attempted a Cesarean. I bled to death.
Because of your religious beliefs.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:17 PM
Response to Reply #282
314. I vary between agnostic and atheist, you didn't die because of my religious beliefs.
Really. I promise.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:22 PM
Response to Reply #314
321. So you're just a prude and a control freak?
Bad move. I can forgive religious whack jobs because they're brainwashed.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:37 PM
Response to Reply #321
341. Not one bit at all, I'm consitent.
I'm a liberal, and I believe in protecting the rights of everyone.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:22 AM
Response to Reply #276
419. statistics mean nothing without a good source given
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:56 PM
Response to Reply #260
271. No. She chose to have sex. Period. Nothing else.
You haven't demonstrated that an awareness of the possibility of a consequence is anything remotely the same as choosing that consequence. It's not the same as flipping a light switch.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:59 PM
Response to Reply #271
278. If someone is unaware of their bodily functions...
then I'd suggest they learn about them more before having sex.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:02 PM
Response to Reply #278
285. So I deserve to die because of my bodily functions.
Keep it up.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:07 PM
Response to Reply #278
296. awareness doesn't equal consent
if you want to offer an argument that it does, then be my guest. But simply saying it doesn't make it so.

I had chicken for dinner. Eating chicken can be risky. All sorts of organisms can inhabit your body as a direct result. But while I was aware of that risk before picking up my utensil, that doesn't mean I give consent to those organisms to inhabit my body without intervention. I consented to the risk of an internal threat, and should that risk come to pass, I'll deal with that threat however I see fit.

A woman who engages in consensual sex consents to sex and admits the possibility of conception, however remote (depending on what precautions she takes). She doesn't consent to letting a foreign organism live inside her for nine months.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:05 AM
Response to Reply #278
644. If I have normal contacts with other people, then I risk every now and then catching colds, flu, etc
Do I have no right to treatment because I chose to take the risk? I realize that you have different views from me as to when life begins; but I don't agree with bringing in whether someone 'chose' to take a risk. Practically everything we do in life involves a risk.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:19 PM
Response to Reply #229
237. By your reasoning, is she smoked she gave consent to the tumor.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:27 PM
Response to Reply #237
241. True, but the whole matter is dependent upon both consent and consequence...
not one alone.

If the consequence is the loss of life on the part of the fetus, and the mother has consented to sex, then it would be wrong for her to have an abortion.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:28 PM
Response to Reply #241
243. Consequence. As in punishment/you made your bed/suffer bitch?
That about cover it?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:45 PM
Response to Reply #243
256. No, consequence in the causality context, not in the punishment context...
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 10:45 PM by originalpckelly
I meant it in this context:
"If I turn on a lightswitch, the consequence will be a light turning on."

Not this context:
"If you eat more cookies than you are allowed to, there will be consequences young man."
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:49 PM
Response to Reply #256
259. Cookies? Light switches? I'm talking about MY LIFE here. Who chooses?
Are you going to tell me I have to take a chance of dying because I was careless?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:51 PM
Response to Reply #259
264. If someone makes that choice, it is there choice alone.
If you do a, b follows most of the time. In this case, if you are careless during sex, and you are capable of being impregnated, then it's very likely pregnancy will follow.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:53 PM
Response to Reply #264
267. And if the rubber broke? What then? Do I deserve to die?
Spill.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:56 PM
Response to Reply #267
270. I'm sorry, but if it broke, you are going to have to deal with nine months...
of pregnancy because you chose to have sex.

That's the risk you accept. Evolution did it, not me.

If you are so paranoid or incapable of using a condom, then there are techniques of sterilization to practically eliminate the risk of pregnancy (in all but the most bizarre circumstances), when having sex.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:58 PM
Response to Reply #270
274. So you just sentenced me to death because of a faulty product and your hangups about sex.
What a humanitarian.

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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:01 PM
Response to Reply #274
281. I don't care about how much sex you have...
all I care about is whether you kill a human fetus. That's it, have as much sex as you want :-).
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:03 PM
Original message
Of course you don't, I'm the one who dies, remember?
Killing a human adult is fine with you apparently.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:06 PM
Response to Original message
295. Killing a human fetus is fine with you, apparently.
How would you have liked to have your mother abort you?

I've thought about that, and I quite like living.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:08 PM
Response to Reply #295
298. ROFL
How would you have liked to have your mother abort you?

Uh. I wouldn't have even known.

Plus, I rather like the fact my mother *chose* to have me rather than be *forced* to have me.

Welcome to my ignore list, I've thought about that too.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:11 PM
Response to Reply #298
304. Oh, save this thread, honey. It doesn't get any better than this.
Look what it always ends up being about, no matter how "noble" their intentions are at the start.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #304
309. seriously, this is pure GOLD
"but I'm pro-choice!11111"

Sure you are, sure you :rofl:

Stupid women having control of their bodies....
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:09 PM
Response to Reply #295
301. Killing me is fine with you because I fucked a guy for fun, apparently.
It always comes back to men and their belief that women are nothing but property.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #301
308. Do you feel sorry for women who choose to have a child and die during childbirth?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:17 PM
Response to Reply #308
315. We're talking about my death, don't change the subject. You killed me.
Do you feel sorry?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:18 PM
Response to Reply #315
318. I'd morn for any DUer.
I always do.

:cry:

^^Me mourning for your death.^^
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:23 PM
Response to Reply #318
322. No, actually, you've been arrested. My husband and motherless children just filed charges.
THey want to know why you were allowed to kill me.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:09 PM
Response to Reply #195
219. what does that have to do with the right to control her body
We do things all the time that entail risks (like, say, driving), but that doesn't forfeit our right to control our bodies should those risks come to pass.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:21 PM
Response to Reply #219
238. Good point about the driving, I have to think about that.
If we choose to drive, we may kill another person.

Most people can drive without killing another person.

This is similar to sex, people can have sex without procreating, but they also take the risk of killing someone.

Of course, the thing with sex is that the risk accepted is that of procreation, not the accidental death of another person. In most cases a woman will be able to choose whether or not to carry the baby, which is unlike a car accident, where the direct result of the risked action occurring is the death of the other person. The driver would probably choose not to kill the other person if they could, but they don't get that choice.

The mother who's accidentally impregnated, does get the choice as to whether to have an abortion.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:29 PM
Response to Reply #238
244. when you drive, you risk injury at the hands of others
but if you should have your leg broken in an accident, you retain the right to decide how to address that consequence. When a woman has sex, she risks pregnancy (a disability, by law), but her awareness of that risk does not forfeit her right to control how to address that consequence.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:03 PM
Response to Reply #244
288. If you drive, and someone hits your car, receiving medical treatment...
will only increase you chance of surviving (hopefully, these hospitals are going down hill these days.)

In no way will that take the life of another person.

And when two people are driving in separate cars, and they collide and they are killed, when they drive they accept the risk that that might happen. They should receive all medical attention possible, because again it only increases their likelihood of living, and it will not kill another person.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:04 PM
Response to Reply #288
290. Forget the car. I'm not driving, I was raped. Am I sentenced to death?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:11 PM
Response to Reply #290
303. No, because as I said before this is a matter of consent and consequence (or results.)
Murder is usually defined as the intent to kill. Criminal negligence is usually defined as killing someone without the intent to do so, while doing something which resulted in the death of another person. And an accidental death is usually defined as killing someone without intending to and without doing anything which you could know would result in the death of another person.

If you are raped, you do not intend to kill the fetus, at the same time you did not consent to taking the risk of having a child. The consequence is a very grave one, and I would encourage someone not to have an abortion, but there is no reason you shouldn't, or that doing so would be unethical.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:13 PM
Response to Reply #303
307. I was raped and you think I lied about it. I bleed to death.
Because of your belief that you should control my body and my life.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:15 PM
Response to Reply #307
312. No, I have thought about this for a very long time...
I can find no way whatsoever to read your mind and know beyond a reasonable doubt, what you thought. That's why I'm pro-choice.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:18 PM
Response to Reply #312
317. So, you're saying that it is ALWAYS up to me whether or not I choose to terminate my pregnancy?
Always.

Think about it before you answer.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:24 PM
Response to Reply #317
324. I can't tell when you consented or when you didn't...
So in reality yes, you would have the right to choose. If you chose to have sex of your free will and had an abortion when you became pregnant, you'd be an awful, horrible person. I can still make you feel bad about doing something wrong.

The government can't outlaw abortion, but society can make you feel bad for having one. (Again only in cases where you chose to have sex, and there were no medical reasons for you to abort the child.)

There government is about what you can and cannot do, society is what you should or should not do.

