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tsuki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:00 PM
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My Aunt was born in December,1910.
She passed today. I can remember her from the time I was very small. She was the only grandparent I ever knew. She loved me unconditionally. I hope that I did her proud.

Uncle was a Teamster in a time that being a Teamster was very dangerous. He believed that Jimmy Hoffa was the best thing that ever happened to the Teamsters. He carried a club and fought the scabs.

My Aunt/Grandparent was a life-long democrat. She used to tell us stories about Harry Flood, the Governor, coming to grandfather to drink a little cider in the barn.

We used to commiserate, where have all the Democrats gone?

Tomorrow, at o'Dark thirty, I shall pick up Mum and fly to Virginia to my Aunt. I am desolate. Where have all the good people gone?

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bbinacan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:02 PM
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1. So sorry for your loss. n/t
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fooj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:02 PM
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2. I'm so sorry...
(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

Peace.:hug:
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babylonsister Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:03 PM
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3. My condolences, tsuki. It's so very
difficult to lose someone you love. And I'm sure you made your aunt proud. :hug:
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fooj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:05 PM
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4. Just wanted to let you know...
where have all the Democrats gone?

We are here. We are still here. :kick:

(((((((((hugs)))))))))
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sweetm2475 Donating Member (523 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:07 PM
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5. sorry for your loss.
my grandfather came over through Ellis Island from Italy. He was a Construction worker. He never missed his chance to vote and used to say he would vote for a "dead rotting pig carcass" before he ever voted for a Republican. He died 5 years ago. I wish I knew the answer to your question. Once again, I am truly sorry for your loss. Peace.
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fooj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:09 PM
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6. My nono and nona came through Ellis Island, too.
Welcome to DU!!

Peace.
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sweetm2475 Donating Member (523 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:10 PM
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8. I did call him Nonno and I still call her Nana.
Thanks!:hi:
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renate Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:10 PM
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7. unconditional love is the most perfect gift in the universe
Obviously it was a gift you gave her as well as one she gave you.

I'm so sorry about your loss.
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Wilms Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:11 PM
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9. So glad to hear you had such a great relative.
And you still do.

You'll see. :hug:

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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:16 PM
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10. Best wishes to your family
:hug:
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niyad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:17 PM
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11. so very sorry for your loss--thoughts and prayers go with you in your
sorrow.

as for the good people--they are right here tonight, offering their hearts and hands as they always do. do not despair. I lost a very dear friend last week, another of us, and came here, knowing that I would find comfort and like-minded spirits. I was not disappointed.

PACE
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asjr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:17 PM
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12. You will surely miss her. Remember all the stories
that she told you and write them down. I could kick myself for not listening more to my great-grandfather who was born in 1854. He remembered his father being conscripted by soldiers to fight in the Civil War. He never saw him again. I remember him when I was 11 or 12 years old and instead of listening to him I ran off to play hop scotch. You will have a treasure trove of memories.
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FreedomAngel82 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:36 PM
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20. Aw
My grandfather used to tell stories all the time too and I loved listening to him. He said he once remembered seeing a picture of FDR in the paper traveling the country in his Cadillac and he'd tell stories of his time in the navy and growing up on a farm with his family. My grandfather died this past summer a few days after my birthday. :cry:
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Sal Minella Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:21 PM
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13. My aunt taught me how to be an aunt (more like a parent, yes)
and now I watch my niece being an aunt to her niece, and the great wheel turns. You and I are fortunate we had them, we are fortunate to be able to pass it on.

The hurt will fade, and all the good things will stay with you. Peace.
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jody Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:22 PM
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14. Obviously your aunt was a good role model. I know she's very proud of you.
Follow in her footsteps and help others.

God bless you and yours.

Jody
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tularetom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:25 PM
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15. Sorry for your loss
There are still a lot of good people around. I think many of them post right here at DU.
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XOKCowboy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:26 PM
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16. My condolences to you
and godspeed to your aunt. Family is where we get our morals and convictions and it's clear that she taught you many good things. Keep her alive by passing along the stories and convictions she passed to you.

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roguevalley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:33 PM
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17. I am so sorry. That was a generation wasn't it. Your Aunt sounds
like the women in my family, dem to the bone. Bless her and you. I will light a candle for both of you.
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FreedomAngel82 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:35 PM
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18. I'm sorry for your loss
:( :hug:
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Rainscents Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:35 PM
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19. I'm so sorry for your lost.
She sounded like real good lady. :hug:
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Oldtimeralso Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:42 PM
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21. Sorry for your loss
All of my grandparents had passed on before I was born so I can relate. As far as your uncle goes the unions are still strong it is just that the corporate world has the government on their side. In light of the recent spying by the government I think it is just as dangerous to be a strong union man as it ever was.
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Lex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-02-06 11:44 PM
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22. So sorry, tsuki.
Your aunt sounds like she was a blessing in your life. :hug:


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BeyondThePale Donating Member (895 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-03-06 12:20 AM
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23. I hope that she had a full and happy life.
All the best to you and your family.
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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-03-06 02:04 AM
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24. Sounds like a great person. My deepest sympathy.
Edited on Tue Jan-03-06 02:04 AM by Vidar
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B Calm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-03-06 05:32 AM
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25. Sorry for your loss. I'm sure you'll miss her...
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Garbo 2004 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-03-06 05:57 AM
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26. My sincere condolences. My Dad, also born in 1910, died last year.
Lifelong Dem too.