At no time did I argue to outlaw abortion, you just assumed I thought that. Just as you assumed I was a fundie, or that I was really out to control your body instead of saving the life of a child.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:27 PM
Response to Reply #324
328. Oh, I can have an abortion but I should "feel bad". Wow, I've come a long way baby.
I just committed suicide because I realized I'm a promiscuous slut with the morals of an alley cat.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:31 PM
Response to Reply #328
332. no need to suicide yourself, just
take the ann landers solution and give yourself 40 lashes with a wet noodle.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:33 PM
Response to Reply #332
335. This is wonderful. I have never gotten one to go this far on DU before.
A historical moment.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:39 PM
Response to Reply #335
344. "One" what?
I think you need to stop being so rude. It's not nice to talk like that other DUers.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:41 PM
Response to Reply #344
346. Oh and telling me I should die because I fucked for fun is nice?
Wow, you are something.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:38 PM
Response to Reply #328
343. Well, that's all your choice. You can choose to feel bad or not.
Society can only tell so much, you still have the right to do whatever with your life.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:43 PM
Original message
Yes, the scarlet letter S for slut was just tattooed on my forehead.
But if I feel bad it's my fault.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:45 PM
Response to Original message
351. You are just insulting me.
It's sad that we can't have a rational debate without people being insulted every five seconds.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:49 PM
Response to Reply #351
354. No, I'm not. I'm using the reason you gave me for okaying my right to choose.
I should feel bad because I terminated a pregnancy.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:20 AM
Response to Reply #354
373. You repeatedly insulted me, you implied I was a fundie...
or a freeper. You should be ashamed you can't hold a conversation with another DUer on a controversial topic without insulting them. What's wrong with you anyway? You have an attitude problem that you need to get over. Not everyone who disagrees with you is evil.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:25 AM
Response to Reply #373
376. Okay, first we're talking about MY life here, and second I did no such thing.
Anyone who thinks they can force me to carry a fetus to term isn't evil, but they sure are my enemy.

You told me I should die for being careless in bed.

I think I've showed superhuman restraint.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:34 AM
Response to Reply #376
382. You know, if you don't believe me, then you can look for yourself:
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 12:36 AM by originalpckelly
"I developed toxemia. They attempted a Cesarean. I bled to death. Updated at 8:20 AM

Because of your religious beliefs."
http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=364&topic_id=3008486&mesg_id=3010458

Or maybe I'm wrong on that one?

What were you implying there? Hmmm? You assume a person has to be a brainwashed idiot to disagree with you. Do you know how incredibly insulting that is? Especially, when I've been an incredibly frequent poster on DU, not for the longest of times, but certainly long enough that I shouldn't be called a freeper when someone disagrees with me. How dare you insult me in such a way?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:48 AM
Response to Reply #385
386. I would never vote to take away your right to choose.
Keep it up, I don't think I've been insulted enough already. Please keep going.

So now you're saying that I'd vote for someone who'd take away your right to choose? I don't know of many Democrats who would do that, even ones who are like me and anti-abortion, are still pro-choice. So basically, you're calling me a freeper, because you're implying that I'd vote for a Republican or member of the Constitution party.

Thanks, it's a wonderful feeling to be insulted so many times in a row. Do I get to join some kind of club?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:56 AM
Response to Reply #386
387. You said you would force me to carry a fetus to term if I had unprotected sex,
and you're insulted because I think you'd vote that way?

You're in a club, alright.

I'm going to save every one of your posts.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:57 AM
Response to Reply #387
388. I'd hope you'd care enough about the child you created to do it...
but like I said before, there's no way to read your mind, and that makes it impossible to regulate with government authority.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:00 AM
Response to Reply #388
390. Here's one of your best:
She chose to risk her life.

Unfortunately, if you do not use contraception the right way, or if it fails, and then you are impregnated, and then you die in childbirth, the woman made that choice.

It sucks that that is reality, but it is. The result of sex, where contraception fails, and a woman is capable of being impregnated, is pregnancy in most cases. That's just science.

There are ways to get around that, but one must deal with the effects of not being fertile. And in some extremely odd cases, it's possible those may fail as well

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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:18 AM
Response to Reply #390
391. Yes, if a woman doesn't have an unethical abortion...
she's got that risk.

Now, I can't force that on her, because it's impossible to figure out if she consented to having sex, in a judicial process which would work beyond a reasonable doubt.

What am I saying here which is so absurd?

If a human fetus is left in its mother, and is not aborted, in most cases it will later be born, and then in most cases grow to be an adult.

I guess the question comes down to yourself. Are you in any way, shape or form glad you're alive right now? Aren't you even the slightest bit happy your mom chose not to abort you?

I know I can't prove it, but I bet most people on living Earth are glad, because they can always choose to not be here.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:26 AM
Response to Reply #391
392. An "unethical" abortion? ARE YOU KIDDING???
Now, I can't force that on her, because it's impossible to figure out if she consented to having sex, in a judicial process which would work beyond a reasonable doubt.

What am I saying here which is so absurd?


Absurd?

Your posts are some of the most judgmental, arrogant and illiberal ones I have ever seen on DU.

Yeah, you're due for an award.


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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:36 AM
Response to Reply #392
396. Please answer yes or no:
1. If a fetus is not aborted, in most cases it will develop until birth, and then continue to develop until it is an adult human being.

2. Are you happy you were not aborted as a fetus, and that you are here today? (Aside from this discussion, which you seem to be angry over.)

3. Do you think it is logical to state that most other human beings want to live?

4. Do you think it is logical to state that fetuses, if they could choose, would want to live, like most people on Earth?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:45 AM
Response to Reply #396
402. I mourn the millions of sperm that are murdered by careless men every day.
How do you live with yourself?

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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:47 AM
Response to Reply #402
404. What can you not answer the questions?
:shrug:

I think you know you're wrong.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:52 AM
Response to Reply #404
406. You first:
1. If a sperm is left to its own devices, in most cases it will fertilize an egg, develop until birth, and then continue to develop until it is an adult human being.

2. Are you happy you did not die in a prophylactic, and that you are here today? (Aside from this discussion, which you seem to be angry over.)

3. Do you think it is logical to state that most other sperm want to live?

4. Do you think it is logical to state that sperm, if they could choose, would want to live, like most people on Earth?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:03 AM
Response to Reply #406
409. 1. No*
2. Yes

3. No**

4. Yes

* Sperm if left to their own devices will not produce a human being, I suggest you pull out a biology book.

** Sperm do not have brains, and they cannot think.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:13 AM
Response to Reply #409
412. Okay, let's break this down:

1. If a sperm is left to its own devices, in most cases it will fertilize an egg, develop until birth, and then continue to develop until it is an adult human being.

You answered "No* Sperm do not have brains, and they cannot think."

**You didn't understand the question, you'll have to try that one again



2. Are you happy you did not die in a prophylactic, and that you are here today? (Aside from this discussion, which you seem to be angry over.)

You answered Yes



3. Do you think it is logical to state that most other sperm want to live?

You answered Yes



4. Do you think it is logical to state that sperm, if they could choose, would want to live, like most people on Earth?

You answered Yes






Based on your answers here, I would like to know how you justify masturbating and/or having sex using contraception.

If it is unethical for a woman to deprive a blastocyst of life, how is it any less ethical for a man to do the same to a sperm?



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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:26 AM
Response to Reply #412
421. Hey, that's a nice little trick you pulled, aren't you actually interested in quoting my answers?
1. No *

* Sperm if left to their own devices will not produce a human being, I suggest you pull out a biology book.

2. Yes

3. No**

** Sperm do not have brains, and they cannot think.

4. Yes

It was originally formatted:
"1. No*

2. Yes

3. No**

4. Yes

* Sperm if left to their own devices will not produce a human being, I suggest you pull out a biology book.

** Sperm do not have brains, and they cannot think."

Do you acknowledge that those were my answers, not the ones you posted?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:34 AM
Response to Reply #421
425. Are you legally blind?
THe order of your answers is:

1. No

2. Yes

3. No

4. Yes


The order of answers I credited you with:

1. No

2. Yes

3. No

4. Yes


How the hell are they any different?



And you STILL didn't understand my first question:

1. If a sperm is left to its own devices, in most cases it will fertilize an egg, develop until birth, and then continue to develop until it is an adult human being.

If a sperm is not trapped in a prophylactic, it doesn't NEED brains to find it's way.

(much like the human it came out of) Yes, that was snarky, but after you made me retype everything for nothing, I deserved that one.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:10 AM
Response to Reply #425
446. If a sperm is not combined with an egg, either through a sexual act or otherwise...
it will not jump out of someone and into a woman. Someone has to get it there.

In most cases a sperm WILL NOT, even where there is a successful procreation, millions of sperm die in the process.

If a sperm is left to it's own devices, it will not just out of the blue fertilize an egg.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:41 AM
Response to Reply #446
485. If sperm is not stuck in a condom/hand/towel/whatever, it can fertilize an egg.
Answer the question.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:10 AM
Response to Reply #485
517. Not unless it is in close enough proximity to an egg to fertilize it.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:31 PM
Response to Reply #425
670. nasty snark and you made a booboo! boohoo
you said no yes yes yes. opck said no yes no yes. Different, and if you read them fast it is rather, oh, never mind.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:09 AM
Response to Reply #421
445. Yoo hoo!
Hello?

Where did you go?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:29 AM
Response to Reply #409
422. If a sperm is left to its own devices, in most cases it will fertilize an egg, develop until birth,
sperm can fertilize an egg and develop into a thinking human, hence they are pre-human.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:35 AM
Response to Reply #422
426. Why thank you, I just had to retype the whole thing again.
I should have waited. :)
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:39 AM
Response to Reply #426
429. hi, this is an amazing topic.
simply amazing. DU has really had some doozies recently. Had to chirp in a little bit here too as it is just too annoying to read. Hiya!
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:50 AM
Response to Reply #429
437. Yes, and it's such a simple concept. Why can't he get it?
He spent all evening setting up the goalposts and then moving them.