That generation is passing and in addition to the personal loss we're losing a first hand window into history and their struggles from which we've benefited but too many have forgotten now.

Again, my condolences to you and your family. I'm sure she was indeed proud of you. :hug:
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newyawker99 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-03-06 09:33 AM
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27. I am sorry to hear this tsuki.
May your aunt rest in peace.


:hug:
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Hidden Stillness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-04-06 04:07 PM
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28. My Mom Taught Me How to Live, Even After She Had Died
My parents were of this same generation, born a little later, and the older I get, the more I realize what a treasure that whole New Deal Generation was, and how they left us all with a blueprint for how to conduct a civilized and equitable society and economy. I appreciate what they did, and their whole general attitude toward life, toward politics, more all the time, especially as we are so close to losing so much of it. Their whole attitude was to take care of us, their kids. Be kind to your animals, don't litter, you aren't the only person in the world, and we will always love you--all of this added up to a really great adult/societal attitude.

The civic sense, and along with that the sense of being Democrats, was much stronger then, but has been largely killed by the corporate-media "marketplace of Party choices" propaganda, as if they are all the same, it is all advertising, and the choice is all personal. My middle-class, union family placed such an emphasis on being educated and intelligent about what went on in the world, that we not only understood why, (for example), Lyndon Johnson was a great President--unlike many little teens on this website--but also why Sargent Shriver was a hero (the "War on Poverty" programs, VISTA--domestic Peace Corps--etc.), and why Eunice Shriver was (invented Special Olympics), too. We were taught from a young age to read newspapers (this was back when there were still journalists), and learn the issues. My parents explained things to us, let us know they would always be there, and relied more on conscience than punishment. Right up to the end, when I was taking care of my Mom and she was dying, she handled it all with grace, was still good to people, and tried not to be afraid. I, also, learned how to die, then. I still miss her.

Democrats fought like Democrats then, and came from the middle class, not the "corporate-consulting class," so they sounded like the American people, and reacted against the crimes of big business--instead of having to think about it, and "frame" it! The philosophy that the government is us, that the employees, consumers, etc., need legal protections and rights against the power and threat of the moneyed class, was so obvious, that I remember a time, even during the '70s, when nobody had to "explain" to anybody why there should be regulations for commercial business. Everybody knew, as a general fact that never used to be falsely tied to "partisanship," that Franklin and Eleanor Roosevelt were the saviors of the Nation, and that Nixon was a crook. You would have been considered some kind of a nut if you had tried to attack somebody for such commonsense opinions.

As a matter of fact, just very recently I have been thinking about all of this a lot--how we have lost our way as a country, by denying the New Deal understanding of things, and replacing it all with phony media-relations of "D"LC, Inc. and the rest, and how we need to get back to it, because they were right. I happened to find a book from 1967 that my Mom had, "The Thirties: America and the Great Depression" by Fon Boardman (yes, Fon), and have been reading it for the past couple of weeks, getting back to a non-corporate common sense understanding of how things happened, partly similar, partly different from today's depression. There was a recent thread on DU about the Depression, and a poster on it recommended the great Studs Terkel's book "Hard Times," the bestselling oral history. I intend to read that next; also bringing me closer to my Mom. These things are suddenly not far away at all anymore.

What has really been making me feel the tragic gulf between today and yesterday, or between the oligarchy and the people, has been the horrific unfolding of events after the explosion at this West Virginia mine, currently going on. The poverty of the people, the violations of management, with no consequences, the sense of neighbors helping neighbors and all feeling first the joy of thinking that there were 12 survivors, then the shock, grief, and anger, of having been lied to, and all but 1 dead. I can't help but think of the contrast between someone from the area right next to the mine, on CNN today, a white male, talking and just giving a very compelling description, full of compassion and details, of how the events happened overnight, the miners being found, people at the Church rejoicing, then the terrible news that the other group was not all alive, as they had said, and the crushing grief. This person made a point of mentioning, as a Christian, that it was disturbing to only find three people praying at the altar for the one dead miner and the family, when a huge crowd was celebrating the "fact" that the others had lived. It hurt that the suffering was ignored so the "miracle" and happiness could be paid attention to. Contrast that with the heartless "plastic people," as they used to call this type (media)--exploiting these people not as a news story, but a moneymaker and ratings grabber, a win with sponsors. They zoomed in whenever someone might cry; cut away when they talked seriously of God. These media sluts themselves told us the remaining miners were all "confirmed alive," it was a "miracle," they were "fine," etc. Then when the truth came out--and that the management of the mine knew they were dead almost immediately and didn't tell it--the media all covered their asses. "Where did this rumor come from--a cell phone call??" they actually asked on the air. No, Anderson Dicksuck, we heard it from you. When talking to a couple of family members angry at the mine owners and their lies, one corporate "reporter" piped up, hopefully: "Do you blame the Governor?" a Democrat, of course. Their answer, "No." These media corporate-climbers, ready to grin at the drop of a hat, contemplating their next silicone injection, wondering how their stocks are doing, never understood these good people in this mining town at all. Those people are us.
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