Now all I did was ask the same four questions of him that he asked of me and he's stupefied.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:52 AM
Response to Reply #437
438. maybe
he doesn't think we sluts deserve true answers, only to state things like "read up, a sperm can't become a person on its own" and "aren't you glad your ma didn't abort you, even though she was a slut". Think he doesn't want to answer.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:58 AM
Response to Reply #438
441. Ooo, watch the potty mouth. It upsets him.
Don't want to appear angry, do we?

Just because someone tells us we should die for fucking?

We can't let our emotions get the best of us.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:42 AM
Response to Reply #406
432. One Of The Most Absurd And Ridiculously Twisted Illogical Return Arguments I've Ever Seen.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 02:43 AM by OPERATIONMINDCRIME
My god, I'm in awe of it.

"Sperm, left to its own devices, in most cases will fertilize an egg"? Oh my friggin god I never thought I'd see such a shockingly inaccurate and ridiculous statement like that in this thread. I mean holy cow.

Personally, I've always felt that those that try and use the sperm argument as being equal to the fetus or embryo itself, are as misguided and illogical as they come, or simply don't have what it takes to actually argue the true merits of abortion and pregnancy. The sperm argument is a completely weak one with no legitimate logic to support it.

To give you an example of the ludicrousness, if you mixed together all of the ingredients for a cake, preheated the oven and proceeded to put the mixed full batter in the oven, most people I know would in fact say "my CAKE is in the oven". However, if you hadn't mixed together anything, didn't even take out a bowl, oven isn't even on, and you open the fridge door and see an egg still in the crate, would you ever declare while pointing at the egg "My cake is in the fridge"? Wouldn't it be the most insane thing to hear someone declare such? I hope this illustrates a bit more why I find your post above to be completely twisted and misguided in its logic.
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:28 AM
Response to Reply #432
545. Actually, the way this thread is going
instead of saying:

"However, if you hadn't mixed together anything, didn't even take out a bowl, oven isn't even on, and you open the fridge door and see an egg still in the crate, would you ever declare while pointing at the egg "My cake is in the fridge"?

I think that should be restated as:

"However, if you hadn't mixed together anything, didn't even take out a bowl, oven isn't even on, and you open the fridge door and see a chicken still in the crate, would you ever declare while pointing at the chicken "My cake is in the fridge"?

(since apparently some people don't see a clear distinction between an egg and a chicken.)
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:39 AM
Response to Reply #545
557. so this might actually be a picture of a cake, not a chicken embryo?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:46 AM
Response to Reply #557
565. Oh come on already. Quit acting like a complete fool...
you and both know that is not a fucking cake already.

If you're interested in debating, don't fuck around.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:51 AM
Response to Reply #565
571. a "fucking cake"? OMG, does that mean we can expect muffins?
If you're interested in debating, answer questions put to you with answers, not with other questions. And you forget, I am a slut. Or am I complete fool? Or both?
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:55 AM
Response to Reply #571
576. not muffins, pfffft.
Generally after the fucking cakes, we end up with buns in the oven.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:56 AM
Response to Reply #571
577. ROFL! You got a "fucking" out of him!
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noamnety Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:51 AM
Response to Reply #557
572. Yes, it's a potential cake, and thus - a cake!
Not only that, it's a chicken cake.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:57 AM
Response to Reply #572
579. Just watch the rapist so he doesn't throw it in front of the car.
You know how they are about chicken cakes.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:45 AM
Response to Reply #545
563. Fortunately, not all of them are that confused.
Although some of them are confused enough for an entire city.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:16 AM
Response to Reply #396
415. I'll answer your questions
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 02:24 AM by fishwax
though I won't limit myself to yes or no, since they don't make sense to me as yes or no questions.

1. If a fetus is not aborted, in most cases it will develop until birth, and then continue to develop until it is an adult human being.
I don't know the statistics, but that's certainly the natural progression (provided it gets adequate nutrition from its host, etc.)

2. Are you happy you were not aborted as a fetus, and that you are here today? (Aside from this discussion, which you seem to be angry over.)
Well, I'm glad I'm here. I'm not sure my mother could have aborted "me" as a fetus, because I don't think I was "me" then. But I'm happy to be alive.

3. Do you think it is logical to state that most other human beings want to live?
I think there is an instict for survival.

4. Do you think it is logical to state that fetuses, if they could choose, would want to live, like most people on Earth?
I don't think it's logical to postulate as to what, exactly, non-sentient entities would want if they were, in fact, sentient. At what point does the fetus become sentient? Three months seems to match the general consensus. At that point, it seems logical that a fetus might have the drive to survive as well.

Of course, that still doesn't make the fetus a person. It doesn't make it a baby. It doesn't mean it has rights or that it's life ought to be valued as an independent human life would.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:23 AM
Response to Reply #396
649. OK. answering your questions
1. If a fetus is not aborted, in most cases it will develop until birth, and then continue to develop until it is an adult human being.

Actually, it's said to be about one-third of fertilized eggs that will do so; but OK, once you're aware of pregnancy it is 'most'.

2. Are you happy you were not aborted as a fetus, and that you are here today? (Aside from this discussion, which you seem to be angry over.)

As I said in my other post, this argument could be used equally against birth-control or abstinence.

3. Do you think it is logical to state that most other human beings want to live?

I don't know if 'logical' is the word; but it's doubtless true.


4. Do you think it is logical to state that fetuses, if they could choose, would want to live, like most people on Earth?


But the *whole point* is that fetuses are NOT capable of making any choices or having wishes. 'If they could choose' here does not mean 'if they were permitted to, or had the legal or physical power to choose'. It means 'if they were beings that had the capacity to form thoughts, or experience emotions, desires, or even basic physical sensations'. There could be arguments about fetuses having the capacity for some form of awareness (even then, not decision-making) in LATE pregnancy; and many countries *do* limit abortion on demand after the second trimester (by which time, abortions are very rare anyway).

Therefore saying 'if fetuses could choose, they would want to live' is a bit like the ironic saying in my family, 'if my grandmother had wheels, she'd be a train'. Grandmothers don't have wheels, and in a related saying, aunts don't have balls, and fetuses don't have desires.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:13 AM
Response to Reply #391
645. 'Aren't you even the slightest bit happy your mom chose not to abort you? '
But logically doesn't this argument apply to ANY action that could prevent birth? Aren't you the slightest bit happy that your mum chose not to use birth-control or even just practice abstinence 9 months before you were born? By this logic, women should HAVE to have unprotected sex as often as possible during the fertile years. I realize you don't think so, but that's what the argument would lead to.
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XanaDUer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 09:39 AM
Response to Reply #324
641. You may not be a freeper...
but those are some freeper-ish ideas there. In case I am misreading your posts, a woman who has an abortion, after having consensual sexual intercourse, should feel that she has done an awful and horrible thing?

Why?

The freeperish part is the idea that the burden of any sexual activity that the woman may engage in for fun, or maybe just because she is horny, should fall upon a woman in the most horrible way possible; to carry a fetus to term, with all of the physical and mental problems inherent in pregnancy.

And, since no man can (yet) become pregnant, the undue burden(s) of pregnancy will never fall upon him-which sounds a bit like women must suffer the pangs of childbirth because of Eve or something.

Either a person controls their body, all its aspects, or they do not. One problem I have with the so-called pro-life crowd is that seem to think that carrying a child to term, and all the financial expenses associated with hospital stays, prenatal visits, etc., is like having a perm. If the woman is unmarried, she may lose her job because she is pregnant and single. There, where does that leave her or the fetus?

It is a very harsh, punitive view of women's sexuality, and that is why I say it is freeperish.

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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:26 AM
Response to Reply #303
420. so an embryo concieved by accident rather than on purpose negatively is different?
I am having a hard time with this difference. If you have sex voluntarily, you took the risk of getting pregnant. If you were raped, had sex forced upon you, you can have an abortion. How does the embryo differ if conceived under these 2 circumstances? Why should the treatment be different? You are not being consistent here.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:30 PM
Response to Reply #238
245. Only if she's "accidentally" impregnated? And how the fuck would you know?
Who chooses?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:05 PM
Response to Reply #245
291. Bingo.
That's why I'm pro-choice. It's absolutely impossible to figure that out, and you can't make someone wait around for a rape trial to finish.

I just want you to know what you are doing. I believe in logic and science, and that's all I have used in this debate.

If I have mis-stated a fact, please do correct me, because I'm solely interested in the truth.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:08 PM
Response to Reply #291
299. No, you've painted yourself into the same corner all dominionists always do.
It starts out with a pass on rape and incest and ends up being about the sin of fornication.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:12 PM
Response to Reply #299
305. No, I don't give a damn about how much sex someone has. Really.
Don't call something or someone that I'm not. You wouldn't probably wouldn't like it, yourself.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:16 PM
Response to Reply #305
313. I'm not the Virgin Mary. You just sentenced me to death because I had sex.
I know what I am, you're the one who needs to look in the mirror.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:18 PM
Response to Reply #313
316. Really, I'm not OK with taking a human life because of convenience.
Maybe you need to take a look in the mirror.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:20 PM
Response to Reply #316
320. Convenience? I just bled to death and you talk about convenience?
How are you going to tell my father?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:25 PM
Response to Reply #320
325. You made the choice I didn't.
Like I said, there is no process to actually find out if you had an unnecessary abortion.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:29 PM
Response to Reply #325
329. so how does society determine which abortions to make one feel bad about?
that is society's job, you've said ;)
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:32 PM
Response to Reply #329
334. Society can show to women through logic and science, that a totally unnecessary abortion...
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 11:33 PM by originalpckelly
is unethical. Society doesn't have to decide actually.

Women who know they've had a totally unnecessary abortion know they've had one. If they know why it's wrong, they'll feel bad about it. If they know they were raped or molested, or that their lives were on the line, they won't feel bad, aside from the trauma of having to go through an abortion.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:37 PM
Response to Reply #334
342. how is society to do that through logic? You haven't.
Your argument still relies on the logical leap that a woman who consents to sex consents to carrying a pregnancy to term, and that a fetus is a human being on par with you or I, endowed at conception with inalienable rights (except in the case of rape, in which case the rapist has voided the fetus's otherwise inalienable right to life).
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:41 PM
Response to Reply #342
347. A woman has unprotected sex because she wants a baby, isn't she choosing to have a child?
:shrug:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:46 PM
Response to Reply #347
352. where did you limit it to unprotected sex? Or to those who want a baby?
If all you're really saying is that those who have unprotected sex because they want to have a baby, but then later decide to abort the baby that they intentionally conceived, are morally in the wrong, why don't you just say that?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:58 PM
Response to Reply #352
360. I don't think you understood my response.
If someone is not merely risking conception by using a condom or other birth control, but is intentionally forgoing contraception, aren't they choosing to have a child?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:02 AM
Response to Reply #360
361. No
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:03 AM
Response to Reply #361
363. Can anyone choose to have a child?
:shrug:
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:03 AM
Response to Reply #363
364. They do it every day.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:08 AM
Response to Reply #360
368. I understood your response, I just thought it was inaccurate and probably irrelevant
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 12:10 AM by fishwax
If someone is not merely risking conception by using a condom or other birth control, but is intentionally forgoing contraception, aren't they choosing to have a child?

I thought it was inaccurate because, no, someone who intentionally foregoes contraception is not choosing to have a child. They are choosing to engage in unprotected sex. A pregnancy may or may not result. If the same couple got in the car to drive three blocks to the gas station and deliberately decided to forego putting on their safety belt, they wouldn't be *choosing* to go flying through the windshield, even if they were in an accident on the way to the store and did, in fact, go flying through the windshield.

I thought it was pretty much irrelevant because it doesn't really address the issues that I raised in the post you were responding to, and instead tries to shift the focus of your claim--heretofore that any woman who engages in consensual sex is choosing to carry a child to term--to assert a much more limited claim.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:52 PM
Response to Reply #347
357. You tell me.
You seem to be the expert on motive here.
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:55 PM
Response to Reply #334
358. Wrong!!!!
Had a neighbor, many years ago who was against abortion. She and her husband, both. She was pregnant, but for some medical reason, the fetus died. Not her fault, she was taking good care of herself. Notice, the baby died, but she didn't miscarry. Don't ask me how, it happened. She spent 3 (count them, THREE) months agonizing over having a simple D&C (which happened to be a medical necessity in this case). The reason for all the agonizing?? She felt that abortion was wrong!! She damned near died over this.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:02 AM
Response to Reply #358
362. Well, I'm obviously not a typical person who's against abortion.
I would never make anyone do that. It's purely ridiculous, and it shows a lack of understanding of the science. If the baby was dead, there's no chance it was going to grow into a full adult.

I'm not surprised to hear that, because unfortunately most people who are against abortion at this point in time are irrational religious fundamentalists.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:05 AM
Response to Reply #362
365. So only the religious people who think they have the right to force me to have a kid are irrational?
What about the other kind?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:30 AM
Response to Reply #334
424. what defines a "totally unnecessary abortion"?
seriously, in your opinion? not "women who had one know" but your opinion.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:32 AM
Response to Reply #424
473. I hope you realize that doesn't make any sense whatsoever:
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 03:32 AM by originalpckelly
"seriously, in your opinion? not 'women who had one know' but your opinion."

Could you please say that again, in English?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:38 AM
Response to Reply #473
480. I'll write slowly this time.
what defines a "totally unnecessary abortion"? Seriously, in your opinion, what defines a "totally unnecessary abortion"? To quote a previous thing you wrote "Women who know they've had a totally unnecessary abortion know they've had one." Please do not answer "women who know they've had a totally unnecessary abortion know they've had one" (again quoting you), but in YOUR opinion. What defines a "totally unnecessary abortion" (your words).

Clear enough to actually answer without simply asking another question? (Don't answer if it is clear enough or not since that was a rhetorical question)
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:29 PM
Response to Reply #325
331. No.YOU made the choice, you forced me to carry the fetus against my will.
Pay attention.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:34 PM
Response to Reply #331
337. I did no such thing, come back to reality.
It's not perfect here, but us reality based folks want more company.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:40 PM
Response to Reply #337
345. Some of us reality based women want to be able to make our own life and death choices.
There is no fine line here. You cannot put conditions on my right to choose. Any one of them is a possible death sentence based on YOUR assessment of my moral character.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:43 PM
Response to Reply #345
349. You know, as I have explained before...
only in theory should the government have the right to interfere with your pregnancy/abortion.

In reality, there is absolutely no way for someone to choose that for you. You must make your own decision.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:51 PM
Response to Reply #349
356. How many people are using your computer?
You just got done telling me I should die because I was careless in bed and now you're Mr. Liberal?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:12 AM
Response to Reply #356
370. You don't seem willing to think, so I can't see how this is useful..
you just want to be mean to me and call me names instead of thinking. You will note that at NO TIME did I call you a single name. No once, no matter how mean you've been to me. No matter how rude.

Maybe you could learn from that, eh?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:26 AM
Response to Reply #370
377. Dude, you told me I should die for having unprotected sex.
I PREFER BEING CALLED NAMES!
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 05:46 AM
Response to Reply #356
627. odd, isn't it?
look onward, getting tired and whiney.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:28 AM
Response to Reply #337
380. !
:spray:

Holy cow to I hear ya on that one!
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:25 PM
Response to Reply #316
326. I don't believe it's a human life
you still haven't convinced anyone of that, either.

But if it is a human life, as your argument ultimately seems to assume, why is it okay to take a human life for the sake of convenience in the case of rape--it is still an innocent human life being voided, right?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:29 PM
Response to Reply #326
330. It's not convenience, is it?
There are risks involved in being pregnant, as so many posters have shown. At no time did that woman actually choose to risk her life, that choice was forced on her by the rapist.

I don't think a woman ought to be forced to give up her life or to even put it on the line, without her consent. In fact, the abortion alone is risky, so she's already had her life put on the line.

The fetus is not a victim of the mother, it's a victim of the rapist.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:31 PM
Response to Reply #330
333. So you decide which women get to die based on which ones you believe?
I was raped. You accused me of lying. I died.

Whose fault is it?
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:36 PM
Response to Reply #333
340. No, I had absolutely nothing to do with your death.
Society is soft power, not hard power like the government. I can't make you do anything whatsoever in the area of society.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:47 PM
Response to Reply #340
353. If you take away my right to choose, you're sentencing me to death.
In case you're still not getting it, you have no right to tell me if, when, and how I can terminate a pregnancy.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:33 PM
Response to Reply #330
336. I'll give you a 9.9 on your logical gymnastics
now we see that when a woman has consensual sex, she consents to risking her life, with no moral way of escape. Who knew?
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:24 PM
Response to Reply #291
323. dude, cut the act
I because I'm solely interested in the truth.

Mmmhmm. Like telling women what to do with their bodies.

:rofl:
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:34 PM
Response to Reply #238
248. here's a clue: It's not your body so shut the hell up
You do NOT get to decide what I do with my body--so kindly STFU on this subject.

For someone who claims to be pro-choice, you seem to be anything but.

Don't like abortion? Then don't have one.

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mainegreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:02 PM
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168. Pro-Choice, Anti-Death Penalty, Pro-Assisted Suicide.
It's about freedom. Freedom over your body. I consider these three to be fundamental to my belief in allowing people personal liberty.
They go together with no contradictions at all.
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lala_rawraw Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:14 PM
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174. that appears to confuse to very different things...
pro-choice is not pro-abortion, for starters. it simply argues from the position that a women's body is her own. secondly, in one case you are talking about a zygote while on the other, you are talking about a fully alive, fully aware, fully HERE human being. that is the most simple argument i could make without smashing my keyboard. it is one thing to ask a reasonable question, it is a whole other thing to make assumptions when you don't know the basics of each position.
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mondo joe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:15 PM
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176. Very simple: I believe everyone should have autonomy over their OWN body - hence
women have the authority to have something removed from their body.

That has nothing to do with the death penalty.
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Gregory_Wonderwheel Donating Member (25 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:24 PM
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178. Not only are apples not oranges, they are not chickens either.
Comparing pro-choice and anti-death penalty positions is like comparing apples and oranges. Or should I say apples and chickens?

Any two issues can find points of metaphorical comparison and difference. For example, apples and chickens are both able to reproduce. But merely finding points of similarity doesn't equate to making the issues turn on the same points of consideration.

A person convicted of murder in prison is different than a potential person in the womb of a mother. The reasons to prevent society from killing adult convicts are different than the reasons to prevent pregnant women from terminating their pregnancies. The distance between those differences is not traversed by the simple similarities of comparison.

For the murderer to be killed while held in prison has only the value of revenge. Revenge killing is demeaning and dehumanizing on the society that engages in it.

Allowing a mother to choose to terminate a pregnancy at the early stages is arguably demeaning and dehumanizing to the individual mother who makes that choice (though I don't agree that it is), but allowing the choice is not demeaning and dehumanizing to society, which is what laws should be about.

The factors to consider when terminating a pregnancy are not "all or nothing". The weight of the factors changes as the embryo grows and becomes more viable and termination becomes more invasive and dangerous. Thus, giving the choice to a woman and her doctor allowing them to weigh the circumstances and the medical issues involved within the general legal context of viability analysis is the only rational and humane approach to the question terminating pregnancy.

To equate the idea that convicted murderers are better dealt with by life imprisonment with the idea that no mother should ever be able to terminate a pregnancy is fundamentally irrational because the important points of equivalency just do not match.





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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:31 PM
Response to Reply #178
181. welcome to DU
:toast:
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MockSwede Donating Member (579 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:22 PM
Response to Reply #178
658. Welcome
Superwheel? - Keep the posts coming!
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Selatius Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:30 PM
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179. The way you worded your entire post seems to turn off a lot of people.
The point with being pro-choice is that a person believes a woman has a right to decide for herself what is and isn't necessary. To equate the death penalty to abortion is, in one sense but not in all senses, to do what the Catholic Church does as well as religious fundamentalists do when they assert a lumping of cells within a uterus should be treated equally with a fully-grown human being, which by scientific definition is closer to that of a "parasite" and not that of an independent being. If we are to go down that path, then naturally a woman does not have a right to choose because the rights of the fetus weigh as much as that of the woman.

With respect to the death penalty, we fundamentally disagree, and we will likely never come to an agreement on the issue. I will say, in parting, that with respect to people like Saddam Hussein and others, I would rather they be given a chance to change their minds about what they have done than give them no chance by hanging them, gassing them, or putting a bullet in their head like they do in North Korea or China. It is not just that. I would also say the point in letting them live is a fundamental fulfillment of the teachings of forgiveness that Jesus and others such as Gandhi have tried to teach us all.
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:39 PM
Response to Original message
184. I dunno. How can you be an idiot but function in society?
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 09:40 PM by BlooInBloo
EDIT: Missing word in subject.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:55 PM
Response to Reply #184
194. That's what I was wondering.
It's a good thing for some people that breathing is involuntary.
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:00 PM
Response to Reply #194
667. Typical snide remarks
from you and bloo. What else is new? :shrug:
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:54 PM
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193. Simple. It's not about the punishment of the guily. It's about
not punishing the innocent. Our justice system has put away a lot of innocent people. Kinda hard to let them back out after they have been exonerated if you have put them to death.

Until we have a foolproof justice system that never locks up the innocent, the death penalty should be off the table.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:55 PM
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196. I have a problem with people killing people for revenge or vengeance, which is all
the death penalty is.

Choice is just that. You "think that abortion is killing a living being" and that's debatable, as well as the motives behind it. You can't compare the two. What's just plain silly, is that you make this post, yet you're alright with the death penalty but anti-abortion.

Set the boundaries for when/how/why we can kill them, then line them up, seems like.
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Beelzebud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 09:58 PM
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200. Pro Choice is not pro abortian, it's for the safety of the mother should she NEED an abortion.
I'm pissed about what I've been seeing on DU the past couple of days.

I think there are a lot of people here that don't even understand what it is to be a liberal.

If a woman needs an abortion to save her life, she shouldn't be given that CHOICE?

How do you even equate this to the death penalty?
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Connonym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:09 PM
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218. You ask a valid question
I've given some thought to this because I am pro-choice and against the death penalty and I've wondered at the dichotomy too. I'm opposed to the death penalty because I believe that state-sanctioned killing like hitting your kid to teach him not to hit people. I don't think it works as a deterrent. There is room for error and innocent people are executed and later exonerated. In the united states it seems a dysproportional number of executions are minorities and that troubles me. What crimes deserve the death penalty? I also think that prison should be about rehabilitating and not about punishment. Part of it too, certainly, is that I was raised catholic and was taught from a young age that capital punishment was wrong. I'm not catholic any more but some stuff sticks.

Also as a catholic I was raised to think abortion is wrong but my feelings on that have changed. I don't know when life begins and this may seem harsh but if a fetus can't live outside the mother's womb it is (in my way of thinking) a piece of that woman's body, much the way a liver or a kidney is part of her body. I don't believe that it's right to force a woman to go through a pregnancy she does not want. Birth control fails, sometimes pregnancy threatens the life of the mother (ectopic pregnancies for example) or a pregnancy is the result of sexual assault. When you start making exceptions based on these factors it's one of those slippery slopes again. How to we decide which circumstances justify elective abortion, who gets to choose and who doesn't get a choice? Plain and simple I believe that it's a personal decision that can only be made by the pregnant woman herself. She is an actual human being and not a potential human being so her rights supercede the rights of the fetus.

The world isn't black and white, these are complicated matters and it's hard to decide which shades of grey are allowed and who gets to choose them. I think the default position should be the one that best preserves the human rights of those involved.

That's my 2 cents.





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Quixote1818 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:11 PM
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226. The death penalty is the State killing people
while Abortion is a mother making the decision to not allow her zygote to mature.

I just don't think the State should be in the business of killing ANYONE!
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:11 PM
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227. In the case of abortion, there are two conflicting sets of rights
The rights of the woman and the rights of the fetus. The woman is already a conscious, thinking person with full rights under the law. The fetus is life, coming closer to being a person as it develops. It does not have full legal rights nor is it a conscious, thinking person. When the rights of these two entities conflict, the woman's rights must be given priority. She has a right to an abortion.
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rpgamerd00d Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:40 PM
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250. I am Pro Choice and pro Death Penalty.
I think that there are cases where the DP is clearly warranted. Saddam being a prime example, and yes, Charles Manson another prime example.

What I find amusing about most of the DUers you have "called out" in this thread, is their lack of conviction. This is EXACTLY what the Republicans bash us over the head with every goddamn election. "What do the Democrats stand for? We know what they stand against!" and "They are quick to critize, but have no Plan themselves!"

In order to have a Plan, in order to have a Conviction, you have to Believe you are correct. I can post links to dozens of DUers who say things like "I'll let 20 child rapists live in jail, if it saves one innocent person from erroneous death." Say WHAT?! Sorry, I'd kill the 20 child rapists and if I killed an innocent person, I'd feel horrible about it. But I wouldn't change my policy of killing child rapists, I'd find out why the mistake was made, and correct it so that misake was never made again. Eventually, the process would improve to the point where no innocent people are being killed, just the child rapists.

Also, a lot of DUers have said "killing someone does not set an example of why you shouldn't kill someone". Um... duh! Yes it does! It goes like this: "If you kill someone, we will KILL YOU, so DON'T FUCKING KILL ANYONE." I mean, you pretty much have to be braindead to miss this correlation.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:42 PM
Response to Reply #250
252. There is absolutely no "deterrent" effect of the DP
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 10:46 PM by WindRavenX
That has been thoroughly debunked.

on edit: here's a link:

http://www.amnestyusa.org/abolish/deterrence.html
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rpgamerd00d Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:47 PM
Response to Reply #252
257. 100% bullshit.
The reason I don't kill people is that I will be punished for it, likely put to death.
That, and I'm non-violent by nature.
But to sit there and claim that harsh punishment for crimes isn't a deterrent when it is to me is just silly. Im living proof of it.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:50 PM
Response to Reply #257
261. Super-- empirical data shows the exact opposite of what you're saying
The link posted has FBI data comparing the homicide rates of DP states versus non-DP states.

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rpgamerd00d Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:51 PM
Response to Reply #261
263. Pfft, that data is so horribly flawed.
There is no correlation between the DP and crime rate, and that data does not show one. All it shows is a cross matrix of crime rate vs DP. Nothing more.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:53 PM
Response to Reply #263
266. But you're claiming that there IS a correlation between DP and crime rate
You're saying that the DP acts as a deterrent--which would show in a reduction in crime rate.

So, no, that data is not horribly flawed.
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rpgamerd00d Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:00 PM
Response to Reply #266
280. Incorrect.
Crime rate may or may not be affected by the DP in the very data you linked. Unfortunately, other factors also affected the crime rate, which are NOT displayed in the data. That makes the data flawed and useless.

for example:
- DP is instituted (driving the rate down) while that same year, racial tensions in that state soar (driving them way up) - result: rate goes up, flawing your chart which only shows DP vs Crime Rate omitting all other factors.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:03 PM
Response to Reply #280
287. Then why are you claiming the DP prevents people from committing acts of murder?
You yourself said that. :shrug:
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rpgamerd00d Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:07 PM
Response to Reply #287
297. Because it prevents me from doing it, therefore there is a non-0 number of people it deters.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:11 PM
Response to Reply #297
302. ...do you even read what you're posting?
non-0 number of people it deters.

So...it deters you...so it doesn't really count?

huh?
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:09 PM
Response to Reply #287
300. it's just that the correlation is covered up by invisible factors in all the years
of data on the subject. What are those factors? Tough to say, and it's probably different in the case of each state. But the important thing to remember is that there are invisible and undeterminable factors which make your data irrelevant.

Apparently, "conviction" also means belieiving what you believe even when the facts are biased against you :rofl:
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peacebaby3 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:06 AM
Response to Reply #263
411. Try this if you think the other is so wrong. This is the murder rate from
the FBI statistics. Along with a lot of other info about deterrence that you need to educate yourself about. In fact, you are completely ignorant on many things about the DP in this country.

<http://www.deathpenaltyinfo.org/article.php?scid=12&did=168>

It is also worth noting that the South is the region in this country that has the highest murder rate (as of 2005 and most previous years) at 6.6 per 100,000 people in the region. The South accounts for over 80% of executions in this country. Contrast that with the Northeast as a region that has a murder rate of 4.4 per 100,000 - the lowest murder rate for a region in the country - and they account less than 1% of all executions that year.

Hmmmm...the facts verses your flawed reasoning because what keeps your from murdering someone is the death penalty??? I'll go with the facts.



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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:51 PM
Response to Reply #257
262. You really shouldn't post the words "100% Bullshit" & "living proof of it" at the same time.
Just a suggestion. :shrug:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:57 PM
Response to Reply #257
273. so you'd consider killing people if the only punishment were life in prison
good to know ...
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:01 PM
Response to Reply #257
283. So, you're non-violent, but the reason you don't kill people is because you'd get the death penalty?
And you're living proof?

I think making such ridiculous comments is silly.

I've heard some decent arguments in favor of the death penalty. I'm still against it, but at least the arguments in favor of it are more concrete rather than I'm living proof.

If the main object of this thread is to convince more people that the death penalty works, you might want to try a bit more solid of a thought, or find someone else to present the arguments in a more convincing style because so far, my mind isn't anywhere near changing.
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rpgamerd00d Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:05 PM
Response to Reply #283
292. All I said was that the DP deters me bigtime.
I don't want to die, so I don't commit crimes.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:12 PM
Response to Reply #292
306. what keeps you from stealing?
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Kerrytravelers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:26 PM
Response to Reply #292
327. And you are someone who is probably educated and not violent by nature.
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 11:28 PM by Kerrytravelers
Many of the people who wind up receiving the death penalty are uneducated, from poverty and have grown up in violent circumstances. They know nothing more. It is the unequal society that has brought on these conditions and let other human beings grow and develop under these conditions.

And, also due to situations of extreme poverty, many people have little to no education and find themselves receiving a guilty verdict because they had no money to hire adequate legal representation nor the ability to defend themselves in order to get true justice.

I would suggest reading about the Innocence Project http://www.innocenceproject.org/ and it's links page http://www.innocenceproject.org/links/index.php , the Justice Project http://thejusticeproject.org/ , the Death Penalty Information Center http://deathpenaltyinfo.org/ , and Death Penalty Focus http://www.deathpenalty.org/ . Everyone involved in these organizations are not some duped, wimpy liberals who contradict themselves. The information is interesting and makes one really stop and think about exactly what the death penalty is.

To be in favor of the death penalty doesn't in itself make one brutal, but the joy over the execution of another human being does. And to compare the state-led execution to the private decision of a woman, her family and whomever she chooses to confide in as somehow the same shows a lack of true comprehension on either of the two subjects. I'm sorry to be so harsh, but I don't find your responses in this thread to be well articulated. Perhaps I am misjudging you, but to start such an obvious flame bait, one should be prepared to offer concrete facts, not just "I'm living proof" and "to me it's a silly argument."

And, in all fairness, I most likely won't see your response tonight as I have a New year's Eve party to prepare for. I hope you've taken this post for exactly what it is, not an attempt to insult, but a true reaction to this thread, not to you as a person.
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RetroLounge Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:35 PM
Response to Reply #292
339. The DP keeps you from shoplifting?
:wow:

RL
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:05 AM
Response to Reply #339
366. The death penalty as punishment for everything!
Sneezing in public - death!
Littering - death!
Indecent exposure - death!
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:21 AM
Response to Reply #292
648. I'm fascinated by that statement.
Personally, I don't kill people because I consider it to be morally reprehensible and have a system of values that say murder is wrong.

You on the other hand are only kept from being a murderer because you are afraid of the death penalty?

I don't think that's anything to go around bragging about.
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LynnTheDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:06 PM
Response to Reply #257
293. America is the only first-world nation that has the DP. So Canada,
the UK, all of Europe et al must be just raging fulla murderers, what with no "deterrent".

:eyes:
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:42 AM
Response to Reply #257
487. That is really lame
If the death penalty is your main reason for not killing people your morals are seriously out of whack.

And people claim we're immoral. :yoiks:
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:15 AM
Response to Reply #257
647. Gee....so you are saying you would be a murderer but for DP?
What an interesting commentary on yourself.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:54 PM
Response to Reply #250
269. hogwash
Edited on Sat Dec-30-06 10:54 PM by fishwax
most of those who are pro-choice and against the death penalty lack conviction? What hogwash.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:56 PM
Response to Reply #269
272. conviction seems to be code for...
..."Let's kill a bunch of people in the name of justice--to hell if innocents get in the way!"

:eyes:
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:00 PM
Response to Reply #272
279. yeah, I think that covers it
what dictionary is that from again?

:rofl:

:eyes:
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GreenEyedLefty Donating Member (708 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:58 PM
Response to Original message
275. I'll post then read the replies...
I'm pro-choice and anti-death penalty. I don't believe that life begins at conception. There is the potential for human life, but IMO an unborn fetus is not a sentient human being vested with full human rights.

I am anti-death penalty because I believe that every life has a purpose and even the very worst among us has the capacity for and should have every opportunity for redemption.

This is my very simplified view on these issues, for what it's worth.
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:01 PM
Response to Reply #275
284. welcome to DU
:toast:

and have fun reading the replies ;)
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GreenEyedLefty Donating Member (708 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:04 PM
Response to Reply #284
289. Thank you...
...and this is some good reading...
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:14 PM
Response to Reply #289
310. feel free to jump in
It is good reading, indeed.

Folks say that GD can be a dangerous place--this thread is as good a place as any to get your button :)
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Nevernose Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:20 PM
Response to Reply #275
319. And out of 275+ posts
Yours is the only first one I've read that I agree with. A fetus is not a person, only a potential person. It's just a clump of cells. There is a huge difference between "is" a person and "might" be a person.
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Erika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:27 AM
Response to Reply #319
378. So many of the GOP are against even birth control
because a cell is a potential human. Garbage.
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Strelnikov_ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:43 AM
Response to Reply #275
401. Pro-Choice For Reasons Similar To Yours
Regarding the death penalty, I am against it because of the unequal way it is applied.

The death penalty generally seems to be meted out primarily to the poor and minorities. Also, my bar is 100% certainty before the State can take a life, and there are very few cases where we have this certainty.

There are some people (Hussein, Bundy, Gacy, etc.) who have forfeited their right to life due to the heinous nature of their crimes. But if we open the gates for them, the scale will simply continue to slide, as we have seen, until people convicted with limited evidence are on death row in 'certain' States.
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 10:59 PM
Response to Original message
277. For a rather long and erudite study on the history of abortion
and the beginning of "life", you should read the entirety of the original Roe v Wade decision written by Justice Blackmun. It delves deeply into this, and goes back to English common law, the Oath of Hippocrates, Greek and Roman laws and beliefs, and the reasoning behind them.

http://www.tourolaw.edu/Patch/Roe
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Arugula Latte Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:14 PM
Response to Original message
311. Wow, if you think only GUILTY people get the death penalty, you are naive beyond words.
DNA has proven that many innocent people have been murdered in your name and mine.
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WindRavenX Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:34 PM
Response to Original message
338. that's it, no thread is ever gonna top this one
If only we could add circumcision to this fray, then truly, we have reached the pinnacle of DU :D
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:59 AM
Response to Reply #338
389. A circumcised sting-ray on top of mount hood, which smokes a pack a day?
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Lipton64 Donating Member (140 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:43 PM
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348. I've frequently asked pro-choice friends of mine the same question....
I'm a pro-life(in most cases) Dem and damn proud of it. To me, its a contradiction to be "pro-life" and yet support the death of inmates in prison. If you truly are "pro-life" then you have to be pro-life across the board.
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SidDithers Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:44 PM
Response to Original message
350. Over 300 responses, and not one recommendation...
certainly says something about the quality of the argument in the opening post.

Sid
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:50 PM
Response to Reply #350
355. gotta agree with you there n/t
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-30-06 11:58 PM
Response to Original message
359. Actually, what I wondered was...
...how rethugs could FOR the death penalty and yet 'pro-life'...i HATE the term pro-life...it makes it seems like when I say I'm pro-choice I'm actually pro-death...yay death!
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Dastard Stepchild Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:10 AM
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369. I suppose because I could theoretically make the argument...
that a fetus is not an autonomous individual, is not cognizant of its impending mortality, and does not have any specific rights to life or liberty.

I actually do not favor abortion or the death penalty, but I am pro-choice because I think it is a necessary legality that I do not want taken away from women. I don't know that I am yet convinced that the death penalty is a necessary legality that needs to be present in our criminal justice system.

It's odd - having been raised Catholic, I can see the roots of my belief regarding the death penalty (sanctity of life). However, I stray from that upbringing on the issue of abortion. It's not a complete hypocrisy though... I'm not a "life begins at conception" gal, but rather a "life begins at the time in which the fetus can biologically function on its own" type gal. So, really, I suppose I see life as something that exists outside the womb. And thus, my own personal feelings of being pro-choice and not supporting the death penalty are not really in conflict. I sanctify life, but I apparently place certain stipulations on when life begins, and this forms the basis of my seemingly contradictory beliefs - under my definitions, they do not really conflict at all.
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HuskiesHowls Donating Member (582 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:15 AM
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371. Actually, its quite easy.
Nowhere in my "Liberal's Handbook" does it say that I have to believe in "B" if I believe in "A". However, it does state that I do not have to believe the same as other people do. Further, it states that because I am a liberal, I am free to make up my own mind, and I can even change my mind at some future time without penalty.
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:19 AM
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372. Though I Think It's Far More Severe To Kill With The DP, I Also Agree That Abortion Terminates Life.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 12:22 AM by OPERATIONMINDCRIME
I think the biggest difference stems from one side being aware of their existence and the love for that existence. I think that 'awareness' to being alive and the anguish that goes along with facing the loss of that life, as well all the family and friends that have spent years knowing and loving that person who will hurt tremendously with their demise, makes the DP far more severe of the two.

Having that said, I do also agree that each pregnancy is a life and that abortion stops that life cold as well. It is also the most innocent and feeble form of life as it has not yet acquired any ability to defend itself or think for itself. That's why I feel that as Democrats we should advocate for whatever resources, education etc as possible to avoid the need or desire for abortions as much as possible. Since abortion does take a life, it's my opinion that the decision to have one should always be a heavy one and most often it is.

But I can definitely see how some could be against the DP but not abortion, as though it seems they could be compared they are really kinda two completely different things. My problem with the DP is that inherent within it is the risk of killing someone who is innocent, which has happened before. In addition to that, I've always felt the DP also hurts the innocent, as the family of the person executed goes through a lot of mental anguish knowing their son, daughter, brother, sister has been executed. Not sure if that's a valid argument, though, since really that's the fault of the murderer to begin with. But mainly for me it's the risk of killing the innocent and a little bit also of sometimes killing someone who though they murdered, was so long ago and they may have changed so much that they really don't deserve the DP anymore. But though I'm against the DP, I'm not like RABIDLY against it. There are definitely some whose crimes were so brutal or heinous that I'm really not going to blink when they're executed, since I can't say they don't deserve it to an extent.

So all in all, I hear what you're sayin. I think both abortion and the DP takes a life, one the most innocent and one the most heinous, but the latter one being aware of their existence and extermination. Some could argue that the former is worse because of the innocence and lack of even being old enough yet to be aware, but I think being aware of existence makes it far more severe. But that comparison isn't equal anyway, since the one receiving what I consider to be the more cruel end of the stick is the one who deserves the cruel end of the stick, which is some murderous thug or whatever.

So at this point I'm probably just rambling and confusing myself with my thoughts LOL. In closing I guess all I have to add is that in reference to Saddam, he was the utmost evil and brutal piece of shit and if the DP is ever to be used, it definitely should be so for scumbags like him. No problem with his execution whatsoever on my end. Good riddance to him.
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Erika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:22 AM
Response to Original message
374. 14th century rulers considered masturbating murder
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 12:23 AM by Erika
Because all those cells could have become lives.

Get real.
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:28 AM
Response to Reply #374
393. We haven't come that far, Ericka:
Yes, if a woman doesn't have an unethical abortion...

she's got that risk.

Now, I can't force that on her, because it's impossible to figure out if she consented to having sex, in a judicial process which would work beyond a reasonable doubt.

What am I saying here which is so absurd?

If a human fetus is left in its mother, and is not aborted, in most cases it will later be born, and then in most cases grow to be an adult.

I guess the question comes down to yourself. Are you in any way, shape or form glad you're alive right now? Aren't you even the slightest bit happy your mom chose not to abort you?

I know I can't prove it, but I bet most people on living Earth are glad, because they can always choose to not be here.

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Erika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:33 AM
Response to Reply #393
394. What remarks did the sperm of the 14th Cen. masturbators have?
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 01:35 AM by Erika
After all, they have their rights. Males were prosecuted for murder for ejaculating without the possibility of birth. Poor sperm.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:39 AM
Response to Reply #394
397. ...
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 01:40 AM by originalpckelly
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infanticide#Infanticide_in_history

"Jewish and Roman texts indicate that newborn babies were not traditionally considered to be human, or even fully alive, until they were several weeks old."
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:46 AM
Response to Reply #397
403. But you're responsible for the deaths of millions of babies that could have been!
For shame.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:49 AM
Response to Reply #403
405. Yeah, haha!
I really think every sperm is sacred. Wooh, you really got me that time.

:eyes:
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:54 AM
Response to Reply #405
407. What? I'm using your logic. Why are you so angry?
What's the difference between a sperm and a blastocyst?

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Erika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:06 AM
Response to Reply #405
410. Quit being insensitive to human life
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 02:06 AM by Erika
I mean the 14th Century people were so much more sensitive and pro-life. Every sperm is human, it deserves to live. It is sacred. If it's not human, what is it?
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:15 AM
Response to Reply #410
413. Ding Ding Ding
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beam me up scottie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:40 AM
Response to Reply #394
398. GOOD ANSWER!
:rofl:
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liberalpragmatist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:36 AM
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395. A better analogy would be abortion and euthanasia
Personally, I don't consider an embryo or foetus to be the moral equivalent of a living, breathing human being (although I have moral problems with late-term abortions not undertaken for a medical necessity). I consider the developing child a "potential" life that has rights but not ones that necessarily supercede that of the mother carrying it.

The death penalty is taking what is indisputedly life.

However, on one level, abortion is about a "life worth living." As such, a better analogy would be euthanasia, assisted suicide, and right-to-die cases. I favor permitting euthanasia because I believe that terminally ill people ought to have the right to die with dignity. For a foetus, that decision is refered to the parents (especially the mother). If she can't provide for that child and doesn't believe in bringing a child into the world that won't be cared for well, she's making a judgment similar to that of individuals choosing to die with dignity.

I would add that the death penalty is done purely out of vengeance. Saddam Hussein's death does not make anybody in the world objectively better off - it merely satisfies a desire for revenge.
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Erika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:41 AM
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399. Yeah, my biggest desire is to expire in peace
if I have a terminal disease. I don't wish expensive procedures or anything else to keep me alive. I just wish a quiet death with relative little pain.
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Malikshah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:41 AM
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400. Methinks the OP doth protest too much..
"These are my opinions, and it isn't meant to piss people off and start WWIII. It's how I think and I am interested in hearing what other people are thinking. I respect the opinions of others (here anyway) even when we disagree, so I am hoping this doesn't start a name calling all out brawl."

Get thee to a trollery!

Mayhap others will join thee anon!

P.S. Hey nonny nonny, and all that. :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes: :eyes:
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:56 AM
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408. "Get thee to a trollery!" is right.
What a bunch of flame bait bullshit.
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NMMNG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:30 AM
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423. 1. Innocent people are sometimes put to death via the Death Penalty
2. Even when the person is, beyond a doubt, guilty, killing to show that killing is wrong is absurd and barbaric. Shall we start beating men who beat their wives and/or children? Shall we rape the rapists? Shall we shoot people who shoot others? Where does "an eye for an eye" end?



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Erika Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:37 AM
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427. You got the picture
As I was taught as a small child, two wrongs will never make a right. Profoundly simple.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:47 AM
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567. So you believe that, at the moment of conception, sperm & egg magically transmogrify instantly into
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 05:22 AM by impeachdubya
a "living being"?

So. Are the sperm and unfertilized egg not alive?

Seriously. I'd like a fucking answer for this. Because we're all supposed to take it as gospel truth that a single fertilized egg is a "living being" but the unfertilized egg and the sperms are bupkus. C'mon. If we're seriously going to adopt the axiomatic beliefs of the movement that wants to grant rights under the 14th Amendment to single cells, Shouldn't we be wringing our hands over The Preconceived Babies, too?

I think if you're going to go on about how abortion -every abortion, (including morning after contraception, RU-486, and the pill, which the pro-lifers consider an abortifacent as well) kills something "living and innocent", I think you need to explain precisely why sperms and unfertilized eggs aren't living and innocent, too.

Okay? I'll wait.

Now. Personally, I'm not *against* the Death Penalty in all cases. Not this one. I figure if it was okay to use it on Eichmann (it was) it's justified on Saddam. My opposition to the Death Penalty as a legal punishment in this country has more to do with the fact that I know our Justice System convicts people wrongly, more often than not with race and economics being strongly weighted factors leading towards death penalty convictions. And life in prison isn't any kind of a treat, but at least when it becomes clear down the road that someone fucked up, the mistake can be addressed. I'd like to see our prisons full of ALL violent criminals, permanently separated from society, and I'd like to see us stop wasting billions of dollars incarcerating non-violent offenders, like drug users.

But I really don't understand why you, as someone who is (or claims to be) pro-choice, is conflating these issues. A woman's right to control her own body and to reproductive self-determination has jack diddly fucking squat to do with Saddam Hussein, aside from maybe the fact that George W. Bush waged war on Saddam Hussein's Iraq (and continues to do so, even though he's dead now. If the war was about Saddam, shouldn't we be bringing the troops home?) and George W. Bush is simultaneously waging war on the right to choose, the right to use birth control, and the right of people to make their own decisions about their own lives and bodies. Oh, and George W. Bush's war on Iraq will probably leave that country a repressive Theocracy run by religious loonies- similar to what he'd like to do to this country.

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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:41 AM
Response to Reply #567
652. The op clarified this to be 13+ weeks.
Which begs the question as exactly what is the difference between the 12 week 6 day 23 hour 59 minute 59 second fetus and the 13 week fetus?

The SCOTUS seemed to come to a reasonable position on this subissue with the difference of viability and with their declaration that this occurs in the third trimester.
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Warren DeMontague Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 06:29 PM
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680. Then I think the OP should research as to when, exactly, the VAST MAJORITY of abortions
take place.

I think it's plainly obvious that there's a difference between a fertilized egg and a 3rd trimester fetus. What is bullshit is this rightwing propaganda noise that women are running around for 8 months and then deciding on a whim to get abortions, presumably because they "look fat". Like bon-bon eating welfare queens, this phenomenon only exists in the deluded minds of right wing crazies. And the circumstances surrounding actual later term abortions have been detailed time and time again- women facing pregnancies gone horribly wrong, etc. The bottom line is, people need to trust women and their doctors to be capable of making these calls, and not try to make them FOR them.
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JNelson6563 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 08:26 AM
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635. We kill people to teach them killing's wrong
Yep, makes perfect sense to me. :sarcasm:

Sometimes I envy those with black/white vision. Life must seem so much simpler with it.

Julie
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gollygee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 09:13 AM
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640. Bodily autonomy
A woman has a right to sustain a fetus with her body or not. The state doesn't own her womb, her blood supply, etc.

If a woman gives birth to a child and that child needs a blood transfusion, the government can't force her to donate blood to sustain the child's life. But for some reason people think that the government should be able to force her to sustain the fetus against her will before birth.

The death penalty is wrong for entirely unrelated reasons. It is ineffective, the actual practice of it is extremely unfair (people who are white and/or have money are much less likely under similar circumstances to receive the death penalty), and there is a chance that innocent people could be executed.
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Renew Deal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 09:44 AM
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642. That's the point Va. Governer Tim Kaine tried to make during the 2005 campaign.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 09:44 AM by Bleachers7
He was anti-choice and anti-death penalty. It was the only consistent view in his opinion based on his beliefs. He got elected even the the pukes tried to make an issue out of the death penalty.
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Liberal Veteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:13 AM
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646. Civilized societies don't use the death penalty.
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 10:14 AM by Liberal Veteran
128 countries don't use the death penalty, but 60 do.

You are in the minority.

Cope.
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leesa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:31 AM
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650. Because a fetus isn't viable.
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Doctor_J Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 12:19 PM
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654. One is state-sactioned murder. The other is a PRIVATE matter
between a woman and her physician.

Yeesh
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Gregorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:34 PM
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655. Don't you mean "suicide"?
Maybe a personal death penalty.

Choice is choice. Death penalty is imposed.
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mzmolly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 01:39 PM
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656. Are you equating a fetus to a human being who knows life/fear/pain?
:wow:
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:48 PM
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673. 'I do think that abortion means killing a living being.'
'Abortion terminates the life of something living and INNOCENT.'

Yes, the OP seems to be doing just that.
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mzmolly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:21 PM
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677. Thanks BB. Plants are "living and innocent" too,
but I don't equate them to a person who knows pain and fear. Not to make light of the issue or to compare a fetus to a carrot, but we do need to make distinctions IMHO.

:hi:
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-01-07 11:21 PM
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691. Hi mm
And happy new year!
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mzmolly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-02-07 12:00 AM
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692. Happy New Year to you as well!
:hug:
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MockSwede Donating Member (579 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:17 PM
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657. No Brawl
Yep - my thoughts, too. K&R
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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:43 PM
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661. DP vs. Abortion
I am totally opposed to the death penalty. You cannot combat barbarism by committing barbarism. I am pro-choice until the last trimester and then I am totally opposed to abortion. I have a friend who's child was born at six months. It wasn't a gorram cluster of cells. It was a perfectly sentient, two arms, two legs, ten toes, ten fingers...baby and you don't get to kill babies simply because they are pesky. If you can wait that long...six months...you can wait three more and put it up for adoption. Before six months, I am totally pro-choice. It cannot live outside the body so forcing a woman to have it would be...as Ruth Bader Ginsberg said...the equivalent of reducing women to chattel.
...and just fyi...I am 52, a leftist, a lesbian and I have had an abortion.
Madspirit
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fishwax Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:48 PM
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662. welcome to DU, madspirit
:hi:
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:45 PM
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671. Welcome to DU Madspirit and I feel as you do
There are far far far far far fewew abortions during the last trimester, difficult to find someone who will do one "just because" and I get so tired of people focusing the debate on that end, on those few. I too am for total free choice for first 2 trimesters, and third, when viability outside the uterus occurs, have a harder time with BUT, as I already said, those are much more rare. Does an abortion end life? Yes, an embryo and a fetus are alive before and not afterwards. Is it murder or killing another person? No.

fyi, middle aged female who has been involved with contraception education and first trimester abortions.
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Klukie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:30 PM
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660. In order.....
to make a valid comparison between the DP and abortion there must be equal values. When the DP is used a life is taken. There is no dispute about that. When an abortion is used a life/cells are taken, hence the dispute. If you believe that life begins at conception then to compare is quite simple. Both acts take a life and give way to murder for circumstance. If you believe that life begins at a later point in conception or after birth then the comparison becomes a contrast. One act takes a life and the other saves one.
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Alameda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:59 PM
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665. life, what kind of life?
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 02:59 PM by Alameda
Of course a fertilized egg is a life. The question is what kind of life it is. IMHO human life does not begin with a blastocyst or a zygote. To compare "choice" to the Death Penalty is absurd. It may be a surprise to some that every religion does not consider human life to begin at conception. Obviously the "mother" IS alive and human. Shouldn't she have precedence?
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:47 PM
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672. Exactly. Of course it is life, but not a human being.
Of course a fertilized egg has human DNA, but so does my mole. Which life takes precedence, the potential or the already existing?

Welcome to DU
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Klukie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 10:48 PM
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684. A human life/or a living cell
I simply meant that when an abortion is performed it can be viewed as taking a human life or as taking living cells. Everyone believes one way or the other.
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treestar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:50 PM
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663. Completely different issues
Though I know of people who are against both.

One has to do with justice and the human ability to mete it out perfectly, the other has to do with who will decide whether or not the fetus will go to term, the woman carrying it or society.

The issues are do different it is dishonest and purely fallacious and manipulative to try to equate them.
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:52 PM
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664. "I do think that abortion means killing a living being "
Well, you are just plain missing a distinction between a human with many experiences and an embryo.

If you can't draw that distinction, then there is no point in discussing this issue with you.

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Madspirit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 03:20 PM
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669. "I do think that abortion means killing a living being"
I don't think the experience of a human is a valid yardstick for the value of a human...unless you support killing the mentally retarded or the very sheltered...<g>
I don't support the death penalty and I do support the right to an abortion up through the sixth month and not after. I will never waver on any of this. : P
Thanks for the welcome.
Madspirit
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HughMoran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:26 PM
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678. We agree
Welcome to DU. :hi:
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Proud2BAmurkin Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 02:59 PM
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666. You can morally be pro choice AND think abortion is murder
If you are pro death penalty you WANT people who are condemned to be put to death.

If you are pro choice you can be opposed to any abortions happening but think the woman's ownership of her body is more important principle.
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uppityperson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:07 PM
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676. Very succint and thank you.
I am in agreement with you.
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JerseygirlCT Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 04:27 PM
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679. Because you're talking about two entirely different issues.
Being pro-choice doesn't make one pro-abortion. The issue is about a woman's autonomy WRT her own body. The heart of the issue is who is best qualified to make a difficult and very personal decision: the woman who's body we're talking about, or the government?

The death penalty is nothing more than state-sanctioned murder. It helps nothing, it prevents nothing, there is absolutely nothing positive about it. It's vengeance masquerading as justice. It cheapens us all, makes every one of us complicit in murder. It's wrong.

Life and death in the case of abortion are very difficult to define. When does life begin? We cannot absolutely determine that. Individually we must make own own determination, because neither science nor law nor logic will pinpoint that moment beyond any doubt. And before you take away someone's rights, you'd best have a very, very compelling reason to do so.
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LoZoccolo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Dec-31-06 07:47 PM
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683. LOL IBTL!!!!!1111
Edited on Sun Dec-31-06 07:48 PM by LoZoccolo
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-01-07 02:53 PM
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688. That's a cute picture!
:rofl:
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mdmc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-01-07 02:44 PM
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687. The culture of life opposes both
I oppose both.

I support choice, but do not support abortion. If you need an abortion, that is your choice. I support your ability to manage your own health, and the health of your offspring.

A fetus cannot be supported by a community. A prisoner can be supported by the community.


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Zhade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-01-07 03:54 PM
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689. DUH? Because pro-choice doesn't equal pro-abortion?
What a mindlessly flawed comparison you've made.

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alcibiades_mystery Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-01-07 03:56 PM
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690. Because the two are totally unconnected?
:shrug:

Nice try though.
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